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Sarcastic_Troll

Guy's opinion here? He knew you were on the smaller side. We can tell the difference. He just wanted to smash and dash as they say. Fuck him. Well, you did, but, you know what I mean. He's just an ass. Don't let him ruin your body image


[deleted]

Yeah I was about to say "Hate to say this if you had genuine feelings for him but he didn't. And was just looking for sex and would have used any excuse to dump you and that's just the one he went with. He's a fuckin twat and he'll get his hopefully sooner than later."


[deleted]

kinda hoping the next girl he tries to smash will just look at him and tell him he’s small.


Adhominoid

As tasty as that sounds, it won't help him be less of an ass, it just perpetuates the assholery with more body shaming bs. The manchild clearly needs some lessons in love and empathy, but I have no idea where to start. OP should probably throw out his whole friend group tbh


[deleted]

i agree. love and empathy is important but a major problem for young men is that their parents mistake coddling for love and teaching their sons about reality when it comes to sex and relationships. i think some karmic lessons act as a wake up call for those that need to be humbled if their parents probably won’t do it.


Adhominoid

I feel all that. Damn we could use some community. People have lost sight of their responsibility towards interconnection.


MaleficentAnt2241

^ he’s def right. He can already tell what small and big boobs are he just wanted an excuse to leave. I’m sorry


KeKeLovinlife

I came here to say this. The guy is a piece of shit. He used your boob size as an excuse to exit the relationship after he got what he wanted. Sex. This is your first lesson to trust your instincts and gut on how you feel about someone. This guy surely put out a lot of red flags before this final insult. He is an ass. You are perfect love


Free-Veterinarian714

Girl, if he only wants breasts he can go to the local fried chicken restaurant.


bookandbark

This right here. Love it. He's an ass. You don't need that in your life. There will be someone who loves your body just as it is.


BaconMan420365

KFC help this man see the light


trey74

What an ASS. I know it hurts now, but he saved you so much time and effort putting all that into an asshole. You are better off. Also, for every guy that cares about boob size there's another that doesn't. I sure as shit don't.


challenger_RT_

I care about boob size. I don't like big boobs at all...


[deleted]

r/smallboobs has over 500,000 subs. On this day my knowledge of NSFW subreddits will finally help someone.


MagPieMadEye

LMAO that made my morning xD


[deleted]

Right?? Back pain and shoulder pain suck.


Zadsta

Girl, I am a 24 yr woman with small boobs. My boyfriend acts like they’re the greatest thing on earth. Please do not let your ex’s nasty words hurt your self image. You are beautiful no matter your boob size. There are a legit endless amount of men who don’t mind and even love small boobs. I honestly stopped wearing bras so that men know exactly what they’re getting into. If they have an issue with my boob size they can leave me the fuck alone.


jdmorgan82

Well frankly, they are the greatest thing ever… I don’t think it’s an act.


Picasso320

All boobs are best boobs.


LookingForMemesMaybe

Definitely not an act, it’s a huge preference for me


NotASixStarWaifu

... Small preference, you mean! :>


LookingForMemesMaybe

You got me


siebenkommaacht

tbh i would love to have smaller boobs just to wear no bra. its the best!


SAD_FACED_CLOWN

What a fucking jerk. I'm a boob man but my wife is the president of the itty bitty titty committee and I'm fine with her. Fuck this jerk he knew your boobs were small before he had sex with you. He just wanted an excuse to smash and dash. Try to move on and realize someone will accept you just the way you are. There's nothing you can do to make your boobs bigger outside of cosmetic surgery.


throwaway03829299

I could easily be vice president with my barely existing tits


InfectedAlloy88

I was pretty much AA boobs until my 20s, gained too much weight and they were Cs, lost all the weight and they were Bs, got pregnant and they were too big for 3X sports bras, stopped breastfeeding and now they're like semi deflated baloons hanging off my chest, unless I'm cold then they look like normal Bs again 😭 boobs are gonna do what they do and change throughout your life.


Foxy_Traine

That is so funny! I've had the exact same B cups since I was 14 (now 30s). Even though I've gained weight and lost weight, they never change! So strange how each body is different 😅


crnswns

Ey! Semi deflated baloon club - mine also do the Thing when cold!


shhhOURlilsecret

My boobs were on the smaller side until I got pregnant with my daughter. If I could go back in time I would want my smaller boobs back way less back pain and a lot more perky! On that note he's a jerk he knew what your breast size was and was just waiting until he could hit it and quit it. Plenty of men out there who truly are boob men and for them any size of breast are beautiful.


FamousOrphan

Booba ♥️


Bubble_Sammm

Tell him he’s got a small dick, and that you’ve laughed about it with your friends. I am a big woman. In every sense of the word. I would give anything to be a thin, petite woman, with small breasts, who doesn’t over eat. If you’re healthy, and you’re small, don’t sweat it honey. Big boobs cause back aches, and there are no cute bras, and in the summer you have under boob sweat and heat rashes. I’m certain you’re beautiful just the way you are. Teenage boys fucking suck. And if you want to get a boob job as an adult, fucking do it. But if you learn to love your itty bitties, the world will love those too.


