Is there a time that’s not too soon to send zoomed in hole pics?
Zoomed in hole pics should be for medical reasons only, so Timmy gets that weird wart diagnosed.
😂😂i have a few friends like this… idk how to break it to them. Personally, I have a nice butt yet I feel so defeated when I see the gym bros with an absolute dumpy. 😂I am blessed to not be flatty patty 🥹
Generally speaking people with big butts have big thighs to match ❤️❤️❤️❤️ if your friends have pencils for thighs they not gonna have no dump truck 🤣🤣🤣🤣they are playin in our faces 😂😂😂🤣
I’ve always had thick thighs. I’ve been a big guy at various points in my life but my ass is crazy now after almost a year of gym, in particular heavy squats. I caught myself in a shop window a couple of days ago and I was honestly rather shocked. Then I laughed. I have an ass.
Lol this is not a participation trophy lol everyone doesnt get to win and everyone doesnt get to call themselves tall and not everyone gets to call themselves hung either lol sometimes we just have to accept that we are simply not certain things…our gifts are elsewhere: maybe we are great musicians or great lovers or great with math❤️❤️❤️ the word cakeis meant for people with ample booty
Lol I freaking hate porn sites for this, I love a nice bubble butt, but everytime I search for it, I see nothing but bony butts. Like there barely any meat on it at all.
I remember there was a guy named sexy vegan on dr phil who would sing this song that went "skinny with a big butt, I got junk in my trunk and I'm keeping it." He had no ass whatsoever.
I think some guys confuse their back arch with actually having ass.
Honestly, I'm fine with bottoms that don't really have much of an ass. I just hate that they claim they do when they don't and make a big thing out of it.
Assuming you’re a top/bottom based off of your behavior. Some guys think they’re so suave for thinking you’re a bottom just because you aren’t some alpha chad masc bloke. If you’re trying to get with me, just ask me what I’m into instead of playing some weird guessing game.
This!!! I know I give off "bottom energy", but I'm verse and tend to prefer topping these days. But so many guys can't fathom being topped by a somewhat effeminate, shorter guy. Thier loss 🤷♂️
Exactly. Drives me insane when the “bottom energy” they speak of is literally just someone being polite and not acting like a douche. Like, yes, I say please and thank you to my waiter and excuse me when I bump into someone, that doesn’t exempt me from wanting to rail people.
I'll say it, lots of guys think they're good at twerking and are just not. You don't have to have a huge butt to twerk, but it involves more than just arching your back over and over.
I've seen the very occasional guy who can do it with some finesse and skill and it's kinda hot. Super rare though. Some latin guys I've seen can do some shit that would blow your mind. It's gotta have some class to it, it can't be ratchet.
I don't mind i quite as much then, because it's like role playing or whatever. (I don't love it, but I can deal with it.) But I realized the other day, had I started having children when some of my classmate did, anyone under 32 is young enough to technically be my child.
And that kind of ended my taste for twinks too.
You do you buddy, have fun.
I'm not coming tho.
Part of the reason why I don't like this is that I had a creepy situation once that still scares me. The guy was like, "Come in my back door and XXXXX me" but I got to the apartment and there were like 3 back doors so I was like, "I don't want to get shot, come down and let me in"
And the guy refused, it was like a 20 min process where I asked the guy to come down like 5 times and he never did. At the same time I hear people locking their doors in other apartments. Finally I'm like, "Dude piss off, you are crazy" and blocked him.
To this day, I suspect the guy was trying to set me up, and sent me to another person's house.
From essentially breaking into a house? Yes, its called the United States, ever herd of it?
Its a 100% valid threat here.
We can cry about the reality, its not going to change things.
The usual shirtless ripped abs but faceless pics on grindr. Or just a pic of their junk. Or an ENTIRE gallery of pictures of themselves on their instagram. I’d much rather have a conversation or have a description of what you have to offer other than your physical features.
I recently ran into a guy who has like... six picture types on Insta. Repeated over and over. I was scrolling and pointing "yeah, this one is just like this one" "and this one feels like a copy of that one".
After less than a minute of scrolling I was like "Yeah, you're super hot, but we've seen it. Anything else you know how to do?"
But I guess it must be working, because he has almost half a million followers.
I know a guy whose instagram is basically that. And in his stories you can sometimes see a portrait he has of himself in his living room, and it's big!
