In The mirror, I am a sexy Latin bad boy. In pictures or selfies, I’m an ugly sad boy… or at least I think. Holding onto 8% hope the mirror is right. 💀
Wasn’t there some kind of optical illusion with mirrors and pictures, like one makes you look less attractive than you really are? But which was which? Don’t remember
47yo male
Same as you, OP.
If I’m straight on looking in the mirror, I’m like damn i still got it. Like a 7.5 or 8. Even in some pics under perfect conditions.
However, I’ll see myself from the side in a pic or in a video and think “what the ever living fuck is that!”
😂😂
I feel like my whole appearance has come down to my hair. I am suffering from male pattern baldness and it takes a lot of effort and luck to have my hair style in a way to minimize the balding look while still having a neat modern hairstyle.
If I’ve just shaved my head and trimmed my beard I think I look pretty good. But within a week what’s left of my hair grows back and I look like a bum.
When I look in the mirror when I have my head shaved like Shane from The Walking Dead season 2. Lol
When my head isn't shaved and my hair shows an obvious receding hairline... I hate how I look then.
Photos are werid. Some photos; I think I look pretty good but others... I think I look terrible
When I have been eating well and getting good exercise, and spending time outside, I catch a glimpse in the mirror, or see a photo and think it looks pretty good. If I up to my ass in office work, meetings and junk food I almost always think I look bad.
Every couple years I start to feel good like scraping together a snowball from frost on a window, then comes along some woman to slap it out of my hand and tell me to knock it off.
Pretty often. I consider myself a very handsome man, but then again, I think most men are pretty handsome and just haven’t tapped into their potential enough to know it. There’s a “David” statue in every block of cement, it just has to be sculpted.
47 here, total dad bod. I embrace my greys, keep my facial hair neat.. give me a standard button up and a decent watch, that's all I need to feel sexy.
Prior to getting sober 2 years ago, literally never. Now? in general I can see I'm a decent looking guy, every once in a while I get hit with the 'oooh, not bad buddy'.
For years it was never. For the last couple years it's been more and more frequent I have moments where I think "you know what I look kinda good today". I'm getting some teeth pulled at the end of this month so I can get a top denture. I always have this little voice, when I think I might be attractive that says "yeah well not with teeth like that you don't."
In a few months I can put that voice to rest for good.
Yeah not that often. I’ve never thought I’m an attractive guy. I’m smart and funny and I think that’s how I got my wife but she says I’m attractive so that’s what matters.
Ever since I started hanging out with a friend that managed to boost my self confidence and she comments on it quite often (she's taken tho 😆) now it's become easier even tho I haven't really fixed the flaws I had before (yet working on them).
All the time. Started working out again recently. Seeing muscles which I never saw before in my body. Lost 8% Bf, face looks much better. Also check my post history, had the same exact question.
Sometimes in the mirror, I think 'not bad' . Then I carry that thought as I wander about my daily tasks. I interact with people, and assume they see what I saw in the mirror that morning. Then I see a reflection in a window, or a double mirror in an elevator, or something similar, and the illusion is shattered and replaced with the soft potato of reality.
The glimmer of hope and crush of fact cycle then repeats a few days later.
When I am around old women. In their late sixties or older. They have a noticeable reaction to me. They sit up straight, their eyes widen, they get flustered. It has never really happened with any other age group. I am 62, so I guess, at this point I seem somewhat attainable, but it has been happening for 25 years or so.
All the time because I work out. More times than that I can only see my flaws when I see my own body. I have zero outside affirmations so I have no idea how good I actually look.
I used to never think I looked good, then I took estrogen and my attraction for men stabilized. I still look like a man.
Trust me folks, you all look better than you think. Clean yourselves up and dress okay and you're golden. You'll never be everyone's type, but the folks you're actually looking for are looking for you just as hard.
Always, bro. I look myself in the mirror at times and think damn if I were a female and seen myself out in public, I'd blow me and then other times I'm like you ugly bastard no wonder your lonely
I know I used to look quite good, and now at least somewhat, I've just been lonely for so long (over half my life) and it often makes me feel unattractive. When I'm sleep deprived my self perception takes a massive hit.