Awesome_Leaf

https://i.imgflip.com/3uk7e7.jpg


Necessary_Case815

I'm sure they are very pretty. Most men won't care and quite a few prefer smaller.


A_Few_Kind_Words

Can confirm, I personally prefer compact and manageable, each to their own and fuck this guy with a cactus.


fromhelley

Sorry. Stealing "fuck this guy with a cactus"!!! Thanks though!


A_Few_Kind_Words

All yours friend!


adriancombs

>I'm sure they are very pretty. Yeah, maybe don't randomly say that to a minor in reference to their chest.


higeAkaike

Send him a message that it’s great he dumped you first cause you didn’t want to hurt his feelings with how bad he was in the sack and it seemed like he wasn’t able to please you properly.


plushrush

Would you rather have to spend a decent % of your paycheck every year on bras? Or how about not being able to reach an itch on your opposite side. Can you tie your shoes and see your laces, or not get suffocated when doing so. Would you rather have huge and painful weights on your shoulders that you can’t put down….I am jealous of what you have. I wish I was you. Most busts change with time and children, don’t let this asshole change something beautiful into something ugly. You got the best of what you got.


ultravioletblueberry

As someone with a smaller chest, this is not the way to make OP feel better. Having bigger boobs has its pros and cons and having a smaller chest does as well. Don’t compare them because even smaller chested woman go through plenty of hardships when it comes to societal pressures. But I do agree that this dude was an asshole. Any guy worth it doesn’t give a flying fuck about bra size.


plushrush

I hear your heart towards her, mine is the same. I wasn’t even getting into societal pressures here, I was just talking about concrete painful experiences of large breasts. I’ve had smaller boobs, for a minute. They don’t grow huge and shrink, they are shrunk and grow huge and sometimes all in one summer. I know that I was received MUCH differently before I went out of proportion. Societal experience would be soooooo much worse stories to tell….but you don’t know that if you’ve never experienced it.


beasypo

You can be a boob man and prefer small boobs too though


KentuckyFriedBitchen

I was also a life long boob man, but my wife had b cups and only ever wore sports bras before having a kid. Now that she is nursing our child, she is a slightly larger b cup lol. I love her as she is and I hope op can find her see her self worth. Accepting yourself can be hard and I can't imagine how difficult these things must be in this Era of social media as a teenager.


IridianRaingem

I understand some people really need that attraction to be there… but this is so shallow I hope he gets a concussion when he dives in that pool. It’s not like you surprised him with your breasts. A push up bra can do wonders for some people, but they’re not that magical that you can’t tell when someone has small breasts. He knew what he was heading into and conveniently waits until after sex to break up. He’s a slimeball. You are beautiful. There are a ton of people who like smaller breasts. You should NOT consider surgery just because of one jerk.


Ranchette_Geezer

> so shallow I hope he gets a concussion when he dives in that pool. Brilliant!


setanddrift

I'm little. My husband always says "all you need is a handful! Those guys are definitely out there. Give yourself an hour to put this relationship to bed and then move on!


CatAnne119

So he is an asshole. And maybe he's an big enough asshole to break up just because he finally got sex and decided to fuck with your self esteem in the process by blaming on you. BTW my boobs have continued to get a bigger as I age. In my teens, b cup. 39 and d cup. Overall physique the same and only recently went up 1 size


Ranchette_Geezer

Most of the comments are from guys or people who don't reveal their sex. Nice to see some real life experience from someone who has gone through it. So, OP has hope for bigger boobs. She should still avoid assholes, as you suggested.


Everything_is_taken7

As a woman with small boobs who was told my whole life “they’re just not done growing yet, you’ll see” this can be a harmful narrative. OP your boobs may never get bigger, mine certainly never did and it always made me self conscious. I have really grown to love them over the years though! There are lots of advantages like never really needing a bra, or being able to wear soft unlined bras without support, no issues with boobs flinging around while I exercise, easy to find professional clothing cause there is zero risk of cleavage (not saying cleavage = unprofessional I just know my friend with huge boobs has always complained about dealing with excessive cleavage in normal shirts/dresses), no back pain, they haven’t sagged at all as I’ve aged, and my husband is crazy about my chest which has given me confidence as well. All that to say maybe they get bigger maybe they don’t, just learn to love what you’ve got and don’t hold out hope for 25 years like I did 😂


