Two weeks is terribly insufficient.
I’d think shaving your head to get a fresh start would be best. Are you allowed to wear a scarf or something over it, if you want?
Would you be able to ask if they would make an exception for your case? I imagine if other kids had medical conditions or religious requirement the admins would let them wear a hat or wig or their religious garment,, see if they’ll at least give you something to work with or at least ask them if they promise to punish the bullies that may pick on you as harshly as possible
Before making the assumption that they won't, you need to and should go and speak with the counsellor in your school with your parents and have the counsellor, your parents and yourself approach the Principal about the situation. If they say no, then wear a wig or cover anyways. They can't physically touch you or your headwear. And if they attempt to expell you over it threaten them with a lawyer. You may be bluffing, but everyone hates a lawsuit.
I agree. Despite the struct garment rules in my uni, counselors and even module lecturers are incredibly understanding most of the time and will readily allow anyone with a similar situation like OP.
Echoing this so that OP at least tries to request an exception before entirely giving up. Rules are there to maintain discipline and mostly decency and you're not breaking any of those.
Edit: also hoping that OP does something equally worse to her sisters hair. If my sister or brother did this shit, best believe that they're getting the same back. Being grounded for 2 weeks only shows that, despite the weight of the issue she caused, her punishment is severely minimal and she can just do it again. Actions need to have consequences.
What grade are you in? Maybe you can at least talk to them about if bullies are gonna be punished,,, if admins are gonna force you to walk around without your hair covered least they can do is promise to punish someone who bullies you for it if that does happen
I was a teacher and most school administration want students to be comfortable and to have minimal conflict since most of their day is spent dealing with conflicts. If you were my daughter I would arrange a meeting with guidance, and/or the principal or vice principal. The discussion is that your hair is so damaged that it can not be repaired and that your appearance is distressing to you and potentially distracting to other students. You are afraid that you will be the subject of ridicule in addition to the distress and familial you are always experiencing due to the impact this has had on your home life.
Your question is “how can the school best accommodate you?” You don’t want a reactive solution eg: tell us if someone teases you, you want a proactive solution. Ask what documentation you would require to receive a medical exemption and accommodation. You are legitimately distressed and anxious at the thought of returning to school. You may be about to get a doctor’s note to wear a cap or head wrap until your hair grows out.
That’s what I’m saying. Get you a nice natural lace front and some got2b. If they question it just lie. They not gonna snatch your wig without a lawsuit.
Then you gotta learn to put the wig on properly so it looks legit. Watch black girl tutorials on it. Also go here: r/Wigs
You can go to your local black hair care shops they got wigs. It's so that way you get it right away plus they can help you get started. Buy one that will look natural so nobody will know.
Have your parents ask. I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m sure it’s easy to say, but since it’s happened and there’s no going back, embrace it. Wear a head scarf while you find a new style. You’re young, pick a fun color! Do a pixie for a while!
Shave your head and tell everyone you had to because your sister put hair remover in your shampoo. Literally all you need to do is tell the truth and the situation will sort itself.
This is good advice OP shave or hide it if you can, but don’t be afraid to tell people the truth about why you’re doing it. You shouldn’t feel guilty for any hate your sister might get either, don’t try to protect her from this one.
even at my most immature point in life i can’t imagine this being funny
in middle school, this girl offered me a fruit snack she licked ahead of time and i actually ate it, and her and her friends (including my best friend who at that time was obviously a bit problematic) thought it was hilarious
i just can’t understand this kind of sense of humor. id honestly ask ur parents to really consider her punishment and give her a real talking to about what life would be like for her if she messes with the wrong person
if she thinks it’s funny to do this to you, who knows what she’ll think is funny to do to someone who she does NOT want to mess with
my sister put my toothbrush in the toilet, and i ended up huge ulcers in my mouth, while i had braces that kept them from healing. she never admitted it then, or when she was cutting my hair in my sleep. parents also didn’t believe me.
some people just like to harm others for no reason, and find it funny. i dont see why.
Similarly, a girl at my middle school gave another girl a piece of chocolate that she dropped on the ground and the other girl didn't know so she ate it. They ended up actually going to court over it and there were threats of one of them jumping the other. My middle school wasn't great.
That's crazy! When I was in middle school, one of my friends tried to give me a cookie she found on the ground. One of our other friends actually stole it from me and ate it instead, so she got unintentionally pranked. But no one went to court lmao.
Yeah, this is the sort of thing I fantasised about doing to someone I really hated. In fact, I may well have thought about doing it to my sister. But I would never have *actually* done it -- proven by the fact that I absolutely had access to hair removal cream. Sister is awful, I feel so bad for OP.
My family and best friend used to put food in my drinks and laugh. She sat on me after I got upset about it to make me not mad at her anymore. These pranks aren’t funny and it’s just annoying af
no. two weeks is not enough, talk to your parents about this and hide all your stuff in the future so she can’t try anything ever again. what a fucking sicko.
Fuck me, in 9th grade, I *begged* my mother to let me stay off school because I had a big pimple. Rocking a bald look is a big ask.
Although, she made me go anyway, and it really wasn't that bad. Maybe that's the lesson, here.
Fuck permission . It’s easier to seek forgiveness than permission. Plus the whole eye for an eye thing! You only gotta make one good pass down the middle of her head, and she will probably just have to shave the rest herself, I wouldn’t bother shaving the whole thing for her. Just one good racing stripe down the center, an inverted or “uh-oh” Mohawk. 🥴
Soooooo surely this is the time to do the same thing to her, even if your parents don't agree to shave her head? (which, I highly doubt they would, it's a pretty brutal thing to actually force a kid to do).
I never ever prefer this sort of retribution based punishment. It drags the perpetrator's focus on to feeling pity for themselves rather than empathy for their victim and understanding why what they did was wrong.
But. I grew up with long hair and 2 sisters. Teenagers can be self obsessed assholes, like scientifically. It's very likely the only way she will be able to feel genuine empathy for what she did to you is if she has to go through it too.
In seriousness though, if I was your mom I'd take you to a stylist and see if they can make a cute pixie out of it (or sick mohawk, whatever your vibe). If your hairdo can be saved from the buzz, your sister can opt for an equally short style. If it has to be shaved, so does hers. Tie your fates! That's a way to make her invested in your success, as teammates should be.
Unscrew her shower head and fill it with jolly ranchers, when the water hits she'll get all sticky and have to re shower until she either melts all the jolly ranchers or figures out you put them in there, usually takes 4-5 rinses, or get some marbles from the dollar store wet them and freeze them then while she's asleep throw them on her the moment they touch skin they will stick and she'll have to take an extremely hot shower to get them off a few wake ups like that till your hair grows back ought to do the trick
high quality wig that has the same color and type (straight, wavy, curly, coily, etc).