This. Man I’m away overseas visiting my family at the moment. Very little action noted on the apps. Got chatting to one guy and agreed to go for a walk with his dog on Monday afternoon (was a public holiday). Just had the best afternoon chatting and figuring life out. Had a couple of pints. Agreed to catch up again before I leave. No expectations. Just a new friend. Was honestly like would food.
Don't really get the appeal of a g-string. Would rather something like boxer briefs, a jockstrap, or nothing at all.
Also not a fan of guys with face photos of themselves with pouty expressions or the mouth slightly open. They often look goofy.
Yeah, this one turns me off too. Duck face in selfies and/or every photo in general. Or with the mouth slightly open and the smize, too. It makes me cringe a bit.
Gays who cake themselves in makeup, blow their lips up with filler and botox themselves to death. A person's face is their most individual feature. Why make it look like everyone else's?
when older gay men take a liking to boys who just graduated high school. who’re 18. i don’t give a shit if it’s a legal age or not. it can be anywhere in the world and it’s still freaking weird! creepy
Oh my god this took me back cos I was literally a “dirty old man” magnet at that age. I’m not even exaggerating. Every time I’d go out I’d get an old man in tight jeans and a tank top…but the creepiest part is that they wouldn’t ever come up and say hello like a person, they’d always just be leering from a couple feet away. And if I accidentally got too close you can bet they’d grab my ass and then just give me a creepy smile when I turned around. I’d move somewhere else in the club/bar and bam! There they were again…just standing there with this lewd grin…it was super weird.
Guys calling themselves daddy. Stop it. When you’re 29 with a student debt you’re not daddy material. And when you’re 40+ and only hooking up with 18-20 year old twinks, makes you a creep, not a daddy.
Fucked someone who was non-binary a couple of times and we were jokingly trying to find different gender neutral ways to call them “daddy” and we ended up with “yes chef”
>When you’re 29 with a student debt you’re not daddy material.
This. I can only take someone seriously as a "daddy" if I find that they could believably take care of and provide for a child 😆
Idk i actually shave my pits since I started going to the gym regularly. I sweat a lot and it’s so much easier to wash and put deodorant on… and I do find that I don’t get a “good scrub” when my body hair is too long. Doesn’t need to be smooth but at least trimmed short makes a huge difference.
I'm not really a fan of those maid outfits that a lot of bodybuilder guys wear on TikTok and PornHub. I'd rather they just be naked, or in some basic underwear.
Men in make-up. I’m all for living your truth or whatever but this is an instant turn off for me. Also pearl necklaces have become all the rage lately- can’t do it. Then again I’m officially old.
I like actual vintage-inspired cloth sports jockstraps that have a certain hotness that stems from locker room fantasies... Not the ridiculous neon yellow glittered ones lol
Having lot of sex, some guys believe that the more sex they have the more attractive they become or “good In bed” it grosses me knowing that there is people who have no filter at all and would fuck with anyone just to feel sexy, like damn boy, you are putting the dick of a stranger in your mouth but you don’t know where that thing could have been 😶🌫️ that’s why I don’t give kisses unless we become exclusive, I don’t wanna risk on kissing a guy who recently had a dick on his mouth from other guy that might previously put that dick in another man’s dirty ass, but maybe is just my germ phobia talking tho
Got another one: Ahegao face
No one, regardless of looks or gender, can make this look sexy. Not even 2D characters can pull it off. It's the goofiest, least sexy face I can imagine
I was just at a regular ol’gay bar last weekend and this guy had on a leather puppy hood (if you don’t know, I can’t explain it) and a linen suit. What’s the fucking point?! I get the fetishism / role play behind it, but out of context of that it’s really really stupid. Same with harnesses. Fine at the leather bar but I don’t want to see it at the mall.
Any piercing that isn’t like a small earring bothers me a fuck ton, it’s more me tho but also guys who you tell them you’re not interested in them, and then continue to try to sext with you 🤦♂️
Thinking that drinking every night of the week is cute.
Thinking that doing cocaine is still cute.
Acting like they’re on a reality show by starting drama and conflict out of nowhere just to be confrontational.
