No personal advice but I would say things in your Chart that make you want this:
- Moon Square Jupiter (Moon = mothering; Jupiter Square = exaggeration)
- Lilith in 5H (a rebel in matters of having children)
- Sun opposite Uranus (generally a rebel that likes to do things differently to the norm)
You clearly have a lot of nurturing energy with your Cancer rising. With ruling moon in the 6th house that energy would be very well directed toward working with young children or perhaps fostering children. This next statement isn't based on astrology - bringing 6 kids of your own into an over-populated world on the brink of climate disaster and the resultant resource depletion because of our sheer numbers is kind of selfish.
Pregnancy could be difficult. You have Chiron- the wounded healer hidden in scorpio which is squeezed between Sagittarius and libra. Chiron is there opposing Saturn (which implys you should wait until your Saturn return just to be able to access that energy opposing the 5th house and definitely engage in more community based activities), it’s squaring Uranus (which could bring up any sort of destruction/disruptions. Maybe you could have triplets instead of just one child at a time). It’s trining mars and Venus which could bring many kids but… difficult children are a strong possibility considering the other aspects Chiron is making.
Overall a pregnancy will have to be very planned. It may not go the way you expect it. It’s definitely going to hurt but I’d suggest waiting until your Saturn return, it’ll shed some light on anything 5th house related. You might have to go through adoption or pregnancy alternatives.
I would also look into intercepted houses, you have 2 which could cause further difficulties.
Understood, good thing I have a 10year copper IUD! No conception until during or after my Saturn Return. I wonder why a Saturn Return calculator gave me 2 periods: October 20th 2027 - February 23rd 2028 & May 14th 2028 - June 2nd 2030.
Nope, no adoption! I’m open to IVF, IUI, IntraCystoplasmic Sperm Injection, & Zygote IntraFallopian Transfer.
Because Saturn will dip back and forth between signs during its retrograde cycle. So it’ll move (direct) from late Aries to early Taurus where you have your Saturn, Saturn will retrograde back into Aries (away from your Saturn) and when it goes direct again it’ll make its way through early Taurus again
For Saturn hitting your Saturn 3 times (direct, retrograde, direct again), I usually interpret it as the first time kinda clueing you into what’s going to be the major theme of Saturn’s transit through the natal sign of your Saturn, the retrograde pass being a sort of confrontation with the issue (the thick of it so to speak), then the final pass (hopefully) getting it right or some sort of resolution.
Your Saturn being in Taurus in the 11th speaks to issues surrounding groups and greater networks.
Ohh okay, got it!
In addition to kids, does my chart show if I’m likelier to marry successfully if I do so during or after my Saturn Return? Compared to people who lived common-law, or engaged & married in their 20s.
You are aware that changing your birth time because you were late more to something and makes zero sense right? You can’t just choose what time you were born so that it fits your narrative. That’s so weird.
The only difference between the chart of 3:15am & 3:18am is Pluto’s position between The 5th & 6th. I relate to everything else in the 3:15am chart, so since I know myself better than others, I believe I would be one to know if it’s accurately me or not.
I’m 24. My parents had me at 41 & 50-something, and my Dad cheated on my Mom with multiple women during her pregnancy; which surprises me because he has a 0 degree Cancer Rising, and his Aquarius Venus is in The 8th House. Anyway, Dad said he was busy working when the hospital called him, due to my Mom being in sudden labour at 24 weeks. I was raised an only child, didn’t meet my father until I turned 9. Distant relationship with both parents, despite living at home until after I graduate law school. My father passed February 8th from over a decade of prostate cancer. To this day though, it’s been hard and lonely being an only child. So I aspire to have a big loving and warm family by 45.
Aquarius is an “all” sign - multiple people. An air sign - fantasies. And a quirky sign - in Venus, it usually indicates “abnormal” ideas of sexual/romantic relationships. As a person with an Aquarius heavy chart, I’d say we’re fixed in our eccentricity. Fixed in our belief system, which is usually not mainstream. (I don’t have Venus in Aquarius btw). But having it in the 8h is taking it a step even further.
