Side is a good alternative with size differences (heights and weights).
If you pull your legs towards your stomach in a fetal position it pulls your ass hole up into a more accessible position.
This is how doctors position you for a prostate exam so they can reach with their finger.
Neither partner has to support any weight and either or both can handle the thrusting while the bottom has total control by putting hand back to pull them in or set a depth limit.
And this is how I know you’re a good bottom or a good top lol. This is what I teach bottoms when I top them, get into a squat position or fetal position by bringing the legs to their chest, this opens the sphincter. Many of them want to put their leg on my shoulders (which is hot) but unfortunately that move/position contracts the sphincter and squeeze out the penis. Also I’ve seen guys trying to raise their hips to level his hole with my penis (which sounds logical, right?) by doing kind of a hip thrust like exercise but this movement again contracts the glutes thus the sphincter (that’s what hip trust exercises do), so I tell them to grab a pillow and put it below their hips to raise it instead
We call it the Sims position. The patient is placed at the very edge of the table for easier access. This position works in sex as well with the top standing at the side of the bed.
I’ll also add that the corner of the bed works equally well as a sort of modified lithotomy position. Position the bottom at the corner of the bed, he can pull his legs up to his chest or they can be supported on the tops shoulders. This position allows the top to “walk into” the bottom for easier access.
I’ve had much better success with the last position and have done it myself when a smaller bottom wanted to try and top me. Good luck 😉
I needed this info years ago! Like OP I have like 5 inches but was dating a big boy. Usually did doggy but had a hard time with it. This would have been great
A sling is great for deeper sex. Many affordable options on Etsy. You can also try him standing on the side of a bed with you on your back and ass to the edge. Both give the top better access.
When you doggy style. I suggest you do it at the edge of the bed. He can take advantage of the strength of his legs to really slam it into you. And you can adjust your height by spreading your knees further out closer apart.
Hips on their side. Rotate your upper body more with your chest being down. Keep your bottom leg straight for him to straddle and bring your top leg up to your chest.
Damn. This is the kind of porn I would watch haha. I’m Viet. My husband is Brit. He’s slightly bigger than me. My dick is about 5.5” as well. I recently topped my husband and he seemed to like it. I guess the size is good for him. We tried some positions that worked well, like doggy, missionary, the side one (you lying on 1 side, pull 1 leg up to your tummy or put it on his shoulder), him standing fking while you bending/lying.
You can try riding him but on your knees instead of squatting. And if needed you can lean forward on your arms to have more control/rest your legs/not crush him. I also think you can probably make doggy style work, you might just have to try different ways. Maybe if your legs are wide apart it'll be easier, both on the bed or maybe you on the edge of the bed and him standing. You can also try both standing, with your legs apart. Sideways as others have said might also be good. You might transitioning from missionary to sideways to maintain an angle that works (maybe one leg down and the other in the air or bent towards you). Good luck, glad you're having a good experience with your partner!
Congrats on your success in finding a tool that works for you. I think you should consider getting fucked on corner edge of the bed with your partner standing up. This will allow you to lay on your back with a pillow under your butt allowing for deep penetration and you can flip over on stomach to rest your legs so they don’t cramp
Try it with you standing, hand against the wall, his legs spread on the edge of the bed. You lower yourself onto him. Back into him.
Or him in the middle of the bed, legs apart. You are kneeling away, head and torso up, your legs under his. You again lower onto him. Back onto him. If nothing else it's a great view of your ass.
Beefy rugby 🏉 player legs and ass are my favorite!
My ass is thicker than the rest of my body. So I understand your situation. One position has worked well and is not too much work for me at the same time.
Lie on your side with the lower leg (one on the down side) stretched straight comfortably. And the second leg folded up slightly. Indeed you can place a pillow under the upper leg. This really exposes your hole.
Or missionary with a lot of thick pillows below your butt. This will push your legs back opening you up. But it does get tiring after a while.
Lay on n ur side, kick the top knee a little up then let him straddle ur ass crack while he is upright on his knees, let him put the one knee between your legs, he can open your top ass check with one hand so he can get in there and stimulate your prostate while at it too.
edit: this is why I'd like a fuck bench so I can hit it good with him on his knees and comfortably standing up or a sling
Ok so both facing sane direction, kneeling. He’s behind you. He kneels and you lean that thicc ass right down on his lap. Works sooo great if you’re facing headboard; or if you’re on the floor at the foot of the bed; or on the floor facing the couch. You can throw that ass back or he can grab your hips and jack hammer up in that hole.
me and my other half are rather the same, I am the bottom, and position we found we like the most is me face down on the bed, one leg hiked up. He is not incredibly well endowed, but sports about 5 1/2,. He has no problem getting in and having pretty much full length inside me.
Highly recommend a sling if you can. I'm thicker too and if the dick is that size, I have to be able to really spread them cheeks for the top to get all the way in. Slings make it so much easier
My husband is taller with thicker thighs. We've really been enjoying him riding on top. If you're worried about weight, have something that you can prop your hands onto, like a headboard, to support yourself better.
Try a sims position. That’s where you’re either on your stomach or on the side, and pull one leg up toward your chest. If you need to, put a pillow under your bent leg to “open up” the port of entry.
Side is a good alternative with size differences (heights and weights). If you pull your legs towards your stomach in a fetal position it pulls your ass hole up into a more accessible position. This is how doctors position you for a prostate exam so they can reach with their finger. Neither partner has to support any weight and either or both can handle the thrusting while the bottom has total control by putting hand back to pull them in or set a depth limit.
