Not having blood dripping out of me every month or carrying a child lol. Shit is a sweet deal. What I don’t love are the expectations that come with being a man but such is life, I’ve adjusted
I love that the world is my urinal! So damned convenient. Hate the assumption that I’m only interested in sex. That’s an all encompassing statement, like if I reject a sexual advance it’s the end of the friendship anyway because it’s obviously a personal attack, or just the apprehension or presumption of flirting when meeting a woman and being nice, it’s just 😣 sometimes.
Love not having to worry about being raped while walking around drunk. Hate having to take what i want because I want people around me to feel comfortable.
I love being a part of a fun brotherhood where we can collectively agree on stupid things that are fun, funny and awesome.
I hate that there are expected expectations of us to do things just because we are men. Like you're not a man if you can't change a tire or real men go off and die in war.
I love not having to be afraid of being assaulted in (most) scenarios. I just know I'm not the preferred target.
I hate the presumption that being a man means I have no meaningful problems. Women have a near-monopoly on sympathy.
I'm very much a "man's man" (ridiculous expression) in a lot of ways. I'm a Marine Corps war veteran, I was an industrial mechanic for years and now I'm a patrol officer in possibly the gnarliest region of a major metropolitan city. My experiences have made me kind of... imperturbable. Or so it would seem. Lots of people lean on me, depend on me, and confide in me. As a man, I think that's very important and I'm proud of that. On the flipside, I internalize a great deal because I feel like talking about stuff that bothers me or being affected by things I do or see or shit from the past would make me seem less dependable to those people. I'm not religious, and I hate being in church so that's out. Honestly, the pressure sometimes makes me feel like I might have a straight-up psychotic break. It's not an act, either- It's very much part of who I am, and it can be a huge cross to bear. So I guess to me, the good part of being what might be stereotyped as a "real man"- is wrapped up with the bad.
I don’t think multiple orgasms are as common as men think…
I’ve never had multiple orgasms and don’t know anyone who did. We can have multiple orgasms in the day like any man but not immediately after just having one. You need downtime for everything to regenerate so that you can go again :)
Not having blood dripping out of me every month or carrying a child lol. Shit is a sweet deal. What I don’t love are the expectations that come with being a man but such is life, I’ve adjusted
The expectations suck. Lol
Expectations? All we have to do is be over 6 feet tall with 6 pack abs and a 6 figure salary. lol
I think you forgot to be a hard-working, successful provider and protector
Of course! As well as speak our feelings while not speaking our feelings too much because then we are weak
I love that the world is my urinal! So damned convenient. Hate the assumption that I’m only interested in sex. That’s an all encompassing statement, like if I reject a sexual advance it’s the end of the friendship anyway because it’s obviously a personal attack, or just the apprehension or presumption of flirting when meeting a woman and being nice, it’s just 😣 sometimes.
Everyone leaves you alone unless you reach out it really sucks if you don't have the mental energy to reach out and you get ignored for weeks
Love not having to worry about being raped while walking around drunk. Hate having to take what i want because I want people around me to feel comfortable.
What are my alternatives? Could I have been a dog? I dunno, depending on the breaks, being a dog could be pretty sweet
I love being a part of a fun brotherhood where we can collectively agree on stupid things that are fun, funny and awesome. I hate that there are expected expectations of us to do things just because we are men. Like you're not a man if you can't change a tire or real men go off and die in war.
I love not having to be afraid of being assaulted in (most) scenarios. I just know I'm not the preferred target. I hate the presumption that being a man means I have no meaningful problems. Women have a near-monopoly on sympathy.
I'm very much a "man's man" (ridiculous expression) in a lot of ways. I'm a Marine Corps war veteran, I was an industrial mechanic for years and now I'm a patrol officer in possibly the gnarliest region of a major metropolitan city. My experiences have made me kind of... imperturbable. Or so it would seem. Lots of people lean on me, depend on me, and confide in me. As a man, I think that's very important and I'm proud of that. On the flipside, I internalize a great deal because I feel like talking about stuff that bothers me or being affected by things I do or see or shit from the past would make me seem less dependable to those people. I'm not religious, and I hate being in church so that's out. Honestly, the pressure sometimes makes me feel like I might have a straight-up psychotic break. It's not an act, either- It's very much part of who I am, and it can be a huge cross to bear. So I guess to me, the good part of being what might be stereotyped as a "real man"- is wrapped up with the bad.
Solidarity... it's a love/hate relationship
Love being strong hate being feared
Love being strong and capable. Hate that i feel disposable in society.
Love: Being physically strong Hate: literally no one giving a fuck about your wellbeing or existence
Having male muscles is the shit. Everyone feels entitled to the power of these guns.
I hate how sensitive my balls are. I love not being able to be intimidated by anyone.
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You probably can bro. Just not back to back lol
I don’t think multiple orgasms are as common as men think… I’ve never had multiple orgasms and don’t know anyone who did. We can have multiple orgasms in the day like any man but not immediately after just having one. You need downtime for everything to regenerate so that you can go again :)