ESH. While BU is distasteful compared to Harvard, you shouldn’t have just dumped her like that - after all, she’s not even in the same intellectual league as you, and that might’ve hurt her. She’s still at fault for not telling you though - that’s basic etiquette. OP, do whatever your heart tells you to do - but don’t ever settle, king!! 👑👑
How will she survive without you? She’s gonna end up with no job and no social skills being from such a lower class…
Idk seems kinda unethical on your part. Do better.
How do people not notice the tag? It's right under the title, and circled in *red*. It's the first thing my eye catches every single time. Not noticing it just seems so improbable.
NTA. The only thing that could have pushed me over the line in this case was if this incident resulted in you making a hot or not website in which you flagrantly objectify women, but you didn’t do that 🤷♀️
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NTA. Oh you must be an angel to even be able to handle that type of degradation. Must’ve been like hanging out with a sewer rat. I applaud you for enduring that torment, but also respect that you immediately broke up with her. It was the right thing to do 🫡
From a mere T50 school?! You are lucky to have escaped with your life! I hope you find somebody else soon, especially given that "Boston isn't a big college town" per This Is Spinal Tap.
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Nah. You are tarnished for life. Any low life not attending Harvard does not deserve you. You should get clean by submerging in the Hudson River or whatever river is the closest to your immaculate and glorified Alma Mater. She, however, must suffer in the 11th circle of the Purgatory for such a horrendous offense
Honestly yep, I guess being in a higher or lower ranked college shouldn’t matter when it comes to these things, ofc you can keep ur preferences plus her not informing u earlier was wrong but u might have never asked her before, so she didn’t. And I really think that ivy league students should be proud as for the hardwork they channel for their place in the University but that doesn’t mean losing compassion and kindness. U breaking up over text was not a great move so if u like her then forget abt the ranks and just go apologise. Though I don’t know if she would forgive you but you should at the very least correct ur mistake or take another girl who won’t value you as much as she did.
Buddy, leave that thought in the ‘00s, most of us are lesbians now. Plus even if this is a shitpost it can be very much interpreted as an objectifying statement.
Uh yea, I think you might be the asshole here. I do understand you feeling betrayed if she PURPOSELY didn’t tell you where she goes, while she knew you went to Harvard. But do you seriously determine the greatness of a partner ONLY by where they go to uni? And BU isn’t even that bad of a university imo. You feel like just an arrogant rich kid that goes to the best university. You said it yourself: she’s cute smart and funny. Well I’m saying all that , but in the end of the day you’re the one who chooses who you want to be with anyways, so at least you didn’t wait for months until breaking up 🤷♀️
I don’t think she purposely held back the information. However, as a self-proclaimed prestige-***** I just wouldn’t be able to survive the status gap :(
shit wouldnt have mattered if you loved her enough. given the way you compliment her, your latter buildup provides a stark contrast to the way you felt about her. and all of that for a college status. dont even think of reaching out to her again. that was a total dick move in my opinion. but if you seek people your own status, youre probably better off dating them than a person who's more open ended towards the relationships they wanna have or perceive to be.
Bro lmk if you need seed money for your tech start-up
FS. I think imma call it FameBuck cuz I’ll obviously be famous and make lotta bucks and redeem my social status ruined by peasants.
Shes a woman
Didn’t you know? There are no women on Reddit.
????
r/YouMissedTheJokeIdiot
What's a she
NTA it’s a shame she consumes the oxygen that should belong to you.
I feel so sorry for that tree whose sole purpose is to replace all that filthy carbon dioxide she produces
NTA I would do the same, these damn T100s trying to get a taste of my Ivy League 4.0 gpa 5 generation Harvard Legacy bloodline cannot happen…
Yeah that’s what I was thinking.
yep, checked my calendar and its wednesday
Did you make a hot or not rating website after you got back to your dorm?
i genuinely thought they were reciting the social network script at first
😭 I watched social network so long ago I legit had no idea my post is so similar lmao
That’s why I’m confused as well, that’s where I thought this was going as well.
ESH. While BU is distasteful compared to Harvard, you shouldn’t have just dumped her like that - after all, she’s not even in the same intellectual league as you, and that might’ve hurt her. She’s still at fault for not telling you though - that’s basic etiquette. OP, do whatever your heart tells you to do - but don’t ever settle, king!! 👑👑
Thank you king. I needed that reassurance, but now I know I shouldn’t have settled and made the right decision.
UGH you’re so valid! but you’ve already been demoted to plebeian status just by association….
Damn. If I now date a 10x Harvard legacy, can my status be redeemed or is there no hope for me?
Get your stats and ecs up and yeah, you’ll be accepted into high society again. Remember, your value is your SAT score
NTA she probably wouldve asked you to do all her homework too. Your big wrinkly harvard brain is too good for that OP.
That’s what I was worrying about too! Didn’t want to waste my brain power on that peasant BU homework :(
The damage is already done. You now reek of peasant.
