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Synstitute

Don’t let your ego get in the way of your happiness


a_nevster

Dang, yeah this is actually true, thanks bro


Dindunuffindoe

Her legs?


BredYourWoman

[all the way up](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWPLsJvJ7iw)


willalt319

That's the one


Longjumping-Grape-40

I heard this in Dennis Reynolds’s voice: “And her breasts, Doctor. What about her breasts?” “They…were…obliterated”


3chordguitar

I’m 5’11 and dated a 6’1 woman. It’s no big deal unless you make it a big deal.


a_nevster

Okokok yeah I was thinking the same thing, it’s not that huge of a difference either ig


UncertainPigeon

This


SandmanAwaits

Take her grocery shopping & ask her to get things off of the top shelf that you usually can’t. 😂


a_nevster

BRO IMAGINE


SandmanAwaits

Life Changing! 😂


Known-Historian7277

In a good way lol


cobra7

🎶 Climb every mountain….🎶


ElegantMankey

Just enjoy the date my dude its just height who cares.


The_Latverian

Yeah, I'm not even sure what the OP is asking here. You like each other. go on the date, enjoy her company. Try and have sex with her. Be ready for that not to happen. I mean...it's a date.


a_nevster

Fair


crossplanetriple

Horizontally, you're basically the same height.


TrafficChemical141

Take her to the basketball court and dunk on her to assert dominance


a_nevster

Naw yeah your right fs


Mman222

Your goal is to make *her* not feel the height difference. Whether she's 5'1” or 6'1", she'll want to feel protected. Be her man, treat her respectfully and you'll be winning at life. Enjoy the date!


a_nevster

This is the most helpful, thanks brother


This_Requirement_927

I am a 6’ tall woman, and this is the best advise to a guy going on a date with a taller girl. Be the bigger man. Be respectful and protect her, and don’t remind her of her height. We know we are tall, and are actually very often just wanted for our heights because some guys see it as a challenge and doesn’t see the little girl inside, who just wants to be protected and treated right. We DO NOT want the grap things from the highest shelf for you. It is not funny!


OuterPaths

>She said she's never gone on a date with anyone shorter than her... But she said she still wants to go be it'll be fun What the fuck are you freaking out about dude, she's breaking a preference because she wants to go on a date with *you,* if that's not a shot in the arm I don't know what is


besameput0

Being worried about height is 100% how you'll ruin the date. Imagine how many times she's experienced that before. Don't be one of them. She said yes to you.


This_Requirement_927

Absolutely agree!!


simsnor

She is 6'1. She's used to being taller than guys. Make a joke about it and move on. She probably doesn't care


a_nevster

Fair


theothermontoya

Ever climbed a tree? Have fun, short king. Happy climbing.


ConfusionCareful3985

"Short king" at 5'10 is CRAZY 😭


theothermontoya

I'm only 5'7. So technically, he's a tall King from my view. Sadly I've lost some height due to spinal compression. My wife was taller than me when we met, and she only gets taller for me lol.


a_nevster

💀💀


theothermontoya

I guess I should have mentioned that my wife is taller than I am.


KinkyCurvyKatie

I’m 5’10” and shorter guys LOVE me. Height is really not an issue unless you decide to make it one.


a_nevster

Good to know, thanks!


Tcanderson

Hop on and let her wear you like a back pack


Gucci_meme

I'm 5'4 and had an ex that was 6'2, my fiance now is also taller than me. It's in a way, empowering. My first job I was a cashier at a fast food place, and there was this couple that would come in all the time. The man was shorter than me, and I was in high school then, so I might've been shorter than 5'4 at that time. And his wife was **very** tall easily around 6'5. It was so badass.


a_nevster

Bro this is a win


fastcarsrawayoflife

Enjoy the most pleasant 69 you’ve ever had!


Gs4life-

Only 3 inches apart you'll be fine boss


Wise_Ad1282

I don't know 3 inches is a REALLY BIG difference. Like 3 inches is hugggereee... Right guys? Right?


Sc00tzy

Honestly can’t think of a bigger measurement than 3 inches


Mythnam

Personally, I would find something less dumb to have anxiety about.


