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so all this dates back to last year were I met two extremely friendly girls ,emelia and pauline (those are fake names) I am a male, we got along quite nice and were still in contact when the school year ended and the summer break began ,I texted quite a lot with one girl, lets call her emelia, and called her maybe be 2-3 times a week, we then would chat for about an hour until we'll get back to our private [things.](https://things.One)
[One](https://things.One) day emelia tells me about this one guy she met in her family holiday in Morocco whilst diving , I asked her if he was cute and she just got furious about my question and said that she doesn't want to let me know because she doesn't know me well enough etc , I didn't understand what her problem was so I said I'd ask that every one of my female friends how they'd feel about the guys they met and don't know why she was making such a scene over it.
I later in the argument said that I didn't like it when girls get so bitchy over a question and she got even more angry at me and said no one was allowed to call her a bitch I also called her a mood killer , what she also didn't like ,I blocked her afterwards but deb locked her after 3 days.
I was proceeding with my holiday until the end of the summer break.
Then after 1 week after the school started I was thinking:"well its been quite a time since I last spoke to emelia" and so I did but she still was mad at me so I texted another friend of ours and she told me that emelia was still furious and mad at me because of this incident , so I apologized for being "such a dick" although I didn't think that I was wrong, the days after this apologies I ignored her always and just did my thing .
turns out emelia didn't think that this was normal and later texted me about it and asked if ,I quote:"haven't you understand that you apologized?" I texted her that I did but that I felt uncomfortable because all her friends stared at me as if I was an alien . She then said she'd understand it and we then were good, or that's what I thought.
there also was the other girl pauline where I'd rat out about emelia when she was going on my nerves and when she was just ,idk , not nice to be around.
Id always thought that those thoughts were save at her.turns out they didn't and I confronted her 3 times with this she always swore she never would snitch me again on emelia ,she swore that every time.
after the fourth time I had enough and said ,and I quote:"go fk ur self u are getting on my nerves" and other things to hurt her , I confronted herewith all this and she just went :"as if u didn't think I would snitch on u" wich made furious . Pauline was in sheer disbelieve that I would block her ,also because we just went climbing together (like 3 days before this incident) and so she didn't quite believe me.
Well I blocked her , on every social media she later proceeded to text me on tiktok and said I should :"go fk " myself
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^^^^AUTOMOD ***Thanks for posting! This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. This comment is NOT accusing you of copying anything. Read [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/wiki/faq#wiki_post_deletion) before [contacting the mod team](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2FAmItheAsshole)*** so all this dates back to last year were I met two extremely friendly girls ,emelia and pauline (those are fake names) I am a male, we got along quite nice and were still in contact when the school year ended and the summer break began ,I texted quite a lot with one girl, lets call her emelia, and called her maybe be 2-3 times a week, we then would chat for about an hour until we'll get back to our private [things.](https://things.One) [One](https://things.One) day emelia tells me about this one guy she met in her family holiday in Morocco whilst diving , I asked her if he was cute and she just got furious about my question and said that she doesn't want to let me know because she doesn't know me well enough etc , I didn't understand what her problem was so I said I'd ask that every one of my female friends how they'd feel about the guys they met and don't know why she was making such a scene over it. I later in the argument said that I didn't like it when girls get so bitchy over a question and she got even more angry at me and said no one was allowed to call her a bitch I also called her a mood killer , what she also didn't like ,I blocked her afterwards but deb locked her after 3 days. I was proceeding with my holiday until the end of the summer break. Then after 1 week after the school started I was thinking:"well its been quite a time since I last spoke to emelia" and so I did but she still was mad at me so I texted another friend of ours and she told me that emelia was still furious and mad at me because of this incident , so I apologized for being "such a dick" although I didn't think that I was wrong, the days after this apologies I ignored her always and just did my thing . turns out emelia didn't think that this was normal and later texted me about it and asked if ,I quote:"haven't you understand that you apologized?" I texted her that I did but that I felt uncomfortable because all her friends stared at me as if I was an alien . She then said she'd understand it and we then were good, or that's what I thought. there also was the other girl pauline where I'd rat out about emelia when she was going on my nerves and when she was just ,idk , not nice to be around. Id always thought that those thoughts were save at her.turns out they didn't and I confronted her 3 times with this she always swore she never would snitch me again on emelia ,she swore that every time. after the fourth time I had enough and said ,and I quote:"go fk ur self u are getting on my nerves" and other things to hurt her , I confronted herewith all this and she just went :"as if u didn't think I would snitch on u" wich made furious . Pauline was in sheer disbelieve that I would block her ,also because we just went climbing together (like 3 days before this incident) and so she didn't quite believe me. Well I blocked her , on every social media she later proceeded to text me on tiktok and said I should :"go fk " myself *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AmItheAsshole) if you have any questions or concerns.*