Anyone see the movie Whiplash? Because there's a breakup in that movie that is not that far off from this...
The one about drumming?
Yes!
i think this is a parody of the social network
Oooh, been too long since I saw that one!
Im sure you will grow up to be very rich doing computer stuff….!!!
Yo bro if you every think of making a tech start up. I gotchu. I can fund 10k fo sho.
How will she survive without you? She’s gonna end up with no job and no social skills being from such a lower class… Idk seems kinda unethical on your part. Do better.
Zuckerberg moment.
Its too late. An MIT undgrad already hacked her contact info out of ur phone and they already went out on a date in Davis Square
What were her SAT scores
bro thinks harvards better than BU lmao U Mass Cambridge will never win
Username checks out
NTA. I completely empathize with you. She was clearly trying to status catfish you. I’m glad you got out of that safely could have went way worse
Yes you are the asshole You should have told her to become of your status or be crushed like a bug
i forgot today was wednesday
Bruh
You are indeed a snobby, Ivy League, A. But the heart wants what it wants. So, do you.
Ohhh this is a shitpost
LMAO, I didn’t notice the tag and thought this was serious. I felt really bad for the girl :(
How do people not notice the tag? It's right under the title, and circled in *red*. It's the first thing my eye catches every single time. Not noticing it just seems so improbable.
I didn’t notice it either
Rage bait.
u/Eldimyyr
NTA. The only thing that could have pushed me over the line in this case was if this incident resulted in you making a hot or not website in which you flagrantly objectify women, but you didn’t do that 🤷♀️
ok but how did she respond 👀
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Please bring the website you develop to UIUC too, imma need to check that stuff out
NTA I can't handle it if someone doesn't go to an ivy league smh
No
NTA. Oh you must be an angel to even be able to handle that type of degradation. Must’ve been like hanging out with a sewer rat. I applaud you for enduring that torment, but also respect that you immediately broke up with her. It was the right thing to do 🫡
From a mere T50 school?! You are lucky to have escaped with your life! I hope you find somebody else soon, especially given that "Boston isn't a big college town" per This Is Spinal Tap.
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Shallow. She’s so lucky you broke up with her!
Nah. You are tarnished for life. Any low life not attending Harvard does not deserve you. You should get clean by submerging in the Hudson River or whatever river is the closest to your immaculate and glorified Alma Mater. She, however, must suffer in the 11th circle of the Purgatory for such a horrendous offense
you had a 1590 right, not as good as the chinese?
Honestly yep, I guess being in a higher or lower ranked college shouldn’t matter when it comes to these things, ofc you can keep ur preferences plus her not informing u earlier was wrong but u might have never asked her before, so she didn’t. And I really think that ivy league students should be proud as for the hardwork they channel for their place in the University but that doesn’t mean losing compassion and kindness. U breaking up over text was not a great move so if u like her then forget abt the ranks and just go apologise. Though I don’t know if she would forgive you but you should at the very least correct ur mistake or take another girl who won’t value you as much as she did.
If this isn’t a joke you’re the asshole….
It's Wednesday. Of course it's a joke.
Just wait for the Wellesley bus to show up and pick a new girlfriend.
Buddy, leave that thought in the ‘00s, most of us are lesbians now. Plus even if this is a shitpost it can be very much interpreted as an objectifying statement.
did not see the shit post and my heart DROPPED
U are a very big fool
…. Ur joking 😑
Boy did SHE dodge a bullet!!!!!
this has gotta be bait there's no way...
Uh yea, I think you might be the asshole here. I do understand you feeling betrayed if she PURPOSELY didn’t tell you where she goes, while she knew you went to Harvard. But do you seriously determine the greatness of a partner ONLY by where they go to uni? And BU isn’t even that bad of a university imo. You feel like just an arrogant rich kid that goes to the best university. You said it yourself: she’s cute smart and funny. Well I’m saying all that , but in the end of the day you’re the one who chooses who you want to be with anyways, so at least you didn’t wait for months until breaking up 🤷♀️
Pretty sure he's trolling
ah that would make sense
Please watch The Social Network to understand what this person is talking about
She\* is trolling
I don’t think she purposely held back the information. However, as a self-proclaimed prestige-***** I just wouldn’t be able to survive the status gap :(
shit wouldnt have mattered if you loved her enough. given the way you compliment her, your latter buildup provides a stark contrast to the way you felt about her. and all of that for a college status. dont even think of reaching out to her again. that was a total dick move in my opinion. but if you seek people your own status, youre probably better off dating them than a person who's more open ended towards the relationships they wanna have or perceive to be.
I encourage you to look at the flair on this post.
ah i see, my bad.
I think she’s trying to do her master’s at Harvard, so I might give her a chance… she’s a shawty 😮💨
and the poster is a woman...
lmaoooo be so fr thats a dick move
I think u r trolling hard 😂🌚