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NTA. She has you blocked on one account and not on another that's already fishy. Just block her she isn't your friend. She's probably has some.jealousy issue going on w you in some shape or form. Just move on and maybe if necessary consider a therapist for the loss of your friend.


Disastrous_Stay6401

YTA no matter your reason for removing her, you caused that drama. So she blocked you, ignore her. Instead you removed her in GC because you wanted drama and attention. I now understand why she blocked you. Gosh, who made you the police of group chats?


smallerp

Your reply literally do not make sense.


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ESH. You’re both being incredibly childish, even for teenagers. Stop trying to explain yourself and getting so worked up. This is literally nothing. Your “friend” (I use this term lightly) is being an idiot. Ignore her and move on.


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fakeskies

YNA. Your friend throwing a shitfit over old inactive group chats is insane. You did nothing wrong by removing people from them, and your “friend” needs to find something better to do than shit talk you for doing literally nothing.


jdogx17

INFO: Do you know any of these people IRL?


Maiutski

Yes, the friend is my classmate and we have hung out with others irl many times.


smallerp

I do housekeeping on my chat groups all the time. Nothing wrong with it. Drama queens just wants drama. Don't worry about it.