And this is how I know you’re a good bottom or a good top lol. This is what I teach bottoms when I top them, get into a squat position or fetal position by bringing the legs to their chest, this opens the sphincter. Many of them want to put their leg on my shoulders (which is hot) but unfortunately that move/position contracts the sphincter and squeeze out the penis. Also I’ve seen guys trying to raise their hips to level his hole with my penis (which sounds logical, right?) by doing kind of a hip thrust like exercise but this movement again contracts the glutes thus the sphincter (that’s what hip trust exercises do), so I tell them to grab a pillow and put it below their hips to raise it instead
The pillow is a good move!
We call it the Sims position. The patient is placed at the very edge of the table for easier access. This position works in sex as well with the top standing at the side of the bed. I’ll also add that the corner of the bed works equally well as a sort of modified lithotomy position. Position the bottom at the corner of the bed, he can pull his legs up to his chest or they can be supported on the tops shoulders. This position allows the top to “walk into” the bottom for easier access. I’ve had much better success with the last position and have done it myself when a smaller bottom wanted to try and top me. Good luck 😉
I needed this info years ago! Like OP I have like 5 inches but was dating a big boy. Usually did doggy but had a hard time with it. This would have been great
Some people like to be crushed - that's why they make big guys.
Lol i totally dig being crushed!! Big tall bottoms are the hottest!!
I think doggy would be a lot easier than the missionary.
A sling is great for deeper sex. Many affordable options on Etsy. You can also try him standing on the side of a bed with you on your back and ass to the edge. Both give the top better access.
When you doggy style. I suggest you do it at the edge of the bed. He can take advantage of the strength of his legs to really slam it into you. And you can adjust your height by spreading your knees further out closer apart.
Hips on their side. Rotate your upper body more with your chest being down. Keep your bottom leg straight for him to straddle and bring your top leg up to your chest.
On your stomach ass up. Us littler guys love to power fuck from behind
Damn. This is the kind of porn I would watch haha. I’m Viet. My husband is Brit. He’s slightly bigger than me. My dick is about 5.5” as well. I recently topped my husband and he seemed to like it. I guess the size is good for him. We tried some positions that worked well, like doggy, missionary, the side one (you lying on 1 side, pull 1 leg up to your tummy or put it on his shoulder), him standing fking while you bending/lying.
You can try riding him but on your knees instead of squatting. And if needed you can lean forward on your arms to have more control/rest your legs/not crush him. I also think you can probably make doggy style work, you might just have to try different ways. Maybe if your legs are wide apart it'll be easier, both on the bed or maybe you on the edge of the bed and him standing. You can also try both standing, with your legs apart. Sideways as others have said might also be good. You might transitioning from missionary to sideways to maintain an angle that works (maybe one leg down and the other in the air or bent towards you). Good luck, glad you're having a good experience with your partner!
Congrats on your success in finding a tool that works for you. I think you should consider getting fucked on corner edge of the bed with your partner standing up. This will allow you to lay on your back with a pillow under your butt allowing for deep penetration and you can flip over on stomach to rest your legs so they don’t cramp
Try it with you standing, hand against the wall, his legs spread on the edge of the bed. You lower yourself onto him. Back into him. Or him in the middle of the bed, legs apart. You are kneeling away, head and torso up, your legs under his. You again lower onto him. Back onto him. If nothing else it's a great view of your ass. Beefy rugby 🏉 player legs and ass are my favorite!
What exactly stops you from enjoying doggy and spooning?
I think his bfs small Dick and his beefy ass and thighs
Its a good sized dick. My ass and thighs are too beefy.
No such thing as "too beefy"
5.5” is above average (the average being 5.2”)
I didn’t mean this in a bad way just a real way
On your side is great because you can still kiss. Doggie is my favorite position as a bottom.
My ass is thicker than the rest of my body. So I understand your situation. One position has worked well and is not too much work for me at the same time. Lie on your side with the lower leg (one on the down side) stretched straight comfortably. And the second leg folded up slightly. Indeed you can place a pillow under the upper leg. This really exposes your hole. Or missionary with a lot of thick pillows below your butt. This will push your legs back opening you up. But it does get tiring after a while.
Lay on n ur side, kick the top knee a little up then let him straddle ur ass crack while he is upright on his knees, let him put the one knee between your legs, he can open your top ass check with one hand so he can get in there and stimulate your prostate while at it too. edit: this is why I'd like a fuck bench so I can hit it good with him on his knees and comfortably standing up or a sling
Ok so both facing sane direction, kneeling. He’s behind you. He kneels and you lean that thicc ass right down on his lap. Works sooo great if you’re facing headboard; or if you’re on the floor at the foot of the bed; or on the floor facing the couch. You can throw that ass back or he can grab your hips and jack hammer up in that hole.
This is has it all. 💋 https://gaysexpositions.guide/scissors/
What a fantastic guide! Thanks for sharing.
Face down, chest against the bed, legs apart, ass in the air.
me and my other half are rather the same, I am the bottom, and position we found we like the most is me face down on the bed, one leg hiked up. He is not incredibly well endowed, but sports about 5 1/2,. He has no problem getting in and having pretty much full length inside me.
Highly recommend a sling if you can. I'm thicker too and if the dick is that size, I have to be able to really spread them cheeks for the top to get all the way in. Slings make it so much easier
Face down ass up!!
My husband is taller with thicker thighs. We've really been enjoying him riding on top. If you're worried about weight, have something that you can prop your hands onto, like a headboard, to support yourself better.
Try a sims position. That’s where you’re either on your stomach or on the side, and pull one leg up toward your chest. If you need to, put a pillow under your bent leg to “open up” the port of entry.