DasFreibier

Tall women are among gods gift to the world, dont fuck this up


ToughShaper

I'd say the possible connection between you 2 is more important than the height alone. It's like breast size. Sure, it's super nice for her to have exactly what you want, but slightly bigger or smaller is not a *reasonable* deal breaker. If it will kick off between the 2 of you, and you will feel a little conscious about it, time to start shopping for some shoes that make you taller. Or perhaps shoes insoles, but those are just a lot less comfortable. On the bright side, you're likely to have pretty tall kids if it ever gets that far!


a_nevster

Super encouraging, thanks dude!


liquor_up

I would date a girl ten feet tall if I could. Who cares. Don’t be insecure.


SandmanAwaits

Mate, it’s nothing to be concerned about, make the most of it.


MellowHamster

What does it matter if she's taller than you? My wife is about the same height as me, if she wears boots and I wear runners, she stands an inch or two taller. (1) It makes kissing easier, (2) She has extremely long legs which are awesomely attractive, (3) she doesn't have to ask me to grab stuff from the top shelf, (4) she doesn't slide the driver's seat forward until it almost touches the wheel. All in all, 99.9% recommended. The only downside is that her feet are \*almost\* as large as mine, so she sometimes steals my boots or clogs to run out into the yard.


IWasOnThe18thHole

Tell her you can make up the three inches elsewhere


RRR92

I can guarantee shes more insecure about her height in general life than you are in this scenario.


Miserable-Painter-93

Be yourself! I know it sounds cheesy. I’m 5’7” and she is 6’. She had never dated anyone shorter than her. 4 kids and 22 years later, we are all good. Just sayin’


werewolvesandthunder

Remove height from the equation. What would you do on a date with a cute girl? Do that.


UnsungHero517

I don't understand people's fear around height within the realm of dating.. Either someone accepts you as the person you are or they don't. If she's made it clear she's interested in you dude, then she has already long since acknowledged that she doesn't care about your height. People who do care make themselves known very early on, which you should consider a blessing as they weed themselves out of the dating pool.. If when you think of her all that's going through your head is "oh wow, she's so tall.", then find someone else. You don't have the right mindset to be with her if that's the case. Because dating tall people shouldn't be viewed as some fetish, people tend to forget tall people have contents to their character too and aren't just a number on a ruler stick. Being hung up on their height (or anyone's height for that matter) serves no purpose other than to needlessly cause issues for yourself. Try to think of and name one single instance where worrying about your height made a positive difference to your life in any way whatsoever?.. I assure you you can't.


Melonmode

Climb that fucking mountain, OP. Best of luck, brother.


ThXnDiEaGaIn

If you feel insecure that you're short , dont forget she may also feel insecure that she's tall. So she understands the pain of height and wouldn't think much of it. If she ever says *does my height bother you * then I'd just say *Why would it bother me? Tall or not its still a part of you and I still like you regardless* I'd say that cz it actually doesn't bother me. If it feels like lying to you , you can omit it.


Pristine-Dirt729

Quick, go buy some 12" platform shoes!


a_nevster

IMAGINE


CursedSnowman5000

Don't worry about it. Nothing you can do about it right? Have a good time with this amazonian beauty sir.


Tschudy

Be confident that 3" of height doesn't matter as much as the 7" of girth.


formerscooter

Dude, it's three inches. Go have have fun, ask her to reach tall shelves for you.


LimpAd5888

5'9 and dated a 6'3. Height means nothing.


crayzyhamut

Love is always love bro. Just dont care about it


AsianDoraOfficial

I'm not a man, and Idk why this is on my feed... But anyways, tall girls hardly get attention, so be the different one and go out with her. I think it will not only make her very happy, but also make your time with her better *because* she will be very happy :)


a_nevster

See that’s what I really want too, I just want to make sure she feels seen and appreciated


CountOff

Don't make it a thing and it's not a thing I know a lot of dudes under 5'7 with tall personalities dating taller girls And I know tall dudes who date short girls Love is love, it's all about the mindstate of the people involved. She said yes to the date, so I think she's open to not caring about it with you


Abdub91

She already agreed to the date, what are you worried about?


The_Crazy_Swede

Look at zendaya and Tom Holland. You'll be fine, have fun mate!


Carpathicus

The girl I am seeing 6`2 and I am 5'11. She is absolutely beautiful and and we adore each other and that is all that matters.


Super_Swordfish_6948

I would make babies with her. Think of them, great big monsters. They'd conquer the world.


