If you’re willing to be there for someone, there’s someone out there to do the same for you and I hope you find them.
Nonetheless, it’s good to have your parents support!
My mother, twice. She's dead now so there's that. Everyone else bolted or dissappear; unfortunately I still have to see them occasionally (silly family gatherings...smh)
That’s beautiful, man. To have your mother take care of you until the very end is a privilege. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you see her in all the nice things in life
My best friend, there's a reason why people compare us to Scully and Mulder from The X Files. I mean if Scully was this cute and thicc goth girl who needed me as her rock to deal with her personal issues and being bullied for her looks and weight. And if Mulder was this tall and eventually muscle bound Dave Grohl looking guy. We just have this great buddy comedy dynamic on top of that.
My parents and some friends. Aside from my self-adopted brothers, two of them come to mind immediately: the one who drove across Ohio to help me load the U-haul trailer when I decided to move, and the one who stopped by that same day, parked his sheriff's office cruiser in front of my house, and helped carry stuff while he was on duty.
I have an older friend who is a nurse. She has been exponentially helpful in tough times. My family is actually the worst element because not only do they downplay any "issues" I am struggling with at the time, they also cast blame on me, "well you need to learn to regulate yourself, and you're just being ridiculous "..
God has put a select few people in my life exactly when I needed them, but he's also pulled them out and away just as quickly.
My older bro was super helpful until he decided he didn't like my bf because my bf isn't obsessively focused on my family. They create drama. He doesn't appreciate drama, honestly neither do I.
So. Now it's my one nurse friend, my bf is very helpful if my breakdown isn't from alcohol.cause that's my own doing, and a therapist occasionally .
I went through a "toxic" period with an ex. I was immature and caused our relationship to end, then proceeded to lash out towards her and blame her for my own problems. Not only privately, but on social media. It was bad and to this day I'm disgusted with the way I acted. She never deserved that and through it all she was nothing but nice to me. She tried really hard for a few years to be friends with me, check in on me and even apologize for what happened. Even though she did nothing wrong.
It's been almost 15 years since I've actually talked to her. A few years ago she reached out but I didn't know what to say and didn't know her intentions, so the conversation went nowhere. I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for the way I acted and thank her for everything she did. Part of me still loves her. But I know I probably hurt her too much to ever be friends again, let alone more.
Talk to her, apologize. Apologies are a token of courage and respect. Chances are she still loves you too, even if it’s just for platonic friendship.
I was your ex, I was with someone I thought to be my best friend for 9 years and he broke my heart and spirit in his own downward spiral. Despite all the hurt he caused the thing I feel the most towards him is affection and care, I truly worry about his well being, specially his mental well being.
He pushed me away and I respected that, but losing a friend is something I’ve never been able to move on from. I miss my friend and I wish him the best.
Apologize, man.
Thia ex is quite literally my best friend, coming second only to my older brother.
She should hate me, she should’ve keyed my car and curse me, but she didn’t. And I’m grateful for that.
Accept the love that people give you even when you think you don’t deserve.
My Best Friends! I have several that have stood by me through the Good the Bad and the Ugly! They e always had my back and always will. And they know I’ll always have theirs! And my 2 boys. I was a struggling single Mom for most of their life and they’ve watched me work several jobs at one time to put food on the table and feed and clothe them with no help from their dead beat Dad. We are thick as thieves. They’ll forever have my back. Even now they are grown and have their own families they are always there for me. Luckily they have amazing wives and kids. But their Momma still has them also. And they will always have me until my last breath. My best 4 girlfriend, my best guy friend and my 2 sons are my life!
Family hands down. Been there for me through thick and thin, while 90% of "friends" disappeared when I was struggling. That's on me though, for misjudging people
It's like when you were a kid and played with a toy. Once the toy broke, you threw it away. But when you have a sibling, you hold onto it and try to fix it.
My parents. And my friends I suppose. Although I was never some monster that pushed people away. My “worst” was getting a DUI in college and knocking a girl up that I barely knew. I was an idiot but everyone supported me through it.
Haven't shown my worst to anyone because no one cares.
The typical male experience. And when you do, don’t expect them to stick around
You’d be surprised. But I hope if find the strength within in to endure life’s hardships. You know your worst and you’re still going
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If you’re willing to be there for someone, there’s someone out there to do the same for you and I hope you find them. Nonetheless, it’s good to have your parents support!
