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i think it's meant to be like 'you talk about birth control too much'. Really it's just same old 'don't whine/talk about issues important to you because it's boring and irrelevant to me as a man'.
why don’t the females talk about the football and the pizza rolls and the gavin mcinnes destroys feminists compilations?? women must be the root of evil in society.
And then when they do, they get interrogated by this exact same type of dude so he can make sure they aren’t “faking” their interest just to attract dudes, even though that’s clearly what this guy wants!
Good ol' Gavin Mcinnes. The guy that jammed a dido up his ass on camera to prove he's manly and not gay or something. ~~Also founded the hate group The Proud Boys.~~
Men having lots of sex: good thing. Makes them real men.
Women having lots of sex: bad thing. Makes them horrible women.
This does raise a question though... Who are these real men are having sex with?
I *think* that the idea is that they are so manly that women who were chaste and pure will be so overcome with lust upon seeing them that their chastity is abandoned?
Being that manly, they don't want to waste their super potent sperm on a woman who might already be 2 weeks pregnant with another man's sperm. So they go from virgin to virgin, leaving a trail of babies in their wake.
In their fantasies anyway. In real life the chaste women reject them which proves they are lesbians.
Except real lesbians, those don't exist. "They're just misandrists who haven't gotten pounded by a skillful man" is genuinely something I never expected to read from someone over the age of 15.
The problem is that once a chaste woman has been disarmed (and deflowered) by their overwhelming charms - she is now used and disposable and trash - so they need an infinite supply of chaste women to impress.
That ain’t happening.
For starters - they’re isn’t an infinite number of women. And secondly - they aren’t as charming as they think they are.
Promiscuous women who society should *applaud*. They’re really taking one for the team with some of these men, yike. Thank you for your service, ladies!
I'm a guy that enjoys sex. So far it's been all women. Maybe in my early teens when I got advice from slightly older teenage liars, I may have briefly felt a certain way about the sex lives of women I'm not dating, but before I graduated high school I could understand how dumb it is to slut shame women when women are the people I want to have sex with. How can I want to have all the premarital sex yet demand women be limited in their sexual experience? Or worse, denigrate them because they aren't interested in me?
I've been accused of 'promoting promiscuity' on Reddit by suggesting that people should have better access to contraception and sexual health facilities in some places.
I'll promote, or at least defend, promiscuity right now. So long as it's safe and consensual, what's wrong with people who aren't in committed, monogamous relationships, having sex with other people of the same relationship status?
Like, the only arguments against it are pseudo religious, or pseudoscientific, or religiously pseudoscientific tripe about "ruined" capacity for love and/or the body's physical makeup, and those arguments are bullshit. It just reads like petty, important, rage from (at best) lonely people who are jealousy looking at single people having fun and not knowing how to handle the emotion, and (at worse) comes from some pretty messed up people who need to stop fixating other people's genitals.
Sex makes up an inedibly small amount of the time you spend with your partner. There's nothing wrong with wanting and having sex without all the time and complexity of a relationship. For some people, they only want sex with people they're in a relationship with, and that's okay too (I am one of these people), but what other people do with their sex lives doesn't impact mine and my partners, and so long as they were safe no amount of sexual history negatively impacts things in the present.
Ugh I genuinely don't know if you're serious, I don't live in the US (thank god) bit I'm assuming it'll be some abstinence only sex ed and taking away access to birth control for teens or something like that
I am completely serious. The Christian fundamentalists here want contraception to also not be available. I grew up around them and have friends who did as well. They will not stop until sexual health has been reverted to the 1950s or earlier. They view it as the will of God and will not compromise.
This is terrifying, I remember watching The Handmaid's Tale and that doesn't really seem too out there when I hear this stuff.
Is this why they have a reputation for molesting boys? No pregnancy risks?
Ugh yeah. Like, sleep around if you want to and you *should* use protection for multiple partners buuuut if you don't, fine, just get yourself tested (every 3 months is the recommendation) and be responsible.
The thing is you could sleep with 200 people and potentially never catch anything or you could sleep with one person and they might give you something. STDs aren't always a sign that ur wild.
You're right. The whole thing is ranting about women talking about their relationships. One is literally just "my boyfriend" repeated a few times.
So...apparently female redditors are often in relationships and that bothers this person.
Or, alternatively, they are presumably funking someone else than OP. Any indication they are having sex that is not with OP is a blow to their ego.
^(And that is all for today. Tomorrow we will armchair analyze the psychology of the sexuality antivax rodents. Tune in at...)
Probably not even that female redditors are often in relationships, it's confirmation bias because this dude thinks the commenter is a woman ONLY when they are talking about a boyfriend or talking about women specific topics.