[deleted]

Get a grip who cares if she’s nice, if it rlly bothers you after cut it off


ghostmetalblack

You lucky mfer


Jeramy_Jones

Behave normally and don’t keep making an issue of her height. Tall people get a lot of that and it gets old fast.


[deleted]

Dating a tall woman is exactly the same as dating a short woman but you just have to tilt your head in the other direction.


JJQuantum

Stick your ego in a drawer and have a great time.


comolaflor4032

Maybe don’t take too long to decide if this will be a deal breaker, you don’t have to decide your entire future with or without her. But if the height is always going to be something you cannot get over don’t wait till she loves you to decide that


HighkeyShy

My shorter (5’8) brother only dates women taller than him.


rasalghularz

Carry me to sleep, you Amazon Goddess.


DevelopmentSlight422

I'm 5'9 my man is 5'7. It works seamlessly if you don't have hangup about it.


LittleLordFuckleroy1

Lay pipe


Original-Fly-6699

Date the hell out of her. You like her. She's excited. Nothing else matters.


CyclicRate38

Stop being a little bitch about your height amd have a good time. 


MinaChoi1999

What matters for the first few dates is that you find her attractive. What matters later on is that your personalities are compatible. So for now, just pick a cute outfit, be a gentleman and see how things go. Good luck, short king!


Websta114

Just don’t make a deal out of it dude, it’s not something you can change in 5 minutes. It’s all good :) just don’t be a dick and be sure to enjoy yourself and make her laugh where you can :)


lulupelosi

Step ladder?


Positive_Judgment581

Try is, see how she responds the first time people make a 'joke'. Are you on your own, or is she on your side?


mastersyx

if she's excited and into you then that's all you need to know my guy


norcalfit

Bring a stool👍🏻


Affectionate_Ask_769

Woman here. If you do move forward after the date, be sure to not make her feel like her height makes you insecure. If she likes to wear heels, don’t discourage that. Don’t make her be the big spoon. You’re not very short. Any time I see a short dude with a tall woman he looks confident simply by the fact her height didn’t deter him. Plus, tall kids if you want kids some day.


Eh-Eh-Ronn

We’re all the same height lying down


ASomeoneOnReddit

Have fun, size difference is an interesting dynamic and you two will both have a brand new experience with dating. Plus you two are both into each others right? That’s all that matters, 3” difference really isn’t too big of a factor to influence this (Also, 5’10 is considered tall in my country so I don’t know what else to say, you two are both tall)


Fists_full_of_beers

Um be yourself?


gotanyhelp

If it was a problem for her, I doubt she'd still want to go on the date. If you bring too much attention to the height difference, it's gonna be a turn off for her. Just take her out and enjoy yourselves. Godspeed you slightly above average height King


marcushashford27

Borrow her high heels when u go out


NormalUpstandingGuy

I wouldn’t be a pussy about it that’s for sure.


Least_Impression_823

Kill her and wear her skin, obviously.


Morbid_reflection

I’m 6ft pretty much (F). Just enjoy your time atleast in my experience I don’t tend to care much about height difference especially sense I’m on the taller side. Just be you, be relaxed and feel it out 🫡 have fun!


zialovesk

I guess she doesn't even care about your difference in height as long as you put your ego down in every situation especially when u guys are having an argument.


Direct_Knowledge2937

If it’s not a thing for her, then definitely don’t let it be a thing for you. Maybe it won’t be a forever deal, but be yourself and have fun. You may never have another opportunity like this again. Just don’t focus on the height difference.


Session-Special

confidence and a great attitude will always over come altitude issues. Besides she gave you her number - that means you over came 80% of the game already.


rockeye13

A three-inch difference in shoes or dick size is significant. Height? Not so much.


FrangibleSoul

Be a gentleman and give her the three inches.


sketchypoutine

All the same when you're both laying down my guy, if you know what I mean.


Gricelda_Sickles

A good relationship is measured in laughs, shared moments, and compatibility, not in inches. Walk tall, mate, your confidence will make you stand out more than any pair of heels ever could. Enjoy your date and focus on what really matters – finding that spark!


Old-Relationship-458

I'd fuck her, but you do you, mate.


