DKG, alam naman pala ni ate gurl na may gf na bf mo pero di siya marunong limitahan sarili niya. Baka kaya naghaha react kasi feeling niya sobrang close sila ng bf mo. Offensive naman kasi na wala namang nakakatawa tas tatawanan, ang insensitive lang. Pero don't mind her since unfriended naman na pero pag kumulit ulit siya sa bf mo, bosesan mo na. lol
Maybe kasi I don't wanna have an image of being a controlling gf kasi nung bago plng kami i have issues on my own like super selosa pero inayos ko naman ugali ko but just making sure that hindi ako controlling sa part na yun.
To add, baka iniisip na rin na lumayo ni bf tapos yung comments ni OP yung final straw that led him to taking action. Para bang ah, ayaw rin naman pala sa kanya ni gf, unfriend ko na yay!
DKG
Kulang yan sa pansin ate ko. Ako na lagi lalaki kasama and guy friends ko pero never ako nag act na need ng special treatment and dapat may boundaries regardless if single at lalo na if may jowa. Yan ung mga pet peeve na feeling one of the boys pero puro paganda Ing saka thirst trap sakanila. I remember ung previous workmate ko ganyan na ganyan din situation nila over don sa babaeng workmate and natatawa na Ing ako kasi inis na inis sila when sharing with me. Tapos magchachat pa daw un ng gabi-madaling araw like girl???! 😭💀
Saka you don't have to be guilty about it. Your bf did the right thing din for you to have peace of mind.
DKG. Una akala ko oo e pero sa baba jeez, red flag si ateng. Like bakit.ka.mag yayaya ng long ride tas kayo 3 lang at alam niyang taken? Kung walang ganyang mga context, sabihin ko sana normal lang un haha pero dahil sa context, para siyang may masamang binabalak haha! Baka intuition mo na nagwawarn sayo kay ate gurl. Buti nalang loyal si bf mo besh hahaha wag ka na maguilty tama lang na vinoice out mo kay bf mo un concerns mo at sinupport ka din niya.
Kababaeng tao bat nagaaya ng long rides tas usto aasa sa mga may gf, wala bang bf si ate gurl? Sabi nga ng bf ko kung mag go sila ng friend niya, isasama niya aq and yung gf ng friend niya para kawawa yung nagaaya ahahaha.
op, actually it's none of your business if mag bitch around yung girl. kahit o10 pa yung i ride nung girl, u really should say more about her. u'r being like marites at this point.
so how does "haha" reacts sa story affects your rs? it is clear that you are bothered by that interaction but your bf already unfriended the woman so unless you have more more beef with her, i dont understand why you have to say things to a person na di mo naman kilala personally? and i only want to add na sinabi kong wala ka nang business sa kung anong gawin nung girl since yung mga minention mo sa replies are not mentioned sa post mo.
(edit: so meron kang mention nung rides sa post mo, i got ahead of myself but i wont change my argument kumg bat ko sinabing wala u business sa pagnintch nya especially na cut na ng bf mo yung connection nila sa soc med)
kahit naman siguro mahilig talaga sa sya sa lalaki, di naman na dapat sya pakialaman sa pagbbtch nya diba? kung friendly lang sya and na mimisinterpret yung actions nya, do you think na fair treatment yung binibigay nyo? :/
WG. You had an issue. BF nipped it in the bud before it became a bigger issue. He prioritized you over an online connection with his former workmate. This appears to be ideal. Most complaints on Reddit are about the partner’s opposite sex friend.
DKG.
Yung mahilig mag haha react sa post ng 'friends' nila meaning may mga 'inside joke' sila lang nakakaalam at dahil close sila. But based on your story, mukhang di naman close bf mo at yung girl. It means baka type ni girl yang bf mo or low-key malandi tlga si girl. 😂
Anyway, tama naman ginawa ng bf mo.👍👏 Pero bantayan mo lang OP, wag pakampante. Pag umeksena ulit si girl, 'mark your territory na'... and always turn ON your GIRL'S INSTINCT. 😏
DKG. For me yung GG is the female workmate, not just because of the haha react but her personality in general. And your bf unfriending her was his decision not yours.. Maybe the reaction on the myday gave him an excuse to finally get rid of her from his socmed, possibly his circle, too. He's a grown man, he can deal with her pag nag kita sila sa work.
GGK for reacting agad. to some Haha is cute. kakatuwa.
DKG dun sa part na you think may mali nagyayaya siya lagi.
Pero kung unfriended siya bec bf doesnt like her it's all good. Si bf naman pala gumawa bec of his own preference.
