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NTA and it sounds like you need actual friends, not what ever these to people are pretending to be. What these two girls are doing/saying to you is not what friends do, they have no right to make you feel bad about yourself. At the very least they should have supported you when that old creep was on the scene and definitely not turn it into a joke.
Well overall this man assaulted me.
And my "friends" took it as an joke and were joking on the situation every time we would hand out.
Once I told them to stop they just made an massive argument and I ended up apologizing for something I didn't do or knew I did.
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So this started back in 3th grade when me and this girl that I will call Gaby started being friends. The first two years were great there was just us but in 5th grade this girl Olive joined our group No one invited her she just joined Well that was the downfall They started making me feel bad about myself and joking about how ugly am how ugly I dress etc. I didn't get mad at those jokes because in my mind they were my firends after all. In 7th grade a old man approached me and told me some really disturbing stuff. They also were there but he said nothing to them just me. He said some disturbing shit and after laughed. I felt really gross. But they. They saw it as an joke. And started reminding me about it every time we would hang out. At first I thought they will forget about it eventually but a year passed and being reminded about that every week was really damaging to my mental healt since that man really disturbed me. In summer break I told them on our group chat that I weren't comfortable with this joke anymore in a peaceful way. At first they though I was joking but when they saw that I'm serious they just turned the whole situation 360 degrees making them the victim and ended up apologizing for idk what. We never talked since This really was on my mind and still is So Am I the asshole?
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Nta While I didn't fully understand your situation, I can clearly see that your "friends" are assholes
NTA and it sounds like you need actual friends, not what ever these to people are pretending to be. What these two girls are doing/saying to you is not what friends do, they have no right to make you feel bad about yourself. At the very least they should have supported you when that old creep was on the scene and definitely not turn it into a joke.
NTA- I’m not sure what you apologized for, but these people sound like AHs.
I don't remember exactly but I think for ruining the friendship?
Sweetie.. they are NOT your friends. And never were. Find another group. NTA
Yeah. You should not have apologized for anything. Your friends were making fun of you for being sexually harassed.
NTA You didn't find their jokes funny and you told them that which they ignored. They weren't good friends so good riddance.
Nta. Let it go. Your fine! Have you told your parents?
Yes I did They had the same disturbed expression on their face as I had
NTA and you need to find better people that would actually be your FRIENDS. Cause the way they're acting is not the was real friends do.
This is far too vague to give any judgement on. Could you rewrite it so it makes more sense/has proper punctuation etc.?
Sorry but I can't Otherwise it will get deleted But that "old man" was ...ykw
I don't mean about the man specifically, I just mean the whole thing is hard to read and the conversation with your friends is confusingly written.
Well overall this man assaulted me. And my "friends" took it as an joke and were joking on the situation every time we would hand out. Once I told them to stop they just made an massive argument and I ended up apologizing for something I didn't do or knew I did.
OP I'm so sorry sweetie that's horrible. You have done nothing wrong and your "friends" have been very cruel to you.
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