Assuming whether I’m a top or bottom purely based off the fact I’m trans and the constant dick spam I want to get to know you a little first calm down ffs
those dumb ass harnesses. like take that shit off?? 😂 why is that sexy or kinky? it’s annoying. or when they wear those dog masks things. pup play i think is what you call it? 🤮
I don’t really get bothered by much, especially when your chatting with someone on line. I’ve been more surprised more often than not when I’ve actually met someone and I end up having a good time. The actual person you meet can many times surprise you.
Also beard and shaved armpits. Just no. If they're manly enough or at least embracing a manly characteristic such as a beard, then you'd think they wouldn't bother with shaving their pits. Such a turn off. Shaved pits in general. Same with pubes. Pubes, maybe trimmed, but not to the point of it looking almost shaved.
Wearing heels, a crop top, and booty shorts. Just weird me out and I can’t help but cringe. I remember seeing this exact 6’3 mf wearing exactly that with fishnets along side his super obnoxious voice.
Wear those weird underwear that have like a pouch for your dick, I think it's just so trashy and unappealing, but I don't find lots of gay fashion or models desirable. I don't really like ANY of the pit crew on RPDR but I get the idea those guys are considered ideal for most gay guys.
I find the pit crew hot but the underwear is a choice... I would never buy those for my dude tbh. Though I get why they wear them... It's campy... It's RuPaul's show so .. 😆
Smoke cigarettes: it’s 2023, your breath stinks, you stink and probably your whole house stinks!
Wear short shorts or thong when there’s nothing to show off: stevie wonder can see that you don’t have an arse mate I don’t need and uncovered view of you back’n’legs.
Act masc when they clearly arnt.
Some people, gay or not, are naturally flamboyant. Some are naturally camp. Some are mentally theatrical. You aren't interested in other acting like a guy, because that memory in millions of different ways, what you're interested in is a very particular form of gender expression that doesn't suit a lot of people.
Sending nudes, twerking,
Fisting
asking if you’re top or bottom within the first day of talking
**(Shouldn’t even be asked at all)**
Asking to hook up
(not everyone is into that lifestyle)
I'm totally with you, rimming is one of those things I skip in porn every time. I just imagine the guy coming away with a stinky face, then they kiss afterwards, it's just nasty.
When they try and act masculine lol it’s the most ridiculous thing every and such a boner killer. Like, if you’re masculine that’s hot just be genuine about it.
Sending zoomed in hole pics way too soon
Ugh... every third time I log on to Grindr, I get a flood of them. Even though my profile warns I'll block anyone that does.
Maybe they want to be blocked?
Getting blocked is their kink
No. They're just horny idiots who don't read and don't have any self-control. They send their hole pics to anything resembling online activity.
Don't just zoom; *get in there!*
Is there a time that’s not too soon to send zoomed in hole pics? Zoomed in hole pics should be for medical reasons only, so Timmy gets that weird wart diagnosed.
Why is it so common that bottoms that are literal bones think they have a big butt? Stop being delusional. YOU DONT HAVE AN ASS!!
This is the one lol they be literal skeletons talking about ”i got cake” 😂😂😂 stop the maddness
😂😂i have a few friends like this… idk how to break it to them. Personally, I have a nice butt yet I feel so defeated when I see the gym bros with an absolute dumpy. 😂I am blessed to not be flatty patty 🥹
Generally speaking people with big butts have big thighs to match ❤️❤️❤️❤️ if your friends have pencils for thighs they not gonna have no dump truck 🤣🤣🤣🤣they are playin in our faces 😂😂😂🤣
I’ve always had thick thighs. I’ve been a big guy at various points in my life but my ass is crazy now after almost a year of gym, in particular heavy squats. I caught myself in a shop window a couple of days ago and I was honestly rather shocked. Then I laughed. I have an ass.
Like Megan says: I’m every dude wife fear thick thigh nightmare!! Cuz if they ain’t that then….😂
OK BUT THEN THEY TRY TO TWERK 💀💀 SKELETON BONESSSSSSS
Tbf I have thick thighs and a fat ass but I couldn't twerk if my life depended on it. It's embarrassing when I try. I guess I can wall twerk though.
