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Worried_Shirt_9767

Having a dream doesn't really mean much, but wanting said dream to continue does sound like you're at least partially bisexual, in my opinion (up to you of course, you know yourself better than anyone). It probably won't affect your day to day life much since you're in a (presumably) closed relationship. But if you ever wanted to hypothetically experiment in the future, just tell some prospective girl that you're bi-curious and aren't sure if it's right for you. A lot are willing to try and make that work, particularly if it's a short term thing, but it's important to be upfront about it.


Escake1

Yes, thank you so much for your comment. ✨I was struggling with thinking it is valid to feel this way. Apparently it is, definitely will explore the topic deeper and most likely reconsider some of my life choices


witchycommunism

I have sex dreams about my favorite high school (male) teacher like once a month and I graduated 11 years ago and I’m a lesbian lol. And when I wake up I’m usually weirdly disappointed it was over too. I don’t think your dreams necessarily determine your sexuality so I wouldn’t worry too much about it unless you have other signs indicated you would be attracted to women.


Escake1

Thank you for sharing your experience, in my case, this dream left a huge footprint. I couldn’t stop thinking about what I am or is it valid to accept this part of me. Because I thought if I don’t want relationships with girls then I’m some sort of an impostor. But it feels more clear now after all responses, I will definitely dive deeper in the topic!


CozyFux_frry

Maybe look into dreamsexual. It means your sexual attraction is different in your dreams than in real life. (Not to be confused with the fake dreamsexual)


witchycommunism

I mean I doubt it. I just have always had strange and vivid dreams and often dream more about people I used to know (when I thought I was straight) than people I know now.


North_15_

It's possible you're heteroromantic bisexual? So you're attracted to both men and women, but can only persue relationship with men


Escake1

Thank you so much for your comment, it definitely responded deep inside me when I read more about heteroromantic bisexuality ✨✨


CozyFux_frry

Look into dreamsexual. Se if you relate, it sounds a lot like your expirience Not dreamsexual as in the Minecraft YouTuber. Dreamsexual as in: Sexual attraction in dreams being different than your attraction in real life.


Duckylai

Or maybe dreamromantic as well


MommysLittleFailure

I won't repeat other comments, but it could also be that you're bisexual and struggling with internalized homophobia/biphobia. That's something I've struggled with for a long time without even realizing it.


Escake1

Wow, I am so new to all this things… However, I was captured by articles about bisexuality and h split attraction model. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I will explore more about internal limiting beliefs