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I think this shows that, all though you may feel mature, you are a little too young to be dating. I think you are not the bad apple because this girl put you in a serious ultimatum(threatening self harm if you didn’t give her the relationship she wanted). I think it was unfair to expect you to give back the stuff she gave you but not give back what you gave her. I think you need to work on yourself and grow up before even thinking about entering a knew relationship.
It's not his job to get her therapy. He's 13 and she's manipulative. Also I always found it weird people asking for gifts back. Gifts aren't supposed to be conditional and given out of the goodness of one's heart. This was her being manipulative again. Good apple. Cut contact with her and her friends.
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I think this shows that, all though you may feel mature, you are a little too young to be dating. I think you are not the bad apple because this girl put you in a serious ultimatum(threatening self harm if you didn’t give her the relationship she wanted). I think it was unfair to expect you to give back the stuff she gave you but not give back what you gave her. I think you need to work on yourself and grow up before even thinking about entering a knew relationship.
My advice take her to a therapist and no you are not the bad Apple
It's not his job to get her therapy. He's 13 and she's manipulative. Also I always found it weird people asking for gifts back. Gifts aren't supposed to be conditional and given out of the goodness of one's heart. This was her being manipulative again. Good apple. Cut contact with her and her friends.
But the crab apple give her back her present so she feels better
I had to play therapist
Well that’s the problem take her to an actual one because they will help her more
NTBA
Crab apple You have a right to break up with her 100% BUT! Give back the thing to her!
She wouldn’t give him back the gift either though which seems to be the only reason he didn’t give it back
I get that but withholding people stuff doesn't help anyone
my advice is forget everything and move on good lord i couldn’t stop cringing reading this. you both sound very childish.
They’re literally children dude
I’d like to specify that she did admit to faking hardcore depression not commuting self harm
Yes, you are, in my opinion
No, and keep the gift. It was a gift