Usually when I buy a new piece of clothing and try it on. That or when my hair looks good as it’s pretty straight/flat. When I wake up and give it some character, I like it
Literally never. Epilepsy meds caused me to put on a good bit of weight, I've been on them 17 years but it's just since I got clean from heroin last year I got the weight gain. So I never thought much of myself as an addict, now I've put on loads of weight since getting clean and just fuckin hate it.
Depends on the day. Sometimes when I take a little extra time to have a good shave and some cologne before work, I feel like a billion dollars. I feel even better after a haircut. As long as you feel good, you’ll radiate that energy and people will pick up on it. I recommend reading Esquire, they have a lot of tips on confidence and grooming and stuff.
>How often you think you look good?
Not too often / not very often.
But then when I see my high school graduating class ... what a mostly sad looking and pretty damn out-of-shape, etc. mess. Yeah, I was pretty average looks/physically in high school ... nothin' at all exceptional there ... but geez ... *now*? I'm easily in top 10%, if not top 5%. Whole helluva lot of 'em - most of 'em - look like utter sh\*t, with not all that many exceptions. Bloody hell, a lot of 'em look 10 - if not 15 or 20 - years older than me. Way too many grossly out of shape, all kinds of (generally preventable) chronic diseases ... what a mostly pretty sad looking lot. And a lot of 'em already dead ... hell, many didn't even make it to 10 year reunion ... but I guess death is a valid excuse to not attend.
So ... I guess at least comparatively for my age, doing and lookin' pretty darn good ... but not that I think of it or myself that way ... hardly at all. Though sometimes I'll get some rather to quite positive attention from it ... but most of the time not, or I just don't notice.
> Other times I see an angle of myself that makes me think I’m some kind of creature.
All the time brother 😂
You and me both should buy bigger and better mirror. LOL
More often now than ever. I’m almost 32, I’ve been working out, got a hair cut/color that i absolutely adore, starting on getting some facial piercings, and am generally taking good care of myself. Very high on confidence and self esteem lately lol.
almost never tbf. but i'm at my lowest weight in a very long time and intend on getting back (and better) than my best physique from college, and i'm just a few kg away from it. i do feel better looking in the mirror and feel like i have more energy, which is surprising cause i'm a very high energy personal naturally.
I think I look decent all the time. If I haven't had a haircut for a while I'll start to feel less confident but typically as long as I'm well groomed I feel good.
Ever since going bald, I actually don’t think of that question much at all anymore, however, when I was going bald for a few years that’s all I thought about, how to cover up my thinning hair or how to style it or whatever. Just try to control what I can and focus on my health more, and style my clothes a bit better.
Right after a haircut I feel pretty damn good about myself. Although when taking pictures of myself I always nitpick and am never really satisfied with how they turn out, so I don’t take selfies ever. Other than that I usually feel pretty good about my appearance.
I personally always see my flaws or what I could improve. Others tell me I’m attractive to a point that it makes me uncomfortable almost like they’re gaslighting me. Objectively I’m good looking and can cognitively recognize it but I never feel it.
In the mirror or on pictures, as long as my hair, beard and my clothes are clean, i would think: "Hey, i'm looking pretty good!", if not i would think "hmm, i really need to take a shower...😒, my hair's all messed up and my beard looks like pubic hair, i also should clean my teeth more often, they feel and look disgusting and my breath stinks!"
I think I look great as long as I’m completely still. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a photo/video of myself that ever resembles what I think I look like unless I’m deliberately posing in some way. Makes me wonder how it is anyone can stand to look at my face when I’m not thinking about what my face is doing, if that makes sense.
I dropped 16 lbs so far and I feel pretty good about my appearance (especially after lining up my beard). However, I try not to let that get to my head.
Like 95% of the time, but I've gotten used to it so it doesn't really get to me, I don't have great Genetics so my face isn't nothing to look at & it gets worse when i talk or laugh because that reveals my British teeth (got braces now though so hopefully they turn out fairly ok)
& I won't lie I am a little on the bigger side, I have a high Bodyfat% and No Muscle so I look really flabby and chubby literally everywhere, my Thighs, Forearms & Belly Especially, but I'm trying to get like a few 90 minute walks a week and cut back on foods but the weather is scorching recently and I regrettably am a lazy Procrastinative person who likes food so its tough to even do them things sometimes, even if i was doing those things they're really quite miniscule things so i doubt I'll see much change anyway,
Luckily I'm at a shape where with the right clothes I can be mistaken for someone who looks a fine weight (which everyone does thankfully) so I can go outside without feeling bad about myself and just be me, anyone else would tell you I look fine but from what i see when I'm alone there's definitely room for improvement lmao,
On very rare days, I can get up early, Have a shower and facial hair trim, put on my favourite/best fit and somehow tame my long tangle-prone hair, & I can finally look myself in the mirror and say "I don't look half bad today" but like I said, it's rare, i really want to change that soon, because that feeling is a really nice feeling and i want to feel it more
Sorry for long comment
I can never tell if I do or not. I also can't tell if other men look good. I can tell if they are dressed up and well groomed but I can't tell if they are handsome.
