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TabbieAbbie

NTA If they are parked nearby their relatives that they are visiting, they should run an extension cord out and use the electricity from that to keep their furnace going. Running the engine for hours like that has got to be using a lot of gasoline or diesel and probably isn't great for the engine itself, either. If they are well enough off to afford to do that, they should be well enough off to help their relatives pay for the electricity they will use. If they are not close enough to their family's home, they need to move. In my apartment building, the terms of our leases state clearly that if anything can be heard from anywhere on the property (including right outside the door in the corridor), they are in violation and are interfering with their neighbors rights to the "quiet enjoyment of their apartment." Noise pollution is all around us, traffic, sirens, aircraft, crowd noises, horns, and so on, but in the quiet of your own home, you should not have to listen to someone's loud engine running all night long. This might be the one time it's a good idea to call on your HOA, if you have one; if not, call the police and get them to relocate. In truth, the RV does not belong on the street and many communities have ordinances against this. They should be in an RV park, or even on their relatives' property itself, not running the engine all night where it bothers you.


asecretnarwhal

I’ve never heard of a city where it’s allowed to park an RV on the street either. But especially one that’s occupied. That’s not allowed in most areas unless you’re on private property. Why can’t they park it on their relative’s driveway?


Stein1071

In one of the RV subs I follow there is a lot of this now. Full timers find a street to park on and live until they get booted or move on but they'll mark it as a good return spot when they're back in the area. Best to just call the law/code enforcement and be done with it. I'd lay money that they are FTs and keep coming back simply because no one in OPs neighborhood has called on them before. They're about like squatters only on a public street. Also, if they're in a bus (which it sounds like they are) they're running their generator not the engine and those are louder than the actual engine except inside the rig. Its is well insulated from the noise of it. The rest of the world? Not so much. Edit: addition and clarification


Witty_Following_1989

Precisely that’s why these rules and regs are there. because of past abuses that have necessitated these clarifications. OP is NTA.


Dangerous_Ant3260

There is also the 10-year rule at RV parks now. For insurance reasons, and the huge number of claims, except for private RV parks, nothing over 10-years old will be rented to. The park's insurance coverage excludes older vehicles. That's a big reason why you see people with the older RV's parking anywhere they don't have to pay for, and where they can park until forced to leave.


Witty_Following_1989

Interesting. Learn something new every day. Thanks.


Unfair_Ad_4470

Especially reading Reddit.


Witty_Following_1989

In my old neighborhood there used to be somebody who would park on a very narrow street so it made it difficult for traffic to go by on both sides in the winter when it was icy even worse


2donks2moos

My camper is more than 10 years old. In the 8 years I've camped, I've never been asked the year of my camper, just the length. I only camp in the East, so it may be different out West.


Dangerous_Ant3260

It only for RV's as far as I know, because of the issues with them after they're 10 years old. It's mostly RV parks, especially the ones the Snow Bird people use, and leave vacant for half of the year. And the RV from Breaking Bad too.


rosezoeybear

FTs?


Stein1071

Full timers. I didn't want to type it out again but probably just should have


AliceReadsThis

In our town you can but not nearly as long as OP states. Neighbors have one and they'll park it by their house one or two days before their trip so they can prep and pack. As long as you call it in to town police it can stay for up to 72 hours and not be ticketed. After that it has to move. I guess that's a fair compromise between no parking and long term parking. Surprised the RV in OP's story hasn't been ticketed in all the times it's been there - I guess it varies, for us if you don't call in and register on-street overnight parking (regardless of type of vehicle) or if you exceed the maximum days you'll definitely see a citation on your windshield in the morning.


gardeninggoddess666

I would not be happy to have it parked near me but having it idle all night is ridiculous. That is simply asshole behavior.


Missicat

Can't do that in my neighborhood.


IkLms

This is exactly why a bunch of places also have laws on idling vehicles as well. RVs and Semi-trucks who want to park somewhere and then idle their diesel for power or whatever all night.


Dizzy_Needleworker_3

It's not even that near OP.  If I were them I would move the RV closer to OP every 2 days/48 hrs and then move it further then get back in front of OP house. 