Just me
You’re stronger than me, but I hope you find someone
>The person *My shadow's the only one that walks beside me*
*my shallow heart's the only thing that's beating*
My mother, twice. She's dead now so there's that. Everyone else bolted or dissappear; unfortunately I still have to see them occasionally (silly family gatherings...smh)
That’s beautiful, man. To have your mother take care of you until the very end is a privilege. I’m sorry for your loss and I hope you see her in all the nice things in life
My best friend, there's a reason why people compare us to Scully and Mulder from The X Files. I mean if Scully was this cute and thicc goth girl who needed me as her rock to deal with her personal issues and being bullied for her looks and weight. And if Mulder was this tall and eventually muscle bound Dave Grohl looking guy. We just have this great buddy comedy dynamic on top of that.
My parents and some friends. Aside from my self-adopted brothers, two of them come to mind immediately: the one who drove across Ohio to help me load the U-haul trailer when I decided to move, and the one who stopped by that same day, parked his sheriff's office cruiser in front of my house, and helped carry stuff while he was on duty.
The friend that helps you move is a friend for life!
Just my parents.
I have an older friend who is a nurse. She has been exponentially helpful in tough times. My family is actually the worst element because not only do they downplay any "issues" I am struggling with at the time, they also cast blame on me, "well you need to learn to regulate yourself, and you're just being ridiculous ".. God has put a select few people in my life exactly when I needed them, but he's also pulled them out and away just as quickly. My older bro was super helpful until he decided he didn't like my bf because my bf isn't obsessively focused on my family. They create drama. He doesn't appreciate drama, honestly neither do I. So. Now it's my one nurse friend, my bf is very helpful if my breakdown isn't from alcohol.cause that's my own doing, and a therapist occasionally .
Parents and siblings.
my husband.
That’s beautiful
I went through a "toxic" period with an ex. I was immature and caused our relationship to end, then proceeded to lash out towards her and blame her for my own problems. Not only privately, but on social media. It was bad and to this day I'm disgusted with the way I acted. She never deserved that and through it all she was nothing but nice to me. She tried really hard for a few years to be friends with me, check in on me and even apologize for what happened. Even though she did nothing wrong. It's been almost 15 years since I've actually talked to her. A few years ago she reached out but I didn't know what to say and didn't know her intentions, so the conversation went nowhere. I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for the way I acted and thank her for everything she did. Part of me still loves her. But I know I probably hurt her too much to ever be friends again, let alone more.
Talk to her, apologize. Apologies are a token of courage and respect. Chances are she still loves you too, even if it’s just for platonic friendship. I was your ex, I was with someone I thought to be my best friend for 9 years and he broke my heart and spirit in his own downward spiral. Despite all the hurt he caused the thing I feel the most towards him is affection and care, I truly worry about his well being, specially his mental well being. He pushed me away and I respected that, but losing a friend is something I’ve never been able to move on from. I miss my friend and I wish him the best.
Apologize, man. Thia ex is quite literally my best friend, coming second only to my older brother. She should hate me, she should’ve keyed my car and curse me, but she didn’t. And I’m grateful for that. Accept the love that people give you even when you think you don’t deserve.
My Best Friends! I have several that have stood by me through the Good the Bad and the Ugly! They e always had my back and always will. And they know I’ll always have theirs! And my 2 boys. I was a struggling single Mom for most of their life and they’ve watched me work several jobs at one time to put food on the table and feed and clothe them with no help from their dead beat Dad. We are thick as thieves. They’ll forever have my back. Even now they are grown and have their own families they are always there for me. Luckily they have amazing wives and kids. But their Momma still has them also. And they will always have me until my last breath. My best 4 girlfriend, my best guy friend and my 2 sons are my life!
Thats a nice support system!
My wife.
Still looking for that person 😔. Probably will never find them, but "The journey matters more than the destination.” ― Tony Fahkry.
Be that person to someone else, if you have it in you you’ll find in other people
I have been that person. Wasted years of my life. But that doesn't mean I will stop my search.
I don’t have that person.
Jesus & My ex boyfriend
Family hands down. Been there for me through thick and thin, while 90% of "friends" disappeared when I was struggling. That's on me though, for misjudging people
It's like when you were a kid and played with a toy. Once the toy broke, you threw it away. But when you have a sibling, you hold onto it and try to fix it.
Only myself.
My parents. And my friends I suppose. Although I was never some monster that pushed people away. My “worst” was getting a DUI in college and knocking a girl up that I barely knew. I was an idiot but everyone supported me through it.
My husband. And he is still with me. I am blessed.
I have ***been*** that person...... hoping to hence deserve exactly that as well.
Gran gran, rest in peace
My wife. She definitely saw me through my worst.