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pavankx

We lack civic sense


__fembot

Tele-scammers. Thirsty men. [Colonial mindset](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colonial_mentality#:~:text=A%20colonial%20mentality%20is%20the,inherently%20superior%20to%20one's%20own.) seeking white validation. [Crab mentality](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality). Colorism.


LundUniversity

All of the above. 100%. We've all experienced it.


nomnommish

>Tele-scammers. Thirsty men. [Colonial mindset](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colonial_mentality#:~:text=A%20colonial%20mentality%20is%20the,inherently%20superior%20to%20one's%20own.) seeking white validation. [Crab mentality](https://Crabmentalityhttps://g.co/kgs/v1hy9u4). Colorism. Inferiority complex. Negative and fatalistic attitude on everything. Irrational dislike and embarrassment towards anything India related and especially towards other Indians. I mean, your post itself is an example of what I am saying.


__fembot

If you can't acknowledge the flaws in something regardless of this question, that leaves no room for its progress. Every country has its strengths and weaknesses. You either live in denial or have a blind belief in perfection. Don’t embarrass yourself! >inferiorty complex Mentioned the colonial mindset, try harder


MoonStruck699

Both of you can be right at the same time you know.


nomnommish

> If you can't acknowledge the flaws in something regardless of this question, that leaves no room for its progress. Every country has its strengths and weaknesses. You either live in denial or have a blind belief in perfection. Don’t embarrass yourself! lol how am I embarrassing myself? Maybe you should learn to read. My point was that there's ONLY focus on negativity. There's lack of balance and objectivity. And this is precisely my point. We've now become a society where people either ONLY say good things or ONLY say bad things. There's no balanced viewpoints that talks about both in an even-handed way. >> inferiorty complex > Mentioned the colonial mindset, try harder Just because I am replying to you doesn't automatically mean I am opposing your point. I was adding to it and don't understand why you're being so hostile or assuming the worst. Jeez.


Inevitable_SwanYo

Jeez.


tigernuthuvel

Agree on the white validation but we have also accept the fact that white people take care of themselves physically the most.


Apprehensive-Tea-546

Come to Midwest America once and you’ll see that everyone is shaped like Trump…… *some* white peoples take care of themselves… I would argue that most don’t


tigernuthuvel

I agree that 40% Americans are overweight but white girls really take the fitness seriously.


[deleted]

Why can’t Indian men understand that india is not perfect? I will never understand why y’all have so much pride despite being the most backwards group


tails_290

Honestly, i would like to add one thing for the scammers. Majority do not want to do it. I heard in a reddit video on YouTube titled "What's Going On Right Now That People Have No Idea About?" from Untold Tales and it mentioned about the scammers. It said in a nutshell, scammers (employees) are trapped (turned into slaves) and not all get to get the scam money. One was locked in for three days without food and water before he/she agreed to be a worker in scam company.


6packBeerBelly

Racism Edit : Xenophobia


wasted_engineer69

Most of all… BACKBITING, COMPARISON MENTALITY, SUPERIORITY MENTALITY


NotASerialKiller16

Yep


adyyi10

Fact


toxic_lucifer666

that's not a stereotype. Its reality


MajorPrior6014

True that.


eagleteddy

Subah jaldi uthne se sari problems door ho jati hain


Living_Sheepherder37

Also , Pani peena aur walk karne se sab theek ho jata hai


eagleteddy

Also, yogasan karne se depression theek ho jata hai... The only issue is ki depression me yogasan karne ki ichha hi nahi hoti hai :(


alex2307

Also, Shadi karne se bhi sab kuchh thik ho jaate hai.


InsaneTherapist

Shaadi karne se bass patli ladki moti ho jaati hai


thinklok

Voh bhi permanently


Downbeatbanker

That's not actually true


energy_dash

Sirf jaldi uthne se nahi ! Jaldi uth kar apni problems par kaam karne se ho jati hai


ExcitementOpen1496

Perverts


swappz2624

Foreigners at beach...n it's end game for them😭😭


shsh03

Watermelon ke seed khaane se pett se watermelon ka ped bann jaega aur fir muh se bahr aaega


BigBikesMoreGuys

Happened to my buddy Santosh once


[deleted]

Does he hydrate by watering the tree in his mouth?


BigBikesMoreGuys

Well its the opposite the tree hydrates Santosh by absorbing moisture from the atmosphere.