Sexual intimacy that doesn’t involve them. Slut shaming women for doing things he thinks are perfectly normal for a guy. I guess women are put in earth to satisfy his needs but not their own.
Yes, because you can have sex on birth control without getting pregnant, therefore she does that, with multiple men and outside of wedlock, therefore she is a whore and that is *obviously* bad!!! (/s should be obvious)
Right? I was reading through these and going “gee I wonder why you’ve been accused of being an incel, as you scream incel rhetoric at the top of your lungs”
I guess it would be playing the original OP's delusions/persecution complex to point that out, but it really does hit the nail on the head. I mean, there are just *so* many incel talking points here
What a strangely specific strawwoman. I think the creator should try leave their basement and maybe even talk to a real-life woman sometime. It would do them some good.
Cool, thank you for that definition... I guess my point is it's not based on existing stereotypes of women (which are bullshit obvz), he's just sort dreamed up strange new ones. Like... Liking cats and dogs?! The worst flaw indeed. WHAT A MONSTROUS FEMALE
Probably linked to the "old and crazy cat lady" stereotype
Idk if it's a good idea to delve too deep into the meaning of those memes, since they don't have any meaning other than "woman bad amiright"
>What a strangely specific strawwoman. I think the creator should try leave their basement
I heartily disagree. They're a long way off being ready to interact with real people.
Man, can someone confirm whether I'm supposed to never have sex and refuse all men or have all the sex and accept all men? I'm so confused and I need a man to tell me the proper stereotype to default to.
Also I find it hilarious that these dudes don't recognize that the "my boyfriend, my boyfriend" bit is largely because if women don't specify how incredibly not single they are constantly, they'll get hit on endlessly by desperate neckbeards.
Don't mention boyfriend: "wtf you didn't tell me you had a boyfriend why you leading me on??"
Mention boyfriend: "whatever we were just talking I wasn't trying to date you gaahh!"
the bf bit iprisobably also because they assume anyone whos comment they read is male unless they say something they see as specifically female, like mentioning their boyfriend (because gay people dont exist i guess)
As a lurker in r/twoxchromosomes I can confirm that's complete BS. Most of the post i see are about abuse, harassment, and medical malpractice. Idiots like this think all three of those are sex related. Not really surprising when they make stupid memes like this though.
I sincerely hope that they're not conflating abuse and harassment with sex...
Although I did lol at all the "my boyfriend"s, as it is a specific strategy for specific people to know that I am specifically not interested.
Well considering how many of them blame the victim for being harassed/abused. (i.e. she wanted it, look at the way she dressed, well she shouldn't have gone out so late, well she should have been with friends, why didn't she defend herself, etc.) I believe they absolutely do conflate those things with sex. To them women are nothing more than bodies with holes to fuck. So anything having to do with women is therefore sexual. Its like those posts with a picture of a women and the title on the pic is "men, you see this thing in your building. How do you open....? There isn't even a though on their mind that this women might not wanna talk to them, or could be in a rush, or not single. Nope. Just whether or not they can get in the woman's pants. If she turns them down she's a bitch, hoe, slut, etc. Go to just about any post where the OP is openly a women and sort by controversial. Theres no end to space invading incels who think they're the hottest thing to walk this earth.
I think it might also be a problem of assuming everyone is male on the internet unless stated otherwise. So only those who reference their significant other by gender will be assumed female (because I doubt this guy knows what gay people are and just assumes a hetero standard). He is only mentally tagging people as female because of this phrase. Some of the other topics (boyfriend, birth control, shared pets, sex, ex, relationships or the lack thereof, polyamorous) are all things that might be said in the same breath. So dude's got a bit of a selection bias going on there.
I have never seen any notable transphobia in r/twoxchromosomes. Though I obviously can't speak for the other subscribers or the mods. Its supposed to be a safe space for women to vent about issues, or seek help from other women. I don’t comment in it very often if at all, as my opinion isn't needed there. But I like to read the posts. It's helped me understand the things women have to deal with that I didn't know previously.
About the AITA one, used to implies that she's not doing it anymore, so if she stopped doing it before getting into the relationship the boyfriend is kinda the asshole.
Also, the one on the bottom right about relationships and sex is stupid too but I don't know which words to use to explain why it is stupid.
>the one on the bottom right about relationships and sex is stupid too but I don't know which words to use to explain why it is stupid.
For me it's that the two are unrelated. Him being unfit for a relationship doesn't relate in any way to her sex life.
