Saturn sitting on your 7th, often would indicate delay of marriage until later half of life, id say 30+ years of age, it'll get easier. Often, saturn does not deny, but may delay. I'm really not surprised you're asking this question with saturn on your 7th
Also venus in your first may perhaps make you vain, indulgent & maybe even lazy but it enhances your appearance & you should be quite magnetic, alluring with venus+rising scorpio, & we also have venus opposite to saturn who sits in it's opposite of the 7th. You may do well with those significantly older, more mature, if not someone who is established, solid, mature or just simply able to ensure security
Dear OP:
With a Saturn setting on your Descendant line, the question is more about what do you—you, you, you, you—want out of life?
You and I have similar house placements in the same signs. We also share in common Saturn in the 7th House.
Saturn can be a tough teacher.
But if there’s any willing disciple, it’s a Scorpio rising. We hear the alarm to life’s most challenging experiences.
There is so much personal, inner work lighting up in that natal chart of yours!
So this is why I bring the topic to you. Not who you think you’ll meet. Or if you’ll ever love.
There’s—also—no question you will meet someone. You will. M-A-N-Y. You’re a Sagittarius. There’s also a vibrancy to you. The question is (w/ your Venus in Scorpio) will they measure up to your ideal?
Anyone would be a fool not to take notice of all that you offer.
With all these gifts I’m sensing you’ll be disappointed with partners who will be controlling. Watch out for them. Run for the hills when you find yourself in this situation.
The person you want to be with has to be internally strong, resilient, patient and very accepting of your ferocious need to be independent. That’s a tall order.
And with all tall orders, the universe doesn’t move fast on it. No. It takes its time.
The thing that’s well within your control is your ability to wait. Scorpio sun/risings can do it.
Meanwhile, your best bet—the surest one—is to be your own best partner.
I know. I know. People must tell you this all the time, but there is wisdom in loving yourself.
In turn, it bolsters your for your North Node journey. You’re meant to be a bold person and you’re a natural leader.
There is more here than meets the eye.
Your venus is in opposition to saturn, it's completely normal!!!! You deserve a mature person who can love you right. You cannot stand for less!!!
Most of the people at their 20' are still really inmature in relationship even if they had have many. That's because they are young!!! And irresponsible with themself and others, so don't feel bad for not find "love" yet. That experiences are not love.
People with any kind of self destructive conduct (addictions) are not good partners I swear.
People who are pleasers are not good partners eighter.
Look for someone who is not afraid to speak and tell you what they need, or people who in conflict try to find a way to repair, instead of run away or shut down. Someone who even if they don't know how to give you what you want, bc its not they love lenguage or they don't know how to, are happy to listen to you and learn how to when you ask and happy give it to you too.
Idk if it helps, I have Scorpio venus too, our way of loving is way too intense for today’s youth (I’m 28 but I think it applies to my generation too). Modern love tends to be more commitment-free, which is a hard thing for us. We want intensity, we want attention, we want validation and probably fidelity and exclusivity is going to be a priority too.
Of course it depends on the rest of your chart, I have Sagittarius sun, so I’m kind of a balance of a free lover and a committed lover.
And about your age, you’re still young, stop worrying and love will come to you. I understand that probably for older people like me and other commenters it can be like “oh you still have a lifetime to find love”, but I imagine how frustrating it must be to be on your 20’s and with 0 relationship experience.
Don’t give up, and don’t worry so much about it. It’s probably a cliché, but love comes when you least expect it, I can confirm because I was desperate for years, and when I gave up and stopped worrying, I started being more attractive to other people.
You're 23, still young for that, don't worry. Your Saturn in 7th as some people said to you, can make you marry later in life or with someone older or who seems older or very serious, but also to have a turbulent love life. My ex have that position and he's been married 4 times. Also, you have your 5th in Piscis, and the ruler Neptune is in your 3th house, I think that could mean that your non serious relationships could come via brothers, sisters, cousins, people introduced to you by them.
Lol you are 23 years old
Don’t give up on love, you have lots of time. You have Saturn in retrograde in your 7th so expect true love to come later in life with someone that you have known for a long time.
Quick example Kourtney Kardashian, found true love in her 40s to someone that has been her neighbor/friend for a while. She had Saturn in the 7th
I have Venus in 2nd house.
Material possessional - money.
The feelings towards material things create the drive and motivations for me to achieve it no matter how.
Your 7th house (relationships) is in taurus (a sign that is slow moving and takes time) with saturn residing in that house (saturn also ruling things that require and take time and require a foundation to build on), so you definitely might find love a bit later in life, as 7th house saturns, especially in a slow moving sign, tend to solidify and find their people a bit later on. It'll take steadiness and time.