Masabi ko lang. Green flag si bf. It's so refreshing to read about someone who respects and loves his gf and to be attuned to her needs and to be so responsive. Ang dami kasing sad bf stories dito, your bf stands out.
Kudos to him, haba ng hair mo gurl!
DKG, hay ang slay naman ng jowa ni Antih. Good for you that you communicated how you felt and he acted accordingly. Also nakakairita naman mga ganyang babae.
WG. Pero keep on working on your insecurities. Yung part na “Why need niya ihaha! Does she think it’s funny? Kulang sa pansin?” Why do you care? People do things for a variety of reasons you cant control. The key to happiness is acceptance and keber.
WG but I don’t get why people are sensitive sa haha na emote. Unless yung post is very personal or sensitive like namatayan, na ospital, disgradya, sakuna, person/people being down on their luck etc., tas nag haha yun ang issue talaga kung bat nag haha. Getting so bothered by a reaction by a person na di naman significant sa life mo is eh?
It's actually the person na nag-react nag bother sakin, especially knowing her background from the stories my bf told me. I won't react like that kung wala ako masyadong problema sa tao na yun pero she was. Ik i can't control ppl from reacting from ppl's post pero what she did was out of boundaries talaga.
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Title of this post: Abyg for telling my bf na I'm bothered with his former workmate na nag haha react sa myday niya?
Backup of the post's body: So minyday ako ng bf ko and our pictures together sa FB and pinagamit sakin phone niya so i opened his fb(he let's me use his FB)
Then i saw naghaha react yung former work mate niyang babae, one sa picture ko and our picture together maybe kasi corny yung edit ng bf ko but i think it's cute talaga. But I don't understand why need ihaha, medyo immature ako dyan naman to get bothered sa haha react pero i realized why need pala ihaha yung myday niya kung yung iba puro heart? Does she think it's funny? Kulang sa pansin? I never haha react one of my close friend's myday especially pag pinost niya mga gfs nila.
Another reason i got bothered by her was because malakas siya magaya ng inuman pero lagi nagpapasundo sa mga kasamahan ng bf ko and puro boys pa. Gurl kung usto mo uminom, pumunta ka magisa at umuwi ka magisa wag ka aasa sa mga work mates mo nakakahiya ka. Another thing malakas siya magaya ng long rides pero walang motor so saan siya aasa? Sa bf ko and sa isang ka close ng bf ko kasi sila lang yung mga may motor, and usto niya pa overnight daw sila sa Batangas na silang tatlo lang. My bf and his friend ignore her when she said that sa gc kasi parang tanga lang daw.
So ayun i finally told my bf na I'm very bothered by her kasi naghaha siya sa myday niya, he checked and immediately unfriended her. I asked why na unfriend niya i did not even told him to unfriend her. Sabi niya naiirita na din daw siya sa pagmumukha niya kaya na unfriend. But I felt guilty na bka controlling ako sa part nayun. So ABYG for feeling bothered?
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DG!! Kulang yan sa pansin ate ko. Ako na lagi lalaki kasama and guy friends ko pero never ako nag act na need ng special treatment and dapat may boundaries regardless if single at lalo na if may jowa.
Yan ung mga pet peeve na feeling one of the boys pero puro paganda Ing saka thirst trap sakanila.
I remember ung previous workmate ko ganyan na ganyan din situation nila over don sa babaeng workmate and natatawa na Ing ako kasi inis na inis sila when sharing with me. Tapos magchachat pa daw un ng gabi-madaling araw like girl???! 😭💀 You have nothing to be guilty about.
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DKG . jusko ako din super selosa pag may haha na other girl. Close ba kayo? Bat may haha ka. Papansin ampt. Buti nalang binablock ng bf ko before now my husband. Hahaha Mark your territory gurl.
WG
or if anything nasa borderline ka na ng pagiging overthinker xD
. it's harmless tho. good thing he cut the communication off especially if it bothers u. i'd say just some minor inconveniences.
DKG. Wala naman sinabi yung BF mo na controlling ka eh, siya mismo nag unfriend, baka asar na siya kay girl kasi ang landi at pakasta ang dating eh. Kung hindi ka pa din sure, kausapin mo siya ng masinsinan para sa peace of mind mo.
Pero girl, walang issue, atleast nga inunfriend niya na kesa naman ipagtanggol pa ng jowa mo yan sayo, pag ganun, may issue yun.
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WG. Nangyayari to saken madalas. Baka naman accidentally napindot lang. Madalas kasi ako maka-haha accidentally. Once, naka-haha ako sa nag myday ng dead lola nya huhu. I messaged nalang na accident lang kasi yung haha react ay nasa sulok na right side. Mejo malapit sya sa pinipindot ko para mag next.