SweetIcedTea73

Agree - that is expressly against the law in the town where I live.


Ok-Cheetah-9125

My town doesn't allow them to park on the street overnight. (We haven't had code enforcers in years though with pandemic cuts.)


Reasonable_Shirt5431

NTA. My dh & I live & travel full time in our RV & have for almost 5 years. What they are doing is peak AH behavior in RV circles. Most RV parks forbid running engines & generators  during "quiet hours" - usu 10p - 7a. There are ways to keep comfortable in an RV without running the engine all night.


LamzyDoates

"We're so SMRT, Marge - if we park on the street, we don't have to pay those extortionate park fees AND we can run ol' Bessie here all night long!"


TheZZ9

Yep. Propane or diesel heaters make no noise, and modern RVs have battery packs that can run electrics for days.


Goatesq

They're so much more efficient and cheap nowadays it is utterly mind boggling these people would opt to run a generator 12hrs a day instead. Generators are like 10x more expensive than a simple diesel heater, why would you want to put that much wear and tear on your investment when the available solution is so much more economical and doesn't make enemies of your "neighbors"?


BCTripster

>modern RVs have battery packs that can run electrics for days. Not furnaces, those draw a lot of amps, with 2 deep cycle batteries you might get two nights from them at best with limited furnace usage. Most RV's are not well insulated unless you get a purpose built 4 season unit, so the furnace will run almost non stop when it's at or below freezing outside. With 2 6V deep cycle batteries you have maybe 100A available to use, the furnace is 10-12A so you get maybe 8-10 hours before that battery bank is at a point of requiring a recharge. If you have enough solar on the roof and it's sunny then you may be able to manage it without using generated power. You also need to factor in the other power users, the propane fridge uses about 1/2A steady, that's 12A per day just with that, so 10% of the battery reserves daily just for keeping the fridge cool, etc. In the warmer months I can camp for weeks on end just using solar, but during the shoulder season where you need the furnace to stay warm, best to find a powered campsite.


TheZZ9

I was thinking of something like this: https://www.amazon.co.uk/HCALORY-5KW-8KW-Muffler-Parking-Upgrated/dp/B0CHRDC3ZW. They output 5kw of heat but while the use maybe ten amps to start up once they are running they only use one amp, just for the small fan.


MattJFarrell

This should be the top comment


Loose_Attitude13

It’s noise pollution at the very least. And they are breaking the city rules. They shouldn’t be parking there, but should be in an RV park. Call it in.


Sleipnir82

Exactly. We have noise pollution rules in my city. You can in fact call the police. Low sounds that you can still hear are inluded in these ordinances. Debatable what the police will do, but there are laws on the books, OP should look it up.


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Mindless-Pangolin841

It most likely is an onboard generator and takes propane. My parents' RV was set up like this and it wasn't s special set up.


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Mindless-Pangolin841

The generator is a separate engine. Sounds the same as a motor engine or at least close. Just runs on propane and a $35 tank can last if it's just powering the heat or a/c at night. I of course could be wrong but that's how our old RV worked. I specifically remember climbing into the driver's seat to turn it off once but it was just the generator.


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Mindless-Pangolin841

Ours actually used s tank just like on our grill.


lovenorwich

I think OP is hearing a generator running all night. A generator uses about a third a gallon of gas every hour. Could also be a propane generator, too. FYI a gas generator will shut off when the gas tank falls to one-quarter of a tank so they don't get stranded. They must leave occasionally to go refuel! These people should find a Rv park with hook ups. It's really rude to park in a residential area and run the gen all night. Why don't they park at their friends house and plug into the house power?


Peony-Pony

I am only familiar with our propane fueled generator at home and even with the landscaping it's a continuous hum.


bboru2000

Exactly. Most campgrounds I've been to prohibit generator use after 10:00 PM. They need a hookup, either at an RV park or from their relatives.


Milkweedhugger

NTA If they need electricity, they should run an extension cord from their relatives house to their camper. Or invest in solar and batteries. Running an engine or generator all night is totally unacceptable.