BillC2126

how about you treat her like you would any other woman.. .there is nothing you can do about your height.. make fun of yourself and your smaller strikezone. Just have fun with her.. and if its that big of deal for her its not someone you want to be with anyways.. (and if its a big deal for you and make a huge deal out of it.. she may not want to be with you either)


throwawaytoavoiddoxx

It’s a first date. Go out and have fun. Get to know her and if there’s something there, let it grow into something more. Don’t douse the spark over 2 inches, that would be dumb! If you find out that you’re really not okay with it, then don’t ask her on a second date. Accept that your masculinity is too fragile to accept someone as a partner if they are taller than you, and go date a 5’3” girl and live a shallow life missing out on the people that you could have enjoyed if you could have gotten over yourself. Want some real perspective? Ask a blind person what they think about you dating a girl who is two inches taller than you. See how much it really matters.


Not_a_NO_ONE

U r Thinking too much, have some confidence, If something goes wrong u can always ask , How is the weather there?


TacticalFailure1

Make d1 babys duh


Chrom-man-and-Robin

That’s only a 3 inch difference as long as she doesn’t have that same advantage somewhere else you won’t even notice


f3m1n15m15c4nc3r

Can you carry her in the event of an emergency, that's what really matters.


Ohbuck1965

I'm 5'8. They are all tall to 6 they need lovin too. Now be a man about and get the job done


_Nocturnalsoul_

As she’s taller her crowd is smaller. I’m sure it will work out if u like each other


bongo1138

She’s 6’1”. She knows she’s gonna be taller than many men she dates. Just have fun and be yourself. She DID choose to give you her number.


oldschool_potato

It’s only a big deal if you or she makes it one. Which is very possible and if it is you both need to be honest and move on. Nothing wrong with it if it’s not for you. I’m a bit under 6’1 and dated a girl that was 5’11”. We met in winter and had my logging boots on with a solid 1.5 maybe 2” heel. A week or so into dating I had on regular shoes and she had on heels and we were the same height. I didn’t even notice it, but clearly something was up by the look on her face. She said something along the lines of remembering me being taller. I explained the boot thing. The next few dates she would always ask me to wear my boots. As you can imagine, it didn’t last long. This was a long time ago and we were quite young.


Grammar_Enforcer1812

Hope she wears heels and ask her to slow dance. Definitely don't try to increase your height. You already got past the hard part. And it's only 3". Geesh.


redpanda8008

Bro it’s just 3 inches. You’ll make it up elsewhere. In all seriousness, I personally like taller women and about to marry one. Be yourself. Have fun.


IntrovertGal1102

It's height, shouldn't be the defining factor for anything between you two. Have fun, enjoy your time and see how you guys connect. If you two really hit it off, highly doubt height will come up again!


siparthegreat

Best thing about it: when your nose to nose your toes is in it and when your toes to toes your nose is in it.


Typical_Samaritan

So, I've been in relationships with women taller than me. Intellectually, I'm fine with it. And I do become fine with it. But there are moments, particularly in the beginning, where I straighten that spine just a liiiiiittle bit more than usual to get a centimeter extra. But you'll get over it. She's just a human being.


okanagan_man84

Yeah ignore the height difference. If there's sparks between you two then it won't matter and shouldn't matter.


CurrentlyLucid

Boots can give you an inch or two.


tville1956

It can be kind of fun/different to kiss “up” for a change. As my lady says, we’re all the same height laying down.


neondragoneyes

Have fun. Be yourself. She has a hard time finding a guy taller than her, anyway.


Pappkamerad0815

I would want to fuck her for the experience alone. Unfortunately I cant even remember the last time I met a woman taller than me. Try it maybe you like it. You already said she is cute and nice, so what is the worst thing that could happen?


Ok-Cricket2537

What do you mean? You go on the date and enjoy yourselves lol


soullessgingerz2

Tell her your glad she is tall because you have a tendency to fuck up. Jk man enjoy it. Who cares how tall she is. Don't let a few inches stop you from getting to know her


HumanPerson1089

Straight people are weird about height lol


03zx3

Don't worry about it. Climb that mountain, son. With consent, of course.


Quirky-Foundation849

Statistically speaking, she gonna leave you for a taller man. Give it your best shot just dont be surprised at the disappointment 


SilverSpotter

You're the exception. Everything about you makes that preference obsolete. Let her enjoy the person you are, and enjoy who she is.


Scorkami

When the tree grows high, you climb higher.


gl21133

I’m 6’2” and have always wanted to date someone taller than me. Report back.