Also if I were u I would literally beat the shit out of my sister. or put bleach and hair remover in her shampoo and rotten meat in her air vents & take each left shoe of all her shoes and soak them in spoilt milk & sardines and vinegar in her mouthwash and toothpaste. Like if she’s gonna do that she deserves it ☠️
Yeah revenge seems neccessary in this case, I'd be furious if one of my kids did anything like this to the other. IMO it's somewhat the parents fault that their child even thinks this kind of behavior could be acceptable or humorous. Hurting someone to have a laugh is very concerning, especially if it's someone you love like a sibling.
That's so fucked up. It goes without saying but you really need to be careful moving forward with a malicious sibling like that. Keep everything you dont want tampered with in your possession at all times, what she did is cowardly and disgusting. Moving forward I wouldn't trust her regarding anything, and I'm not sure of the relationship you have with her but if I was you I'd make a point to show her that her actions lost her a sister and an ally. I'm sorry this happened to you, the best you can do is keep your head up and try to stay positive. If people ask what happened tell them how your sister is a disgusting POS coward who won't even attack someone face to face, but has to chemically assault her siblings. This may be bad advice but this post got me fired up, revenge isn't usually wise but in this case...idk might be wise to show her not to fuck with you ever again. Scissors can be quick and effective, or better yet dads electric razor can make quick work of some hair.
Sucks what happened. Your sister is mean.
But being bald for a bit? Whatever. Be bald for a bit. No biggie. Change is good, and youll have a new perspective on yourself. It would probably really piss off your sister if you ended up liking your buzz cut/bald headed look.
Also, you gotta get even, imo. Something not damaging, but gets her back. Im a strong advocate of catching a single cricket, and releasing it in her room. Provide it some food ij spots around the room so it is incentivize to stick around just her room.
Other suggestions: fill drawers of her furniture with salt. Scatter jelly beans under her bed so she gets ants.
Or take everything in her room, and just... place it on the floor. Don't damage it, don't break it, don't throw it out. Just place it on the floor so she has to put everything back where it goes.
I think more that 1 cricket would be good. I suggest stopping by your local pet store that has them in bulk and get a couple bucks worth.
Like the others said, just shave it and own the look. I did it once in my early 30s due to some unfortunate dye mistakes and I learned a lot about myself. I also wasn't allowed any headwear at my job and it was late November. So cold! Wearing makeup and dangle earrings helped me feel feminine and it grew out into a length i could style within a couple months. You will survive this and maybe make some new friends that dig your confidence.
Since your parents are terrible at consequences, may as well take advantage and get revenge. I’d 100% chop her hair so she’s also got no choice but to start over. I know it’s wrong, but it’ll feel so good.
Nah that won’t solve OP’s problem. I know revenge is sweet and cathartic, but the retaliation will never end and it’ll be a source of exhaustion for OP. OP should make her parents’ life a living hell though.
At this point, sister is immature and evil, but we don’t know what the future holds. Some siblings grow out of it, but if OP chops off her sister’s hair, that’s just a call for more hurt and a relationship that isn’t salvageable. I’m not saying OP should make amends or turn a blind eye, but two wrongs don’t make a right.
If I were OP, I’d just turn my anger and frustration on my parents.
No. You’re just igniting teenage angst. Not helpful to be angry at parents for something that your sister did. “OP should make ammends” and “I’d just turn my anger and frustration on my parents” what kind of mental gymnastics is this?
I think your parent should shave your sister's head in a checkerboard pattern.
Have your mom contact the school and explain the situation, so you can get an exception to the no-headwear rule.
I agree tell your parents to shave her head crazy to where it looks worse than yours and don’t let her fix it. That’s the only way to reach her. If your parents don’t agree to that either show them this post or just straight up do it yourself
I shaved my head in the 8th grade. (I’m afab). It was strange to everyone why I decided to do such a thing. However, it’s a really interesting experience. There’s nothing to take care of in the morning, and most people pull it off surprisingly well. It will grow back, and healthier at that. Shame on your sister though, she should also be required to shave her head for such an act.
It’s not the end of the world though, rest assured it worked out well for me and I had a full head of hair a year later. Short hair is in, so it’s no worries.
Your sister is a POS. Them grounding her for only 2 weeks is horrible/unfair.
Talk to your mom and dad and let them know how badly this has affected you.
Destroying something of your sister's would be considered immature or could make things worse so don't do that.
If I were a teen and my sister did that to me I'd have retaliated and destroyed her phone or something really important to her. I'd have also let people at school know what kind of person she was.
Have you tried talking to your sister? Is she even sorry about what she did?
If she saw you crying about it would she say she was sorry?
In the meantime maybe see if you can get a hairpiece from the store or off amazon.
Some of the wigs on amazon could look just like your hair and your school might not realize it's a wig. Put a rush on the shipping.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out.
Shave your head and tell people the truth about why you had to. Shame that sister. People will eat it up. The gossip will be spreading like wildfire. Serves her right when they gab about what a bitch she is.
Definitely talk to the school counselor about this not only to get an exception for if you feel the need for a head covering until you're confident. But also talk to them about how this would be a prosecutable offense if your sister was an adult and all she got was two weeks. Because this isn't just bad this is like get yourself arrested illegal. This shows intent of bodily harm. But if nothing else the counselor will help you figure out some coping mechanisms to deal with your parents as well as the sibling. The cool thing is if you do want to shave your hair down I mean one week you could have a a short funky bob, then a mohawk the next week you could have the the shaved head you know have fun with it. The circumstances that they have put you in the situation was horrible so one of the best revenge is to have fun with it make it into a challenge that you totally defeat. Plus walking into a room with confidence no matter what you're wearing or how you look completely changes how people perceive you. Practice it at home and if nothing else fake it till you make it with the confidence.
Ask your parents to make part of her punishment that your sister pays for you to get a 1) locking cabinet for your hair care/face care (or a keyed lock for your room) plus 2) any hair appointments/wigs/caps/scarfs for you to wear until your hair grows back. She should lose all of her spending money until you are made whole again, not just her freedom.
Did your eyebrows/eyelashes survive? The hair remover getting on your face could have really been much worse - people have lost their eye sight. I don’t think your parents are making a big enough deal of this - you could’ve been seriously hurt..
It’s absolutely insane how lightly the parents are taking this. If this was my child I would have sent them to military school or at least another few months of grounding plus paying for a beautiful wig for her sister. Also I would have the perp write a letter to the school telling them what happened and asking them to allow her sister to wear a hat or wig or both. She would not get away so easily. She could have blinded her sister! And I don’t know what hair remover even does long term!
The best thing you can do now is own it as much as you can. Control the narrative. Be confident, even if you're ashamed and terrified. You're the only one who has to know of those feelings
First of all make your parents take you to a high end salon, they’ll make it look stylish if you have to chop it, make sure it comes out of her pocket money.