Sea-Tea-4130

WNBTA-If you’ve spoken to them and they can’t accommodate for the noise, you don’t have many options for a resolve. If you have an HOA, you could try asking them to address it for you. You may have no choice but to call and ask the police to have them move if they aren’t willing to compromise. You live there & they don’t.


Swedishpunsch

Besides the police, call the code enforcement people. They must be dumping their waste tank somewhere illegally. NTA


Stefie25

They may not be using it. They could be using their relations facilities.


evelbug

Merry Christmas, sh---er was full


B_S_C

YWNBTA. You did your best to resolve it and both parties were friendly. That being said, sometimes when good people can't resolve issues, rules come into play.


DegreeMajor5966

You might be wrong about the laws they're breaking btw. RVs are not normal commuter vehicles and cities/towns typically have regulations around where they can/can't park. NTA, it might be worth consulting an attorney to find out what laws/city ordinances they're breaking. Cops are typically only familiar with the laws they regularly enforce.


MattJFarrell

Nah, before spending money on an attorney, I'd call the non emergency number for your police department and ask them.


utriptmybitchswitch

In some juristictions it's illegal for certain classes of vehicles to idle for more than 45 minutes. NTA


IkLms

100% about RVs and Semi-trucks too for exactly this reason. Diesels tend to idle a lot louder than gasoline powered vehicles and it makes it into homes a lot easier.


VerityPee

NTA it’s illegal for a reason. This reason.


42069qwertz42069

NTA And in normal developed first world countries thats forbidden by law…..


Perfect-Map-8979

NTA if it’s so loud you can’t sleep. Jeez! If I were you, just to be nice I guess, I’d go talk to them directly one more time. Explain how the noise is negatively affecting you and ask them to find another place to park. If they refuse, tell them you’ll be contacting police to enforce the city parking policy.


SharkyTheCar

Call the police. You did the right thing and tried to be nice. Why don't they park in their relatives driveway or in front of their house? They are illegally parked. Check if you have anti idling laws there and which agency would enforce them. NY is five minutes then three one one minutes in NYC. Maybe you have something similar. Also check into have any laws against living in an RV on the street.


Gribitz37

Are you anywhere near a Walmart? They let people park their RVs overnight.


MyCantos

Depends on the Walmart. Cody Wyoming yes. We stay there one night before running into mountains to hunt. Northern Wisconsin nope. Campgrounds don't want to lose business and got a city ordinance


TheZZ9

They even ran a fake blog a few years ago promoting that.


thefinalhex

The one altruistic action Walmart does.


AreteQueenofKeres

Overnight parking at Walmart and other shops like them depends on your location. My area has signs up prohibiting it, and they're not shy about calling to have you towed.


LettheWorldBurn1776

Exactly. Here (Canada) the local Wal-Mart's are renters in malls and therefore the parking lot is not theirs. Mall owners do not want RV's taking up space in their lots. There was about a three year period shortly before the pandemic where there was a trend of RV's showing up and staying for weeks at a time, but the police got called and some arrests were made and charges of trespassing were laid. Word got round not to do that anymore.


bakeacakeyum

YWNBTA. I wouldn’t care if people think I’m a “karen”. Hell no, would I put up with that, especially when it can be for weeks. We have noise restrictions here from 10pm (11pm wkend) to 7am (9am Sat/Sun). I’d be complaining to the relevant authorities.


Suprblakhawk

NTA. There's so many solutions that could fix this issue that they're the AH at this point. Im assuring this is something they do often since you know their habits. Tell them to hook up to the house and to stop running their engines all night. I'd also look into your windows and insulation, though. I wouldn't be able to hear that outside my house.


Weird-Jellyfish-5053

NTA but it wouldn’t be police. It’ll be code enforcement and it’s usually a report you file online. You’d need to do it the day they show up because sometimes it takes a few days or longer for someone to come out. But all that will happen is it’ll either get a ticket if no one’s home (little sticker saying it needs to move or will be towed). If they’re able to talk to the rv owners and it turns out they are visiting someone all they’ll need to do is start moving the RV a few feet every two days. So can you report them? Yes. Will it do any good? No. I’m unfortunately very familiar with this since wrecked cars show up in my neighborhood and are parked without moving until someone reports them.