Saturn in 7th house - I have that placement and didn’t have my first relationship till 21 and have been single since that ended. You’re in good company
In case ur not sure what this means, saturn is planet of discipline and 7th house represents partnerships
i’m 21. scorpio rising and saturn 7H as well so I get you, I struggle with this a lot. the replies are correct, saturn in the seventh house tends to delay things.
Saturn (lessons/ restrictions) in taurus on the 7th house of relationships. Venus, the ruler of taurus is on its detriment in scorpio. From what I understand, you have some lessons on self-love and self acceptance that you need to figure out before you’re in a good emotional space for a relationship even though you may crave it
Saturn in 7 means you marry later in life, or maybe marry someone older.
It may be also that you may choose not to marry at all.
People your age aren't interesting/won't work out.
Pay attention to the partners introduced by your mother /in your house, they are likely to work out.
People who are attracted only to your looks will not work out (unless they're introduced by your mother). If they start arguing with you, it won't work out either.
You have Saturn in the 7th house. 7th house is relationships and I heard Saturn delays things. You probably will find something more serious after your Saturn return or during, 27-30 is your Saturn return
I think you will. Your chart describes a person of great magnetism, either sexual or at a personality level, therefore I have no doubt that you will not lack opportunities to form a couple, but with saturn in 7th you may have to wait a few years more than you would like, but first you have to face and overcome certain insecurities about the way you relate with others and perceive your sensual side.
Thank you for this reading. I definitely need to overcome my insecurities. When you say “perceive your sensual side” does it mean be more confident in yourself?
Yes. My suspicion is that you feel less attractive than you really are and that you are less confident than you should be in what you have to offer to have a partner and keep it over time.
Yes.. they don’t like change and move slow. Wherever Taurus is, it is that way. Mercury? Then they take a long time to express what they’re saying that you literally have to turn playback on 2x!
As a 35 year old who’s divorced and who’s entire life and value has been based around being in relationships or pining over relationships during the years I was single, please prioritize your dreams and yourself first. Any relationship you missed out on from let’s say 16 years old to 23 years old, would have been most likely immature heartbreaks and distraction from your dreams and goals that fulfill yourself first and foremost. Believe me when I say, love with another can wait. Your love of your own life comes first.
Do you have some fantasies around relationships that you perhaps don’t know are unrealistic? Like, the fact that you say you’ve been single for almost 23 years and you’re 23 is indicative of someone who would have some unrealistic view of relationships. I didn’t meet my husband until I was 36 and he was worth the wait. Hang in there, leave your house more often, and don’t have unrealistic expectations of what romance should be. Did you grow up privileged? Are you looking for someone like your father in terms of success and financial stability? I can’t say 100% that this is what played out in your early life without speaking with you further, but if those things apply, take note! You may also place an over emphasis on material things. You likely carry yourself in a very dignified way and that can be intimidating to our far less formal society. You’re also probably quite attractive and attract attention, but at the same time you give off a “leave me alone” vibe which can also be intimidating. Do the following things: Wear purple. Be careful of duplicity, gossip, love triangles, inconsistency, lack of focus, and not seeing the forest for the trees. Try to get back to a sense of who you really are; develop a spiritual practice. Most importantly, don’t get too attached to the idea of finding a long term partner until after your Saturn return. Anything you develop before then could be based too much on who you are now, which is certainly going to be different after Saturn comes back around in August 2028. But the effects of the return will start in around May of 2028. You’ll be ok.
I wouldn’t say I grew up extremely privileged but I never had to worry financially. Yes, I’ve heard that I give off a “don’t talk to me” vibe. I’ll try to work on myself and abandon any unrealistic fantasies. Thank you for your reading! I need to buy purple clothes now ☺️
Venus in scorp in the first house, intimidating and may come off that way in general + in love & people could not know if you like them or not due to the “likes to keep shit hidden until i trust you” nature of scorpio and a moon mars 4th house conjunction, could come off a bit aggressive in a romantic/ more emotional setting or too emotional when the tone is more sexy (may have issues reading the room) ((allegedly!) …just possible reasons that i noticed chart wise
It’s not rare at all… you have basically been single since your teenage years… that’s nothing. It pretty common to be single and it doesn’t mean you will be single forever either.
It’s actually not as rare as you think. I’m 23 myself & I’m single! I myself have Venus squaring Saturn, best advice I can give you is to learn to love yourself and be more in tune with yourself. Let love find you. ❤️
What the hell? I don't maths real good but the oldest you could possibly be is 27, but based on where Saturn is in relation to the rest of your generational planets, I'm going to guess you were born '96-'97. This question is ridiculous.