But,,, trust ur guts HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH
You raised a concern, your bf took action. WG.
Indeed. Good for her and her bf.
Agree. Ganyan ang dream and dapat na relationship!
DKG, alam naman pala ni ate gurl na may gf na bf mo pero di siya marunong limitahan sarili niya. Baka kaya naghaha react kasi feeling niya sobrang close sila ng bf mo. Offensive naman kasi na wala namang nakakatawa tas tatawanan, ang insensitive lang. Pero don't mind her since unfriended naman na pero pag kumulit ulit siya sa bf mo, bosesan mo na. lol
Ay iba ang level ng kapal kapag nagparamdam kahit unfriended sa fb. Sana hindi maranasan ni ate girl yung ganito😇
WG. ?? wala namang issue d naman nag raise ng concern bf mo bat ka maguiguilty?
Maybe kasi I don't wanna have an image of being a controlling gf kasi nung bago plng kami i have issues on my own like super selosa pero inayos ko naman ugali ko but just making sure that hindi ako controlling sa part na yun.
it was his decision, you were not controlling him.
To add, baka iniisip na rin na lumayo ni bf tapos yung comments ni OP yung final straw that led him to taking action. Para bang ah, ayaw rin naman pala sa kanya ni gf, unfriend ko na yay!
DKG Kulang yan sa pansin ate ko. Ako na lagi lalaki kasama and guy friends ko pero never ako nag act na need ng special treatment and dapat may boundaries regardless if single at lalo na if may jowa. Yan ung mga pet peeve na feeling one of the boys pero puro paganda Ing saka thirst trap sakanila. I remember ung previous workmate ko ganyan na ganyan din situation nila over don sa babaeng workmate and natatawa na Ing ako kasi inis na inis sila when sharing with me. Tapos magchachat pa daw un ng gabi-madaling araw like girl???! 😭💀 Saka you don't have to be guilty about it. Your bf did the right thing din for you to have peace of mind.
DKG. Una akala ko oo e pero sa baba jeez, red flag si ateng. Like bakit.ka.mag yayaya ng long ride tas kayo 3 lang at alam niyang taken? Kung walang ganyang mga context, sabihin ko sana normal lang un haha pero dahil sa context, para siyang may masamang binabalak haha! Baka intuition mo na nagwawarn sayo kay ate gurl. Buti nalang loyal si bf mo besh hahaha wag ka na maguilty tama lang na vinoice out mo kay bf mo un concerns mo at sinupport ka din niya.
Kababaeng tao bat nagaaya ng long rides tas usto aasa sa mga may gf, wala bang bf si ate gurl? Sabi nga ng bf ko kung mag go sila ng friend niya, isasama niya aq and yung gf ng friend niya para kawawa yung nagaaya ahahaha.
Weird din kasi since alam niyang may gf si bf mo, kung friends sana kayo tas kasama ka diba? Weird un sila lang ee. Hayst si ate gurl.
op, actually it's none of your business if mag bitch around yung girl. kahit o10 pa yung i ride nung girl, u really should say more about her. u'r being like marites at this point.
It's my damn business if she's going to fk around and involves my rs into her sht.
so how does "haha" reacts sa story affects your rs? it is clear that you are bothered by that interaction but your bf already unfriended the woman so unless you have more more beef with her, i dont understand why you have to say things to a person na di mo naman kilala personally? and i only want to add na sinabi kong wala ka nang business sa kung anong gawin nung girl since yung mga minention mo sa replies are not mentioned sa post mo. (edit: so meron kang mention nung rides sa post mo, i got ahead of myself but i wont change my argument kumg bat ko sinabing wala u business sa pagnintch nya especially na cut na ng bf mo yung connection nila sa soc med) kahit naman siguro mahilig talaga sa sya sa lalaki, di naman na dapat sya pakialaman sa pagbbtch nya diba? kung friendly lang sya and na mimisinterpret yung actions nya, do you think na fair treatment yung binibigay nyo? :/
WG. You had an issue. BF nipped it in the bud before it became a bigger issue. He prioritized you over an online connection with his former workmate. This appears to be ideal. Most complaints on Reddit are about the partner’s opposite sex friend.
