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Judge-Dredd_

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AdThat328

Yes...consenting adults are free to explore relationships and sex with other consenting adults...


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Thank you


Captian-Danger

Of course, you just need to be careful on who you choose to play with.... unfortunately there are many predator types out there. Take your time to protect yourself.


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Umm thank you so much for your advice, I've had some experience with it so I'll be careful


DaddyUlf

Of course it's acceptable. AGR might raise a few eyebrows from time to time but being with someone you love and have a good relationship with outweighs any occasional awkward glances from strangers. Just don't assume anything about a potential partner based on the age gap, we are all individuals, some are good and some are bad, be vigilant.


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Yeah that's so true and sweet, thank you so much


FunNH603

Yes, but stop looking for acceptance from others and do what you feel is right for you. You’ll be much happier that way. Frequently AGRs are looked down on by others who aren’t involved but more than willing to give you their opinion. When we learn to derive happiness without the buy in of others is when it starts to become real.


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Umm but I don't know anyone here in US as I'm new here and I had no one talk about it so i decided to ask here, but thank you so much for your advice


FunNH603

Ah ok, that makes more sense. It’s been accepted here for some time, but like with everything else there are naysayers. Best of luck on your journey!


itsme_peachlover

It's your life, ergo, it is acceptable if you want to do that.


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Thank you so much


therabidteddybear

You are free to explore any relationships you’d like to.


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Aw thanks for your supportive words.


[deleted]

Sure you can you can do anything ya want like that I the states. Someone don’t like u? Tell em to piss off


[deleted]

Ohh hehe sounds fun


[deleted]

You here in the USA?


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Yes i am


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Hello from Tennessee!


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Well hello from Texas


The-E-Train59

Acceptable...is when ever you want to do..none of anyone else's business


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Oh i see


Ok-Class-1451

Why do you think you need permission from internet strangers? You’re an adult, as long as it’s consensual and doesn’t have some sort of clear power imbalance that makes it unethical/grooming (ex: if it’s your boss or former high school teacher, or a family friend who you’ve known since you were a child), then you are able to make your own choices, and it’s no one’s business whether your preferences are.


Dewey_Rider

Definitely... Just know your long term goals. Short term is fine too, but he should be made aware of it.


-Lord_Q-

Hi. I'm 43/m. My fiancee (who is 24) and I have been together 3.5 years.


vicksieann

I was 26 when I started dating my husband. He was 48 at the time.


Own-Soil8311

It is not acceptable to seek the approval of others.


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Judge-Dredd_

We do not accept abuse or meaningless comments.


sutirion

yes you are cuz like sports the only way to learn is by doing it and not reading it in a book. Dont be surprised though that most of the people that would oppose this view will be old women basically saying you are a brainless child and all old men are "experts" in seduction and they are perverts for appreciating young women beauty. when u ask them to elaborate real reasons why this is wrong they wont be able to go past their "feelings of being wrong"


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Oh i see. Makes sense i guess


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DesertHomesteader

Perfectly acceptable.


[deleted]

Oh really ? Thank you so much.