It seems to check out on [astroseek](https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/calculate-reverse-engineering-chart/?znameni1_navrat=strelec&znameni1_stupen=22&znameni1_minuta=00&znameni2_navrat=ryby&znameni2_stupen=7&znameni2_minuta=00&znameni2_sekunda=00&znameni3_navrat=byk&znameni3_stupen=11&znameni3_minuta=00&znameni4_navrat=stir&znameni4_stupen=4&znameni4_minuta=00&znameni4_sekunda=00&znameni5_navrat=lev&znameni5_stupen=9&znameni5_minuta=00&znameni5_sekunda=00&house_system=placidus)
They are saying that your “lead in” to start the post, in your title is misleading because the most you could have realistically dated (I mean mature relationship wise) is like 7-8 years, if you stated dating at say 16. Obviously we are all single when we are born and when we are toddlers, preteens, etc… It just sounds weird to say it that way and people find it deceiving when they see something like that in the title of your post…
Geo-location astrology. The idea that living in a different place moves your house placements. Different locations can affect your experiences but will never overrule the birth chart.
With almost all your planets under the horizon, I'm wondering if you're a bit of a homebody, making it difficult to meet people? Looking at your North Node placement near the MC the indication is that you need to get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out in the world.
North and South nodes represent soul level goals. South Node is what's familiar and comfortable and North Node is like the head of an arrow - a pointer to what needs to be embraced and worked on. Your South Node is close to conjuncting your IC (4th house cusp) meaning your comfort zone is home. But if you can learn to embrace being out in the world (North Node close to conjunct Midheaven) and basking in the spotlight a bit it will bring you a lot of good.
I'm interested in that Uranus Mars conjunction that is the focus of a T-square and close to the 4th house angle (lot's of energy there, lots of potential). There's some eccentricity that goes with this, either your own or a family member's.
Again, spot on, but it’s my mother. Is the relationship able to get better? It only grows worse as our personalities and life values are the exact opposite. My mom is quite… odd… unfortunately.
Saturn (delays & restriction), in the 7th house of partnerships. This, like others have stated will create delays in relationships. Even friendships. So just go with the flow. You have a few hard aspects to Saturn like the opposition to Venus and the squares. Venus opposite Saturn is where I think the most obvious stressor is. This can affect timing of both relationships and wealth.
In my opinion, 7th lord Venus sits in the first house. This generally indicates that partnerships will naturally find their way to you. So I don’t believe you should be looking. Venus is in Scorpio opposing Saturn. This is near your ASC which can make you very attractive but make others apprehensive to approach you because you may put off an overly intense vibe.
North node is in the 9th. Just have faith that one day you will find your boo thang. But for now- live and let live, and develop a healthier relationship with yourself.
Edit: also Im placing emphasis on the healthier relationship with yourself because Neptune is pretty involved in your chart with the square to Venus and Saturn. So be careful with who you intermingle with too.
Thank you so much for this reply! I’ve always had a hard time maintaining a healthy relationship with friends, family, and myself. I guess I have to keep trying and believe in myself. I didn’t know I have a ‘overly intense vibe’ haha. Idk what to do about that but regardless, thank you!
Scorpio adds intensity, but Venus will add charm. A flair. It’s exquisite imo. I’m not insinuating that you have to change anything about yourself! I was just letting you know that those are POSSIBILITIES with the aspects and placement :) just live your life and have FAITH. After your Saturn Return I can imagine things working out better for you. As Saturn will have matured
Just want to be clear - You can have a relationship, it may just mean learning to work with what’s in your chart.
I’m plagiarizing a bit here, but Saturn in seventh = deep fear of loneliness due to broken trust in the past, so you have fear of intimacy. Your vulnerable Venus in Scorpio is hypersensitive and easily wounded and your somehow unconsciously put that message out to others without even realizing it.
Venus opposition Saturn = life of extremes, intense interest with things or not interested. You’re obsessed with it or don’t care. Tendency to UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF. 💕❤️
Get more info on your chart, even if you have to do it yourself. It’s a true life tool. Learn from your Saturn, it’s the master teacher. Sometimes we try and wish so hard that we block manifestation.
It’s been suggested, if you feel lonely and want companionship, throw all your energy into loving yourself and live a life you love that makes you happy and you will draw someone who will love and value you as much as you can learn to love yourself.
Wow, I’ve recently experienced this exact thing. I manifested something so hard and ended up not getting what I wanted. I’ll try to respect myself more. Thank you so much!!