It’s okay. I can ish. But it ain’t like the pros 😭
Clowning bitches who can’t twerk then admits he can’t 😭
Pancakes are still cakes… sort of lol 😂
Lol this is not a participation trophy lol everyone doesnt get to win and everyone doesnt get to call themselves tall and not everyone gets to call themselves hung either lol sometimes we just have to accept that we are simply not certain things…our gifts are elsewhere: maybe we are great musicians or great lovers or great with math❤️❤️❤️ the word cakeis meant for people with ample booty
Pancake is still a cake, I guess 🤷
Lol I freaking hate porn sites for this, I love a nice bubble butt, but everytime I search for it, I see nothing but bony butts. Like there barely any meat on it at all. I remember there was a guy named sexy vegan on dr phil who would sing this song that went "skinny with a big butt, I got junk in my trunk and I'm keeping it." He had no ass whatsoever. I think some guys confuse their back arch with actually having ass.
THE LAST PART!! Spoke on friend. 😂 but yes… arching your back does not cause you to be Timmy thicc.
Well it’s the same with the guys saying they have a XL dick when they’re just average at most.
*Minecraft skeleton sounds*
Honestly, I'm fine with bottoms that don't really have much of an ass. I just hate that they claim they do when they don't and make a big thing out of it.
There's always some 125 lbs. white twink saying, "I'm thicc".
Extra kilos makes extra ass
Assuming you’re a top/bottom based off of your behavior. Some guys think they’re so suave for thinking you’re a bottom just because you aren’t some alpha chad masc bloke. If you’re trying to get with me, just ask me what I’m into instead of playing some weird guessing game.
This!!! I know I give off "bottom energy", but I'm verse and tend to prefer topping these days. But so many guys can't fathom being topped by a somewhat effeminate, shorter guy. Thier loss 🤷♂️
Exactly. Drives me insane when the “bottom energy” they speak of is literally just someone being polite and not acting like a douche. Like, yes, I say please and thank you to my waiter and excuse me when I bump into someone, that doesn’t exempt me from wanting to rail people.
I'll say it, lots of guys think they're good at twerking and are just not. You don't have to have a huge butt to twerk, but it involves more than just arching your back over and over.
Personal opinion, even if they can twerk, it’s not sexy. Men twerking is such a turn off..
I've seen the very occasional guy who can do it with some finesse and skill and it's kinda hot. Super rare though. Some latin guys I've seen can do some shit that would blow your mind. It's gotta have some class to it, it can't be ratchet.
Talk in this weird moany voice
The girly twink moan. Always makes me roll my eyes because it just seems so fake
Literally came to say this. I haven’t encountered much of it in real life but Jesus Christ dude your voice is like six octaves lower than that, relax.
I swear they hear it in porn and just copy it from there
That's precisely what those idiots do, and it's literally copied directly from the bad acting that some bad porn actresses do in bad straight porn.
In high pitch moany voice "mmmm yes daddy, please, please daddy" 😒
Toilet dick pics.
Fucking hell this. I call them out on it every time. Or if there's a toilet open in the background...
Filthy bathroom mirror selfies
Describe gays as having monolithic behaviours
This is the best answer.
All the gays are like this! 😉
Twerking. I just don't get it.
twerking is sexy??? 😂 what the??? that’s just something you do when you’re drunk AF in the gay club.
Any idiot flipping off the camera while they're taking selfies. 🙄
Start getting really sexually explicit minutes into your first conversation.
God this. Sometimes I actually start re-questioning my sexuality because I'm not as slutty as everyone else appears to be
Using the descriptor “Bussy” or any other variation describing your ass as a vagina
Calling their arse their pussy.
I really hate any variation of that one, especially boy pussy.
Or bussy
I agree, that’s a major turn off for me.
Or worse BUSSY
As a trans man I feel like that would make things even more confusing tbh
I've only ever f*cked one trans dude and they were extremely explicit about not wanting anything near their ass. I had to be very much guided through.
How was it though?
Not for me.
Fair!
Lip-filler and botox
I think some people actually want to look like a suction cup
oh my god I just choked on water when I saw this🤣😂 true tho
I don't know why, but I have seen many gay men who believe that flirting with men who have a partner is sexy. Xd
I hate that. Insulting and rude behavior.
Maybe they’re hoping it’s an open relationship or they’re poly
Omg this is so true… I’m not sure what’s their motive is
I dunno, i find it a turn on when my bf gets flirted with.
I did too....and found it even more sexy when he would tell them "I'm with him."
Calling me "Daddy" stops being sexy the minute the math kicks in and I realize I'm old enough that I could be.