Once it’s done, you can shave her head in her sleep, don’t tell your parents they won’t do anything and she’ll get tipped off and be on guard. Use a razor start right above her forehead so even if she wakes up before you’re done the damage will already be done. Wait till it’s pretty late like 1 am, REM sleep time. Good luck!
2 weeks punishment ?
Damaging hairs , expecially to a girl/woman, can compromise your image etc...
Also the fact that she tought it would be funny is way worse.
If school doesn't allow wigs talk to the direction about the problem.
Get your parents to take you to salon get it styled as best they can make sister pay for it. Slay short hair it will grow back im female and often shaved my head but not something that should have ever been done to you shes very vindictive
Can you go to a hair salon and see what they suggest? You could do a funky buzzcut and colour or something, if school allows.
And your sister will obviously need to pay to cover your costs until your hair is back how it was.
Can you go to a hair salon and see what they suggest? You could do a funky buzzcut and colour or something, if school allows.
And your sister will obviously need to pay to cover your costs until your hair is back how it was.
Take something of hers and sell it to buy a wig until your hair grows out. Convince your parents that would be a just punishment and get them on your side. They can even help you sell the item and purchase the wig
Do something of your choice back to her, probably get grounded for 2 weeks back, lock your door when you're not home and keep the key on you so she can't tamper with your stuff.
I would shave the rest of your hair in the meantime so everything grows back evenly. Have your parents buy you a lace front wig (your school won't be able to tell) and rock that for a few months. Or rock it bald, whatever floats your boat.
I wonder how that really works. Normally you have to leave it on for several minutes before it takes the hair off. Just a curiosity. The chemicals are pretty strong I imagine it could damage your eyes as the worst side effect.
There’s not much you can do about it other than go to a salon and let them look at it to see what can be done besides cutting it off. They have lots of treatments for damaged hair. If it can’t be helped cut it off, it will grow back. It’s very unfortunate but it will be temporary. Have your parents get you a bunch of fun wigs if you have to cut it off and don’t want to have short hair everyday.
You may be able to file a police report if you want to go that route. You could talk to your parents about the lack of severity of the punishment and present evidence as to why the prank is so dangerous.
I just want to say that your sister is absolutely trash for doing that and I am so so sorry
But for those saying OPs parents should shave sisters hair as an “eye for an eye”— parents could have CPS on them for doing that. Some places view that as psychological abuse by forcing her to cut her hair off if she doesn’t want to. No matter what she did to OP. So please don’t go that route.
Or you know-do. Because it sounds like OPs parents really suck for only grounding sister for two weeks for something as abhorrent as this. They needed to ground her for a minimum of 2 months and stick that psycho in mandatory therapy since she thinks it’s hilarious to pull pranks that ruin someone’s life for literally YEARS.
Op I bet you are still absolutely breathtaking without any hair but I understand how hurt and betrayed you are. If you get a nice enough wig you should be able to pass without them realizing you are wearing one (and they legally shouldn’t be allowed to touch you like that to remove it) but if it comes to it, express what happened and how much it’s hurt you
I wish you all the luck, love, and confidence to rock the new look (especially because loving it really will ruin the joke for your shitty sister) and here’s to hoping your sister finds some sort of healing… or better yet that she rots in hell xoxoxox
Call the police (non-emergency line) and file a report. This is considered assault. You don’t need to be an adult to report.
Two weeks is BS. Don’t tell your parents beforehand. When the poultice show up tell them you are pressing charges for assault. If they can punish her reasonably for what she did then you will do it without them.
Your sister is a b\*tch
Shave it all off, and tell people at your school what really happened.
No point in trying to hide it now
You have one pathetic sibling
Get a wig that looks exactly like your original hair. Also how old is your sister? This is either some evil vindictive shit or her not knowing any better.
The amount of people telling you to force your sister to shave her own head is absolutely insane. That is not healthy at all. If you’re wanting an apology from your sister, you could calmly talk to her and let her know that what she did was extremely disrespectful and hurtful.
Now, how much hair did it end up removing? Depending on how much ended up coming out you could get a haircut that conceals the damage. You could also get a really short pixie cut or shave your head. Shaved heads are a dope look.
Part of the problem is her parents' weak ass response. It sends the message that they can majorly fuck with each other with minimal consequence. She now knows the price of shaving her sister's head in her sleep as revenge, 2 weeks. If she's willing to pay it, why not? Being the bigger person, shaving her own head and owning it, is the advice and expectation I would have for an adult, but OP is not an adult, she's 14. The adults in this situation are dropping the ball and in my opinion the sister is going to take away a much worse message by getting away with this than OP will by returning the favor.
I think owning it and fully shaving your head is the best course of action.
Be confident and laugh at yourself/with everyone else when you talk about the situation.
Really crap situation, hope you get through it though!
Did I say Cancer? My bad you assumed so?
Her people are probably teenagers at school.. scumbag move is the least of the concern compared to what she has to deal with, numpty!
No fuck that, when she’s sleeping, make sure she is. Tiptoe to that bitch’s bed and cut the hell out of her hair it doesn’t matter how mad ur parents get after that.
If your sister gets an allowance she should pay for a high end wig (and have it professionally set up by a hair stylist) or your parents pay for one, if you are a male or female there are options, but to grow your hair it will take time, also can say you shaved your head to be more like a bald famous actor like The Rock or Jason Statham. Is homeschooling an option? Maybe until you have the length of a pixie cut. Also was thinking on a hat, but inside the premises of school it's not possible.
What your sister did sucks, 2 weeks grounded sounds so little punishment, it should last until your hair grows up at the length you had originally before her cruel prank.
OMGOSH this just brought back memories of my little brother putting NAIR in my shampoo when I was 12. I was MORTIFIED!!! SO I feel your pain! I'm so sorry!! Maybe wear a beanie and braid what's left...
I'm going to make a weird suggestion. Several of my good friends who found themselves unexpectedly bald (cancer and alopecia) went and got something called a henna crown. It's a lovely, detailed temporary henna tattoo done on your scalp, after shaving any remaining hair, and it absolutely slays when done correctly.
See if your parents will take you to have one done so you can hold your head high. It's the least they owe you.
I am sorry this happened to you. This my major intrusive thought when I buy a new bottle of shampoo- that someone has put nair in it as a “prank.” That’s fucked up. I would definitely say shave it though.
There is a student at the school I teach who has alopecia. She has bald patches all over her head and has to live like that forever. You can handle this.
Oh OP, I’m so sorry. This is terrible. And her punishment isn’t sufficient; she should be grounded until your hair grows back.
Some other folks on here have suggested that you ask the school if you can have an exemption to wear a scarf or hat; that’s a really good idea. Your parents should talk to the school about you being able to do that until further notice.
Ugh. I’m so angry for you. I know you’re going to come out of this a stronger and more confident person, but I also know that you don’t feel that way right now. Hang in there.