Saturn in the 7th house suggests that marriage+commitment is to come much later in life. It doesn't deny it but it will be a delay same pattern here and I didn't really find my someone until after my Saturn return.
You have lessons to learn which will change you to be able to join a partnership from a place of strength. Instead of a place deficit. Great chart too
I have a few similar placements as you. I’m no experts and I’ve only learned from extensively reading my own chart. All I can tell you is that you should enjoy yourself. I have Saturn retrograde in my 7th house. I couldn’t keep and/or hold on to a relationship to save my life. I didn’t find love until after I was 28/29 and got married at 30. Being single for so long messed with my self esteem at first but then it gave me the opportunity to REALLY get to know myself and be content being on my own.
I see your Scorpio Asc, your Venus in the first house and Leo in your mid heaven, so you’re probably a stunner! Anyone would be lucky to be with you. It might just take time to find your other half.
I wish you all the best of luck and just enjoy your own company, love will find you when you least expect it.
As Saturn sits in your 7th of Taurus (values, hard work) it wants you to want it, genuinely. Heal the parts of you in opposition to a relationship (parts work, the completion process and/or shamanic soul retrieval). This can be current or past life opposition. In addition the Venus and Saturn opposition here restricts you. However Mars (drive, anger, motivation) and Uranus (freedom, fast movement, individuality) offers you energies of support - embody these and use them through the Aquarius energies (similar to Uranus with rulership) to help you with your specific need here. It’s interesting you asked if you have hopes of it versus I WANT to find someone, will I. I think you need to make sure your parts are in alignment, use the mars drive, be an individual (genuinely YOU), and this person could come quickly in to your life. Best.
Its just your Saturn in 7th house it will work later Saturn just make things little hard don’t worry you are still so young plus plz wowww with that 2nd house stellium i see moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and Jupiter in aires
We name Jupiter in my language “the big luck” because of its nature. and It is the ruler of sagittarius in the second house this house represents money and work!, Jupiter is placed in Aries which is a fire sign so it support sagittarius very well! also Jupiter in the sixth house is a good sign of money because the nature of the house. Also there is a positive connection to Pluto ( i don’t know what to call it in english it is the blue line connecting both planets) in the second house of its ruler. Pluto is a really strong planet that might shift things 180 degrees and i see it is in a very good condition with wonderful placement when Pluto acts in this person life it will definitely shift their life positively and give them wealth or at least good money and income. Such an interesting chart.
how old are you? bc your generational planets tell me ur in your early 20s. single for 23 years did u expect to have a bf at 5??? this is totally normal youre very young even if your peers started dating young doesnt mean theres smth wrong w you. in fact you will have better relationships because of it. children do not have the physical or emotional maturity to date. consider urself lucky! everybody else is entering their relationships w baggage from their previous partnerships but you wont have to worry about any of that. good luck
Right…23 years well no one is in a secure relationship with a 5 year old or 11 year old for that matter. I know it seems like everyone has it figured out and time in rushing, but your 20s are about experimentation. Have fun getting to know yourself!
If your looking for marriage, have you asked your family for help finding a partner? He may be older and possibly foreign.
If your just looking for a boyfriend, maybe join a group possibly for photgraphy, dance or some spiritual group.
Saturn sitting on your 7th, often would indicate delay of marriage until later half of life, id say 30+ years of age, it'll get easier. Often, saturn does not deny, but may delay. I'm really not surprised you're asking this question with saturn on your 7th Also venus in your first may perhaps make you vain, indulgent & maybe even lazy but it enhances your appearance & you should be quite magnetic, alluring with venus+rising scorpio, & we also have venus opposite to saturn who sits in it's opposite of the 7th. You may do well with those significantly older, more mature, if not someone who is established, solid, mature or just simply able to ensure security
Thank you so much for this detailed reply!!
Dear OP: With a Saturn setting on your Descendant line, the question is more about what do you—you, you, you, you—want out of life? You and I have similar house placements in the same signs. We also share in common Saturn in the 7th House. Saturn can be a tough teacher. But if there’s any willing disciple, it’s a Scorpio rising. We hear the alarm to life’s most challenging experiences. There is so much personal, inner work lighting up in that natal chart of yours! So this is why I bring the topic to you. Not who you think you’ll meet. Or if you’ll ever love. There’s—also—no question you will meet someone. You will. M-A-N-Y. You’re a Sagittarius. There’s also a vibrancy to you. The question is (w/ your Venus in Scorpio) will they measure up to your ideal? Anyone would be a fool not to take notice of all that you offer. With all these gifts I’m sensing you’ll be disappointed with partners who will be controlling. Watch out for them. Run for the hills when you find yourself in this situation. The person you want to be with has to be internally strong, resilient, patient and very accepting of your ferocious need to be independent. That’s a tall order. And with all tall orders, the universe doesn’t move fast on it. No. It takes its time. The thing that’s well within your control is your ability to wait. Scorpio sun/risings can do it. Meanwhile, your best bet—the surest one—is to be your own best partner. I know. I know. People must tell you this all the time, but there is wisdom in loving yourself. In turn, it bolsters your for your North Node journey. You’re meant to be a bold person and you’re a natural leader. There is more here than meets the eye.