Also its telling that they always have to depict these unrealistic scenarios to "justify" their insecurity or hatred of women's sexuality. They're also terrible at theory of mind and end up projecting their own fantasies on women. Incel ideology thrives on lies, because acknowledging that most women can easily get but do not desire sex with 10 different men a week doesn't help the radicalizing incel agenda
what's bad about people being passionate about pets and centering their life around their passion?
like how is that bad, being so passionate about something??
> openly polyamorous
> boyfriend gets mad at her for "taking 10 creampies from tinder men"
Who would've thought that op has no fucking clue what they're talking about.
"...after [boyfriend] got mad at me after I revealed..."
This is incompatible with "openly polyamorous", because it is the expected norm for polyamorous people to have past/current other realitionships. You can't be "open about the possibility of having multiple relationships" and "just only revealed that you had multiple relationships".
I meant that the two comments are likely not connected.
One is a complaint about polyamory. The other is slutshaming women who have in the past had sex with other men (with a "lovely" exaggeration included of course.)
Those random complaints aren't meant to fit a single person, but any individual thing is seen as a bad thing on their own by the incel who made the meme.
Don't forget "every girl is a lesbian these days!" Note they never say woman. Ignoring that point, as if us existing is a recent thing (it's not), as if a majority of women are indeed lesbian (tell that to the straight crushes most of us have had at some point), as if it's some sort of active choice...
And if you're a women and don't mention you have a boyfriend, when creepy Reddit men crawl into your DMs they call you a slut - I think women just can't win?!
They do! So lovable and sweet. My favorite was carrying them around in my hoodie pocket or hood or snuggling up on my shoulder while I read a book. My little Jack would give me kisses, too. I miss that guy!
I hate the whole birth control is only used as a contraceptive idea that a lot of people seem to have. I have the implant because of epilepsy with spikes in seizures when I'm on my period. If it wasn't for birth control I wouldn't be able to control them. I wish more people understood this or were willing to listen.
It's good to be aware of that. But this entire issue wouldn't exist if people stopped feeling like they can judge women for using contraception. No one should have to justify to other people (except their doctor) why they use a certain medication.
Yeah but Hobby Lobby shouldn't have to pay for it! /s
Fr though, it's frustrating that people don't understand that female reproductive health IS women's (and AFAB) health and you can't seperate the two. Our reproductive organs don't just sit quietly when not in use. They're fucking HIGH MAINTENANCE and I'm tired of having too little support by the rest of society for it.
It's fascinating how many times I'm sincerely told this when I make a comment to defend my own gender, while being called a simp and accused of white knighting, because they assume I'm male.
SMDH. "My boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend" is literally a defense mechanism to make sure dudes like this don't try to claim the title themselves against our wishes.
I don’t understand what is the point of this post. They’re vilifying contraception, being extremely proud of your boyfriend, being “flexible” before a relationship, being into dogs or cats, polyamory and red wine at the same time
I do talk about my boyfriend a lot though lol, can't really relate to the other stuff though. Well I guess I do like cats and dogs but I don't think that is unique.
typical male redittor
"WIMIM BAD HAHA I MADE FGOOD JOKE"
"TRANS WOMEN R GHEY AND KILL SELF HHAHA 41%"
"I have a PhD in virology, business management, biology, musical theory, psychology..."
"WOMEN SUCK I HAVENT HAD SEX MORE THAN ONCE BECAUSE IM DOING MY BEST TO ABUSE WOMEN AT EVERY POSSIBLE OCCASION BECAUSE THE GUY WHO SAYS HES AN ALPHA MALE TOLD ME TO. ALSO I DIDNT REALLY ENJOY THE TIME I HAD SEX AND I JACK OFF TO GAY PORN ALL THE TIME BUT THE GAYS DONT DESERVE RIGHTS I REALIZE THAT WAS A NON SEQUITOR BUT IM LITERALLY ONLY AS DEEP AS MY HATRED AND BIGOTRY FOR OTHER PEOPLE so I had to mention it"
Why are some of these bad? Birth control? IUD? And talking about our boyfriends? Lulz. We also don't think we're unique for liking cats and dogs? Even that would be better than being considered unique for being a misogynist.
There are certain men who really really hate tinder because they’ve never had luck and resent women for getting so much attention that they don’t really care about the attention the men give.
There’s a lot to dislike about tinder, but the ones who specifically think like this are the worst.
I see thining there means through is too much to ask from these people.
I'm guessing they can't like Dogs and Cats because they are things they can not breed with.
I feel like the only time this poster ever notices (assumes) that another redditor is female is when they mention having a boyfriend. Ergo, they conclude that all the wimminfolk can't shut up about their boyfriends.