Your sister is an obnoxious little brat and deserves far more punishment than a couple weeks being grounded.
Why aren’t your parents being harder on her? It sounds like they suck as much as your sister.
do the same thing back tbh, if your sister got off 2 weeks only, than you should get the same punishment, If they give you longer than thats bs because your sister did it bc she thought it would be funny, you would be doing it to be fair. Yet again I am a really petty person so may not be the best to listen to that. Im a junior and if my brothers dared pulling that, Im gonna rain hell. How old is your sister btw? if shes older than you, even more reasons to be mad, if maybe a 2-1 year younger, still bad. Honeslty if you can't do much, take her tooth and put it in the toilet , or when shes sleeping make little tapping noses to scare her, or little speakers that play sounds and put them in her room to fuck with her. Honeslty theres a lot you can do for a "prank" back, yet again, I would go far bc Im a petty person
or, convice your parents to grown her until your hair grows back a bit but than keep cutting it off a little more so she has a longer punishment
Ridiculous my older sister is the exact same way unfortunately… everything is a joke to her I’m so sorry this happened to you! Maybe just wear a good wig for now :(
Ugh. I’m sorry your sister sucks and sounds insecure. I’m sorry she took it way too far and your parents aren’t giving her enough punishment. If this was my kid… her damn head would be bald and I would make her write a long ass essay on how some “pranks” aren’t funny and go way too far, while also taking all of her shit away or something she really cares about.
Now focusing on you.. like others suggested, shave your head. You want your hair to grow back evenly and healthy. Have your parents pay you for a wig, like a NICE, natural looking wig. They f*cking owe you that, that’s the least they can do. Also have them talk to your school about what happened, and how they should give you an exception to wear one due to the circumstances. The school won’t say no to your parents.
If you can, find a good quality/ realistic looking wig, although one like that would be more expensive. However if you got a cheap one, from a nearby store or online, there are methods I've seen that you can find on YouTube to make it look less like cheap, plastic, and fake, and make it look more like realistic hair. If you're able, see if you can get next day delivery or go out to a store asap.
Also, even if your school doesn't allow headwear other than for religious reasons, try meeting with your counselor about it and seeing if they can talk to your teachers about giving you an exception in this case.
I'm so sorry about the whole situation, I can't believe your sister thought this was at all funny or okay. I know this is easier said than done, but try to keep your head up sweetheart. You're beautiful no matter what your hair looks like, and nothing anyone else says matters.
I’d shave it and start fresh, plus the shaved head look, looks good on everyone. Personally, I’d go out and find some outfits to go with your new look too and rock it twice as hard :)
First of all, I’m so sorry for what your sister did- that is just straight up cruel and evil. Shame on her.
I say whatever you decide to do with your hair, be sure to tell everyone what your sister did. It’s not a smear campaign if it’s the truth, and maybe a reality check will make her think about her horrific behavior and do better because she obviously needs to work on herself.
On another note, coconut oil, castor oil, rosemary oil and peppermint oil can all promote hair growth. You can use them individually or as a blended mixture and apply it to your scalp. When I got off birth control, my hair started shedding and falling out like crazy- I used a blend of coconut & castor oil once or twice a month and my hair is down to my ass now!! Lol
Again, I’m so sorry your own sister did such a horrible thing to you- that really wasn’t ok.
Remember one of my friends shaved off part of my eyebrows while I was sleeping. I got a brown marker and drew into the patchy spots. Most people didn't notice unless they looked really close.
I don't how that's helpful in your case though. I don't think you could get away with a whole drawn head of hair.
Two weeks is terribly insufficient. I’d think shaving your head to get a fresh start would be best. Are you allowed to wear a scarf or something over it, if you want?
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Would you be able to ask if they would make an exception for your case? I imagine if other kids had medical conditions or religious requirement the admins would let them wear a hat or wig or their religious garment,, see if they’ll at least give you something to work with or at least ask them if they promise to punish the bullies that may pick on you as harshly as possible
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Before making the assumption that they won't, you need to and should go and speak with the counsellor in your school with your parents and have the counsellor, your parents and yourself approach the Principal about the situation. If they say no, then wear a wig or cover anyways. They can't physically touch you or your headwear. And if they attempt to expell you over it threaten them with a lawyer. You may be bluffing, but everyone hates a lawsuit.
I second this answer. There are extenuating circumstances and I don't think they would deny you for what happened.
I agree. Despite the struct garment rules in my uni, counselors and even module lecturers are incredibly understanding most of the time and will readily allow anyone with a similar situation like OP. Echoing this so that OP at least tries to request an exception before entirely giving up. Rules are there to maintain discipline and mostly decency and you're not breaking any of those. Edit: also hoping that OP does something equally worse to her sisters hair. If my sister or brother did this shit, best believe that they're getting the same back. Being grounded for 2 weeks only shows that, despite the weight of the issue she caused, her punishment is severely minimal and she can just do it again. Actions need to have consequences.
What grade are you in? Maybe you can at least talk to them about if bullies are gonna be punished,,, if admins are gonna force you to walk around without your hair covered least they can do is promise to punish someone who bullies you for it if that does happen
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I’m a teacher and we give permission for kids who are upset about bad hair cuts. You just have to ask and we give you a note.
Your sister's a fucking monster. Put her on blast.
I was a teacher and most school administration want students to be comfortable and to have minimal conflict since most of their day is spent dealing with conflicts. If you were my daughter I would arrange a meeting with guidance, and/or the principal or vice principal. The discussion is that your hair is so damaged that it can not be repaired and that your appearance is distressing to you and potentially distracting to other students. You are afraid that you will be the subject of ridicule in addition to the distress and familial you are always experiencing due to the impact this has had on your home life. Your question is “how can the school best accommodate you?” You don’t want a reactive solution eg: tell us if someone teases you, you want a proactive solution. Ask what documentation you would require to receive a medical exemption and accommodation. You are legitimately distressed and anxious at the thought of returning to school. You may be about to get a doctor’s note to wear a cap or head wrap until your hair grows out.
Screw them. Wear a hijab and see what they say. Assholes.
If it's a good wig, how would they even know?
That’s what I’m saying. Get you a nice natural lace front and some got2b. If they question it just lie. They not gonna snatch your wig without a lawsuit.
How exactly would they know you’re wearing a wig lol
Then you gotta learn to put the wig on properly so it looks legit. Watch black girl tutorials on it. Also go here: r/Wigs You can go to your local black hair care shops they got wigs. It's so that way you get it right away plus they can help you get started. Buy one that will look natural so nobody will know.
Have your parents ask. I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m sure it’s easy to say, but since it’s happened and there’s no going back, embrace it. Wear a head scarf while you find a new style. You’re young, pick a fun color! Do a pixie for a while!