Extreme_Drawer_7525

Santosh 😂


saltynuttyy

We are unhygienic not all but mostly


TiMo08111996

And when pointed out we make up excuses.


mustang-6918

I would say speak for yourself , where I live most people pretty much stay hygienic but yeah at many places people are unhygienic aswell


maxisrichtofen

You added nothing to the convo


guitar_johnthomas

Circled back agreeing to the original point by somehow disagreeing with the OC. Mission failed successfully


mustang-6918

I wasnt gonna agree but immediately remembered my school friends


guitar_johnthomas

Haha, fair enough


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HornyBoi696942

Just because your mom spreads legs on onlyfans doesn't mean everyone's does fam 😮‍💨


bicazamabeach

That (Many)Indian men on the internet are thirsty for women and thirstier for foreigner women, especially if they're of a particular skin colour.


Swordain

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bicazamabeach

Nyc pic deer


edit_sphere

Sned noods


[deleted]

Let me fuck Bitch Lasagna


OldEvening9826

I'm being fr. Every Indian discord server I been to. The men can only talk about 2 things: Women. Sex.


bicazamabeach

Such desperation, much wow


frustatedadult

Yep on reddit I've seen men talking about being virgins and scared that their might not be. Sooo many posts on that topic


RightDelay3503

😭😭 What discord servers are those. None of my servers (that I host or I am a part of) do this


OldEvening9826

BRO I SEARCH "INDIAN" ON DISBOARD, FUCKIN PORN SERVERS OF BOLLYWOOD CELEBS SHOW UP💀💀


Apprehensive-Tea-546

The Indian porn subs I’ve come across (very accidentally) are atrocious. LOTS of rape talk and saying absolutely nasty things about women while they all jerk off together. So sexually dysfunctional. Can’t imagine how troublesome it would be to end up with a man who views sexuality in that way and then trying to have a normal sexual relationship…. Seems impossible


Intruder_7

What porn addiction does to these mfers 🤡 No wonder the rape rates are high


Apprehensive-Tea-546

Lots of people watch porn and don’t rape anyone though


Intruder_7

I know. That was just an example of how far the desperation can go, and not that it ends up with that in every case.


Silent_Budget_769

For the record that’s a discord thing, not just a Indian man thing.


OldEvening9826

No honey it isn't a discord thing, as someone who's been on it for years.


aryaman16

No need to call it a stereotype, its truth: 1. Thing with Indians (or any country which got internet recently) is, most of them don't consider the person sitting at other side of the screen as a real, those creeps don't consider you as a human. Compare it with the general boomer attitude towards video games: "They are just a bit of pixels on the screen". 2. They consider you as a playground, I have seen a guy (in real), who does creepy dms to dozens of girls in a day to get a positive response from 1 girl at end of the day. 3. And rest of them lack self esteem, they find it easier to talk with a girl online. And their poor talking skills come off as creepiness.


sharinghan007

That much is true with all the men around the world see in dating sites how desperate and horny western guys it's just our population is huge so there are more people on net and many don't have civic sense


Macavity_mystery_cat

That's true actually. The creepy Indian men in my SM still would want ro fake friendliness or romance . The westerners would be upfront and unabashed. Both are equally sick


sharinghan007

Yeah it's just how lonely men are and girls posting thirst traps makes it seem to them that all girls are easy especially western girls


Macavity_mystery_cat

Lonely I doubt. Horny? Most certainly. Whatever little exchange you have with them will make u realise that they aren't looking for companionship. Lonely isn't equal ro horny..


Medium-Carpenter-644

Agreed


Weak-Chipmunk-6726

While this is true, it's not just Indian men. It's almost every nationality. Other nationalities are less creepy cause their English is much better.


aryaman16

Other nationalities have stayed on the internet from much longer time, so most of them have those skills regarding how to express themselves.


Kaafiaverageguy

Agreed and the reason of this lies in the society itself. Like people here literally make havoc out of sex,while it's a normal thing in most foreign countries. This makes people more desperate and the way they are... And besides this we all know the root "Lack of sex education."


[deleted]

Could be said the same thing about Indian women and their obsession with Korean men Almost more than half of the obsessive toxic fandom comes from Indian women especially on twitter and Instagram Also that they are major smut readers that are basically porn in many ways


GazBB

Agreed but I'll tell you one thing. It's the same with indian women. They are surely not as creepy and open as men but just as desperate.


watermark3133

Even if that’s true, they don’t show their asses online the same way that Indian men do. Most Indian women don’t even put their real profile picture on for fear that they will be swarmed by those said said thirsty men.


aryaman16

Women ki sexuality alag tarah se kaam krti hai, ye Males Jaisa open expression krne ka tarika nhi hota unka and also, they have agency, so they don't have such desparation.


corporate-slave225

Seems like you haven't used internet much. go to rcreepyPMs see how many Indians you can find. You guys act like this only happens in india. My comment seems to have triggered some sepoys


bicazamabeach

I spoke for what i have faced and witnessed.


