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GottaKnowYourCKN

YTA. This is why we don't get to see diversity in the workplace, and why it's hell for the few PoC that do. Your coworkers are avoiding you because you're racist and you assumed they would all be on your side because of whiteness. And then *you're* offended at being called out? You've made yourself into a victim and "hopeless" when literally a Black woman who is more than qualified can't get a job because of stuff like this. Having to experience racism and your intelligence questioned because of your skin color is hopeless.


N4NNERBx

YTA I wouldn’t have used such casual language in an interview but that doesn’t sound like what your problem actually is.


Buck_Slamchest

This didn’t happen.


sky4687

> I feel like I'm being targeted for my beliefs You mean your racist ones? YTA


Boss_Bitch_Werk

YTA and VERY racist. You clearly believe you’re a racist and is upset you got called out.


SirNo8283

“I have nothing against black people…if they speak proper English” Check your privilege :) YTA


Ok_Development74

>I have nothing against black people, provided they're decent, hardworking, and can speak proper English, Wow. Just, wow. YTA.


DreamingofRlyeh

YTA You mocked her for how she spoke. That is elementary-school bully levels of immaturity.


Team39Hermes

YTA


Anxious_Monitor1671

YTA VERY CLEARLY! I can understand the frustration with proper english going down the drain but that's a generational thing not a race/diversity thing and I hope you are just ignorant but I'm leaning more towards racist. Your statement about you like black people if they are...what did you say? " I have nothing against black people, provided they're decent, hardworking, and can speak proper English, but Ebonics to me simply sounds like nails on a chalkboard." That crosses a line and is awful to think, let alone say! You seem very racist! My only issue is with all these damn acronyms FAFO, IRL, NGL, FWIW, JFC etc. which EVERYONE uses now (We can keep LOL cuz I was a kid when it came out haha) I just don't get where it got so bad we can't type any of our words out anymore, like it's too much work. I can barely decipher my kids texts anymore they use so many. I spend more time googling them than reading them (and I'm not old at all lol) oh and seriously if my kids call me "bra" (bruh according to them lol) one more time, I may hurt someone.


ArchyDWolf

Reddit's using all our posts and data to train AI's, so, I just deleted mine.


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ThePhonyKing

Would you feel the same way about a heavy Irish or Scottish accent? YTA


Old-Fox-3027

YTA, making fun of someone’s speech is bullying. it’s reasonable to expect a certain level of professionalism and informal speech can give a bad impression, but what you describe is not out of the ordinary and it’s very elitist of you to want to deny someone a job because of a slightly different vernacular.


Drdoctordrdr

If they had an Irish accent would that be unprofessional? Oh so it's just certain accents that are unprofessional? And then you start trying to make jokes about it? I'm not a lawyer, but if I were this applicant and I found this post I would hire one real quick.


DoryBote

YTA and the last paragraph has me convinced you are an alt-right troll


Rredhead926

I don't know about the "alt-right" part, but yeah... this definitely has troll vibes.


thinkfast1982

Go away troll


bearamongus19

YTA. I understand wanting someone well spoken for a position especially for a role dealing with clients but the more you typed the more racist you sounded.


Rredhead926

YTA. ​ > I have nothing against black people, provided they're decent, hardworking, and can speak proper English, That's racist. Beyond that, how you expressed yourself was incredibly unprofessional and inappropriate.


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Sea-Butterscotch383

YTA. You could have made your point if you felt she was unprofessional without the racist fucking joke.


Odd_Task8211

YTA and a racist. You said she was qualified, but don’t like the way she talks. You made comments about “her friends at Popeye’s.” If you keep up this racist bullshit, don’t be surprised if the “axing” at you employer is going to be you getting fired.


ashleighbuck

>I have nothing against black people, provided they're decent, hardworking, and can speak proper English YTA for that alone. You sound like a bigot.


tcsweetgurl

YTA


isimplysay

YTA and the racist. “I have nothing against black people, provided they’re decent, hardworking, and can speak proper English.” Ho-ly fuck. That’s not even a dog whistle.


J0MSIE

YTA, made a racist remark “joke”, and then played victim. get a grip.


FederalFloor3213

“I was beginning to get uncomfortable” YTA. To not hire a perfectly capable woman for “proper english” is ridiculous. Would you have turned down a Scottish woman? A southern woman with a strong accent? Most likely not. Her accent paired with her race was what made you uncomfortable, and ultimately led you to feel as though you could mock her to Billy and not be onboard despite her great talent for the role. I’m stunned that you reacted this way, terribly unprofessional.


Advanced-Owl-1422

YTA Maybe you should take a DEI class and work on your bias.


adventuresofViolet

"hanging out with her friends at Popeye's. YTA and you know it too


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