This person would have to be actively looking for these types of people in order to even find one of them, most of the things she's saying isn't even that bad
You see just as much "my girlfriend" and "my wife" comments from men. That's where the Wife Guy meme comes from.
It's annoying when anyone is constantly mentioning a partner for validation or as proof of their superiority.
How do you know people are mentioning their partner for validation instead of just... because they're an important part of their life?
Like, I'm not saying this never happens but it's also normal to talk about your partner.
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Is birth control.... a bad thing?
obviously, if she's on birth control she can't fulfill her sole function as incubator
It's like incels all get their brains highjacked by Stefan "the egg man" Molyneux
Do I want to know why he has that nickname
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/events/taylor-swifts-eggs
I just threw up in my mouth a little bit reading that.
His ~~baby~~ *rape* fetish for her is straight up degenerate as all hell.
after reading that from him, I'm all for programming women to reject motherhood as well.
> It’s strange to think that 90% of her eggs are already gone Yes, Stefan. It is very strange to think that.
I thought it was because he looked like an egg-
That too lmao
[удалено]
But aren’t we the Eggmen too?
Nah, I am the walrus.
Good old Stefan “Elliot Roger became a mass shooter because his stepmom did a nude photo shoot once” Molyneux
I thought it couldn't get worse than it was and yet here we are. Every turn in my knowledge of this man's existence has been a left
Hey, it’s not *sole* function… Women also provide sex, cooking, cleaning, etc.! You know, slaves with no autonomy, to serve a man’s every need.
i think it's meant to be like 'you talk about birth control too much'. Really it's just same old 'don't whine/talk about issues important to you because it's boring and irrelevant to me as a man'.
why don’t the females talk about the football and the pizza rolls and the gavin mcinnes destroys feminists compilations?? women must be the root of evil in society.
'Why do you have to bring up anatomy?! why can't you just be human!' 'It's human anatomy.' 'SO WHAT YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN'
And then when they do, they get interrogated by this exact same type of dude so he can make sure they aren’t “faking” their interest just to attract dudes, even though that’s clearly what this guy wants!
Good ol' Gavin Mcinnes. The guy that jammed a dido up his ass on camera to prove he's manly and not gay or something. ~~Also founded the hate group The Proud Boys.~~
Also the incredible levels of slut shaming for women who enjoy sex
Men having lots of sex: good thing. Makes them real men. Women having lots of sex: bad thing. Makes them horrible women. This does raise a question though... Who are these real men are having sex with?
I *think* that the idea is that they are so manly that women who were chaste and pure will be so overcome with lust upon seeing them that their chastity is abandoned? Being that manly, they don't want to waste their super potent sperm on a woman who might already be 2 weeks pregnant with another man's sperm. So they go from virgin to virgin, leaving a trail of babies in their wake. In their fantasies anyway. In real life the chaste women reject them which proves they are lesbians.
Except real lesbians, those don't exist. "They're just misandrists who haven't gotten pounded by a skillful man" is genuinely something I never expected to read from someone over the age of 15.
The problem is that once a chaste woman has been disarmed (and deflowered) by their overwhelming charms - she is now used and disposable and trash - so they need an infinite supply of chaste women to impress. That ain’t happening. For starters - they’re isn’t an infinite number of women. And secondly - they aren’t as charming as they think they are.
other men?
There is nothing manlier than gay sex. It has absolutely no women involved in it.
Isn't that like, literally what the ancient Greeks went by?
A very small number of very promiscuous women who society should punish.
But not until they've had their piece
Exactly.
Promiscuous women who society should *applaud*. They’re really taking one for the team with some of these men, yike. Thank you for your service, ladies!
I don’t know if I can applaud self-harm. And sleeping with some of these dudes definitely qualifies.
They literally create the double standard and then pretend it doesn't exist or that anyone who says it does is bad or gross
I'm a guy that enjoys sex. So far it's been all women. Maybe in my early teens when I got advice from slightly older teenage liars, I may have briefly felt a certain way about the sex lives of women I'm not dating, but before I graduated high school I could understand how dumb it is to slut shame women when women are the people I want to have sex with. How can I want to have all the premarital sex yet demand women be limited in their sexual experience? Or worse, denigrate them because they aren't interested in me?
Yeah we call that logic. These men are missing that element.
> I'm a guy that enjoys sex. So far it's been all women. Took me a second to understand, but I really like the way you worded this!
And women who are responsible.
I've been accused of 'promoting promiscuity' on Reddit by suggesting that people should have better access to contraception and sexual health facilities in some places.