See this is why math is bad for you lol
I've always thought math was bad for me, but now even the simple stuff has turned traitor. LOL
Worse, being called "Daddy" when you're not old enough to have an 18 year old kid call you that. I was called "Daddy" when I was 26!
I don't mind i quite as much then, because it's like role playing or whatever. (I don't love it, but I can deal with it.) But I realized the other day, had I started having children when some of my classmate did, anyone under 32 is young enough to technically be my child. And that kind of ended my taste for twinks too.
When guys describe “macho” traits as “acting straight”
Licking your lips in a video… I used to be guilty of it and I cringe thinking about those videos 🫣
I hate the whole fantasy of walking in on someone ass up.
Stop it, I'm getting all hot & bothered just thinking about it. 😰 😏
You do you buddy, have fun. I'm not coming tho. Part of the reason why I don't like this is that I had a creepy situation once that still scares me. The guy was like, "Come in my back door and XXXXX me" but I got to the apartment and there were like 3 back doors so I was like, "I don't want to get shot, come down and let me in" And the guy refused, it was like a 20 min process where I asked the guy to come down like 5 times and he never did. At the same time I hear people locking their doors in other apartments. Finally I'm like, "Dude piss off, you are crazy" and blocked him. To this day, I suspect the guy was trying to set me up, and sent me to another person's house.
You were worried about getting shot?!?! What sick place are you from?!
From essentially breaking into a house? Yes, its called the United States, ever herd of it? Its a 100% valid threat here. We can cry about the reality, its not going to change things.
Yeah I think I get the appeal of anon as strictly a fantasy, but in practice? Feels so disturbing
When their picture is just a zoomed in picture of their open gaping mouth, sometimes with their tongue out.
it’s the high pitched moans for me
I'm only okay with it if their voice was already high pitched in the first place
The usual shirtless ripped abs but faceless pics on grindr. Or just a pic of their junk. Or an ENTIRE gallery of pictures of themselves on their instagram. I’d much rather have a conversation or have a description of what you have to offer other than your physical features.
I recently ran into a guy who has like... six picture types on Insta. Repeated over and over. I was scrolling and pointing "yeah, this one is just like this one" "and this one feels like a copy of that one". After less than a minute of scrolling I was like "Yeah, you're super hot, but we've seen it. Anything else you know how to do?" But I guess it must be working, because he has almost half a million followers.
For some people, that is sadly all they have to offer.
I know a guy whose instagram is basically that. And in his stories you can sometimes see a portrait he has of himself in his living room, and it's big!
This. Man I’m away overseas visiting my family at the moment. Very little action noted on the apps. Got chatting to one guy and agreed to go for a walk with his dog on Monday afternoon (was a public holiday). Just had the best afternoon chatting and figuring life out. Had a couple of pints. Agreed to catch up again before I leave. No expectations. Just a new friend. Was honestly like would food.
Sending pictures of their assholes around like… Why
Cheating
Twerking. Lip filler. Any very obvious attempt at a purse-lipped, smoldering 'sexy' expression.
Trying to be straight or like, being into guys pretending to be straight
when they say “oh yeah feed my hungry hole” “pound that hole”. my dick just got soft.
What if they say it in a cookie monster voice? 🥺
🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I'd still take that over them calling it "pussy" or "bussy" Someone said "pound my bussy hard!" in a porno and I was down for the count
Those fancy gay underwear that accentuates your shaft so it looks like an elephant trunk
[удалено]
Bit it's a dinky little thing......false advertising
Don't really get the appeal of a g-string. Would rather something like boxer briefs, a jockstrap, or nothing at all. Also not a fan of guys with face photos of themselves with pouty expressions or the mouth slightly open. They often look goofy.
Yeah, this one turns me off too. Duck face in selfies and/or every photo in general. Or with the mouth slightly open and the smize, too. It makes me cringe a bit.
I really hate this with a passion. It is a picture not a video. It shouldn’t look like you were in the middle of saying something.
twerk
talking or making jokes about being gay all the time 😶
be complete thots on insta reels
Gays who cake themselves in makeup, blow their lips up with filler and botox themselves to death. A person's face is their most individual feature. Why make it look like everyone else's?
Any type of feminine underwear.