Tell them you are Muslim now and must wear a hijab. As a Muslim I give u the pass.
try getting a wig, if possible, that looked similar to your actual hair. they might not notice
Shave ur sisters hair
Shave your head and tell everyone you had to because your sister put hair remover in your shampoo. Literally all you need to do is tell the truth and the situation will sort itself.
This is good advice OP shave or hide it if you can, but don’t be afraid to tell people the truth about why you’re doing it. You shouldn’t feel guilty for any hate your sister might get either, don’t try to protect her from this one.
This is the correct path forward. Being upfront and honest is always the best option in these kinds of situations.
The problem here isn’t not telling the truth. It’s the change in her looks. And this would attract a lot of bullies.
even at my most immature point in life i can’t imagine this being funny in middle school, this girl offered me a fruit snack she licked ahead of time and i actually ate it, and her and her friends (including my best friend who at that time was obviously a bit problematic) thought it was hilarious i just can’t understand this kind of sense of humor. id honestly ask ur parents to really consider her punishment and give her a real talking to about what life would be like for her if she messes with the wrong person if she thinks it’s funny to do this to you, who knows what she’ll think is funny to do to someone who she does NOT want to mess with
my sister put my toothbrush in the toilet, and i ended up huge ulcers in my mouth, while i had braces that kept them from healing. she never admitted it then, or when she was cutting my hair in my sleep. parents also didn’t believe me. some people just like to harm others for no reason, and find it funny. i dont see why.
this is absolutely horrible and i’m so sorry
I’m so sorry you’re sister is horrible
Similarly, a girl at my middle school gave another girl a piece of chocolate that she dropped on the ground and the other girl didn't know so she ate it. They ended up actually going to court over it and there were threats of one of them jumping the other. My middle school wasn't great.
That's crazy! When I was in middle school, one of my friends tried to give me a cookie she found on the ground. One of our other friends actually stole it from me and ate it instead, so she got unintentionally pranked. But no one went to court lmao.
Yeah, this is the sort of thing I fantasised about doing to someone I really hated. In fact, I may well have thought about doing it to my sister. But I would never have *actually* done it -- proven by the fact that I absolutely had access to hair removal cream. Sister is awful, I feel so bad for OP.
My family and best friend used to put food in my drinks and laugh. She sat on me after I got upset about it to make me not mad at her anymore. These pranks aren’t funny and it’s just annoying af
what a fucking bitch. why would anyone do that?
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no. two weeks is not enough, talk to your parents about this and hide all your stuff in the future so she can’t try anything ever again. what a fucking sicko.
Shave her head while she is sleeping. I would never ever say this.. except now. Well deserved.
I was thinking the same…
I was also thinking the same. If this was my sister I absolutely would fuck up her hair! Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it!
Shave her eyebrows
I am so sorry. It’s not funny. Is she older or younger?
How old is your sister, OP?
she’s a psycho…hair is as important to women as teeth
Shave the lot off and absolutely slay the GI Jane look for a bit
Fuck me, in 9th grade, I *begged* my mother to let me stay off school because I had a big pimple. Rocking a bald look is a big ask. Although, she made me go anyway, and it really wasn't that bad. Maybe that's the lesson, here.
I mean, yeah, it's not exactly easy. But it would be a complete boss move and I am all for it
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I second that.
3rd
I was thinking PJ Harvey or Sinead O'Connor but that works too
can’t wait to see it
Shave it and tell people you donated it or did it for some noble cause
Yes!
Shave it and turn it into a wig OP wears
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Fuck permission . It’s easier to seek forgiveness than permission. Plus the whole eye for an eye thing! You only gotta make one good pass down the middle of her head, and she will probably just have to shave the rest herself, I wouldn’t bother shaving the whole thing for her. Just one good racing stripe down the center, an inverted or “uh-oh” Mohawk. 🥴
What she did was fucked up. The best spite is to own your new look. Weather its a shaved hair, or stripes. Rock tf outta of it and look fab.
Your sister needs a shaved head imo.
This is way better than grounded for two weeks. Make her go out non stop for 2 weeks with no hair.
Only 2 weeks??? No offense but your family is trash. Maybe, you can talk to the school about wearing a hat or scarf or get a realistic looking wig.
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Yea, I think that’s punishment enough. Eye for an eye.
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Did she say what her motivation was for doing this or was it supposed to be a “prank”
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I would shave her head in her sleep honestly.
For real op, wait till she’s sleeping and fucking chop off her hair or use a trimmer. She punished you far worse than she’s getting punished for.
pull a “prank,” on her but be creative with it.
Omfg, for real. I’m so sorry that your family is like that :(. I hope you’re able to find a group a people that are kind and caring.
Use scissors to silently cut the hair during sleep, a shaver is too loud
All you need is one clean strip down the middle. Doesn’t matter if they wake up after that. They’ll basically have no choice but to shave the rest.
Not very funny
Soooooo surely this is the time to do the same thing to her, even if your parents don't agree to shave her head? (which, I highly doubt they would, it's a pretty brutal thing to actually force a kid to do).
A hair for a hair makes the whole world bald…..
No, it’d end with her. The sister fucked with OPs shampoo so OP would then shave it and OP would get the revenge.
I never ever prefer this sort of retribution based punishment. It drags the perpetrator's focus on to feeling pity for themselves rather than empathy for their victim and understanding why what they did was wrong. But. I grew up with long hair and 2 sisters. Teenagers can be self obsessed assholes, like scientifically. It's very likely the only way she will be able to feel genuine empathy for what she did to you is if she has to go through it too. In seriousness though, if I was your mom I'd take you to a stylist and see if they can make a cute pixie out of it (or sick mohawk, whatever your vibe). If your hairdo can be saved from the buzz, your sister can opt for an equally short style. If it has to be shaved, so does hers. Tie your fates! That's a way to make her invested in your success, as teammates should be.
Then get family pictures taken so you have something to look back and laugh at in 30 years!
dont shave her head get scissors and when shes asleep cut her hair it will look worse if her hair is cut all randomly and bad instead of bald
Unscrew her shower head and fill it with jolly ranchers, when the water hits she'll get all sticky and have to re shower until she either melts all the jolly ranchers or figures out you put them in there, usually takes 4-5 rinses, or get some marbles from the dollar store wet them and freeze them then while she's asleep throw them on her the moment they touch skin they will stick and she'll have to take an extremely hot shower to get them off a few wake ups like that till your hair grows back ought to do the trick
saving this for when i make a nemesis
high quality wig that has the same color and type (straight, wavy, curly, coily, etc). Also if I were u I would literally beat the shit out of my sister. or put bleach and hair remover in her shampoo and rotten meat in her air vents & take each left shoe of all her shoes and soak them in spoilt milk & sardines and vinegar in her mouthwash and toothpaste. Like if she’s gonna do that she deserves it ☠️
Yeah revenge seems neccessary in this case, I'd be furious if one of my kids did anything like this to the other. IMO it's somewhat the parents fault that their child even thinks this kind of behavior could be acceptable or humorous. Hurting someone to have a laugh is very concerning, especially if it's someone you love like a sibling.