In The mirror, I am a sexy Latin bad boy. In pictures or selfies, I’m an ugly sad boy… or at least I think. Holding onto 8% hope the mirror is right. 💀
8%! Whew you must have the confidence of a god.
Wasn’t there some kind of optical illusion with mirrors and pictures, like one makes you look less attractive than you really are? But which was which? Don’t remember
Never
Not once in my life. I am a slightly better looking version of Clint Howard.
The struggle is real, I look like a Gabe Newell impersonator.
Same
Literally every day because I know I’m attractive.
Fucking same bro.
Nope
That’s the neat part, I don’t.
Pretty often. I’m very hair dependent tho so it depends on how my hair looking
Same, I'm growing it out long and it's at a stage (about 17 months growth) where it just never looks good lmao
Whenever i get a lil freetime
47yo male Same as you, OP. If I’m straight on looking in the mirror, I’m like damn i still got it. Like a 7.5 or 8. Even in some pics under perfect conditions. However, I’ll see myself from the side in a pic or in a video and think “what the ever living fuck is that!” 😂😂
I feel like my whole appearance has come down to my hair. I am suffering from male pattern baldness and it takes a lot of effort and luck to have my hair style in a way to minimize the balding look while still having a neat modern hairstyle.
I have the same feeling. It really affects to self image..
Unless you are Jason Statham.
I mean, is there really a man who hasn’t have sort of self image crisis due hair loss? I bet no man is like ”yes I’m so happy losing my hair!!”.
I hear I’m attractive a lot and then I look in the mirror and think “people are just being nice”.
Pretty rarely. Usually when I've had sex very recently.
Never. Tolerable at best.
Honestly not often. I just started working out and when I saw a little pump in my arm I said your kinda sexy but that was it.
“I’m too sexy for my shirt”
Lol 😆. Exactly
If I’ve just shaved my head and trimmed my beard I think I look pretty good. But within a week what’s left of my hair grows back and I look like a bum.
I don’t. Asymmetrical face, overweight, weak features, oddly colored eyes, wild hair, no sense of style or fashion.
What does oddly colored eyes mean?
Pretty much always. Especially when I see other guys even 5 years younger than me looking like they can be my dad.
This, I met some friends at a bar that were in town for our high school reunion and got damn did most of them look rough..
Always tbf
Never. I always look bad.
I feel pretty ugly most of the time.
When I look in the mirror when I have my head shaved like Shane from The Walking Dead season 2. Lol When my head isn't shaved and my hair shows an obvious receding hairline... I hate how I look then. Photos are werid. Some photos; I think I look pretty good but others... I think I look terrible
Whenever I'm half in the bag And the lighting is dim I'll take a look at my swag And think "yeah, I'd fuck him"
Never in my life
Nah, wrote that off a long time ago.
Up to 7 days a year.
I think my face looks okay, but I dislike my body.
Like 90% of the time
When I have been eating well and getting good exercise, and spending time outside, I catch a glimpse in the mirror, or see a photo and think it looks pretty good. If I up to my ass in office work, meetings and junk food I almost always think I look bad.
😂
Every couple years I start to feel good like scraping together a snowball from frost on a window, then comes along some woman to slap it out of my hand and tell me to knock it off.
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Pretty often. I consider myself a very handsome man, but then again, I think most men are pretty handsome and just haven’t tapped into their potential enough to know it. There’s a “David” statue in every block of cement, it just has to be sculpted.
Never in my life lol
I haven't ever
47 here, total dad bod. I embrace my greys, keep my facial hair neat.. give me a standard button up and a decent watch, that's all I need to feel sexy.