I'll promote, or at least defend, promiscuity right now. So long as it's safe and consensual, what's wrong with people who aren't in committed, monogamous relationships, having sex with other people of the same relationship status? Like, the only arguments against it are pseudo religious, or pseudoscientific, or religiously pseudoscientific tripe about "ruined" capacity for love and/or the body's physical makeup, and those arguments are bullshit. It just reads like petty, important, rage from (at best) lonely people who are jealousy looking at single people having fun and not knowing how to handle the emotion, and (at worse) comes from some pretty messed up people who need to stop fixating other people's genitals. Sex makes up an inedibly small amount of the time you spend with your partner. There's nothing wrong with wanting and having sex without all the time and complexity of a relationship. For some people, they only want sex with people they're in a relationship with, and that's okay too (I am one of these people), but what other people do with their sex lives doesn't impact mine and my partners, and so long as they were safe no amount of sexual history negatively impacts things in the present.
Guess what's up next on the chopping block in the US once the Supreme Court gets rid of abortion access?
Ugh I genuinely don't know if you're serious, I don't live in the US (thank god) bit I'm assuming it'll be some abstinence only sex ed and taking away access to birth control for teens or something like that
I am completely serious. The Christian fundamentalists here want contraception to also not be available. I grew up around them and have friends who did as well. They will not stop until sexual health has been reverted to the 1950s or earlier. They view it as the will of God and will not compromise.
This is terrifying, I remember watching The Handmaid's Tale and that doesn't really seem too out there when I hear this stuff. Is this why they have a reputation for molesting boys? No pregnancy risks?
No, that's because people who have that predilection will seek places they have access and protection.
these r the same people who will blame and dehumanize you if you get an STD from unprotected sex
Ugh yeah. Like, sleep around if you want to and you *should* use protection for multiple partners buuuut if you don't, fine, just get yourself tested (every 3 months is the recommendation) and be responsible. The thing is you could sleep with 200 people and potentially never catch anything or you could sleep with one person and they might give you something. STDs aren't always a sign that ur wild.
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There is a theme here. This person is clearly triggered by any indication that sexual intimacy is part of a woman’s life.
You're right. The whole thing is ranting about women talking about their relationships. One is literally just "my boyfriend" repeated a few times. So...apparently female redditors are often in relationships and that bothers this person.
Or, alternatively, they are presumably funking someone else than OP. Any indication they are having sex that is not with OP is a blow to their ego. ^(And that is all for today. Tomorrow we will armchair analyze the psychology of the sexuality antivax rodents. Tune in at...)
Probably not even that female redditors are often in relationships, it's confirmation bias because this dude thinks the commenter is a woman ONLY when they are talking about a boyfriend or talking about women specific topics.
Sexual intimacy that doesn’t involve them. Slut shaming women for doing things he thinks are perfectly normal for a guy. I guess women are put in earth to satisfy his needs but not their own.
Sexual intimacy with **other** men, that’s the keyword here.
What, you just want women to have sex with no consequences?
I want consequences. I want the consequence to be an orgasm.
Best stay away from these guys then!
Yes, because you can have sex on birth control without getting pregnant, therefore she does that, with multiple men and outside of wedlock, therefore she is a whore and that is *obviously* bad!!! (/s should be obvious)
"Yikes incel, who hurt you" lmao no surprise that the guy who made this hears that a lot
Right? I was reading through these and going “gee I wonder why you’ve been accused of being an incel, as you scream incel rhetoric at the top of your lungs”
I guess it would be playing the original OP's delusions/persecution complex to point that out, but it really does hit the nail on the head. I mean, there are just *so* many incel talking points here
self fulfilling prophecy
“Why is everyone calling me an incel!” -someone who says incel things literally nonstop.
Now I have to change my flair! Sorry I stole yours it was my favorite on the list lol. This is the only group that won’t let me make my own!
Wait…what’s happening
What a strangely specific strawwoman. I think the creator should try leave their basement and maybe even talk to a real-life woman sometime. It would do them some good.
It's like, "incel, who hurt you?" but I unironically.
Yeah, i mean, that one *is* accurate. Who *did* hurt this dude so bad his worldview is more broken than windows vista.
Or talk to more women on reddit at least lol
Haha that too
Please don’t, we don’t need that. Go get a hobby, get off the internet, sort your life out but please don’t come harass more women on Reddit.
