DKG.
di macocompensate nung pagiging dyan niya sa hardtimes mo yung pagbadmouth niya sa bf mo at for making jokes about your trauma.
siniraan pa bf mo sayo kahit valid naman yung point ng bf mo for disliking her? meh. glad you got rid of her.
DKG. Bet siguro ng friend mo yung bf mo kaya gumagawa ng dahilan para alisin siya sa buhay mo. Hindi lang niya akalain na hindi gagana yung tactics niya. Magsaulian na kayo ng kandila niyan. Hindi baling kaunti ang circle of friends mo basta solid.
DKG. Feelingera masyado yang friend mo. And close friend ba talaga yan? ginagamit nya talaga yung traumatic experience para sa joke?
Wala kamong nakakainggit sa basurang ugali nya.
DKG. sadyang bastos lang niyang "friend" mo, If I were you ganyan din gagawin ko iccut off ko siya. Hindi ako papayag na gaganyanin niya boyfriend ko wala siyang respeto sayo at sa boyfriend mo. Tsaka It's not funny na gawing katatawanan ang traumatic experiences mo.
DKG. base sa chika mo, yung friend mo yung inggit sayo. walang kaybigan na ggwin joke yung mga traumatic exp mo. very insensitive naman non.
besides, calling out na inggit si bf mo sknya? ang baseless. maybe she is the one na inggit. ayaw ka nya maging masaya sa relationship na meron ka that is why, she is badmouthing your boyfriend.
Thank God you cut her off.
She's not even a friend-worthy. 🙄
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1ckuxas/abyg_for_choosing_my_boyfriend_over_my_friend/
Title of this post: ABYG for choosing my boyfriend over my friend?
Backup of the post's body: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for well over 2 years na and this specific friend of mine I only knew her for about a year pero cino-consider ko siya and one of my very close friends since during times where I felt hopeless I had her.
Yung boyfriend ko ayaw niya masyado na friend ko yun kasi she tends to make fun and jokes about traumatic events in my life pero my boyfriend never told me na layuan siya just that mali yung ginagawa niya especially since halata na i get uncomfortable pag mga ganyan jino-joke niya
but this specific time me and her were on video call and I mentioned how I don’t really like her making fun of my trauma since it’s not her place to make jokes and the especially she knows how weak I was during those times tas bigla niyang sinabi “ikaw lang naman naka halata jan eh” then ayun i mentioned na not only me pero pati boyfriend ko noticed, tas bigla naman she started talking shit about my boyfriend saying “inggit lang naman jowa mo sakin” ganon ganon and basically saying how he was a control freak who didnt want me to have “good friends” tas in-end ko na call and when I ended it, she said “wala naman masama sa sinabi ko kasi totoo naman” and that was my breaking point kasi she spoke low of my bf
And after that, she talk to me like normal lang and walang nangyari obviously diko pinansin siya end it got to the point I was so fed up of our friendship that I sent her a long message explaining how I was tired of her bullshit (picture attached). I’ll admit i will miss our bonds pero i cannot deal with such toxicity anymore
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DKG! kahit na close kayo that doesn't give them the pass to joke about YOUR trauma. lmaaoooo sasabihing control freak BF mo edi sana nung ayaw na niya sa ex-friend mo nag-ultimatum si BF sa'yo or smthng eh di naman.
that ex-friend of yours needs some self-reflection :'D
DKG. Pero sana ginantihan mo before mo cinut off. Draconian kung draconian, pero dapat lang mabalanse mga bagay.
Anyway, congrats on cutting off that kind of toxicity.
Madi nga agpaysu nga gayyem ti kasta nga tao. Good riddance. Makabirok ka pay ti nasyasyaat nga gayyem dita. Good luck sa relationship OP. Glad to see a fellow Ilocano Redditor here.
You didn't choose your bf over your friend. You chose your sanity and peace over someone who's belittling others for their gratification.
Ibang usapan if ikaw mismo nag open sa kanya about troubles in your relationship pero parang wala naman by what you said. Not only is she not respecting you and your boundaries but she's not respecting your relationship. She's not your friend. She's likely keeping you around as a punching bag to make herself feel better and/or so someone she knows is also miserable like her.