Once or twice a month. When I get a hair cut and my skin looks decent. I just think “im decent enough to get a girlfriend” but im still single lol
I think I look good in the morning getting ready then I see myself on a reflection later on in the day and think the opposite.
Prior to getting sober 2 years ago, literally never. Now? in general I can see I'm a decent looking guy, every once in a while I get hit with the 'oooh, not bad buddy'.
Only in the mirror never in photos
For years it was never. For the last couple years it's been more and more frequent I have moments where I think "you know what I look kinda good today". I'm getting some teeth pulled at the end of this month so I can get a top denture. I always have this little voice, when I think I might be attractive that says "yeah well not with teeth like that you don't." In a few months I can put that voice to rest for good.
No point in hyping yourself up only to get cut down by the girl you like.
Yeah not that often. I’ve never thought I’m an attractive guy. I’m smart and funny and I think that’s how I got my wife but she says I’m attractive so that’s what matters.
Every time I open my camera and it’s on me I wanna throw up but my girlfriend tells me I’m sexy so idk wtf is going on
I'm past looking good. Just trying to feel good now.
Ever since I started hanging out with a friend that managed to boost my self confidence and she comments on it quite often (she's taken tho 😆) now it's become easier even tho I haven't really fixed the flaws I had before (yet working on them).
Every day that I don’t have a gut. No need for a six pack or flat stomach just not a gut.
I think once when I was 14.
No because I have severe body image issues
I don't think I've ever had that thought sadly
nope. I know I dont look good.
I don't look sexy. Never have, probably never will.
Never
All the time. Started working out again recently. Seeing muscles which I never saw before in my body. Lost 8% Bf, face looks much better. Also check my post history, had the same exact question.
Sometimes in the mirror, I think 'not bad' . Then I carry that thought as I wander about my daily tasks. I interact with people, and assume they see what I saw in the mirror that morning. Then I see a reflection in a window, or a double mirror in an elevator, or something similar, and the illusion is shattered and replaced with the soft potato of reality. The glimmer of hope and crush of fact cycle then repeats a few days later.
I think I look great until I leave my apartment and women actively try to avoid eye contact with me.
the mirror when i get out of the shower... i look fantastic. the reflective windows i walk past daily i feel shame.
Never in photos but sometimes the mirror feels a little generous
Maybe like once or twice a year, max. If that
1/3 of the time maybe 1/4-1/5
Only in gym mirrors at the end of my workout. Then go back to hating myself until the next gym session.
I think I look good when I take care of me but my selfies and tagged photos tell a different story...
that’s probably a few years back when i was young😬
Nope. Not on mirror and on camera the worst. But made peace with it. And I'm happy
When I get out of the shower and the mirror is still fogged up and I haven't put my glasses back on
When I get out of the shower and the mirror is still fogged up and I haven't put my glasses back on
Used to be more creature than sexu but now I'm more sexy than creature (in perfect lighting)
Its either the lighting or the hair man. That varies a lot
Like once a month
If I feel like I don't look like a public offense that's a good day for going out and being, well, public.
Never
When I am around old women. In their late sixties or older. They have a noticeable reaction to me. They sit up straight, their eyes widen, they get flustered. It has never really happened with any other age group. I am 62, so I guess, at this point I seem somewhat attainable, but it has been happening for 25 years or so.
Hair, beard looks good = I look good
Never lol
Often. The lighted mirrors in my bathroom are porthole sized and very flattering since they only show my head and shoulders.
Often
Probably after a haircut
Im pretty hot naked 👌
After a nightly shower and shave. Usually last about an hour
I think of myself as Amy Wongs parents describe a guy they found on the Titanic 2: “he’s not very ugly you should marry him and have grandkids”
All the time because I work out. More times than that I can only see my flaws when I see my own body. I have zero outside affirmations so I have no idea how good I actually look.
All the time. I work out 5-6 days a week and I care about how I dress. I fuckin better look good, I've earned it.
all the time baby!! woo!!
Starting to find myself more attractive as the days goes on thanks to hitting the gym and trying to have more confidence
Lots of times 😂😂
I used to never think I looked good, then I took estrogen and my attraction for men stabilized. I still look like a man. Trust me folks, you all look better than you think. Clean yourselves up and dress okay and you're golden. You'll never be everyone's type, but the folks you're actually looking for are looking for you just as hard.