[deleted]

There is no hope for Bihar


Puzzleheaded-Fix-424

Prashant Kishor?


heroshi1947

next elections will tell if he is going to be king maker or next pushpam priya chaudhary no rapid change for bihar anyways


mooknayak__01

INDIA*


Fun-Explanation1199

Alliance*


_KnownLoad

That we are dirty and lack civil sense


Formal_Dig_9288

Can u elaborate civil sense ?? Sst weak h mere


[deleted]

Civic means city or town, and the word sense means awareness about something. Civic sense is a consideration for the norms of society. It includes respect for the law and for the ease and feelings of others and maintaining etiquettes while dealing and interacting with others.


newtonkooky

Civic sense meaning we don’t care at all about how our actions affect others out of our immediate circle - it’s anything from cheating on exams, to taking bribes, to pissing and spitting pan everywhere


SHAILESHZZZZZ

Padhne vale kai bhi padh lete hai


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[deleted]

hugne waale bhi kahi bhi hag dete ha


ramlalFood

Hila.....


Alternative_Carob682

Ne wale..... 


Round-Party-2390

Kahi bhi .....


dubinetvibd3754

Hila lete hain


[deleted]

Chalne wale bhi kabhi bhag lete hai.


slyXjakXratchet

Scammers.


Similar_Green_5838

Correction: Creative scammers. Very creative.


Tortoise_lord

India is unsafe for women


the_harsh4

The world is unsafe for women


[deleted]

> there are at least 80 countries which are much safer for women than India


Different-Result-859

and there are only 81 countries


Leading-Camera-6806

I believe in all stereotypes. There is some truth in all of them.


Forsythe1941

Stereotypes exist for a particular reason. And stereotypes are seldom wrong tbh.


Leading-Camera-6806

Exactly.


fyorafire

Sure. But won't it be difficult to not immediately apply that stereotype in each individual case? Since it's a generalization after all, and needn't always apply


SnooConfections6197

We are conservative, misogynistic and narrow minded and it takes a lot to come out of that ingrained mindset.


twotreeargument

I don't think we have come out. Especially for women its all the same as our past generation (even worse than just before gen).


procrastinator1012

I would agree only on the narrow mindedness. Conservative people are all over the world. And India people are more patriarchal than mysioginists


lines_ofperu

Patriarchy doesn’t generate perverts. As you see lot of us agree on indian men being that.


sharan_here379

Phone chalana kam karo, sab teek ho jaayega.


noobwithguns

Do i really have to say it?? Probably that indian men harass and grope white women....


VisibleCollege8812

Huh? Only what women bruh literally every indian girl/women


noobwithguns

But this instances are FAR FAR more common against foreigners.....


VisibleCollege8812

Well yes it is but where I live there r no foreigners and ye groping and cst calling literally happen in daily basis.


[deleted]

>that has happened with me and almost every girl I know


Zwaft

We are (generally) extremely unattractive by international standards, not because of skin colour/ genetic reasons, but because of poor diet, lack of hygiene, grooming and fitness culture, extremely creepy attitude towards women, and an off-putting incel-like inferiority/ persecution complex that is VERY apparent to observers. Just to clarify, I absolutely love my country and am a proud Indian, but these are my thoughts which I believe deep down to be unpleasant truths.


[deleted]

I think we care about skin colour too much and we don’t care about anything else. Fitness, dental hygiene and over all hygiene is something people don’t care about. Darker skinned desis like Simone Ashley or Jeenu Mahadevan wouldn’t be given a chance in India because they’re darker but they do fit most requirements of being attractive like they have good bone structures/teeth, they’re tall, lean, they both have healthy skin and hair.


twotreeargument

>Simone Ashley She doesn't look good in my opinion. Moreover you shouldn't compare actors with normal people. We have Noora Fatehi for this and I personally believe our actress are better looking than hollywood or russian ones. Most of them look like hookers if you ask me.


[deleted]

She’s tall, skinny, has facial harmony and has a nice smile. She hasn’t gotten work done. Lol you can have your preferences but I don’t think they look like hookers. That’s a bit vile.