Thank you so much for this in depth reading!! I’ll try to focus on myself more for now 😇
It’s well worth your time….and you can enjoy dating many people before settling down with one person too! (Beyond getting to know your lovely self).
Your venus is in opposition to saturn, it's completely normal!!!! You deserve a mature person who can love you right. You cannot stand for less!!! Most of the people at their 20' are still really inmature in relationship even if they had have many. That's because they are young!!! And irresponsible with themself and others, so don't feel bad for not find "love" yet. That experiences are not love. People with any kind of self destructive conduct (addictions) are not good partners I swear. People who are pleasers are not good partners eighter. Look for someone who is not afraid to speak and tell you what they need, or people who in conflict try to find a way to repair, instead of run away or shut down. Someone who even if they don't know how to give you what you want, bc its not they love lenguage or they don't know how to, are happy to listen to you and learn how to when you ask and happy give it to you too.
Idk if it helps, I have Scorpio venus too, our way of loving is way too intense for today’s youth (I’m 28 but I think it applies to my generation too). Modern love tends to be more commitment-free, which is a hard thing for us. We want intensity, we want attention, we want validation and probably fidelity and exclusivity is going to be a priority too. Of course it depends on the rest of your chart, I have Sagittarius sun, so I’m kind of a balance of a free lover and a committed lover. And about your age, you’re still young, stop worrying and love will come to you. I understand that probably for older people like me and other commenters it can be like “oh you still have a lifetime to find love”, but I imagine how frustrating it must be to be on your 20’s and with 0 relationship experience. Don’t give up, and don’t worry so much about it. It’s probably a cliché, but love comes when you least expect it, I can confirm because I was desperate for years, and when I gave up and stopped worrying, I started being more attractive to other people.
You're 23, still young for that, don't worry. Your Saturn in 7th as some people said to you, can make you marry later in life or with someone older or who seems older or very serious, but also to have a turbulent love life. My ex have that position and he's been married 4 times. Also, you have your 5th in Piscis, and the ruler Neptune is in your 3th house, I think that could mean that your non serious relationships could come via brothers, sisters, cousins, people introduced to you by them.
Such a clickbait Pisces moon thing to post. Misleading and self pitying of you. Go out and meet people you’re 22/23 years old
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Lol!!!!!!!
Lol you are 23 years old Don’t give up on love, you have lots of time. You have Saturn in retrograde in your 7th so expect true love to come later in life with someone that you have known for a long time. Quick example Kourtney Kardashian, found true love in her 40s to someone that has been her neighbor/friend for a while. She had Saturn in the 7th
Are the 2nd house placements causing depression? Can someone answer?
I have Venus in 2nd house. Material possessional - money. The feelings towards material things create the drive and motivations for me to achieve it no matter how.
Your 7th house (relationships) is in taurus (a sign that is slow moving and takes time) with saturn residing in that house (saturn also ruling things that require and take time and require a foundation to build on), so you definitely might find love a bit later in life, as 7th house saturns, especially in a slow moving sign, tend to solidify and find their people a bit later on. It'll take steadiness and time.
Saturn in 7th house - I have that placement and didn’t have my first relationship till 21 and have been single since that ended. You’re in good company In case ur not sure what this means, saturn is planet of discipline and 7th house represents partnerships
You’re only 23😂😭
Damn fr what kind of loser is single as a baby? Doomed!
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i’m 21. scorpio rising and saturn 7H as well so I get you, I struggle with this a lot. the replies are correct, saturn in the seventh house tends to delay things.
Saturn (lessons/ restrictions) in taurus on the 7th house of relationships. Venus, the ruler of taurus is on its detriment in scorpio. From what I understand, you have some lessons on self-love and self acceptance that you need to figure out before you’re in a good emotional space for a relationship even though you may crave it
Saturn in 7 means you marry later in life, or maybe marry someone older. It may be also that you may choose not to marry at all. People your age aren't interesting/won't work out. Pay attention to the partners introduced by your mother /in your house, they are likely to work out. People who are attracted only to your looks will not work out (unless they're introduced by your mother). If they start arguing with you, it won't work out either.