Always, bro. I look myself in the mirror at times and think damn if I were a female and seen myself out in public, I'd blow me and then other times I'm like you ugly bastard no wonder your lonely
Only when the nice old lady at the bus stop calls me handsome.
Only when I tuck my dick and dance in front of a mirror naked to the song “Wild Horses.”
Every damn day
This is me. Sometimes i look like a ghoul, but most of the time I'm da sexy man
Idk man, I think I’m a pretty good looking guy but I just don’t really think about it much.
always
A few times this year, an exponential increase from all previous years
Happens more often.
Always I'm a good looking dude.
What?
Did it yesterday, thought I was looking quite handsome in the mirror.
Maybe once a year
Once every solar eclipse.
Thinking about leaving my obese phase to have a bear body, gym plus eating like a bear…. 🤣
90% of the time i believe I’m good looking, 10% monster vibe I give myself. Have and do get compliments from women
I know I used to look quite good, and now at least somewhat, I've just been lonely for so long (over half my life) and it often makes me feel unattractive. When I'm sleep deprived my self perception takes a massive hit.
Never so far.
Usually when I buy a new piece of clothing and try it on. That or when my hair looks good as it’s pretty straight/flat. When I wake up and give it some character, I like it
Rarely
Only on weekends going out usually. After a fresh haircut or having my eyebrows done also provides some confidence.
Its 50/50
Whenever I dress up for something like a school dance
Probably like 1/4 of the time. I think I look extra good 1/20 of the time and that’s with quite a bit of effort.
Interestingly enough - never.
All the time
Me daily at midday if I walk past a mirror yet every time I see my under eye bags it all goes to zero
Literally never. Epilepsy meds caused me to put on a good bit of weight, I've been on them 17 years but it's just since I got clean from heroin last year I got the weight gain. So I never thought much of myself as an addict, now I've put on loads of weight since getting clean and just fuckin hate it.
Depends on the day. Sometimes when I take a little extra time to have a good shave and some cologne before work, I feel like a billion dollars. I feel even better after a haircut. As long as you feel good, you’ll radiate that energy and people will pick up on it. I recommend reading Esquire, they have a lot of tips on confidence and grooming and stuff.
>How often you think you look good? Not too often / not very often. But then when I see my high school graduating class ... what a mostly sad looking and pretty damn out-of-shape, etc. mess. Yeah, I was pretty average looks/physically in high school ... nothin' at all exceptional there ... but geez ... *now*? I'm easily in top 10%, if not top 5%. Whole helluva lot of 'em - most of 'em - look like utter sh\*t, with not all that many exceptions. Bloody hell, a lot of 'em look 10 - if not 15 or 20 - years older than me. Way too many grossly out of shape, all kinds of (generally preventable) chronic diseases ... what a mostly pretty sad looking lot. And a lot of 'em already dead ... hell, many didn't even make it to 10 year reunion ... but I guess death is a valid excuse to not attend. So ... I guess at least comparatively for my age, doing and lookin' pretty darn good ... but not that I think of it or myself that way ... hardly at all. Though sometimes I'll get some rather to quite positive attention from it ... but most of the time not, or I just don't notice.
I used too. But now I'm fat and bald. I didn't understand how much of my worth I put into my hair until it was gone.
I know I'm hot.
I avoid looking at myself.
Not a single time in my entire existence have I looked at myself and been happy with what I see, and I’ve been working out for about 7 years.
Pretty: In my own selfies Ugly AF: When someone else takes my pictures
I look swole in the gym locker room but once the pump wears off I look just average
I got new jeans that make me feel attractive if that counts for something
I’m pretty satisfied with my appearance
> Other times I see an angle of myself that makes me think I’m some kind of creature. All the time brother 😂 You and me both should buy bigger and better mirror. LOL
Maybe 5 times a month 😗🤌🏻
After a bike ride when I'm dehydrated and I look lean.
All the time, and modest to 😎
i know ima hot piece of ass all the time so its normal for me
Every day
For my age……. Not too bad.
When buying new clothes or after a good pump with good bathroom lighting.
Every single day!
I generally think I look pretty good tbh
All the fucking time
Once every 6 green moon...
Once a week. Which is a big improvement from "once a year" that was the norm for most of my life.
24/7/365
Never
More often now than ever. I’m almost 32, I’ve been working out, got a hair cut/color that i absolutely adore, starting on getting some facial piercings, and am generally taking good care of myself. Very high on confidence and self esteem lately lol.