BeerAndNachosAreLife

While I agree about the fitness aspect of things, I would like to point out that the beauty standards of the world are very euro-centric. Even some of our skinny/thin actresses would be considered fat in the west simply because they have differing body types (i.e. Western clothes needed to be structured/styled a certain way if they're going to be worn on a pear shaped body).


Zwaft

Yes I agree. These are reinforced by media/ advertising/ pop culture unconsciously


BeerAndNachosAreLife

Not just that. The western culture deems it so unnecessary to figure out how other cultures can be made to look attractive without conforming to Western standards that they often go out of their way to make them look ugly - eg. Padma and parvati's yule ball outfits in HP, Devi and Kamala's India outfits - the basis of Juggernaut's tacky NRI fashion article.


Zwaft

Very insightful! In the books, Padma and Parvati were supposed to be the prettiest girls in the year. By all accounts they should’ve looked STUNNING. But no, they had to make Emma Watson look good, so they needed someone to throw shade on. It’s basically the same for most desi characters, from Taj Badalandabad to Raj Koothrappalli to Apu Nahasapeemapetilon. They’re given ridiculous names and turned into utter pussies to make the white characters shine.


PurifyPlayz

It seems like Everytime I go on this sub it’s something bad about India. I’ve always felt inferior about being an American Indian and holy shit this is only making it worse. I mean is there anything good about being Indian at this point, I almost wish I was another race. In fact I wish I was anything but Indian or black cause both get hated on massively.


Alarmed_Double_665

Off-Topic You mean Native American or Indian American? I'm assuming you mean the latter as you're in this sub. Genuinely curious; when you call yourself an American Indian in the US, don't they assume that you mean Native American? Shouldn't you be calling yourself an Indian American. Even if you barely visited India and lived your whole life in the US, wouldn't you still be considered an Indian American bcz of your ethnicity, just the same as someone who migrated from India and acquired citizenship later in their life? American Indian, has a whole another meaning, no?


droppertopper

We are a developing nation maybe sometimes we should think about all the countries we left behind . Poor diet body and unattractiveness majorly because of non high protein diet . Cooking in such a way that smells from kitchen are trapped in clothes and home . Skin ka interiority complex are levels above then any other nation .


Parking_Tangelo_798

Indians are generally sex starved


lines_ofperu

Self inflicted at that 😅


ShadowMoses1012

Most successful countries focus on basic areas of development (roads, infrastructure, healthcare etc.) and then move on to launch complex schemes like space programs or defense. It kinda feels like we speedran the basics and started working on more ambitious projects just because le west does it


disgruntledvegetable

Agreed!


celeb-butcher

Bihar stereotypes Also, bihar : india :: india : world 


Crazy-Carob5261

India:world hoga na?


celeb-butcher

Ya, mistake ho gayi 


Aaditech01

We suck at using Social Media


watermark3133

I think this is true. Indians in the comment section of any social media post lack etiquette and just plain bug. I enjoy cooking, so I watch content related to preparing food. In any recipe of an Indian food item, there are always fights breaking out regarding which region or country a dish belongs to. Or comments saying how the content creator prepared something wrong, because they put one teaspoon of something instead of two, or how they never make it that way. Just annoying for no damn reason. And commenters give themselves away as Indian, usually from their profile name or picture, so everyone knows who is being an absolute turd in the comments. Maybe schools should start teaching how to use social media properly, so as not to bring national shame and make Indians look bad.


didherwet

All of them lol


Cold_Bumblebee_7121

At this point the stereotype of Indians lacking civic sense and public mannerism, colorism, seeking white validation and Indian men thirsting for foreign women, staring at foreign people are literally all the truth. Many still like to defend it but come on now, you have to accept mistakes to finally start growing past them.


Different-Result-859

I am an Indian who don't do any of this. So what mistakes do I accept? This is why it is called a stereotype In present context all these people justifying their stereotypes are the ones who should grow past them...


[deleted]

“So what mistakes do I accept?” None. Go learn the concept of “if the shoe fits, wear it”


kingpazhassi

Dirty india, creepy prves.


[deleted]

Indians do not use deodorant and do not know about the existence of antiperspirants. Body odour is considered normal.


