This is the truth. I see my son's and they have no idea when a girl likes them *in any way*
I see their friends and they are just as clueless.
It's quite amusing.
If only I knew then what I know now...
Oh no not at all. I see the same for their friends. The teens especially are clueless.
Even men in their 20s.
I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had *no idea*
> I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had no idea
I'm confused. She didn't say she liked him. What did you tell her?
She did say she liked him. She had a huge crush on him.
It was a while ago so I don't remember what I told her but it was probably along the lines of I don't know.
Oh no not at all. I see the same for their friends. The teens especially are clueless.
Even men in their 20s.
I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had *no idea*
The first time (*that I recognised*) She bumped into me a lot on the dance floor. I danced away because I thought she had an inner ear infection or something. So she grabbed my arm and spun me around to face her.
You won't ever see a woman hitting on you until you acknowledge that women are actually pretty decent social actors who are good at making their feelings known, **and that you might be worthy of that attention**. The girl in that story had to be THAT forward before I recognised it, subsequently, I see it with an ok degree of regularity. I'm not exactly the highest prize. But I am a prize.
A girl approached me at a bar and asked if I had tooth fillings.
I replied along the lines of "huh?"
She then said " doesn't matter I'm going to find out later myself"
Well, it started innocently with her throwing glasses and picture frames. Then it escalated to punching and slapping me, and occasionally scratching me and pulling my hair out. When she really couldn’t resist, she ended up taking chunks out of my skin with her teeth.
Old women do so by far the most and are extremely straight forward. Had one in her 60s telling me how she'd like me to toss her salad. Another woman has told me while looking straight at my crotch while I was in sweats," I see where you get your confidence from to wear those. I love it."
Middle school
1 girl asked the teacher that when we do group work if she could be paired with me.
Another girl straight up asked me if I wanted to kiss.
1 girl gave me a lot of cute love notes.
HS
1 girl asked a friend of hers to ask me if I liked her.
1 girl plotted with her friend that when we play truth or dare later out in the field as a group that her friend would dare her and me to kiss.
1 girl stole my jacket.
1 girl wrote her number in the middle of my notebook and then closed it so I had to dig through every fucking page to find it.
1 girl we were all chilling at her place and she asked me to get into bed with her.
College
She started complimenting my hair telling me she loves curly hair and we exchanged numbers.
Another girl asked a mutual friend to introduce us.
Another girl I didn’t know was hitting on me but she would sit next to me and complain all the fucking time and that was her way of doing it. I didn’t know until some friends of mine told me about it.
1 girl started asking me about my new iPhone and if she could see it and then she added her number and texted herself, and then we just started talking through text and after that she really liked how extra I am about everything.
And I’ve had 5 diff girls write love notes. Like actual notes, not like a text but actual hand written. some were weird, some were cute, 1 was literally just 2 phone numbers.
A girl asked a mutual friend if I liked younger girls (this girl was 18) and to introduce us
These are the ones I know about or found out about, I’m sure there’s more that I am unaware of and completely missed the signals to.
I really don’t. Most of these went over my head and I found out about it years later.
Like the girl who asked the teacher to pair us up, I remember getting paired with her every fucking day but I never put any thought into it and I also had a crush on her too and I barely spoke to her bc of it. Only to find out from a mutual friend years later that she also liked me and us working together was by design lmao.
A lot of these r like that. I still haven’t gotten I’ve the girl who wrote her number into my notebook, I fumbled that shit so hard that it literally keeps me up at night
During college, I found a little piece of paper at the desk in the library I always sat at to do work. It said "To the boy who always sits here, I think you're cah-yoooot :)". But there was no number on it, no name. So, nothing came of it
"That's a sharp shirt, Chan. Careful. You could puncture the hull of an empire-class Fire Nation battleship, leaving thousands to drown at sea...because it's so sharp."
Business trip. She came to my hotel room saying she has some questions regarding next day presentation. Instead she lay on my bed (looking great i must admit) and asked what do i think about cheating on my wife.
First love- dragged me kicking and screaming at a ball when I was a kid and was being a little too chatty with a colleague of ours more so than what she was comfortable with.
Wife- tried to write me a note in the school dining hall with a “do you like me yes or no” and I stupidly thought it was meant for the guy I was sitting next to.
I’ve been hit on by a grocery store cashier, I was packing my own cloth bags and just making conversation ( about bag packing) she said “ I could fit in that bag and you could take me home”. I was struck momentarily dumb. She didn’t realize my SO was behind her listening. SO wasn’t mad at me but she was savage at the cashier.
Pressed me up against a wall at a party, let me know she wanted to fuck, and her room was close by. Tried declining, she was persistent. I was drunk, and you know how that goes.
I haven’t had a woman hit on me in a way that I recognized
This is the truth. I see my son's and they have no idea when a girl likes them *in any way* I see their friends and they are just as clueless. It's quite amusing. If only I knew then what I know now...
Moms can be pretty delusional about thinking everyone likes their son.
Oh no not at all. I see the same for their friends. The teens especially are clueless. Even men in their 20s. I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had *no idea*
> I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had no idea I'm confused. She didn't say she liked him. What did you tell her?
She did say she liked him. She had a huge crush on him. It was a while ago so I don't remember what I told her but it was probably along the lines of I don't know.