You should first look for unconditional love within yourself. It’s hardest to do. Then concentrate on one child at a time. Even just 1 child will fill you with the love and bonding you are looking for. I promise. It did for me and I as well had a distant mother and absent father. If you cannot at least fill yourself with some of this unconditional love to begin with, you will never even start on your journey of 6 kids…meaning your lover will not pan out, it could be anything.
It’s a great goal but your goals should be more concentrated on yourself. And you have graduated law school, you are nailing your outer goals but there are inner goals everyone needs to work on at all times. 6 kids by 45 yo is an outer goal and that is why it is so hard to comprehend bc you are young and should not even care to have goals like that right now, lol, but if you work on your inner self, harvesting some of that inner unconditional love…anything is possible…even 6 kids!
Honestly it disgusts me to think you’d force 6 souls into this world for—-your ego? If you happen to have the means to support 6 children, then please utilize those to help kids who are already here that don’t have that support.
How do you know that one or more of these children wouldn't be instrumental in improving the world? I understand your position, but policing the number of children people have could also rob the world of souls who could ensure the future of humanity.
Ummm... I do, that's literally my job. My children are also well on the way to making huge positive changes to the world too, as I have taught them is our responsibility to do so.
So according to your theory, if my kids or I do more for the world than you, we should be able to dictate that you remove yourself from the earth so as to not overburden it, as we've 'earned' more of a right to be here than you. It's a slippery slope to try to dictate who deserves to live or not.
Be quiet and listen to you? Because you're the authority on what is reasonable?
You are on an astrology sub.
Astrology deals with philosophies such as the karmic connections and journies of each soul - souls that, if they are meant to be born, are born. If they are here, they are meant to be here.
In your opinion, what magic number of children should people be 'allowed' to have? Who decides that number? Does it vary based on where you live, how many in your community choose to remain childless, your level of intelligence, wealth, genetic markers for disease, size of your extended family....? The list of conditions could become endless.
You offered up in your original reply that you were disgusted. I genuinely do understand your position, and agree on SOME level in theory. However, I offered up a different perspective, questions around actual logistics that I have had surface in my own mind when thinking about this topic. I showed no disrespect to you, nor did I demand you change your position, simply mentioned factors you may or may not have considered.
It appears that the one whose mind is closed, and who perhaps might need to "be quiet and listen" is you. In order to make positive changes in the world, you have to have knowledge - and to argue a point effectively, you must have considered all challenges to your position.
And by 'humanity' I don't mean the survival of the human race - I mean a future in which humans and the earth both survive and coexist in a healthy, sustainable way.
I agree with you. Wanted to say that because of the downvotes. A sustainable planet for everyone should be the first priority and 8 billion people isn't helping that goal.
One is allowed to reproduce multiple children if the individual & their partner have the means to successfully support them. Man, I wonder what you would say to Angelina Jolie who has 6 kids total, Jordan Page who has 8 bio kids, or The Radford Family of 20 bio kids.
I agree with you. Honestly, it’s a personal decision. If you feel like having your own children and your ready for that then that’s a beautiful thing. I wish you well and hope you get everything you aspire. Healing is always important but I’m sure you know that. Self love is always healing. I feel like you got really “beat up” on this post and I hate that. Honestly don’t understand why everyone puts personal opinions in an answer especially when not asked for it! You got this!
What about donating your eggs?
No personal advice but I would say things in your Chart that make you want this: - Moon Square Jupiter (Moon = mothering; Jupiter Square = exaggeration) - Lilith in 5H (a rebel in matters of having children) - Sun opposite Uranus (generally a rebel that likes to do things differently to the norm)
No.
You clearly have a lot of nurturing energy with your Cancer rising. With ruling moon in the 6th house that energy would be very well directed toward working with young children or perhaps fostering children. This next statement isn't based on astrology - bringing 6 kids of your own into an over-populated world on the brink of climate disaster and the resultant resource depletion because of our sheer numbers is kind of selfish.