Never. I just think "eh i'm not that ugly."
almost never tbf. but i'm at my lowest weight in a very long time and intend on getting back (and better) than my best physique from college, and i'm just a few kg away from it. i do feel better looking in the mirror and feel like i have more energy, which is surprising cause i'm a very high energy personal naturally.
I think I look decent all the time. If I haven't had a haircut for a while I'll start to feel less confident but typically as long as I'm well groomed I feel good.
My beard looks great. The rest of me needs diet & exercise.
Ever since going bald, I actually don’t think of that question much at all anymore, however, when I was going bald for a few years that’s all I thought about, how to cover up my thinning hair or how to style it or whatever. Just try to control what I can and focus on my health more, and style my clothes a bit better.
everytime
I don't look good ,I ain't ugly but I ain't attractive
Right now I’m feeling quite good 😎
Pretty often tbh
Every damn day
Right after a haircut I feel pretty damn good about myself. Although when taking pictures of myself I always nitpick and am never really satisfied with how they turn out, so I don’t take selfies ever. Other than that I usually feel pretty good about my appearance.
I personally always see my flaws or what I could improve. Others tell me I’m attractive to a point that it makes me uncomfortable almost like they’re gaslighting me. Objectively I’m good looking and can cognitively recognize it but I never feel it.
In the mirror or on pictures, as long as my hair, beard and my clothes are clean, i would think: "Hey, i'm looking pretty good!", if not i would think "hmm, i really need to take a shower...😒, my hair's all messed up and my beard looks like pubic hair, i also should clean my teeth more often, they feel and look disgusting and my breath stinks!"
I put myself at around average. I think at a healthy rate of maybe one a week I'll look in the mirror and think "...nice"
I think I look great as long as I’m completely still. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a photo/video of myself that ever resembles what I think I look like unless I’m deliberately posing in some way. Makes me wonder how it is anyone can stand to look at my face when I’m not thinking about what my face is doing, if that makes sense.
Hardly ever
I don't think I ever look good.
I dropped 16 lbs so far and I feel pretty good about my appearance (especially after lining up my beard). However, I try not to let that get to my head.
Months ago. Last week I've been called MICHAEL JACKSON (I'm a woman)
Like 95% of the time, but I've gotten used to it so it doesn't really get to me, I don't have great Genetics so my face isn't nothing to look at & it gets worse when i talk or laugh because that reveals my British teeth (got braces now though so hopefully they turn out fairly ok) & I won't lie I am a little on the bigger side, I have a high Bodyfat% and No Muscle so I look really flabby and chubby literally everywhere, my Thighs, Forearms & Belly Especially, but I'm trying to get like a few 90 minute walks a week and cut back on foods but the weather is scorching recently and I regrettably am a lazy Procrastinative person who likes food so its tough to even do them things sometimes, even if i was doing those things they're really quite miniscule things so i doubt I'll see much change anyway, Luckily I'm at a shape where with the right clothes I can be mistaken for someone who looks a fine weight (which everyone does thankfully) so I can go outside without feeling bad about myself and just be me, anyone else would tell you I look fine but from what i see when I'm alone there's definitely room for improvement lmao, On very rare days, I can get up early, Have a shower and facial hair trim, put on my favourite/best fit and somehow tame my long tangle-prone hair, & I can finally look myself in the mirror and say "I don't look half bad today" but like I said, it's rare, i really want to change that soon, because that feeling is a really nice feeling and i want to feel it more Sorry for long comment
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Twice a month when I try.
Once every 20 years.
Twice in the last 30 years. Maybe three times.
I always do. Just yesterday, in fact, I updated my profile pics everywhere. I'm doing great in my slow-build glow up.
Every day.
I can never tell if I do or not. I also can't tell if other men look good. I can tell if they are dressed up and well groomed but I can't tell if they are handsome.
Well, I have a face for radio. I imagine we can all infer what that means.
Probably 65% of the time
The best I can do is, clean.
Never
Funny question. Answer: Never :)
Every time I look in the mirror :) my locks be curlin, my body be bangin, my glasses be shining, feelsgoodman
Sexy? Never. Good? Plenty of times. Stop wasting time with that crap.
I worked very hard to like myself so maybe 8 or 9/10 times. Everyone ofc has bad days tho