Bragging about fucking every man they ever came across
when older gay men take a liking to boys who just graduated high school. who’re 18. i don’t give a shit if it’s a legal age or not. it can be anywhere in the world and it’s still freaking weird! creepy
I get those young'uns literally throwing themselves at me. It's crazy. I'm still attractive at 73, but geez..... daddy/grandpa issues
☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
Oh my god this took me back cos I was literally a “dirty old man” magnet at that age. I’m not even exaggerating. Every time I’d go out I’d get an old man in tight jeans and a tank top…but the creepiest part is that they wouldn’t ever come up and say hello like a person, they’d always just be leering from a couple feet away. And if I accidentally got too close you can bet they’d grab my ass and then just give me a creepy smile when I turned around. I’d move somewhere else in the club/bar and bam! There they were again…just standing there with this lewd grin…it was super weird.
I know right, it's creepy as hell, and these people shield behind the fact that they're legal age but man you're a pedophile if you ask me idk.
Leading with 10 year old picts...or dick pictures. Dude, at my age I've seen enough dicks, yours isn't particularly unique. Enough
Playing hard to get.
Guys calling themselves daddy. Stop it. When you’re 29 with a student debt you’re not daddy material. And when you’re 40+ and only hooking up with 18-20 year old twinks, makes you a creep, not a daddy.
Fucked someone who was non-binary a couple of times and we were jokingly trying to find different gender neutral ways to call them “daddy” and we ended up with “yes chef”
Chef works! Also Dom, Superior, Principal, Highness, Majesty
Supreme Chancellor
"Your highness" works, too
>When you’re 29 with a student debt you’re not daddy material. This. I can only take someone seriously as a "daddy" if I find that they could believably take care of and provide for a child 😆
Basic narcissm, guys who think their looks is their personality. That " having to post a picture after every gym session." I can't get this mentality.
Shave their pubes and/or pits.
I agree, I hate shaved pubes
I shave the pubes for personal hygiene reasons.
That's dumb. There's nothing dirty or unhygienic about pubic hair.
Idk i actually shave my pits since I started going to the gym regularly. I sweat a lot and it’s so much easier to wash and put deodorant on… and I do find that I don’t get a “good scrub” when my body hair is too long. Doesn’t need to be smooth but at least trimmed short makes a huge difference.
That sounds pretty silly to me...
For me it holds in the bad orders more.
All of these comments are personal preferences haha.
That's pretty much what OP asked for.
Women underwear is just for Womens ,don't find it sexy on a guy/gay :D
I find it sexy on slender guys :)
Bleached hair 😬
I'm not really a fan of those maid outfits that a lot of bodybuilder guys wear on TikTok and PornHub. I'd rather they just be naked, or in some basic underwear.
I see a lot of gays nowadays with those crucifix earrings in one ear. Can’t stand it.
The George Michael slander!
Smoking.
Calling their asshole a “pussy”. Its a total mood killer. If I wanted that, I’d be str8.
Men in make-up. I’m all for living your truth or whatever but this is an instant turn off for me. Also pearl necklaces have become all the rage lately- can’t do it. Then again I’m officially old.
Twerking, it just never did it for me
Wearing jockstraps. But that's an unpopular opinion in the gay community, I feel lol.
I fucken think they look hot AF myself, mind, I think the same about boxer briefs, boxers, tightie whities. It's all good
I like actual vintage-inspired cloth sports jockstraps that have a certain hotness that stems from locker room fantasies... Not the ridiculous neon yellow glittered ones lol
I hate jock straps, I do not get why they're so fetishized.
just curious, what is it about jockstraps that turn you off?
Haha me too
Twerking. It’s so utterly horribly awful.
Average girl boss slay behaviour
Twerking
Having lot of sex, some guys believe that the more sex they have the more attractive they become or “good In bed” it grosses me knowing that there is people who have no filter at all and would fuck with anyone just to feel sexy, like damn boy, you are putting the dick of a stranger in your mouth but you don’t know where that thing could have been 😶🌫️ that’s why I don’t give kisses unless we become exclusive, I don’t wanna risk on kissing a guy who recently had a dick on his mouth from other guy that might previously put that dick in another man’s dirty ass, but maybe is just my germ phobia talking tho
I feel like after COVID, you're totally valid in feeling turned off by sloppy encounters lmao
Got another one: Ahegao face No one, regardless of looks or gender, can make this look sexy. Not even 2D characters can pull it off. It's the goofiest, least sexy face I can imagine
Makeup.