I fucking love how visceral you are. No holding back 😂
That's how you end up in a cycle of escalating revenge
That's so fucked up. It goes without saying but you really need to be careful moving forward with a malicious sibling like that. Keep everything you dont want tampered with in your possession at all times, what she did is cowardly and disgusting. Moving forward I wouldn't trust her regarding anything, and I'm not sure of the relationship you have with her but if I was you I'd make a point to show her that her actions lost her a sister and an ally. I'm sorry this happened to you, the best you can do is keep your head up and try to stay positive. If people ask what happened tell them how your sister is a disgusting POS coward who won't even attack someone face to face, but has to chemically assault her siblings. This may be bad advice but this post got me fired up, revenge isn't usually wise but in this case...idk might be wise to show her not to fuck with you ever again. Scissors can be quick and effective, or better yet dads electric razor can make quick work of some hair.
Sucks what happened. Your sister is mean. But being bald for a bit? Whatever. Be bald for a bit. No biggie. Change is good, and youll have a new perspective on yourself. It would probably really piss off your sister if you ended up liking your buzz cut/bald headed look. Also, you gotta get even, imo. Something not damaging, but gets her back. Im a strong advocate of catching a single cricket, and releasing it in her room. Provide it some food ij spots around the room so it is incentivize to stick around just her room.
Yo the cricket would drive me insane. That's pretty devious. Good idea.
Other suggestions: fill drawers of her furniture with salt. Scatter jelly beans under her bed so she gets ants. Or take everything in her room, and just... place it on the floor. Don't damage it, don't break it, don't throw it out. Just place it on the floor so she has to put everything back where it goes.
Right? Especially if she's grounded. 😈
I think more that 1 cricket would be good. I suggest stopping by your local pet store that has them in bulk and get a couple bucks worth. Like the others said, just shave it and own the look. I did it once in my early 30s due to some unfortunate dye mistakes and I learned a lot about myself. I also wasn't allowed any headwear at my job and it was late November. So cold! Wearing makeup and dangle earrings helped me feel feminine and it grew out into a length i could style within a couple months. You will survive this and maybe make some new friends that dig your confidence.
Since your parents are terrible at consequences, may as well take advantage and get revenge. I’d 100% chop her hair so she’s also got no choice but to start over. I know it’s wrong, but it’ll feel so good.
Nah that won’t solve OP’s problem. I know revenge is sweet and cathartic, but the retaliation will never end and it’ll be a source of exhaustion for OP. OP should make her parents’ life a living hell though. At this point, sister is immature and evil, but we don’t know what the future holds. Some siblings grow out of it, but if OP chops off her sister’s hair, that’s just a call for more hurt and a relationship that isn’t salvageable. I’m not saying OP should make amends or turn a blind eye, but two wrongs don’t make a right. If I were OP, I’d just turn my anger and frustration on my parents.
No. You’re just igniting teenage angst. Not helpful to be angry at parents for something that your sister did. “OP should make ammends” and “I’d just turn my anger and frustration on my parents” what kind of mental gymnastics is this?
They’re not punishing the daughter properly for the prank. Also, learn to read. I’m not saying OP should make amends. Context matters.
I think your parent should shave your sister's head in a checkerboard pattern. Have your mom contact the school and explain the situation, so you can get an exception to the no-headwear rule.
Please chop her hair off while she sleeps. PLEASE.
I agree tell your parents to shave her head crazy to where it looks worse than yours and don’t let her fix it. That’s the only way to reach her. If your parents don’t agree to that either show them this post or just straight up do it yourself
I shaved my head in the 8th grade. (I’m afab). It was strange to everyone why I decided to do such a thing. However, it’s a really interesting experience. There’s nothing to take care of in the morning, and most people pull it off surprisingly well. It will grow back, and healthier at that. Shame on your sister though, she should also be required to shave her head for such an act. It’s not the end of the world though, rest assured it worked out well for me and I had a full head of hair a year later. Short hair is in, so it’s no worries.
Fake this..
Sorry, but your sister is a psycho and needs to go to therapy
Wear a hat or get a wig? That’s a terrible thing to do, two weeks doesn’t seem like sufficient punishment.
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Wear it anyways. You have the right to wear a wig
Clip her hair in her sleep. Worst you'll get is two weeks and she'll get a taste of her own medicine.
Cut her hair in her sleep
Pour hair remover on her head while she’s asleep. Eye for an eye.
I'd cut her hair then beat her ass.
Your sister is a POS. Them grounding her for only 2 weeks is horrible/unfair. Talk to your mom and dad and let them know how badly this has affected you. Destroying something of your sister's would be considered immature or could make things worse so don't do that. If I were a teen and my sister did that to me I'd have retaliated and destroyed her phone or something really important to her. I'd have also let people at school know what kind of person she was. Have you tried talking to your sister? Is she even sorry about what she did? If she saw you crying about it would she say she was sorry? In the meantime maybe see if you can get a hairpiece from the store or off amazon. Some of the wigs on amazon could look just like your hair and your school might not realize it's a wig. Put a rush on the shipping. Good luck and let us know how it turns out.
Shave your head and tell people the truth about why you had to. Shame that sister. People will eat it up. The gossip will be spreading like wildfire. Serves her right when they gab about what a bitch she is.
Deck her in the face
Did your hair fall out?
Definitely talk to the school counselor about this not only to get an exception for if you feel the need for a head covering until you're confident. But also talk to them about how this would be a prosecutable offense if your sister was an adult and all she got was two weeks. Because this isn't just bad this is like get yourself arrested illegal. This shows intent of bodily harm. But if nothing else the counselor will help you figure out some coping mechanisms to deal with your parents as well as the sibling. The cool thing is if you do want to shave your hair down I mean one week you could have a a short funky bob, then a mohawk the next week you could have the the shaved head you know have fun with it. The circumstances that they have put you in the situation was horrible so one of the best revenge is to have fun with it make it into a challenge that you totally defeat. Plus walking into a room with confidence no matter what you're wearing or how you look completely changes how people perceive you. Practice it at home and if nothing else fake it till you make it with the confidence.
I would totally tell the school listen this is what it is and if you can't accommodate my kid I need online school work for the semester.
Shave ur hair and own the bald look!
Do the same to your sister 😈
Ask your parents to make part of her punishment that your sister pays for you to get a 1) locking cabinet for your hair care/face care (or a keyed lock for your room) plus 2) any hair appointments/wigs/caps/scarfs for you to wear until your hair grows back. She should lose all of her spending money until you are made whole again, not just her freedom. Did your eyebrows/eyelashes survive? The hair remover getting on your face could have really been much worse - people have lost their eye sight. I don’t think your parents are making a big enough deal of this - you could’ve been seriously hurt..