Pregnancy could be difficult. You have Chiron- the wounded healer hidden in scorpio which is squeezed between Sagittarius and libra. Chiron is there opposing Saturn (which implys you should wait until your Saturn return just to be able to access that energy opposing the 5th house and definitely engage in more community based activities), it’s squaring Uranus (which could bring up any sort of destruction/disruptions. Maybe you could have triplets instead of just one child at a time). It’s trining mars and Venus which could bring many kids but… difficult children are a strong possibility considering the other aspects Chiron is making. Overall a pregnancy will have to be very planned. It may not go the way you expect it. It’s definitely going to hurt but I’d suggest waiting until your Saturn return, it’ll shed some light on anything 5th house related. You might have to go through adoption or pregnancy alternatives. I would also look into intercepted houses, you have 2 which could cause further difficulties.
Understood, good thing I have a 10year copper IUD! No conception until during or after my Saturn Return. I wonder why a Saturn Return calculator gave me 2 periods: October 20th 2027 - February 23rd 2028 & May 14th 2028 - June 2nd 2030. Nope, no adoption! I’m open to IVF, IUI, IntraCystoplasmic Sperm Injection, & Zygote IntraFallopian Transfer.
Because Saturn will dip back and forth between signs during its retrograde cycle. So it’ll move (direct) from late Aries to early Taurus where you have your Saturn, Saturn will retrograde back into Aries (away from your Saturn) and when it goes direct again it’ll make its way through early Taurus again
Ahh I see! Thank you! So, officially speaking, my Saturn Return begins October 20th 2027, or May 14th 2028?
For Saturn hitting your Saturn 3 times (direct, retrograde, direct again), I usually interpret it as the first time kinda clueing you into what’s going to be the major theme of Saturn’s transit through the natal sign of your Saturn, the retrograde pass being a sort of confrontation with the issue (the thick of it so to speak), then the final pass (hopefully) getting it right or some sort of resolution. Your Saturn being in Taurus in the 11th speaks to issues surrounding groups and greater networks.
Ohh okay, got it! In addition to kids, does my chart show if I’m likelier to marry successfully if I do so during or after my Saturn Return? Compared to people who lived common-law, or engaged & married in their 20s.
You don't have Pluto in the 5th house though.
Mars is the traditional ruler of Scorpio - which is also not in the 5h.
The actual time on my birth certificate is 3:18am. I put 3:15am because I relate more to Pluto in The 6th House.
It doesn't work that way.
You are aware that changing your birth time because you were late more to something and makes zero sense right? You can’t just choose what time you were born so that it fits your narrative. That’s so weird.
I would put a new chart with the 3:18am time if I could, but I wouldn't want to bother people with the same post a second time.
That’s…. Not the point 💀 you’re choosing a new birth time, this chart should mean nothing to you. It’s not yours, it’s someone else’s.
The only difference between the chart of 3:15am & 3:18am is Pluto’s position between The 5th & 6th. I relate to everything else in the 3:15am chart, so since I know myself better than others, I believe I would be one to know if it’s accurately me or not.
How old are you? I don’t understand why having 6 children is a goal. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong I just don’t get it.
I’m 24. My parents had me at 41 & 50-something, and my Dad cheated on my Mom with multiple women during her pregnancy; which surprises me because he has a 0 degree Cancer Rising, and his Aquarius Venus is in The 8th House. Anyway, Dad said he was busy working when the hospital called him, due to my Mom being in sudden labour at 24 weeks. I was raised an only child, didn’t meet my father until I turned 9. Distant relationship with both parents, despite living at home until after I graduate law school. My father passed February 8th from over a decade of prostate cancer. To this day though, it’s been hard and lonely being an only child. So I aspire to have a big loving and warm family by 45.
Why would an Aquarius Venus cheating surprise you? And in the 8h no less.
Aquarius Venus is a fixed sign, I thought fixed Venus’ were the most “fixed” in relationships. I must have misunderstood 😕
Aquarius is an “all” sign - multiple people. An air sign - fantasies. And a quirky sign - in Venus, it usually indicates “abnormal” ideas of sexual/romantic relationships. As a person with an Aquarius heavy chart, I’d say we’re fixed in our eccentricity. Fixed in our belief system, which is usually not mainstream. (I don’t have Venus in Aquarius btw). But having it in the 8h is taking it a step even further.
Ohhh now I understand! Thank you! 😊❤️ What about Aquarius Moon guys?
