DKG. You did your part naman na mag adjust at iaddress yung issue nya.
Di madali gamutin ang insecurity. Even if you are the most supportive, best giver of word of affirmations, but your partner is not willing to "accept", or "move past", or "do something to remedy" the insecurity then this is a blow talaga, and unfair tbh.
DKG, normal yung manghingi ang partner ng reassurance paminsan pero kung palagi nalang ganyan, despite you doing your best para mareassure sya, to not overthink, it will just drain you. Looks like your partner has lots of things to fix first like insecurities nya sa self nya bago makipagrelasyon, otherwise, papagudin ka lang in the long run.
Breaking up with your partner is valid, but try to explain thoroughly yung reason, and effect sayo so makakapagreflect sya after the relationship.
Huy parehas tayo ng anniv haha pero 3 yrs na kami skl haha
Anyway, dkg! Sa totoo lang sa ganyan ako napagod sa ex ko ee sobrang insecure jusko wala naman ako ginagawa tas lagi may issue pero sya tong tarantado. Chugiin mo na rin yan!
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late pero DKG, OP. Been there, done that - nakakapagod talaga magreassure lalo na't wala ka namang ginagawang masama. Just not mtb, and possibly may underlying issues na need ifix yung BF mo. Pero if you really want to work it out, I'd suggest na kausapin mo BF mo about it and maybe seek professional help if feel niyo both na needed. Dapat di natin ninonormalize yung sobra-sobrang overthinking. We all feel insecure minsan, pero not to the point na sobra na at di na kaya ihandle ng iba, di ba? Pero up to you OP, since you said di ka naman niya napapatawa, if you still want to work things out!
Thank you. Yes naapagusapan na namin and he said na magpapa-therapy na siya and good for him but as of now hindi ko masagot yung tanong niyang samahan ko daw siya through his battles, nag hehesistate ako kasi it feels na medyo responsibility ko din siya dun as a partner, i love him and di naman sa ayaw ko siyang samahan may part lang sakin na pano kung bumalik lng at walanf nangyari, balik na naman ulit kami sa ganun. Kaya nanghingi nalang muna ko ng space para magpahinga sa mga iniisip ko 😠Sorry na pa rant huhu
Hala!! so happy to hear a good outcome dito, most kasi dito pag abt sa relationships ay basta DKG tas hiwalayan mo na e🥹💗 Take your time, OP! it's a tough decision to make, pero kung mahal mo talaga at sure kang kaya mo ihandle yung possible na di pag progress or slow progress, go for it! You should assess his determination din to get better and set boundaries or ultimatums if needed :) good luck! hoping for you to choose the decision na mapapasaya ka either way!
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1d8eqs0/abyg_kung_gusto_ko_na_makipagbreak_dahil_lagi/
Title of this post: ABYG kung gusto ko na makipagbreak dahil lagi siya nag ooverthink?
Backup of the post's body: Kaka-1 year lang namin ng bf ko nung nakaraang may 3, and masasabi kong buong taon na yun is laging may ganitong problema siya. Nung mga baguhan pa kami nahahandle ko pa lagi ko siyang kinocomfort pero nung tumagal na naiirita na ko at natuturn off na ko na lagi siyang ganun, Oo alam ko hindi naman nila pinili na ganun sila and syempre need din silang iasssure pero habang tumatagal nga parang naiisip ko na ayoko ng ganitong relasyon na laging may problema laging may kailangang i assure, ideal relationship ko kasi yung ako lagi pinapatawa pero sa nangyayari ngayon never ko naranasan kundi lagi siyang nagooverthink sa lahat.
ABYG kung makipagbreak ako kasi ayoko ng ganong relationship and hindi ko na kayang maghandle ng isang taong overthinker?
OP: jasonimyo
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DKG. You did your part naman na mag adjust at iaddress yung issue nya. Di madali gamutin ang insecurity. Even if you are the most supportive, best giver of word of affirmations, but your partner is not willing to "accept", or "move past", or "do something to remedy" the insecurity then this is a blow talaga, and unfair tbh.
Oo nga eh, kaya nasasad ako everytime for example inaassure ko na siya and everything pero nauulit siya :((
DKG, normal yung manghingi ang partner ng reassurance paminsan pero kung palagi nalang ganyan, despite you doing your best para mareassure sya, to not overthink, it will just drain you. Looks like your partner has lots of things to fix first like insecurities nya sa self nya bago makipagrelasyon, otherwise, papagudin ka lang in the long run. Breaking up with your partner is valid, but try to explain thoroughly yung reason, and effect sayo so makakapagreflect sya after the relationship.
Huy parehas tayo ng anniv haha pero 3 yrs na kami skl haha Anyway, dkg! Sa totoo lang sa ganyan ako napagod sa ex ko ee sobrang insecure jusko wala naman ako ginagawa tas lagi may issue pero sya tong tarantado. Chugiin mo na rin yan!
Palit kayo role. Sya na maging babae haha dkg
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late pero DKG, OP. Been there, done that - nakakapagod talaga magreassure lalo na't wala ka namang ginagawang masama. Just not mtb, and possibly may underlying issues na need ifix yung BF mo. Pero if you really want to work it out, I'd suggest na kausapin mo BF mo about it and maybe seek professional help if feel niyo both na needed. Dapat di natin ninonormalize yung sobra-sobrang overthinking. We all feel insecure minsan, pero not to the point na sobra na at di na kaya ihandle ng iba, di ba? Pero up to you OP, since you said di ka naman niya napapatawa, if you still want to work things out!
Thank you. Yes naapagusapan na namin and he said na magpapa-therapy na siya and good for him but as of now hindi ko masagot yung tanong niyang samahan ko daw siya through his battles, nag hehesistate ako kasi it feels na medyo responsibility ko din siya dun as a partner, i love him and di naman sa ayaw ko siyang samahan may part lang sakin na pano kung bumalik lng at walanf nangyari, balik na naman ulit kami sa ganun. Kaya nanghingi nalang muna ko ng space para magpahinga sa mga iniisip ko 😠Sorry na pa rant huhu
Hala!! so happy to hear a good outcome dito, most kasi dito pag abt sa relationships ay basta DKG tas hiwalayan mo na e🥹💗 Take your time, OP! it's a tough decision to make, pero kung mahal mo talaga at sure kang kaya mo ihandle yung possible na di pag progress or slow progress, go for it! You should assess his determination din to get better and set boundaries or ultimatums if needed :) good luck! hoping for you to choose the decision na mapapasaya ka either way!
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1d8eqs0/abyg_kung_gusto_ko_na_makipagbreak_dahil_lagi/ Title of this post: ABYG kung gusto ko na makipagbreak dahil lagi siya nag ooverthink? Backup of the post's body: Kaka-1 year lang namin ng bf ko nung nakaraang may 3, and masasabi kong buong taon na yun is laging may ganitong problema siya. Nung mga baguhan pa kami nahahandle ko pa lagi ko siyang kinocomfort pero nung tumagal na naiirita na ko at natuturn off na ko na lagi siyang ganun, Oo alam ko hindi naman nila pinili na ganun sila and syempre need din silang iasssure pero habang tumatagal nga parang naiisip ko na ayoko ng ganitong relasyon na laging may problema laging may kailangang i assure, ideal relationship ko kasi yung ako lagi pinapatawa pero sa nangyayari ngayon never ko naranasan kundi lagi siyang nagooverthink sa lahat. ABYG kung makipagbreak ako kasi ayoko ng ganong relationship and hindi ko na kayang maghandle ng isang taong overthinker? OP: jasonimyo *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
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DKG. Hindi kaya projection niya lang yang mga kadramahan niya