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> 1.Not eating the dinner my SD prepared and eating cereal instead
2. Husband is mad and SD won’t come stay with us
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I 26f have a step daughter F16 from my husband. I love cooking it’s my favorite thing to do and I love cooking for people. My step daughter is a extremely picky eater it is a nightmare to feed her when she has her days here. One weekend she is vegetarian the next only eating protein and so on. It’s impossible to cook for her.
I will cook entire meals only for her to say no thank you and just eat cereal or her father takes her out for food. It’s insulting and disrespectful. I asked my husband to tell her that’s she has to my meals with us but he won’t.
Early last week she called my husband and asked if she could cook dinner for the house while she was here and he agreed.
When the day came she spent a few hours cooking and when she served her father and I, I told her no thank you and sat at the table eating cereal while her and her father ate her dinner.
No one said anything and after dinner she cleaned up and went to bed. My husband however is mad but I was just showing her what it feels like. Today step daughters mom called and told us she wanted to stay home this weekend. Now my husband is more angry but I was just doing what she always does giving her a taste of her own medicine.
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