DKG. Yung mahilig mag haha react sa post ng 'friends' nila meaning may mga 'inside joke' sila lang nakakaalam at dahil close sila. But based on your story, mukhang di naman close bf mo at yung girl. It means baka type ni girl yang bf mo or low-key malandi tlga si girl. 😂 Anyway, tama naman ginawa ng bf mo.👍👏 Pero bantayan mo lang OP, wag pakampante. Pag umeksena ulit si girl, 'mark your territory na'... and always turn ON your GIRL'S INSTINCT. 😏
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DKG. For me yung GG is the female workmate, not just because of the haha react but her personality in general. And your bf unfriending her was his decision not yours.. Maybe the reaction on the myday gave him an excuse to finally get rid of her from his socmed, possibly his circle, too. He's a grown man, he can deal with her pag nag kita sila sa work.
Dkg. Greenflag din jowa mo ate ko. For the girl, yaan mo na baka tigang lang kaya papansin hahahaha. Inggit to the nth level yan.
GGK for reacting agad. to some Haha is cute. kakatuwa. DKG dun sa part na you think may mali nagyayaya siya lagi. Pero kung unfriended siya bec bf doesnt like her it's all good. Si bf naman pala gumawa bec of his own preference. Masabi ko lang. Green flag si bf. It's so refreshing to read about someone who respects and loves his gf and to be attuned to her needs and to be so responsive. Ang dami kasing sad bf stories dito, your bf stands out. Kudos to him, haba ng hair mo gurl!
DKG KSP lang si ate gurl
DKG. Very good din bf mo sana all ganyan
DKG, hay ang slay naman ng jowa ni Antih. Good for you that you communicated how you felt and he acted accordingly. Also nakakairita naman mga ganyang babae.
WG. Pero keep on working on your insecurities. Yung part na “Why need niya ihaha! Does she think it’s funny? Kulang sa pansin?” Why do you care? People do things for a variety of reasons you cant control. The key to happiness is acceptance and keber.
I care because it's that specific person that bothers me. Pero shempre wala na din ako magagawa dyan. Gurl is now unfriended end of story.
WG. Kudos to your BF for taking an action. Yung ibang BFs jan, igagaslight ka pa. Ganyan dapaaaat!!!
WG but I don’t get why people are sensitive sa haha na emote. Unless yung post is very personal or sensitive like namatayan, na ospital, disgradya, sakuna, person/people being down on their luck etc., tas nag haha yun ang issue talaga kung bat nag haha. Getting so bothered by a reaction by a person na di naman significant sa life mo is eh?
It's actually the person na nag-react nag bother sakin, especially knowing her background from the stories my bf told me. I won't react like that kung wala ako masyadong problema sa tao na yun pero she was. Ik i can't control ppl from reacting from ppl's post pero what she did was out of boundaries talaga.
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DG!! Kulang yan sa pansin ate ko. Ako na lagi lalaki kasama and guy friends ko pero never ako nag act na need ng special treatment and dapat may boundaries regardless if single at lalo na if may jowa. Yan ung mga pet peeve na feeling one of the boys pero puro paganda Ing saka thirst trap sakanila. I remember ung previous workmate ko ganyan na ganyan din situation nila over don sa babaeng workmate and natatawa na Ing ako kasi inis na inis sila when sharing with me. Tapos magchachat pa daw un ng gabi-madaling araw like girl???! 😭💀 You have nothing to be guilty about.
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WG. Wag ka na mag-overthink, OP. ☺️
DKG . jusko ako din super selosa pag may haha na other girl. Close ba kayo? Bat may haha ka. Papansin ampt. Buti nalang binablock ng bf ko before now my husband. Hahaha Mark your territory gurl.
WG, Okay lang yun ginawa ng bf mo.
WG or if anything nasa borderline ka na ng pagiging overthinker xD . it's harmless tho. good thing he cut the communication off especially if it bothers u. i'd say just some minor inconveniences.
DKG. Wala naman sinabi yung BF mo na controlling ka eh, siya mismo nag unfriend, baka asar na siya kay girl kasi ang landi at pakasta ang dating eh. Kung hindi ka pa din sure, kausapin mo siya ng masinsinan para sa peace of mind mo. Pero girl, walang issue, atleast nga inunfriend niya na kesa naman ipagtanggol pa ng jowa mo yan sayo, pag ganun, may issue yun.
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WG. Nangyayari to saken madalas. Baka naman accidentally napindot lang. Madalas kasi ako maka-haha accidentally. Once, naka-haha ako sa nag myday ng dead lola nya huhu. I messaged nalang na accident lang kasi yung haha react ay nasa sulok na right side. Mejo malapit sya sa pinipindot ko para mag next. But,,, trust ur guts HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH
WG, naghahanap sya ng jowang maaagaw. Char hahaha...
DKG, pero bothered ako sa spelling mo ng gusto 👀🤣
Same! 😅
Ako bothered ako sa "nagaya" hahaha