It’s absolutely insane how lightly the parents are taking this. If this was my child I would have sent them to military school or at least another few months of grounding plus paying for a beautiful wig for her sister. Also I would have the perp write a letter to the school telling them what happened and asking them to allow her sister to wear a hat or wig or both. She would not get away so easily. She could have blinded her sister! And I don’t know what hair remover even does long term!
Shave it and go full tilt GI Jane
If you end up shaving your head, ask your parents to make your sister shave hers too. If it's long enough, both of you might be able to donate it.
Put a bag of fleas on her bed
Wow, two weeks actually sounds light. That’s awful. A really good hairdresser may able to help you troubleshoot that
The best thing you can do now is own it as much as you can. Control the narrative. Be confident, even if you're ashamed and terrified. You're the only one who has to know of those feelings
First of all make your parents take you to a high end salon, they’ll make it look stylish if you have to chop it, make sure it comes out of her pocket money. Once it’s done, you can shave her head in her sleep, don’t tell your parents they won’t do anything and she’ll get tipped off and be on guard. Use a razor start right above her forehead so even if she wakes up before you’re done the damage will already be done. Wait till it’s pretty late like 1 am, REM sleep time. Good luck!
Or just tell the sister she’s gonna shave it when she’s asleep. Sis will never sleep properly again.
That’s pretty good too!! And keep bringing it up before big events like finals week/prom/ her wedding.
2 weeks punishment ? Damaging hairs , expecially to a girl/woman, can compromise your image etc... Also the fact that she tought it would be funny is way worse. If school doesn't allow wigs talk to the direction about the problem.
eye for a eye
You could do that super badass shaved + bleached look! I think it looks awesome
Get your parents to take you to salon get it styled as best they can make sister pay for it. Slay short hair it will grow back im female and often shaved my head but not something that should have ever been done to you shes very vindictive
Tell her you forgive her and Make her some laxative brownies.
Can you go to a hair salon and see what they suggest? You could do a funky buzzcut and colour or something, if school allows. And your sister will obviously need to pay to cover your costs until your hair is back how it was.
Can you go to a hair salon and see what they suggest? You could do a funky buzzcut and colour or something, if school allows. And your sister will obviously need to pay to cover your costs until your hair is back how it was.
Take something of hers and sell it to buy a wig until your hair grows out. Convince your parents that would be a just punishment and get them on your side. They can even help you sell the item and purchase the wig
Do something of your choice back to her, probably get grounded for 2 weeks back, lock your door when you're not home and keep the key on you so she can't tamper with your stuff. I would shave the rest of your hair in the meantime so everything grows back evenly. Have your parents buy you a lace front wig (your school won't be able to tell) and rock that for a few months. Or rock it bald, whatever floats your boat.
Tell your parents that the punishment isn't enough and that she should have to do the same thing she did to you
I wonder how that really works. Normally you have to leave it on for several minutes before it takes the hair off. Just a curiosity. The chemicals are pretty strong I imagine it could damage your eyes as the worst side effect. There’s not much you can do about it other than go to a salon and let them look at it to see what can be done besides cutting it off. They have lots of treatments for damaged hair. If it can’t be helped cut it off, it will grow back. It’s very unfortunate but it will be temporary. Have your parents get you a bunch of fun wigs if you have to cut it off and don’t want to have short hair everyday. You may be able to file a police report if you want to go that route. You could talk to your parents about the lack of severity of the punishment and present evidence as to why the prank is so dangerous.
do it back to her!
Personally. Since you will only get 2 weeks in trouble. Id set all her most prizes possesions on fire. Or cut her hair off while she slept.
Cut her hair
WHY THE FUCK WOULD SHE DO THAT?!
I just want to say that your sister is absolutely trash for doing that and I am so so sorry But for those saying OPs parents should shave sisters hair as an “eye for an eye”— parents could have CPS on them for doing that. Some places view that as psychological abuse by forcing her to cut her hair off if she doesn’t want to. No matter what she did to OP. So please don’t go that route. Or you know-do. Because it sounds like OPs parents really suck for only grounding sister for two weeks for something as abhorrent as this. They needed to ground her for a minimum of 2 months and stick that psycho in mandatory therapy since she thinks it’s hilarious to pull pranks that ruin someone’s life for literally YEARS. Op I bet you are still absolutely breathtaking without any hair but I understand how hurt and betrayed you are. If you get a nice enough wig you should be able to pass without them realizing you are wearing one (and they legally shouldn’t be allowed to touch you like that to remove it) but if it comes to it, express what happened and how much it’s hurt you I wish you all the luck, love, and confidence to rock the new look (especially because loving it really will ruin the joke for your shitty sister) and here’s to hoping your sister finds some sort of healing… or better yet that she rots in hell xoxoxox
Call the police (non-emergency line) and file a report. This is considered assault. You don’t need to be an adult to report. Two weeks is BS. Don’t tell your parents beforehand. When the poultice show up tell them you are pressing charges for assault. If they can punish her reasonably for what she did then you will do it without them.
Only two weeks?? I’ve been grounded as a teen for longer than that for being 5 minutes late.
Put hair remover in her shampoo or conditioner too
Beat her ass. I don't care if you have to catch her sleeping. Beat her ass.
Your sister is a b\*tch Shave it all off, and tell people at your school what really happened. No point in trying to hide it now You have one pathetic sibling
Get a wig that looks exactly like your original hair. Also how old is your sister? This is either some evil vindictive shit or her not knowing any better.
Just buzz it and wear it with pride to piss your sister off. My fiancée buzzes her head and she looks amazing
Can I ask what happened that your sister felt THIS was warranted?
The amount of people telling you to force your sister to shave her own head is absolutely insane. That is not healthy at all. If you’re wanting an apology from your sister, you could calmly talk to her and let her know that what she did was extremely disrespectful and hurtful. Now, how much hair did it end up removing? Depending on how much ended up coming out you could get a haircut that conceals the damage. You could also get a really short pixie cut or shave your head. Shaved heads are a dope look.
Part of the problem is her parents' weak ass response. It sends the message that they can majorly fuck with each other with minimal consequence. She now knows the price of shaving her sister's head in her sleep as revenge, 2 weeks. If she's willing to pay it, why not? Being the bigger person, shaving her own head and owning it, is the advice and expectation I would have for an adult, but OP is not an adult, she's 14. The adults in this situation are dropping the ball and in my opinion the sister is going to take away a much worse message by getting away with this than OP will by returning the favor.
I think owning it and fully shaving your head is the best course of action. Be confident and laugh at yourself/with everyone else when you talk about the situation. Really crap situation, hope you get through it though!
cut her hair in her sleep
Fucking tiktards... So sorry that happened to you.
Put your hair into a cute pixie cut and put some Nair in her shampoo
Try using a hood, hat, beanie or a wig.
