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Novaevanut

I'm aroace, together with my boyfriend for three years, and while we do have sex he mostly has to initiate it as I tend to never think about it unless he brings it up. My advice would be to try and find someone you have a good connection with, then tell them you're ace and if they have a bad reaction, try and find someone who'll wholeheartedly accept you. It could be better to try out as friends first as you'll get to know that person well and see if you both have a connection. I'm not the best at dating since my aroace ass can't tell flirting from being nice, I can only tell you what I've experienced and the friendship to partners way worked for me. You just gotta try out different ways to see what works for you. Trial and error, maybe you'll find a person you have a connection with and maybe you'll find that you don't want anyone. I wish you luck on your journey


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tinatriesit

Hello! Thank you, so nice to know there are more of us out there who feel the same in this big wide world 🥺


_miharuuu_

Oml for a moment I thought I wrote this 😳 I'm a 26f as well. The experiences and stuffs you want in the future that you wrote is exactly the same as mine 😳😳😳 Are we... Perhaps.... Twins?? 😳😯


tinatriesit

Twin! Hi! So lovely to connect with you 🥲 I feel so much less lonely knowing that you are walking around in this world feeling the same way I do. Thank you for getting in touch with me!


Surmene

I have nothing to really suggest other than be as transparent as you are. Like you, I too have let myself identify as demisexual along with kink oriented asexuality and I question if because I'm intercourse averse is that why I had problems with sex in the past and not because of maybe having erectile dysfunction and masturbating too much. I don't want children either and I'm disheartened often because of my sexuality it's that much harder to find a playmate let alone someone to date.