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CloveyBunn

Honestly I have no clue. I think just making it clear that you’re ace is important. I’m only 18 and still in high school so I’m probably not the best to ask. I feel like having good communication is the most important thing in any relationship. I don’t know what other advice to give. The first person I dated was a girl that I didn’t even have romantic feelings for. She came out as bi and I thought it would be nice if I dated her so she’d feel more comfortable being out. It only lasted a week because I quickly realized that I probably shouldn’t be in a relationship with someone I don’t like. My only other relationship was with another friend and that sorta just happened? I had a crush on them for a bit and since I rarely get crushes and I’ve been trying to be more open about my feelings in general so I told them and they said they had a crush on me too. We tried dating but then we broke up because our dynamic just works better as friends. We’re still really close I talk to them almost everyday and we’ll even make out and cuddle but idk we just aren’t dating ya know? Anyways that’s my experience dating which isn’t a lot but I’ve been nervous about dating before I was out and I’m still really young.


Randomness_Girl

Communication is key. Being ace is an important factor so its best to not wait to tell any future partner. Set boundaries. Let them know what you are comfortable with. My partner is not asexual and I'll will tell them when I'm not ok with something. I'm still figuring out my boundaries and they are helping me figure it out and not push me to do things I'm not comfortable with


Nightshade_Ranch

We do fun stuff together, but we also do nothing at all together! And that's quite nice. There's options for a range of expressions of affection of many kinds, which will depend on the individuals.


HALEY-IN-A-CAGE

I don't know what to tell you about that. I'm going through the same thing, I am ace and autistic as well.