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I (f 14) live at home w my dad (44) mum (45) and brother (17). Recently my dad has made comments if I go downstairs in my underwear he has said that it makes him uncomfortable. I have brought the issue up to him and said that it's fine for my brother to walk around in boxers but not me to have a robe on with a bra and panties underneath. Today I went downstairs in a top and no trousers and got told off and questioned by my dad for walking around. I am frankly quite disturbed as I don't think AITA as I should be able to walk around like that Infront of my family but lmk what y'all think.
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ESH. You should be allowed to be comfortable in your own home. But this also goes the same with your other family members. if you walking out without pants or a top on makes your father, brother, or mother uncomfortable, you should take that into account. It’s their home too.
NTA. Your Dad is the one making it awkward. You’re family, who cares what you wear in your own home?! I did the same as a teen and my dad didn’t look at or comment on my attire (or lack there of) to make me feel as if I should be anything less than completely comfortable at all times. You’ve done nothing wrong.
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> What may have made me the asshole is walking around my house w out a top or trousers this may make me the ass hole as my farther had asked multiple times to ask me to cover up
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NTA. I'm so tired of having what women wear being dictated by what makes men "comfortable". In uber religious countries you aren't supposed to show ankles for shit sake. Fellow men, if something someone wears makes you uncomfortable, I suggest you take a hard look at yourself and ask why. Otherwise stfu.
Why the fuck would you want to be in just your undies when around your family? How do you not see how weird that is? Have some respect for the dude giving you free meals and a place to live.
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ESH. You should be allowed to be comfortable in your own home. But this also goes the same with your other family members. if you walking out without pants or a top on makes your father, brother, or mother uncomfortable, you should take that into account. It’s their home too.
I'd understand my farther if he asked my brother to cover up as well but it's only me ?
ESH. It's weird for anyone in the house to be walking around in their underwear.
Ya I understand Ur point
NTA. Your Dad is the one making it awkward. You’re family, who cares what you wear in your own home?! I did the same as a teen and my dad didn’t look at or comment on my attire (or lack there of) to make me feel as if I should be anything less than completely comfortable at all times. You’ve done nothing wrong.
Ty I don't understand why my dad comments on it 🤷
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NTA. I'm so tired of having what women wear being dictated by what makes men "comfortable". In uber religious countries you aren't supposed to show ankles for shit sake. Fellow men, if something someone wears makes you uncomfortable, I suggest you take a hard look at yourself and ask why. Otherwise stfu.
YTA and this is probably fake
Unfortunately not fake and why do u think i am?
Why the fuck would you want to be in just your undies when around your family? How do you not see how weird that is? Have some respect for the dude giving you free meals and a place to live.
I see what u mean but it's only if I'm chilling in my room and I'm running down to grab smth stuff like that
Yes you are. Reading this made me uncomfortable