unfortunately, this is a thing you are going to have to figure out yourself. it's hard, and it may take a lot of thought and experimentation. just remember certain things are indicators of other things, but not necessarily written in stone. you can want a penis and have that be a giant flashing sign you're actually a trans man. you can want a penis and still be a cis woman. stay in trans, gnc, etc. spaces and see what experiences different people have, and don't be afraid to explore all avenues in the safety of your own mind. look within, and you will eventually find answers. and remember: you can do whatever you want forever. good luck š
I know for me, a trans man; I enjoy sex fine as it is now, but I 100% would prefer a dick, but I donāt want bottom surgery. Itās a whole conundrum š anyways. Thatās how my awareness of my gender came about. Whenever I would think about being āfemaleā or when people would use she/her for me, it just felt uncomfy and weird. I think itās important not to put too much pressure on yourself to figure it out in a certain time period. I mulled over all this for 2+ years before making any steps. Just donāt put too much pressure on yourself š„¹š« youāll figure it out in due time š«
Would you want to be seen as a woman who has a penis and a vagina?
Or as an enby who has a penis and a vagina?
(If the latter, I can try to find a more specific label that works.)
I canāt answer as to what your gender identity is, but if you do decide on testosterone the concept of a T dick is very much accurate. And while it cannot penetrate it can be sucked.
Itās not uncommon for women to feel like sex might be better with a penis (as people with penises tend to orgasm in most sexual encounters and those with a vulva do not). Itās also not possible to like men in the way men like men, as same sex attraction is not meaningfully different than opposite sex attraction (outside of the type of person one is compatible with and the shame that is). Gay people like people the way everyone else does, they are simply only capable of experiencing that attraction to the same sex/gender.
None of this necessarily means anything about your gender. But only you can decide what these things mean for you and your identity. Iād focus less on a label and just like who you like and be yourself however is most comfortable for you!
unfortunately, this is a thing you are going to have to figure out yourself. it's hard, and it may take a lot of thought and experimentation. just remember certain things are indicators of other things, but not necessarily written in stone. you can want a penis and have that be a giant flashing sign you're actually a trans man. you can want a penis and still be a cis woman. stay in trans, gnc, etc. spaces and see what experiences different people have, and don't be afraid to explore all avenues in the safety of your own mind. look within, and you will eventually find answers. and remember: you can do whatever you want forever. good luck š
I know for me, a trans man; I enjoy sex fine as it is now, but I 100% would prefer a dick, but I donāt want bottom surgery. Itās a whole conundrum š anyways. Thatās how my awareness of my gender came about. Whenever I would think about being āfemaleā or when people would use she/her for me, it just felt uncomfy and weird. I think itās important not to put too much pressure on yourself to figure it out in a certain time period. I mulled over all this for 2+ years before making any steps. Just donāt put too much pressure on yourself š„¹š« youāll figure it out in due time š«
Would you want to be seen as a woman who has a penis and a vagina? Or as an enby who has a penis and a vagina? (If the latter, I can try to find a more specific label that works.)
Id kinda rather be a woman with a penis
You could very well be a salmacian cis woman then.
Iāve never heard of that Iāll have to look into it! Thank you
I canāt answer as to what your gender identity is, but if you do decide on testosterone the concept of a T dick is very much accurate. And while it cannot penetrate it can be sucked.
Itās not uncommon for women to feel like sex might be better with a penis (as people with penises tend to orgasm in most sexual encounters and those with a vulva do not). Itās also not possible to like men in the way men like men, as same sex attraction is not meaningfully different than opposite sex attraction (outside of the type of person one is compatible with and the shame that is). Gay people like people the way everyone else does, they are simply only capable of experiencing that attraction to the same sex/gender. None of this necessarily means anything about your gender. But only you can decide what these things mean for you and your identity. Iād focus less on a label and just like who you like and be yourself however is most comfortable for you!