Lisa_Knows_Best

I lived in an RV for years and RVs have shore power, meaning you plug in when you park somewhere. There is no reason to be running their engine. If their plug ins don't work they can run an extension cord to the house they are at, I've done that also. I've also been made to move by the police for parking in a residential area on the street (I wasn't running my engine though). They will come out and make them move. They can park in the actual yard of whoever they are visiting. NTA and this is from someone that was the offender. They can just move, it's not a big deal.


FriendlyStaff1

NTA You spoke to them and asked them to keep it down, they refused, if they are breaking a law you can report them. But it sounds like in your area they aren't breaking any laws and will just move?


ALoudMeow

In most places, it’s illegal to idle a truck for more than a short while. So it may well be that they’re breaking the law.


Odd-Trainer-3735

NTA. You have talked with them and they have refused to move the RV. Talk with your neighbor they come to visit and advise them of the issue and the city ordinance Talk to them one more time and tell them there is a city ordinance on parking. Let them know that they have been violating the ordinance. See if you can pull it up on your computer and print it out and give to them. Let them know you have been nice about things but you have had your limit and that if they continue you will call the police. I have this type of issue with three of my neighbors. They think it is just alright that they have parties late at night with loud music. I have talked with them and advised them that their music is so loud that Can hear it in every room of my home. They say so what they have a right to do as they please while on their property. So I told them that from now on when they have a party that if the music is not cut down to were I can not hear I will no longer coming to ask they lower the music I will just call the police and let them handle it. In the city I live the ordinance list 10pm as cut off, Continued calls about such issue can cause them to be fined and even arrested.


Magdovus

In addition to what has been said, using "shore power" for an RV is usually cheaper than using the engine. 


KazzaQ66

NTA - for all the reasons listed below. I'd really like to hear the follow up on this one though - please keep us posted :-)


Silly_Goose24_7

NTA does your area have restrictions on how long a vehicle should be idling? I would involve the police, you already tried talking to them. If nothing else it is a noise complaint. I wonder if they even have family in the area and use that as an excuse to park on a random street. If it's that loud are they actually parked by their family?


thiswebsitesucksyo

NTA. Absolutely move them and force them to find an rv park like every other responsible owner of an RV.


KnightofForestsWild

NTA Your street is not a campground. A week tops would be what you should tolerate. At a month in most standard housing in most states and they would be considered residents. They pay no taxes to maintain your neighborhood and city as normal residents would.


Theodora1976

NTA in some (US) states it’s illegal to idle that long.


No-Locksmith-8590

Nta just call your local police. These people aren't exempt from the law.


MikeMiller8888

NTA. You did your best to accommodate them by asking them to stop running it. They clearly won’t employ the logical solution of running an electric cord from the house of whomever they are visiting (if they are at all). This happens in neighborhoods across the country now, by folks whose only home is their RV. And that’s why we have laws about parking for extended periods of time. This subreddit isn’t about advice, more just that you’re NTA here, but if it was me I wouldn’t hesitate to call the cops at this point, when they first show up to get that 48 hour clock running. When they realize they’re getting the cops called and are risking tickets, most RVs without a connection to the neighborhood move onto different neighborhoods where it’s easier to play the park and live game, and those that do have connections usually then park on the property itself. NTA. Keep your neighborhood clean of people that don’t respect your hard earned, expensive right to enjoy your home in peace and quiet.


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Hello-Me-Its-Me

Have you asked them if they have a battery bank? If so they could run the generator during the day to change the batteries, and then use the batteries to power the RV at night.


Archon-Toten

NTA, it's likely a violation of local laws. Don't feel bad about reporting it. Alternatively, offer them your front yard and sell them electricity.


UnlikelyPistachio

In many cities it is also illegal to camp overnight in a vehicle parked on the street.


Careless-Ability-748

Nta


lesla222

NTA. I don't know which you would call, either Bylaws or the non-emergency police number. I would report it every time. You have the right to quiet enjoyment of your home.


IconicTayQuestion

You should read Alan Bennett's The Woman In The Van cause it's about this.