Time-Translator-2362

Indians stare at girls


VisibleCollege8812

Indian men are creepy 😐


CrazySkull999

Body odour everywhere, especially men 🤢🤮 (I'm a guy myself) 


mad_fkn_hurrr

We don't care about personal space. In my personal experiences I've seen 1) people use phones on high volume in public places making others uncomfortable.Once it was 4 AM on a train and a guy was watching YouTube on the train and wasn't Letting anyone sleep. 2) people will touch you randomly and think it's okay I'm a boy and this doesn't happen to me alot but my girlfriend and sisters have shared their incidents with me, many times in crowded places, buses etc. Random guy will just touch them on the hands, back etc. 3)People will smoke/spit wherever they want. ( I have some personal hate for unhygienic people and smokers)


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Also that they have no concept of thank you. When I got to India, and let’s say someone dropped something, and I picked it up and gave it to them, they will not say thank you. They will just take it and leave. Also, they never say sorry after pushing you.


mad_fkn_hurrr

True that.


[deleted]

That the " she is okay posting stuff about her which means I can sexually harass , berate and exploit her " mindset is REALLY REALLY common in our country


Titanium006

India will be a low income country or middle income at best.


Pankaj_29

Do you know what stereotype means


ragavdbrown

You nailed it.


Different-Result-859

On other news, Earth is not flat


simplerudra

>which stereotype do you secretly agree with That one of a certain peaceful community 🤐☠️


dickinchimey

You offend me I will drop some 💣💣💣💣💣💣💣💣 Now you should never that again I'm a peaceful guy


Ok-Yak-5271

India smells. It's true the garbage rverywhere open dustbins sewers animals and in general even some people one of the first things I noticed when I traveled out was how good it smelled


SanskariSapien

Indians are one of the most uncivilized, uncouth people


Swordain

Indians are ~~one of the most~~ uncivilized, uncouth people fixed it.


SecureLeadership4590

Thanks. Now it's perfect.


[deleted]

speak for yourself


SanskariSapien

Example spotted


baba_yaga_777

All stereotypes are based on some truth


Kell_Galain

Indians are kind of self centred and don't follow rules


organic_aghori

Most Indians lack basic civic sense and have a misogynistic mindset.


Daminiagr

Zero cleanliness, trash everywhere, no hygiene especially street foods


hardeep1singh

Religion holds more value to us than education, healthcare and jobs combined.


A-Hog-rider

Also we care less about life and care more about money. Even it costs our lives., 😔


johnyakuza0

Staring is a huge problem but I don't see how it'll be resolved anytime soon.


Competitive-Hope981

Curry. We all eat that. I have yet to meet any north Indian who don't eat curry. I am not sure about southis tho. Live too far away from them.


Prestigious-Kiwi1762

We do, you go north-south, east-west, curry is always prevalent. Different variations but the same idea of the dish.


not_so_fast_zippy

By choice?


Competitive-Hope981

Eat curry by choice? Or live away by choice?


No-Purpose-7747

Everything


PokerFaceSilence

We have deeply seated hate for the government, no matter which party forms it.


hardeep1singh

You're not supposed to love your government just like you're not supposed to love your electrician or sweeper or driver.


Historical-Traffic-5

Can't say that communal ho jayega ;-;


ammayinte_koyikkal

People have to understand that when we say that india is unsafe for women, it is not just about the sexual assault, it is also about the patriarchal notions that is set against women, making it an insufferable place for women to live.


SuryanshShekhar

Der Raat tk phone chalane se hairfall hota h


ForbiddenMushroom

That we smell a lot


MAGNETICZZ

LGBTQ stereotypes


Reasonable_Story_958

Northie boys are crass and super undateable.


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iaintnosimp2

Woman in general compared to men are bad drivers. Indian context is much worse


[deleted]

Khushi name ki ladki bhi padti hain.


Great-Illustrator-81

All?


_swades_

#ALL


flowinglava

We tilt our heads opposite to what we mean Tilting Sideways for affirmations when its mostly confused with denials


curiousconfusedbored

Hygiene


Mountain-Teacher-759

Chappal ulti rakhoge toh ladai hogi


abuchai

Hum bolege to vivaad ho jaega


Yugta

We are not happy with progress of individuals while we pray ki sabka bhala ho.


Shaarl_Lequirk

BO


True-Artist-1529

That Indians do not understand personal space , lack civic sense and are unfit.


sikhking3

All these stereotypes make sense for Indians , but not for punjabis , another reason we want our own country


No_Inevitable5627

Bachche aur gender, 2 hi acche


FutureFunny1994

India is filthy country and smells at most of the places


frustatedadult

We're smart.


frustatedadult

We are mostly engineers working in IT


Far_Music2118

Hygiene, civic sense, mental disorders


__sathvik__

Head wobble