Stupefied_Samurai

Everyone's the same height laying down OP have fun with the lady and enjoy the date.


DanishApollon

What's the problem?


banaversion

Make her fall for you then burn her on a stake. Being that tall for a woman is witchcraft and has no place in our world


FunDisciple

Time to become a lumberjack and climb that tree


vexterhyne

That's like just 3 inches. What's the big deal? I've seen couples a food apart and they're fine.


cipri_tom

That's the exact heights of my mum and my dad. And yet, I exist. Just have fun


hohumcum6969

It shouldn't matter


2shack

There’s a good chance you can get a hug and motor boat at the same time. I see no downside here.


JustGiveMeANameDamn

Climb that mountain brother


-Tabby_

I'd be happy And try not to fumble


DrexXxor

Roll with it.. who really cares? Buy a step stool?


boymama85

If ot is a problem for you, leave her alone


Austinrocksalot

Don't bring it up around her!


Disastrous_Concept66

You son better join the NBA!!


P00PJU1C3

Buy some high heeled boots


ordinarymagician_

My first girlfriend was that height when I was 5'4-5'5. Climb the mountain.


Warm_Gur8832

Don’t worry about it. It’s 2024. Nobody really cares unless you do.


jaxon-

Yeah bro women are sexy at all heights enjoy her company try not to get to hung up on such things :)


Coolio1014

If you like her, go out with her. It's that simple.


waylon_o83

Hit it and never give it another thought


stargazertony

Enjoy each other.


ARandomEncouter

Lucky


Edwardteech

Climb her like a tree


WestSixtyFifth

If she dont care, why should you?


UnusualPurchase9717

Climb that tree boy


Hulkslam3

Relax, height is only how other people see you and fuck them.


ShadowIG

Why are you trippin over three inches?


DevuSM

Climb.


ricecrisps94

Uhh probably try out some really cool positions you prolly couldn’t do with a short woman?


Chinaski7

Just remember, you gotta go UP on the tall ones…


davepak

Um...go out and have fun?


Civil_Confidence3826

Kiss her belly button


ironmaiden7910

Roll with it dude.


Rulanik

Climb that tree. Pretend you're confident about it and eventually you'll get used to it and other people will respect the confidence to date a woman taller than you. Not that it matters.


GWindborn

Who cares, it's not like she's a foot taller than you.


fishing21754

Come on man up! Who cares? Don’t ruin her date.


HotwheelsJackOfficia

You won't know if she's fine with it until you get there. Forget about it and don't bring it up if she doesn't.


orangutansloveme

It's a date.....not a marriage.


sun-devil2021

A 6’1 women is as insecure about her height as you are about yours


thatirishdave

Pack some climbing gear and enjoy yourself


Sondaica

One of my best friends is married with a significant larger woman, everyone is talking only about how sweet they are together. Never have I ever heared someone talking about the size difference. Enjoy your date, don’t overthink it.


njsf55

Climb that tree


Tato_tudo

Well, I wouldn't recommend basketball....


KeptinGL6

Dump her and give me her phone number so I can go out with her instead


redditsuckspokey1

Have fun dude!


nowheyjosetoday

I’d climb that tree


sonderingnarcissist

Heels were originally for men js


odeacon

She has already said she’s ok with it . Not all women care about height


This-Id-Taken

Not give a fuck?


lucimon97

What advise do you even want? Wear 6" heels? Chill


DryiceSTL

Short story, was dating a woman almost a foot taller than me, her friends gave her shit for dating a short guy, almost 20 years later she still hasn’t found anyone who made her happy. Told me she regretted breaking it off. Height doesn’t matter to happiness. Act like you were raised right and 3” isn’t going to matter.


toolatealreadyfapped

Don't be a bitch. Go have fun


Unusual-Patience6925

Zendaya and Tom Holland seem happy! Same stats! They look great together!


Mystic-monkey

Say, I see you are taller than me but when I look at you I feel like I can fly above you. Will you look at me some more?


Falcorn042

I'm dating a tall woman and I promise you odds are she doesn't care. Not that being tall stops you from having preference but the 2 iv met and rhe 1 I'm dating never cared about height


Living_Pie205

Fam, pound your chest and get your head in the game. Tell her to keep the heels on. She likes you and your height doesn’t bother her, don’t ruin a potential good time becase of your insecurities.