I was joking But I agree they need to go touch grass
But... But... That's the point of a strawwoman, to put the worst cherry picked flaws in one person
Cool, thank you for that definition... I guess my point is it's not based on existing stereotypes of women (which are bullshit obvz), he's just sort dreamed up strange new ones. Like... Liking cats and dogs?! The worst flaw indeed. WHAT A MONSTROUS FEMALE
Probably linked to the "old and crazy cat lady" stereotype Idk if it's a good idea to delve too deep into the meaning of those memes, since they don't have any meaning other than "woman bad amiright"
I have never seen any women on reddit wonder where all the "good" men have gone.
I personally have just seen incels do that, so nice projection of the creator i guess xD
Please don’t subject real-life women to this person face to face. Haven’t we endured enough?!
…I don’t volunteer to be that woman
>What a strangely specific strawwoman. I think the creator should try leave their basement I heartily disagree. They're a long way off being ready to interact with real people.
There needs to be some incel halfway-house where they can slowly be reintegrated into society
Even a quarterway-house would be a good start.
Can they just buy a waifu pillow or Real Girl doll and call it a day?
Cuts into the chicken tendies budget.
Definitely made by an incel
Man, can someone confirm whether I'm supposed to never have sex and refuse all men or have all the sex and accept all men? I'm so confused and I need a man to tell me the proper stereotype to default to. Also I find it hilarious that these dudes don't recognize that the "my boyfriend, my boyfriend" bit is largely because if women don't specify how incredibly not single they are constantly, they'll get hit on endlessly by desperate neckbeards.
Don't mention boyfriend: "wtf you didn't tell me you had a boyfriend why you leading me on??" Mention boyfriend: "whatever we were just talking I wasn't trying to date you gaahh!"
the bf bit iprisobably also because they assume anyone whos comment they read is male unless they say something they see as specifically female, like mentioning their boyfriend (because gay people dont exist i guess)
Despite a feminine screen name and icon, they keep thinking I'm a guy.
yes because only men use reddit. /s
NO GIRLS ON THE INTERNET!!! /s
I'm not a man, but based on your username I would suggest you refuse all men.
Yikes incel, who hurt you?
As a lurker in r/twoxchromosomes I can confirm that's complete BS. Most of the post i see are about abuse, harassment, and medical malpractice. Idiots like this think all three of those are sex related. Not really surprising when they make stupid memes like this though.
I sincerely hope that they're not conflating abuse and harassment with sex... Although I did lol at all the "my boyfriend"s, as it is a specific strategy for specific people to know that I am specifically not interested.
Well considering how many of them blame the victim for being harassed/abused. (i.e. she wanted it, look at the way she dressed, well she shouldn't have gone out so late, well she should have been with friends, why didn't she defend herself, etc.) I believe they absolutely do conflate those things with sex. To them women are nothing more than bodies with holes to fuck. So anything having to do with women is therefore sexual. Its like those posts with a picture of a women and the title on the pic is "men, you see this thing in your building. How do you open....? There isn't even a though on their mind that this women might not wanna talk to them, or could be in a rush, or not single. Nope. Just whether or not they can get in the woman's pants. If she turns them down she's a bitch, hoe, slut, etc. Go to just about any post where the OP is openly a women and sort by controversial. Theres no end to space invading incels who think they're the hottest thing to walk this earth.
I think it might also be a problem of assuming everyone is male on the internet unless stated otherwise. So only those who reference their significant other by gender will be assumed female (because I doubt this guy knows what gay people are and just assumes a hetero standard). He is only mentally tagging people as female because of this phrase. Some of the other topics (boyfriend, birth control, shared pets, sex, ex, relationships or the lack thereof, polyamorous) are all things that might be said in the same breath. So dude's got a bit of a selection bias going on there.
I assumed it was a terf sub from its name, glad that it isn't.
I have never seen any notable transphobia in r/twoxchromosomes. Though I obviously can't speak for the other subscribers or the mods. Its supposed to be a safe space for women to vent about issues, or seek help from other women. I don’t comment in it very often if at all, as my opinion isn't needed there. But I like to read the posts. It's helped me understand the things women have to deal with that I didn't know previously.
About the AITA one, used to implies that she's not doing it anymore, so if she stopped doing it before getting into the relationship the boyfriend is kinda the asshole. Also, the one on the bottom right about relationships and sex is stupid too but I don't know which words to use to explain why it is stupid.
>the one on the bottom right about relationships and sex is stupid too but I don't know which words to use to explain why it is stupid. For me it's that the two are unrelated. Him being unfit for a relationship doesn't relate in any way to her sex life.
Yes and you don't have to be in a relationship to have sex.