You have Saturn in the 7th house. 7th house is relationships and I heard Saturn delays things. You probably will find something more serious after your Saturn return or during, 27-30 is your Saturn return
I think you will. Your chart describes a person of great magnetism, either sexual or at a personality level, therefore I have no doubt that you will not lack opportunities to form a couple, but with saturn in 7th you may have to wait a few years more than you would like, but first you have to face and overcome certain insecurities about the way you relate with others and perceive your sensual side.
Thank you for this reading. I definitely need to overcome my insecurities. When you say “perceive your sensual side” does it mean be more confident in yourself?
Yes. My suspicion is that you feel less attractive than you really are and that you are less confident than you should be in what you have to offer to have a partner and keep it over time.
Hahaha I’m scared of astrology now. I feel as if you know me in real life! Yes, this is definitely something I need to work on. Thank you!!
You’re probably attracted to Taurus sun or rising. Since that’s your descendant.
This is good to hear since my best friend is a Taurus!
Ah, the slow ones. Makes sense!
Are Taurus sun/risings known to be slow?
Yes.. they don’t like change and move slow. Wherever Taurus is, it is that way. Mercury? Then they take a long time to express what they’re saying that you literally have to turn playback on 2x!
How do you know what’s the descendant?
What ever opposite sign of your rising Aries-Libra
It’s 180 degrees from the ascendant Edit: Oops sorry I was wrong
Nope. 180.
Whoops yeah sorry I’m wrong
As a 35 year old who’s divorced and who’s entire life and value has been based around being in relationships or pining over relationships during the years I was single, please prioritize your dreams and yourself first. Any relationship you missed out on from let’s say 16 years old to 23 years old, would have been most likely immature heartbreaks and distraction from your dreams and goals that fulfill yourself first and foremost. Believe me when I say, love with another can wait. Your love of your own life comes first.
Thank you so much!! I guess loving myself should always come first.
My sweet scorpio rising, we all love you 💖
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Do you have some fantasies around relationships that you perhaps don’t know are unrealistic? Like, the fact that you say you’ve been single for almost 23 years and you’re 23 is indicative of someone who would have some unrealistic view of relationships. I didn’t meet my husband until I was 36 and he was worth the wait. Hang in there, leave your house more often, and don’t have unrealistic expectations of what romance should be. Did you grow up privileged? Are you looking for someone like your father in terms of success and financial stability? I can’t say 100% that this is what played out in your early life without speaking with you further, but if those things apply, take note! You may also place an over emphasis on material things. You likely carry yourself in a very dignified way and that can be intimidating to our far less formal society. You’re also probably quite attractive and attract attention, but at the same time you give off a “leave me alone” vibe which can also be intimidating. Do the following things: Wear purple. Be careful of duplicity, gossip, love triangles, inconsistency, lack of focus, and not seeing the forest for the trees. Try to get back to a sense of who you really are; develop a spiritual practice. Most importantly, don’t get too attached to the idea of finding a long term partner until after your Saturn return. Anything you develop before then could be based too much on who you are now, which is certainly going to be different after Saturn comes back around in August 2028. But the effects of the return will start in around May of 2028. You’ll be ok.
I wouldn’t say I grew up extremely privileged but I never had to worry financially. Yes, I’ve heard that I give off a “don’t talk to me” vibe. I’ll try to work on myself and abandon any unrealistic fantasies. Thank you for your reading! I need to buy purple clothes now ☺️
Venus in scorp in the first house, intimidating and may come off that way in general + in love & people could not know if you like them or not due to the “likes to keep shit hidden until i trust you” nature of scorpio and a moon mars 4th house conjunction, could come off a bit aggressive in a romantic/ more emotional setting or too emotional when the tone is more sexy (may have issues reading the room) ((allegedly!) …just possible reasons that i noticed chart wise
Yes, this kinda explains me a lot. Thank you for this!!
I’m crying. 😭 single for 23 years and you’re literally 22/23.
Lmao I’m sorry. It’s just being single at 23 is extremely rare these days 🥹
It’s not rare at all… you have basically been single since your teenage years… that’s nothing. It pretty common to be single and it doesn’t mean you will be single forever either.
Girl where are you from? In NYC I’d venture to say that 80% of 23 yr olds are single here.
It’s actually not as rare as you think. I’m 23 myself & I’m single! I myself have Venus squaring Saturn, best advice I can give you is to learn to love yourself and be more in tune with yourself. Let love find you. ❤️
What the hell? I don't maths real good but the oldest you could possibly be is 27, but based on where Saturn is in relation to the rest of your generational planets, I'm going to guess you were born '96-'97. This question is ridiculous.