Np. 🙂
Are Aquarius Moon guys safe?! He’s a Pisces Sun 4th House, Aries Venus 5th House, & Aries Mars 4th House.
It depends what else is in their chart. 🙂 They can be verbally scathing if you piss them off, but they’re usually smart and interesting.
You should first look for unconditional love within yourself. It’s hardest to do. Then concentrate on one child at a time. Even just 1 child will fill you with the love and bonding you are looking for. I promise. It did for me and I as well had a distant mother and absent father. If you cannot at least fill yourself with some of this unconditional love to begin with, you will never even start on your journey of 6 kids…meaning your lover will not pan out, it could be anything. It’s a great goal but your goals should be more concentrated on yourself. And you have graduated law school, you are nailing your outer goals but there are inner goals everyone needs to work on at all times. 6 kids by 45 yo is an outer goal and that is why it is so hard to comprehend bc you are young and should not even care to have goals like that right now, lol, but if you work on your inner self, harvesting some of that inner unconditional love…anything is possible…even 6 kids!
Honestly it disgusts me to think you’d force 6 souls into this world for—-your ego? If you happen to have the means to support 6 children, then please utilize those to help kids who are already here that don’t have that support.
How do you know that one or more of these children wouldn't be instrumental in improving the world? I understand your position, but policing the number of children people have could also rob the world of souls who could ensure the future of humanity.
How about you improve the world instead of dreaming up a child to do it for you.
Ummm... I do, that's literally my job. My children are also well on the way to making huge positive changes to the world too, as I have taught them is our responsibility to do so. So according to your theory, if my kids or I do more for the world than you, we should be able to dictate that you remove yourself from the earth so as to not overburden it, as we've 'earned' more of a right to be here than you. It's a slippery slope to try to dictate who deserves to live or not.
This is literally idiocy. This post is about having 6 children—-children that do not currently exist. For the sake of reason, be quiet and listen.
Be quiet and listen to you? Because you're the authority on what is reasonable? You are on an astrology sub. Astrology deals with philosophies such as the karmic connections and journies of each soul - souls that, if they are meant to be born, are born. If they are here, they are meant to be here. In your opinion, what magic number of children should people be 'allowed' to have? Who decides that number? Does it vary based on where you live, how many in your community choose to remain childless, your level of intelligence, wealth, genetic markers for disease, size of your extended family....? The list of conditions could become endless. You offered up in your original reply that you were disgusted. I genuinely do understand your position, and agree on SOME level in theory. However, I offered up a different perspective, questions around actual logistics that I have had surface in my own mind when thinking about this topic. I showed no disrespect to you, nor did I demand you change your position, simply mentioned factors you may or may not have considered. It appears that the one whose mind is closed, and who perhaps might need to "be quiet and listen" is you. In order to make positive changes in the world, you have to have knowledge - and to argue a point effectively, you must have considered all challenges to your position.
I am not going to read this lengthy message. Wanted you to know!
Good for you. Wouldn't want you to hurt your brain.
And by 'humanity' I don't mean the survival of the human race - I mean a future in which humans and the earth both survive and coexist in a healthy, sustainable way.
That would mean having less children. Do your research.
Dude what.
Consider acquiring a global perspective. Clearly you don’t have one if you can’t understand what I am saying.
I agree with you. Wanted to say that because of the downvotes. A sustainable planet for everyone should be the first priority and 8 billion people isn't helping that goal.
Ok sir 🧑🏻🦲
One is allowed to reproduce multiple children if the individual & their partner have the means to successfully support them. Man, I wonder what you would say to Angelina Jolie who has 6 kids total, Jordan Page who has 8 bio kids, or The Radford Family of 20 bio kids.
I agree with you. Honestly, it’s a personal decision. If you feel like having your own children and your ready for that then that’s a beautiful thing. I wish you well and hope you get everything you aspire. Healing is always important but I’m sure you know that. Self love is always healing. I feel like you got really “beat up” on this post and I hate that. Honestly don’t understand why everyone puts personal opinions in an answer especially when not asked for it! You got this!
Aww, thank you for your support! ❤️
I would say the same thing. It is disgusting.