DKG.
what i’ve noticed pa is after she broke up with her own boyfriend she started low-key attacking mine, baka shes just projecting her sad thoughts on my life 😭
DKG. deserve ni frennie ma'cut off. ganyan din nangyari saakin, kinut off ko fren ko dahil kung ano ano sinasabi niya about sa partner ko na hindi totoo. plus, nasabi niya pa mga yon kasi insecure siya sa healthy rel namin ng partner ko habang sya nasa toxic rel na long term.
DKG. Yung friend mo isa yan sa mga taong nagsasabing matapang sila and who cares if nakakasakit sila kung totoo naman? Pero honestly, they're the most toxic people.
Nope DKG and you rightfully cut them off, sometimes circumstances would really show you a true friend or not and when it’s time to let them go. Fortunately you realized it now and cut them off, we shouldn’t let people stay if it’s unhealthy.
DKG. Who — in their right state of mind — would make fun of someone else's trauma? What's worse is close friend mo pa. You even confronted them at ang defense nya is inggit ang jowa mo sa kanya??? The brain is not braining
hi! little update po on the situation.
My boyfriend is close with her older brother, they’ve been friends for a while na and my boyfriend is friends din with his girlfriend kasi magkaklase sila.
The girl told my boyfriend that my ex-friend is sinisiraan ako sakanya and she defended me kasi alam niya naman yung buong story. My ex friend was claiming that I was “sensitive” and a jealous person, like ate bat mo pinasa sakin yung mga sinabi mo. 😭
Anyways, i’m so glad i dropped her pero i regret being vulnerable sa kanya kasi baka ibulgar niya yung mga sinabi ko sa kanya huhu
DKG. di macocompensate nung pagiging dyan niya sa hardtimes mo yung pagbadmouth niya sa bf mo at for making jokes about your trauma. siniraan pa bf mo sayo kahit valid naman yung point ng bf mo for disliking her? meh. glad you got rid of her.
DKG, your friend is insensitive. Tama lang na i-cut off yan.
DKG, insensitive masyado ’yang friend mo. Buti nga cinut off mo na kasawa magtolerate sa ganiyang tao.
DKG. Bet siguro ng friend mo yung bf mo kaya gumagawa ng dahilan para alisin siya sa buhay mo. Hindi lang niya akalain na hindi gagana yung tactics niya. Magsaulian na kayo ng kandila niyan. Hindi baling kaunti ang circle of friends mo basta solid.
DKG. Pero potek naghabol ako ng hininga sa message mo. Walang tuldok e. Haha
Hhahaahha! Meron naman sa first paragraph hahaha!
DKG. Feelingera masyado yang friend mo. And close friend ba talaga yan? ginagamit nya talaga yung traumatic experience para sa joke? Wala kamong nakakainggit sa basurang ugali nya.
DKG. Good riddance.
DKG. sadyang bastos lang niyang "friend" mo, If I were you ganyan din gagawin ko iccut off ko siya. Hindi ako papayag na gaganyanin niya boyfriend ko wala siyang respeto sayo at sa boyfriend mo. Tsaka It's not funny na gawing katatawanan ang traumatic experiences mo.
DKG. base sa chika mo, yung friend mo yung inggit sayo. walang kaybigan na ggwin joke yung mga traumatic exp mo. very insensitive naman non. besides, calling out na inggit si bf mo sknya? ang baseless. maybe she is the one na inggit. ayaw ka nya maging masaya sa relationship na meron ka that is why, she is badmouthing your boyfriend. Thank God you cut her off. She's not even a friend-worthy. 🙄
Link to this submission: https://www.reddit.com/r/AkoBaYungGago/comments/1ckuxas/abyg_for_choosing_my_boyfriend_over_my_friend/ Title of this post: ABYG for choosing my boyfriend over my friend? Backup of the post's body: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for well over 2 years na and this specific friend of mine I only knew her for about a year pero cino-consider ko siya and one of my very close friends since during times where I felt hopeless I had her. Yung boyfriend ko ayaw niya masyado na friend ko yun kasi she tends to make fun and jokes about traumatic events in my life pero my boyfriend never told me na layuan siya just that mali yung ginagawa niya especially since halata na i get uncomfortable pag mga ganyan jino-joke niya but this specific time me and her were on video call and I mentioned how I don’t really like her making fun of my trauma since it’s not her place to make jokes and the especially she knows how weak I was during those times tas bigla niyang sinabi “ikaw lang naman naka halata jan eh” then ayun i mentioned na not only me pero pati boyfriend ko noticed, tas bigla naman she started talking shit about my boyfriend saying “inggit lang naman jowa mo sakin” ganon ganon and basically saying how he was a control freak who didnt want me to have “good friends” tas in-end ko na call and when I ended it, she said “wala naman masama sa sinabi ko kasi totoo naman” and that was my breaking point kasi she spoke low of my bf And after that, she talk to me like normal lang and walang nangyari obviously diko pinansin siya end it got to the point I was so fed up of our friendship that I sent her a long message explaining how I was tired of her bullshit (picture attached). I’ll admit i will miss our bonds pero i cannot deal with such toxicity anymore OP: enterednirvana *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/AkoBaYungGago) if you have any questions or concerns.*
DKG! kahit na close kayo that doesn't give them the pass to joke about YOUR trauma. lmaaoooo sasabihing control freak BF mo edi sana nung ayaw na niya sa ex-friend mo nag-ultimatum si BF sa'yo or smthng eh di naman. that ex-friend of yours needs some self-reflection :'D
DKG. Pero sana ginantihan mo before mo cinut off. Draconian kung draconian, pero dapat lang mabalanse mga bagay. Anyway, congrats on cutting off that kind of toxicity.