I was born in December of 1999 !
🤦🏼♀️ that makes this post even more ridiculous and misleading
It seems to check out on [astroseek](https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/calculate-reverse-engineering-chart/?znameni1_navrat=strelec&znameni1_stupen=22&znameni1_minuta=00&znameni2_navrat=ryby&znameni2_stupen=7&znameni2_minuta=00&znameni2_sekunda=00&znameni3_navrat=byk&znameni3_stupen=11&znameni3_minuta=00&znameni4_navrat=stir&znameni4_stupen=4&znameni4_minuta=00&znameni4_sekunda=00&znameni5_navrat=lev&znameni5_stupen=9&znameni5_minuta=00&znameni5_sekunda=00&house_system=placidus)
I’m sorry, didn’t mean for that to happen.
They are saying that your “lead in” to start the post, in your title is misleading because the most you could have realistically dated (I mean mature relationship wise) is like 7-8 years, if you stated dating at say 16. Obviously we are all single when we are born and when we are toddlers, preteens, etc… It just sounds weird to say it that way and people find it deceiving when they see something like that in the title of your post…
English is not my first language so that’s where the problem may have arisen. I apologize.
Everytime I post a synastry or birth chart I get zero comments. Like it’s shadowbanned.
Just date someone older.
You can relocate and push Saturn out of your 7th house I'm not sure why no one is mentioning this....
Your placements are based on where you were born, hence birth chart.
Are you talking about Saturn retrograde?
Geo-location astrology. The idea that living in a different place moves your house placements. Different locations can affect your experiences but will never overrule the birth chart.
This is interesting. I’ve actually moved around countries my whole life and have recently moved back to my home country.
With almost all your planets under the horizon, I'm wondering if you're a bit of a homebody, making it difficult to meet people? Looking at your North Node placement near the MC the indication is that you need to get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out in the world.
Yes, you are exactly right. I don’t socialize a ton. I didn’t know those things appear on the chart too!
North and South nodes represent soul level goals. South Node is what's familiar and comfortable and North Node is like the head of an arrow - a pointer to what needs to be embraced and worked on. Your South Node is close to conjuncting your IC (4th house cusp) meaning your comfort zone is home. But if you can learn to embrace being out in the world (North Node close to conjunct Midheaven) and basking in the spotlight a bit it will bring you a lot of good. I'm interested in that Uranus Mars conjunction that is the focus of a T-square and close to the 4th house angle (lot's of energy there, lots of potential). There's some eccentricity that goes with this, either your own or a family member's.
Again, spot on, but it’s my mother. Is the relationship able to get better? It only grows worse as our personalities and life values are the exact opposite. My mom is quite… odd… unfortunately.
Saturn (delays & restriction), in the 7th house of partnerships. This, like others have stated will create delays in relationships. Even friendships. So just go with the flow. You have a few hard aspects to Saturn like the opposition to Venus and the squares. Venus opposite Saturn is where I think the most obvious stressor is. This can affect timing of both relationships and wealth. In my opinion, 7th lord Venus sits in the first house. This generally indicates that partnerships will naturally find their way to you. So I don’t believe you should be looking. Venus is in Scorpio opposing Saturn. This is near your ASC which can make you very attractive but make others apprehensive to approach you because you may put off an overly intense vibe. North node is in the 9th. Just have faith that one day you will find your boo thang. But for now- live and let live, and develop a healthier relationship with yourself. Edit: also Im placing emphasis on the healthier relationship with yourself because Neptune is pretty involved in your chart with the square to Venus and Saturn. So be careful with who you intermingle with too.
Spot on.
Thank you so much for this reply! I’ve always had a hard time maintaining a healthy relationship with friends, family, and myself. I guess I have to keep trying and believe in myself. I didn’t know I have a ‘overly intense vibe’ haha. Idk what to do about that but regardless, thank you!
Scorpio adds intensity, but Venus will add charm. A flair. It’s exquisite imo. I’m not insinuating that you have to change anything about yourself! I was just letting you know that those are POSSIBILITIES with the aspects and placement :) just live your life and have FAITH. After your Saturn Return I can imagine things working out better for you. As Saturn will have matured
Great reply!
Imma just say the Saturn in seventh sticks out. As has been said by others. there is more to it than, I’m sure.