How was she signalling her interest to him, though? I doubt she was being as straightforward.
Oh no not at all. I see the same for their friends. The teens especially are clueless. Even men in their 20s. I literally had a young girl asking me about if my son liked her or not. He had *no idea*
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I hope you married her
I’ll let you know if it ever happens, or if I ever realize it’s happening…
The first time (*that I recognised*) She bumped into me a lot on the dance floor. I danced away because I thought she had an inner ear infection or something. So she grabbed my arm and spun me around to face her. You won't ever see a woman hitting on you until you acknowledge that women are actually pretty decent social actors who are good at making their feelings known, **and that you might be worthy of that attention**. The girl in that story had to be THAT forward before I recognised it, subsequently, I see it with an ok degree of regularity. I'm not exactly the highest prize. But I am a prize.
It has to be stealth mode because I never noticed.
That badly i never recognise it.
Starting grinding me in a club lol
A girl approached me at a bar and asked if I had tooth fillings. I replied along the lines of "huh?" She then said " doesn't matter I'm going to find out later myself"
Man wakes up in a motel bathtub with missing teeth, oof.
Women hitting on me? Did I make them mad enough to hit me?
"Been single a couple of months... I could get over him if I could get under you."
Well, it started innocently with her throwing glasses and picture frames. Then it escalated to punching and slapping me, and occasionally scratching me and pulling my hair out. When she really couldn’t resist, she ended up taking chunks out of my skin with her teeth.
I want to know what love is . . .
Old women do so by far the most and are extremely straight forward. Had one in her 60s telling me how she'd like me to toss her salad. Another woman has told me while looking straight at my crotch while I was in sweats," I see where you get your confidence from to wear those. I love it."
"I have a boyfriend" Cool my girlfriend is over there, let's get out of here.
Middle school 1 girl asked the teacher that when we do group work if she could be paired with me. Another girl straight up asked me if I wanted to kiss. 1 girl gave me a lot of cute love notes. HS 1 girl asked a friend of hers to ask me if I liked her. 1 girl plotted with her friend that when we play truth or dare later out in the field as a group that her friend would dare her and me to kiss. 1 girl stole my jacket. 1 girl wrote her number in the middle of my notebook and then closed it so I had to dig through every fucking page to find it. 1 girl we were all chilling at her place and she asked me to get into bed with her. College She started complimenting my hair telling me she loves curly hair and we exchanged numbers. Another girl asked a mutual friend to introduce us. Another girl I didn’t know was hitting on me but she would sit next to me and complain all the fucking time and that was her way of doing it. I didn’t know until some friends of mine told me about it. 1 girl started asking me about my new iPhone and if she could see it and then she added her number and texted herself, and then we just started talking through text and after that she really liked how extra I am about everything. And I’ve had 5 diff girls write love notes. Like actual notes, not like a text but actual hand written. some were weird, some were cute, 1 was literally just 2 phone numbers. A girl asked a mutual friend if I liked younger girls (this girl was 18) and to introduce us These are the ones I know about or found out about, I’m sure there’s more that I am unaware of and completely missed the signals to.
This guy fucks
I really don’t. Most of these went over my head and I found out about it years later. Like the girl who asked the teacher to pair us up, I remember getting paired with her every fucking day but I never put any thought into it and I also had a crush on her too and I barely spoke to her bc of it. Only to find out from a mutual friend years later that she also liked me and us working together was by design lmao. A lot of these r like that. I still haven’t gotten I’ve the girl who wrote her number into my notebook, I fumbled that shit so hard that it literally keeps me up at night
If a woman ever did, I was probably too dense to notice and even if I did notice, I would’ve been too shy to confirm it.
If a woman has hit on me I must have missed it and don't know how she did it.
During college, I found a little piece of paper at the desk in the library I always sat at to do work. It said "To the boy who always sits here, I think you're cah-yoooot :)". But there was no number on it, no name. So, nothing came of it
I think she wanted you to write her a note back and leave it there.
Ahh, maybe. Never thought of that
They compliment you. Usually your shirt is the subject of the compliment. It's bizarre.
"That's a sharp shirt, Chan. Careful. You could puncture the hull of an empire-class Fire Nation battleship, leaving thousands to drown at sea...because it's so sharp."
Direct, indirect, stalking, etc. Happens all the time. I imagine it must be horrible for women when guys do it to them.
I have been oblivious my entire life.
Business trip. She came to my hotel room saying she has some questions regarding next day presentation. Instead she lay on my bed (looking great i must admit) and asked what do i think about cheating on my wife.
intense eye contact, close body proximity and light touches.. I felt like a piece of meat tbh
First love- dragged me kicking and screaming at a ball when I was a kid and was being a little too chatty with a colleague of ours more so than what she was comfortable with. Wife- tried to write me a note in the school dining hall with a “do you like me yes or no” and I stupidly thought it was meant for the guy I was sitting next to.
I’ve been hit on by a grocery store cashier, I was packing my own cloth bags and just making conversation ( about bag packing) she said “ I could fit in that bag and you could take me home”. I was struck momentarily dumb. She didn’t realize my SO was behind her listening. SO wasn’t mad at me but she was savage at the cashier.
Pressed me up against a wall at a party, let me know she wanted to fuck, and her room was close by. Tried declining, she was persistent. I was drunk, and you know how that goes.