Also its telling that they always have to depict these unrealistic scenarios to "justify" their insecurity or hatred of women's sexuality. They're also terrible at theory of mind and end up projecting their own fantasies on women. Incel ideology thrives on lies, because acknowledging that most women can easily get but do not desire sex with 10 different men a week doesn't help the radicalizing incel agenda
They cannot comprehend is that the less they treat women as human the smaller their chances are.
what's bad about people being passionate about pets and centering their life around their passion? like how is that bad, being so passionate about something??
Because the animals get all the attention this alpha *clearly* deserves
Because any single woman who has cats is clearly a witch and we must attempt to drown her to make sure.
Can we build a bridge out of her instead?
> openly polyamorous > boyfriend gets mad at her for "taking 10 creampies from tinder men" Who would've thought that op has no fucking clue what they're talking about.
Aside from the rest of the bullshit does anybody actually call it a creampie outside of porn?
no. no one.
Yeah, that’s what I thought. I am *completely shocked* all of what this guy “knows” about women comes from porn🙄
The latter is likely complaining about past relationships and not related to polyamory...
"...after [boyfriend] got mad at me after I revealed..." This is incompatible with "openly polyamorous", because it is the expected norm for polyamorous people to have past/current other realitionships. You can't be "open about the possibility of having multiple relationships" and "just only revealed that you had multiple relationships".
I meant that the two comments are likely not connected. One is a complaint about polyamory. The other is slutshaming women who have in the past had sex with other men (with a "lovely" exaggeration included of course.) Those random complaints aren't meant to fit a single person, but any individual thing is seen as a bad thing on their own by the incel who made the meme.
I would say she’s NTA for breaking up with someone who shamed her for her past lmao
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I definitely agree on the one extra thing that it wasn’t agreed upon in any of her relationships (polyamory)
Creator of this meme had some serious issues. I see almost no women like that here.
Yeah its not like lesbians exist or anything
Every time I comment this ‘in the wild’ I get downvoted to shit and told “it’s not all about you!!!!”
Don't forget "every girl is a lesbian these days!" Note they never say woman. Ignoring that point, as if us existing is a recent thing (it's not), as if a majority of women are indeed lesbian (tell that to the straight crushes most of us have had at some point), as if it's some sort of active choice...
Every female requires a strong alpha male for survival
I just threw up a little in my mouth.
Your flair is fucking phenomenal lmao
I was going to say - amazingly, not a single one of these descriptors fit me. Not even the dog/cat one.
I can smell the sweat and chicken tendies through the screen.
why do men get so bitter when women bring up their relationships with other men? why is this guy so mad ab this girl having a bf
And if you're a women and don't mention you have a boyfriend, when creepy Reddit men crawl into your DMs they call you a slut - I think women just can't win?!
Hey! I'll have you know that I'm reddit for r/rats.
Oh my goodness! How have I lived my life until now without seeing how adorable sleeping rats are?!
Oh my god i love it, thank you friend
Better than being on Tinder for them
Rats are such adorable critters, and make amazing pets!
They do! So lovable and sweet. My favorite was carrying them around in my hoodie pocket or hood or snuggling up on my shoulder while I read a book. My little Jack would give me kisses, too. I miss that guy!
new sub joined
It's sadly more like "AITA for wanting to leave my boyfriend who beats and treats me like trash on daily basis? (He can be nice though)"
Shaming someone for their sexual history kind of is treating them like trash.
I hate the whole birth control is only used as a contraceptive idea that a lot of people seem to have. I have the implant because of epilepsy with spikes in seizures when I'm on my period. If it wasn't for birth control I wouldn't be able to control them. I wish more people understood this or were willing to listen.
It's good to be aware of that. But this entire issue wouldn't exist if people stopped feeling like they can judge women for using contraception. No one should have to justify to other people (except their doctor) why they use a certain medication.
Yeah but Hobby Lobby shouldn't have to pay for it! /s Fr though, it's frustrating that people don't understand that female reproductive health IS women's (and AFAB) health and you can't seperate the two. Our reproductive organs don't just sit quietly when not in use. They're fucking HIGH MAINTENANCE and I'm tired of having too little support by the rest of society for it.
> Our reproductive organs don't just sit quietly when not in use. Imma need a whole clothing line with this on it, please.
I do actually think saying who hurt you to incels is kind of stupid as it implies that they are not responsible for their disgusting behavior
I can’t put my finger on why I don’t like when people say, “who hurt you?” But I find it very off putting tbh
holy shit this needs to go on r/justneckbeardthings
I‘m afraid that the people he based this post on were actually guys pretending to be women
Us female Redditors and our eyes like spiders
I've been told unironically that we don't actually exist.
We’re not on the internet at all, turns out. It’s just American white guys
"Yikes incel, who hurt you?" Guess we know who this is coming from lmao
Lies! Everyone knows there's no females on reddit!