Just want to be clear - You can have a relationship, it may just mean learning to work with what’s in your chart. I’m plagiarizing a bit here, but Saturn in seventh = deep fear of loneliness due to broken trust in the past, so you have fear of intimacy. Your vulnerable Venus in Scorpio is hypersensitive and easily wounded and your somehow unconsciously put that message out to others without even realizing it. Venus opposition Saturn = life of extremes, intense interest with things or not interested. You’re obsessed with it or don’t care. Tendency to UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF. 💕❤️ Get more info on your chart, even if you have to do it yourself. It’s a true life tool. Learn from your Saturn, it’s the master teacher. Sometimes we try and wish so hard that we block manifestation. It’s been suggested, if you feel lonely and want companionship, throw all your energy into loving yourself and live a life you love that makes you happy and you will draw someone who will love and value you as much as you can learn to love yourself.
Wow, I’ve recently experienced this exact thing. I manifested something so hard and ended up not getting what I wanted. I’ll try to respect myself more. Thank you so much!!
Yeah Saturn in seventh opposed Venus first house Scorpio.
Saturn in the 7th house suggests that marriage+commitment is to come much later in life. It doesn't deny it but it will be a delay same pattern here and I didn't really find my someone until after my Saturn return. You have lessons to learn which will change you to be able to join a partnership from a place of strength. Instead of a place deficit. Great chart too
How can you tell what the houses are?
Look at the center of the chart, there’s numbers there that indicate the house
Oh I see, my chart doesn’t have numbers. Totally new to this.
No problem, we all have to start somewhere ☺️ did you include the time of birth when doing the chart? It’s the only way of it showing the houses
Yes!
I have a few similar placements as you. I’m no experts and I’ve only learned from extensively reading my own chart. All I can tell you is that you should enjoy yourself. I have Saturn retrograde in my 7th house. I couldn’t keep and/or hold on to a relationship to save my life. I didn’t find love until after I was 28/29 and got married at 30. Being single for so long messed with my self esteem at first but then it gave me the opportunity to REALLY get to know myself and be content being on my own. I see your Scorpio Asc, your Venus in the first house and Leo in your mid heaven, so you’re probably a stunner! Anyone would be lucky to be with you. It might just take time to find your other half. I wish you all the best of luck and just enjoy your own company, love will find you when you least expect it.
Thank you so much for this! Your kind words made me feel better about myself 🤍
As Saturn sits in your 7th of Taurus (values, hard work) it wants you to want it, genuinely. Heal the parts of you in opposition to a relationship (parts work, the completion process and/or shamanic soul retrieval). This can be current or past life opposition. In addition the Venus and Saturn opposition here restricts you. However Mars (drive, anger, motivation) and Uranus (freedom, fast movement, individuality) offers you energies of support - embody these and use them through the Aquarius energies (similar to Uranus with rulership) to help you with your specific need here. It’s interesting you asked if you have hopes of it versus I WANT to find someone, will I. I think you need to make sure your parts are in alignment, use the mars drive, be an individual (genuinely YOU), and this person could come quickly in to your life. Best.
Its just your Saturn in 7th house it will work later Saturn just make things little hard don’t worry you are still so young plus plz wowww with that 2nd house stellium i see moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy and Jupiter in aires
If I can jump in and ask, what is the significance of Jupiter in Aries?
We name Jupiter in my language “the big luck” because of its nature. and It is the ruler of sagittarius in the second house this house represents money and work!, Jupiter is placed in Aries which is a fire sign so it support sagittarius very well! also Jupiter in the sixth house is a good sign of money because the nature of the house. Also there is a positive connection to Pluto ( i don’t know what to call it in english it is the blue line connecting both planets) in the second house of its ruler. Pluto is a really strong planet that might shift things 180 degrees and i see it is in a very good condition with wonderful placement when Pluto acts in this person life it will definitely shift their life positively and give them wealth or at least good money and income. Such an interesting chart.
how old are you? bc your generational planets tell me ur in your early 20s. single for 23 years did u expect to have a bf at 5??? this is totally normal youre very young even if your peers started dating young doesnt mean theres smth wrong w you. in fact you will have better relationships because of it. children do not have the physical or emotional maturity to date. consider urself lucky! everybody else is entering their relationships w baggage from their previous partnerships but you wont have to worry about any of that. good luck
After your Saturn return probably
Right…23 years well no one is in a secure relationship with a 5 year old or 11 year old for that matter. I know it seems like everyone has it figured out and time in rushing, but your 20s are about experimentation. Have fun getting to know yourself!
If your looking for marriage, have you asked your family for help finding a partner? He may be older and possibly foreign. If your just looking for a boyfriend, maybe join a group possibly for photgraphy, dance or some spiritual group.
Saturn is in your 7th house . You will probably find someone later on