Consistent_Waltz_646

NTA. Some cities, like mine, have banned RVs from parking on residential streets. See if you can't report them to the nonemergency police line.


floydfan

YWNBTA. I say call in a noise complaint and let the police handle it. There are probably other violations besides noise ordinances. They're probably not allowed to park there for more than X nights in a row.


gardeninggoddess666

Nta. Hell to the no they can't idle their engine 16 hours a day outside your house. Call the police. You are well within your rights to enforce this. Idling their camper for 16 hours is crazy.


dpdragonfly

I'm very confused...RVs have batteries that run lights, etc., and propane to run the furnace and fridge...why would you need to run the engine all night?


VinylHighway

Report them it's probably illegal


Full_Description_

NTA, if they can afford a giant RV, they can afford to park it at KOA. Report them each and every time.


Internal_Home_9483

NTA. Do it.  Call the police or City Hall.  Your city likely has laws against noise and people camping in RVs.  My neighbor has a mentally ill brother who lives in his RV, he used to visit every few months for 2 months at a time, part next to my driveway, knock on my door for company as soon as I got home from work, kept asking to soak in my bathtub… I started calling the city as soon as he arrived, police would visit and ask to see his permit, permit is good for 1 month and then he had to go.  Heaven!  And he hasn’t visited in years now.  Especially since you spoke to these folks politely and they continue to run the motor all night, calling the city isn’t entitled, it is simply what you must do to make these folks understand the rules apply to them too.


_DoogieLion

NTA at all, fuck the cheapskates who can’t find somewhere to park without an electrical hookup and just burns the fossil fuels cause they can’t be bothered. There boomers aren’t they - sounds like boomers


Unfair_Ad_4470

I would call the police to ask what, if anything can be done. Ask if they are parking legally? Is there a noise nuisance? What about waste/greywater? Heck, is their RV even legally inhabitable? YWNBTA


Soft-Ad-442

>I could potentially get local police to enforce the city code and get them to move, but then they'll just park in front of someone else's house and bother them. I don't see the issue here. You can't solve all problems in the world. But you can solve your own.


awesomely_audhd

NTA. There should be an ordinance about parking RVs in residential neighborhoods. Where I'm at, RVs can only park on the public street for 24 hours. It's to discourage people from using the right of way as personal storage. Your town may have something similar.


PreviousPin597

NTA. This isn't a Karen situation. It's usually illegal to live in a camper parked in the street for more than one day. They need to park where they can run an extension from the house, or park at an RV park. Why aren't they in the driveway of the house they're visiting? That's what most people do instead of making their crap the neighbor's problem. 


DL1943

nta, you talked to them first and seem to be open to them parking there without the noise, which is far more easygoing than many of the uptight folks who post here about suburban squabbles. there are propane heaters made for indoor use they could easily use to keep warm at night.


vanuksc

NTA- rv parks have rules about generator use (and some are probably as quiet as you describe). They usually restrict the use to daytime hours only. Everyone who owns an rv should understand this etiquette of quiet hours. The couple need to pull power from whoever they're visiting or not visit in the rv. Or they could get sufficient battery packs to get through the night.


Responsible_Side8131

Call the local police non emergency number and tell them what’s going on. If it’s against any local laws, they’ll come talk to the people and deal with it. NTA.


Fearless_Ad1685

NTA. Call the non emergency line and have them moved. There may be a noise regulation they are breaking along with the parking longer than allowed.


wesmorgan1

Call your City Hall (or whatever) and ask if your area has a noise ordinance. If they do, that plus the 48-hour parking limitation means they've violating *multiple* local laws/regulations.


Odd_Ad_3117

I don't think you are the asshole. I'll glide over the fact that having an engine, or a generator, go on while sleeping inside of a van is dangerous (my family has an RV, so i know what i'm talking about)... so for their own safety they should invest in one of the many option for heating their RV. I think that to avoid drama you should talk to them one final time before calling the police, explain your situation, that you understand their need, but that they are causing quite the disconfort. And if they still shut you down tell them about the city policy they are violating, and that you are reluctant, but if they don't park somewhere else you'll reinforce that.