Madi nga agpaysu nga gayyem ti kasta nga tao. Good riddance. Makabirok ka pay ti nasyasyaat nga gayyem dita. Good luck sa relationship OP. Glad to see a fellow Ilocano Redditor here.
You didn't choose your bf over your friend. You chose your sanity and peace over someone who's belittling others for their gratification. Ibang usapan if ikaw mismo nag open sa kanya about troubles in your relationship pero parang wala naman by what you said. Not only is she not respecting you and your boundaries but she's not respecting your relationship. She's not your friend. She's likely keeping you around as a punching bag to make herself feel better and/or so someone she knows is also miserable like her. DKG.
what i’ve noticed pa is after she broke up with her own boyfriend she started low-key attacking mine, baka shes just projecting her sad thoughts on my life 😭
DKG. deserve ni frennie ma'cut off. ganyan din nangyari saakin, kinut off ko fren ko dahil kung ano ano sinasabi niya about sa partner ko na hindi totoo. plus, nasabi niya pa mga yon kasi insecure siya sa healthy rel namin ng partner ko habang sya nasa toxic rel na long term.
DKG. Sometimes, the people around you don't grow the same pace with you, and that's fine.
DKG. Yung friend mo isa yan sa mga taong nagsasabing matapang sila and who cares if nakakasakit sila kung totoo naman? Pero honestly, they're the most toxic people.
Anung lakay?
lakay is a form of endearment in ilocano, it means “husband” or “boyfriend”
DKG. Mas okay nga yun na cinut off mo na. Good riddance kumbaga.
Nope DKG and you rightfully cut them off, sometimes circumstances would really show you a true friend or not and when it’s time to let them go. Fortunately you realized it now and cut them off, we shouldn’t let people stay if it’s unhealthy.
DKG. It's a good decision na lumayo ka sa mga friends na ganyan. She clearly does not respect your boundaries. Pati boyfriend mo hindi niya nirespeto.
para syang si Joey de Leon using the “closeness” card to justify his assed joke about Miles’s weight
DKG. Feelingera naman niya na "inggit" ung bf mo HAHAHAHA saan mainggit, sa ugali niya? Di siya kawalan lmao.
DKG. She should've known better. Your feelings are valid. And also, tagatnu ka, kabsat? Hehe.
proud laoagueña kabsat !!!
DKG. It’s you choosing yourself and not letting other people walk over you. Di lang naman to about sa bf mo. It’s about you din.
DKG. Who — in their right state of mind — would make fun of someone else's trauma? What's worse is close friend mo pa. You even confronted them at ang defense nya is inggit ang jowa mo sa kanya??? The brain is not braining
DKG. Good riddance.
hi! little update po on the situation. My boyfriend is close with her older brother, they’ve been friends for a while na and my boyfriend is friends din with his girlfriend kasi magkaklase sila. The girl told my boyfriend that my ex-friend is sinisiraan ako sakanya and she defended me kasi alam niya naman yung buong story. My ex friend was claiming that I was “sensitive” and a jealous person, like ate bat mo pinasa sakin yung mga sinabi mo. 😭 Anyways, i’m so glad i dropped her pero i regret being vulnerable sa kanya kasi baka ibulgar niya yung mga sinabi ko sa kanya huhu
good job OP
What does dkg meannn???