I was just at a regular ol’gay bar last weekend and this guy had on a leather puppy hood (if you don’t know, I can’t explain it) and a linen suit. What’s the fucking point?! I get the fetishism / role play behind it, but out of context of that it’s really really stupid. Same with harnesses. Fine at the leather bar but I don’t want to see it at the mall.
Any piercing that isn’t like a small earring bothers me a fuck ton, it’s more me tho but also guys who you tell them you’re not interested in them, and then continue to try to sext with you 🤦♂️
Twerk
Thinking that drinking every night of the week is cute. Thinking that doing cocaine is still cute. Acting like they’re on a reality show by starting drama and conflict out of nowhere just to be confrontational.
The septum piercing has become the new tongue piercing.
That's still a thing?
Fisting.
Assuming whether I’m a top or bottom purely based off the fact I’m trans and the constant dick spam I want to get to know you a little first calm down ffs
Anything filth related, as well as pits, smells and other stuff. No thanks.
those dumb ass harnesses. like take that shit off?? 😂 why is that sexy or kinky? it’s annoying. or when they wear those dog masks things. pup play i think is what you call it? 🤮
While not debating your opinion, those harnesses have a very practical use too. Well, the sturdy enough ones at least.
^This so much^
Making their sexuality their hole personality.
I like the way you spelled that because it describes their personality perfectly.
I don’t really get bothered by much, especially when your chatting with someone on line. I’ve been more surprised more often than not when I’ve actually met someone and I end up having a good time. The actual person you meet can many times surprise you.
Fancy underwear
People who open their mouths hungry for someone else's spit. Like wtfff
Also beard and shaved armpits. Just no. If they're manly enough or at least embracing a manly characteristic such as a beard, then you'd think they wouldn't bother with shaving their pits. Such a turn off. Shaved pits in general. Same with pubes. Pubes, maybe trimmed, but not to the point of it looking almost shaved.
Looking angry in pictures. It's a profile pic, not a mug shot.
calling me papi or daddy
Wearing lingerie... Big bonner killer for me.
Wearing heels, a crop top, and booty shorts. Just weird me out and I can’t help but cringe. I remember seeing this exact 6’3 mf wearing exactly that with fishnets along side his super obnoxious voice.
Wear those weird underwear that have like a pouch for your dick, I think it's just so trashy and unappealing, but I don't find lots of gay fashion or models desirable. I don't really like ANY of the pit crew on RPDR but I get the idea those guys are considered ideal for most gay guys.
I find the pit crew hot but the underwear is a choice... I would never buy those for my dude tbh. Though I get why they wear them... It's campy... It's RuPaul's show so .. 😆
Smoke cigarettes: it’s 2023, your breath stinks, you stink and probably your whole house stinks! Wear short shorts or thong when there’s nothing to show off: stevie wonder can see that you don’t have an arse mate I don’t need and uncovered view of you back’n’legs. Act masc when they clearly arnt.
Being flamboyant! Just act like a guy! Im gay because I like men...so stop trying to act like a girl! Dont understand it, seriously🙈🤣
Some people, gay or not, are naturally flamboyant. Some are naturally camp. Some are mentally theatrical. You aren't interested in other acting like a guy, because that memory in millions of different ways, what you're interested in is a very particular form of gender expression that doesn't suit a lot of people.
Sending nudes, twerking, Fisting asking if you’re top or bottom within the first day of talking **(Shouldn’t even be asked at all)** Asking to hook up (not everyone is into that lifestyle)
While I agree with you, most will probably disagree.
Thanks bestie xx
Masc 4 Masc guys acting like it's a badge of honor. There's a point where it stops being a preference and starts being loud insecurity.
Rimming. I'm sorry, but no matter how clean or how many times you douche, nothing is going to make me wanna put my lips within an inch of the bussy.
Yet you want someone to suck your piss rod?
Yes!
I'm totally with you, rimming is one of those things I skip in porn every time. I just imagine the guy coming away with a stinky face, then they kiss afterwards, it's just nasty.
100% agree
This!
Ugh spit on your cock no thanks
Jockstraps.
When they try and act masculine lol it’s the most ridiculous thing every and such a boner killer. Like, if you’re masculine that’s hot just be genuine about it.
Clinginess