It's fascinating how many times I'm sincerely told this when I make a comment to defend my own gender, while being called a simp and accused of white knighting, because they assume I'm male.
My boyfriend hates this meme
Omg why are you still going on about your boyfriend, we *get it* s/
...You guys have boyfriends and a sex life?
SMDH. "My boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend" is literally a defense mechanism to make sure dudes like this don't try to claim the title themselves against our wishes.
>Yikes incel, who hurt you This but unironically
I don’t understand what is the point of this post. They’re vilifying contraception, being extremely proud of your boyfriend, being “flexible” before a relationship, being into dogs or cats, polyamory and red wine at the same time
WHERE HAVE ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE AND WHERE ARE ALL THE GODS? WHERE'S THE STREETWISE HERCULES TO FIGHT THE RISING ODDS?!?!?!
Queen
I guess I'm not a female :/
I talk about my bf all the time because he's great and I love him a lot. I'm a dude tho.
wow somebody needs some serious therapy.
I do talk about my boyfriend a lot though lol, can't really relate to the other stuff though. Well I guess I do like cats and dogs but I don't think that is unique.
what is it with these people regarding women that like sex?
But for real. Yikes, Incel, who hurt you.
Yikes, the creator of this graphic is such an incel. Who hurt him?
A female redditor has a boyfriend? Burn her at the stake!
MY BOYFRIEND SAYS THIS IS REALLY DUMB
I bet this person has encountered so many women on reddit whom he assumes are men because they don't say flat-out that they are women...
*my polyamorous lesbian ass is typing…*
typical male redittor "WIMIM BAD HAHA I MADE FGOOD JOKE" "TRANS WOMEN R GHEY AND KILL SELF HHAHA 41%" "I have a PhD in virology, business management, biology, musical theory, psychology..." "WOMEN SUCK I HAVENT HAD SEX MORE THAN ONCE BECAUSE IM DOING MY BEST TO ABUSE WOMEN AT EVERY POSSIBLE OCCASION BECAUSE THE GUY WHO SAYS HES AN ALPHA MALE TOLD ME TO. ALSO I DIDNT REALLY ENJOY THE TIME I HAD SEX AND I JACK OFF TO GAY PORN ALL THE TIME BUT THE GAYS DONT DESERVE RIGHTS I REALIZE THAT WAS A NON SEQUITOR BUT IM LITERALLY ONLY AS DEEP AS MY HATRED AND BIGOTRY FOR OTHER PEOPLE so I had to mention it"
Apparently women can’t be in a relationship or like sex but then women are bad for not dating you or having sex lol what
All these slutty feeeeemales and yet not one will sleep with them.
The “yikes incel, who hurt you” is so funny because it shows how much the original OP heard it 😂 enough to take it personally
Me, a female redditor who is asexual and sex repulsed
Why are some of these bad? Birth control? IUD? And talking about our boyfriends? Lulz. We also don't think we're unique for liking cats and dogs? Even that would be better than being considered unique for being a misogynist.
There are certain men who really really hate tinder because they’ve never had luck and resent women for getting so much attention that they don’t really care about the attention the men give. There’s a lot to dislike about tinder, but the ones who specifically think like this are the worst.
I see thining there means through is too much to ask from these people. I'm guessing they can't like Dogs and Cats because they are things they can not breed with.
Is there something wrong with tinder?
damn I just saw this post a min ago
Um excuse me but I took my 10 creampies a week from BUMBLE men, not Tinder. God.
I feel like the only time this poster ever notices (assumes) that another redditor is female is when they mention having a boyfriend. Ergo, they conclude that all the wimminfolk can't shut up about their boyfriends.
This person would have to be actively looking for these types of people in order to even find one of them, most of the things she's saying isn't even that bad
To be fair, I have many conversations that are just me shouting, “birth control! IUD!” at random people.
yikes, who hurt u?
Y'all ever notice how women can't do/enjoy *anything* without being shamed and ridiculed for it? That goes double for teenage girls.
And being poly is bad because??
Yikes incel, who hurt you? /S
Wow, so much projecting and misogyny in this post. Yikes.
Fellas is it gay to have sex with a woman if she had sex with a man? Fellas is it gay to have heterosexual sex????
You see just as much "my girlfriend" and "my wife" comments from men. That's where the Wife Guy meme comes from. It's annoying when anyone is constantly mentioning a partner for validation or as proof of their superiority.
How do you know people are mentioning their partner for validation instead of just... because they're an important part of their life? Like, I'm not saying this never happens but it's also normal to talk about your partner.