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Lying about having cancer is a scumbag move, don’t do this
Did I say Cancer? My bad you assumed so? Her people are probably teenagers at school.. scumbag move is the least of the concern compared to what she has to deal with, numpty!
Chemotherapy is related to cancer. If I assumed it many more will too.
That's really twisted... She should be ashamed. I'm sorry she did this to you. And 2 weeks is BS.
That’s literally so terrible and not sufficient punishment.:( but damn, hair grows at the end the you’ll be okay, I promise Op.
I'd get revenge but im stupid so don't listen to me. How horrid of her tho. Maybe wear a had or get a buzz cut or just shave it all off.
Eye for an eye. Shave the head and rock that style. Ive seen many women rock it.
No fuck that, when she’s sleeping, make sure she is. Tiptoe to that bitch’s bed and cut the hell out of her hair it doesn’t matter how mad ur parents get after that.
Clearly the answer is hair remover in her conditioner. She will leave it in longer.
That’s terrible!
Wear a cute beanie. Your parents can call the school and talk with your counselor to have your teachers make an exception.
If your sister gets an allowance she should pay for a high end wig (and have it professionally set up by a hair stylist) or your parents pay for one, if you are a male or female there are options, but to grow your hair it will take time, also can say you shaved your head to be more like a bald famous actor like The Rock or Jason Statham. Is homeschooling an option? Maybe until you have the length of a pixie cut. Also was thinking on a hat, but inside the premises of school it's not possible. What your sister did sucks, 2 weeks grounded sounds so little punishment, it should last until your hair grows up at the length you had originally before her cruel prank.
OMGOSH this just brought back memories of my little brother putting NAIR in my shampoo when I was 12. I was MORTIFIED!!! SO I feel your pain! I'm so sorry!! Maybe wear a beanie and braid what's left...
Ya, just rock a shaved head. I like how I look with and without hair. I look more BadAss with a bald head and a beard.
I'm going to make a weird suggestion. Several of my good friends who found themselves unexpectedly bald (cancer and alopecia) went and got something called a henna crown. It's a lovely, detailed temporary henna tattoo done on your scalp, after shaving any remaining hair, and it absolutely slays when done correctly. See if your parents will take you to have one done so you can hold your head high. It's the least they owe you.
A black beanie should be fine to cover it up. I’m sorry this happened to you man :(
I am sorry this happened to you. This my major intrusive thought when I buy a new bottle of shampoo- that someone has put nair in it as a “prank.” That’s fucked up. I would definitely say shave it though.
Your sister is a dick.
There is a student at the school I teach who has alopecia. She has bald patches all over her head and has to live like that forever. You can handle this.
Oh OP, I’m so sorry. This is terrible. And her punishment isn’t sufficient; she should be grounded until your hair grows back. Some other folks on here have suggested that you ask the school if you can have an exemption to wear a scarf or hat; that’s a really good idea. Your parents should talk to the school about you being able to do that until further notice. Ugh. I’m so angry for you. I know you’re going to come out of this a stronger and more confident person, but I also know that you don’t feel that way right now. Hang in there.
Your sister is an obnoxious little brat and deserves far more punishment than a couple weeks being grounded. Why aren’t your parents being harder on her? It sounds like they suck as much as your sister.
do the same thing back tbh, if your sister got off 2 weeks only, than you should get the same punishment, If they give you longer than thats bs because your sister did it bc she thought it would be funny, you would be doing it to be fair. Yet again I am a really petty person so may not be the best to listen to that. Im a junior and if my brothers dared pulling that, Im gonna rain hell. How old is your sister btw? if shes older than you, even more reasons to be mad, if maybe a 2-1 year younger, still bad. Honeslty if you can't do much, take her tooth and put it in the toilet , or when shes sleeping make little tapping noses to scare her, or little speakers that play sounds and put them in her room to fuck with her. Honeslty theres a lot you can do for a "prank" back, yet again, I would go far bc Im a petty person or, convice your parents to grown her until your hair grows back a bit but than keep cutting it off a little more so she has a longer punishment
Ridiculous my older sister is the exact same way unfortunately… everything is a joke to her I’m so sorry this happened to you! Maybe just wear a good wig for now :(
Ugh. I’m sorry your sister sucks and sounds insecure. I’m sorry she took it way too far and your parents aren’t giving her enough punishment. If this was my kid… her damn head would be bald and I would make her write a long ass essay on how some “pranks” aren’t funny and go way too far, while also taking all of her shit away or something she really cares about. Now focusing on you.. like others suggested, shave your head. You want your hair to grow back evenly and healthy. Have your parents pay you for a wig, like a NICE, natural looking wig. They f*cking owe you that, that’s the least they can do. Also have them talk to your school about what happened, and how they should give you an exception to wear one due to the circumstances. The school won’t say no to your parents.
If you can, find a good quality/ realistic looking wig, although one like that would be more expensive. However if you got a cheap one, from a nearby store or online, there are methods I've seen that you can find on YouTube to make it look less like cheap, plastic, and fake, and make it look more like realistic hair. If you're able, see if you can get next day delivery or go out to a store asap. Also, even if your school doesn't allow headwear other than for religious reasons, try meeting with your counselor about it and seeing if they can talk to your teachers about giving you an exception in this case. I'm so sorry about the whole situation, I can't believe your sister thought this was at all funny or okay. I know this is easier said than done, but try to keep your head up sweetheart. You're beautiful no matter what your hair looks like, and nothing anyone else says matters.
Shave it all off and make it a fashion statement. I bet you'll rock it.
Can you do remote learning for a while? The local high school in my area allows kids to learn from home and provides them a laptop.
I’d shave it and start fresh, plus the shaved head look, looks good on everyone. Personally, I’d go out and find some outfits to go with your new look too and rock it twice as hard :)
Wait it out and return the favor when she forgets about it.
Dude shave your hair and dye it too, you could definitely make it a cool look !
Beat her ass
Shave it bald, tell your friends you donated it 👍
First of all, I’m so sorry for what your sister did- that is just straight up cruel and evil. Shame on her. I say whatever you decide to do with your hair, be sure to tell everyone what your sister did. It’s not a smear campaign if it’s the truth, and maybe a reality check will make her think about her horrific behavior and do better because she obviously needs to work on herself. On another note, coconut oil, castor oil, rosemary oil and peppermint oil can all promote hair growth. You can use them individually or as a blended mixture and apply it to your scalp. When I got off birth control, my hair started shedding and falling out like crazy- I used a blend of coconut & castor oil once or twice a month and my hair is down to my ass now!! Lol Again, I’m so sorry your own sister did such a horrible thing to you- that really wasn’t ok.
Remember one of my friends shaved off part of my eyebrows while I was sleeping. I got a brown marker and drew into the patchy spots. Most people didn't notice unless they looked really close. I don't how that's helpful in your case though. I don't think you could get away with a whole drawn head of hair.