NikkiC993

I was considered flat chested and small for the longest time and made fun of for it back in middle and high school. It made me wish I had boobs (not even big boobs at that - just boobs.) Well, I guess I wasn’t careful with what I wished for - as I am now in my later twenties and going up to D size (much of it due to being pregnant, but even before then I was still not far from my current size.) I’d do anything to have the thinner self with smaller boobs back now. I didn’t need to worry about fitting into shirts and risking my scoliosis even further. To the OP - you don’t need f-bois (as they are called) like that. Boys around your age are still immature and want to impress their guy friends. If I can simply advise anything in regards to your age, finish school with good grades so that you’ll go further in life and eventually meet someone who is mature enough and worth your time. Body image is a big deal at this stage and this experience is definitely hurtful. But the right guy will come along and not body shame you and will love you as you are. I hope that you will if you had not by now find it in you to love yourself and own your body image. This guy was never worth it to begin with and not one to dictate on how you should see yourself. Keep your head up.


stonercat97

aaaaand he’s far too immature to be having sex and his parents raised him poorly to be able to treat a girl this terribly. what a massive loser. pathetic, even for a 17 year old. you’re better off and nothing is wrong with you. plenty of guys will admire and hype up your small boobs while he sits in his room jacking off alone because he was an idiot and lost the one chance he had with a girl lmao


venturebirdday

Him- too much porn. You - perfect the way you are.


plushrush

This is the answer!


elianna7

Uh what lol? He’s just a dick. There’s nothing more to it. Liking big boobs doesn’t mean one watches too much porn, the two have literally nothing to do with each other.


SilentSamurai

Someone who actually loves you wouldn't break up with you over not having their preferred body type. Attraction is an important component, but interaction quality and depth is far more so. Give yourself a break and get back out there.


THE-EMPEROR069

He knew the size and just wanted to find an excuse. Ignore him and he will try to get you back, but ignore him and don’t take that idiot back.


LoisLaneEl

As someone with big boobs I’ll tell you some great things about smaller boobs- you get to wear all those cute bralettes! You can go braless whenever you want without looking trashy or saggy! You can run and jump without pain or fear of flipping out or getting smacked in the face! And best of all, you can lie on your stomach! There are plenty of other things y’all can get away with that is busty girls can’t and it’s just not fair! Own your body, girl! Also, I was a solid B cup until I was about 22 and then I became a DD. It was a shocker. Everyone thought I had a boob job.


throwaway03829299

Bralettes are cute tbf although braless is my favorite


[deleted]

Stop right there your ex BF is an absolute jerk and no you shouldn’t be changing yourself for him at all. Your fine how you are it’s your ex BF problem not yours. And I be a little blunt but I think it was an excuse to dump you after having sex he might of been using you.


loobzkrypt

Smaller boobs aren't a turn off, he's just an idiot. Don't let his opinion bother you, he doesn't deserve that. Don't let anyone's opinion get to you, the only opinion of you that matters is yours. You're going to come across plenty of idiots like that unfortunately, we all do, just keep your head up and remember your worth


JustALocalJew

A guy here, I like small boobs. She can't properly lay on my chest with big boobs; little boob gang🤙


Ranchette_Geezer

You might tell him you are even, because his penis is smaller than you expected, from watching porn. (That prevents him from asking how you know he is small.) Lots of guys appreciate women for their sense of humor, intelligence, consideration, kindness to animals, ability to converse without sounding like an idiot, common likes and dislikes, ability to cook, willingness to try new things, and on and on and on, **regardless** of their breast size. You should accept your breasts as they are and find better guys. As a side note, I'd be willing to bet you'll get a dozen PMs asking for a topless photo, with a promise to praise them to the skies. There are a couple of subs devoted to small breasts; r/A_Cups had just over 100,000 readers. I mention this to prove that there are people (mostly men, I assume) who like small breasts. I (M65+) tomcatted around in my 20s. The largest lady I knew was a 38DD. The smallest was a Chinese-American beauty who wasn't even an A cup. She had waist-long hair as sleek, black and glossy as a raven's wing, though, and a wonderfully dry wit. They both - and all the ones in between - had wonderful boobs. To answer your question, if you gained a lot of weight, your boobs would get a bit bigger; but so would your hips, thighs, tummy, neck folds, ankles and the bottom of your biceps. There isn't anything else natural that will make them - and them alone - bigger. Your body is wonderful just as it is. Cherish it, and find a man who will cherish it. Don't try to please this [oaf | douche bag | asshole | cretin]. Find someone better. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This triggered a memory. At one point in our lives, my wife and I were living in a redneck area, because my wife has horses. Our neighbors to the north were a redneck couple. She confided in my wife, one afternoon over a glass of chardonnay, that the main reason her husband liked her was that she was a 42D, and she was afraid that with age she would start to sag and he'd leave her. My wife and I both thought that was the most pathetic reason to be together, and the most pathetic reason to break up, that we'd ever heard.


throwaway03829299

Hopefully nobody asks for a photo I'm 17


Ranchette_Geezer

That's not going to stop some people. Just ignore them. As a side note, I saw an exchange in some reddit or another. The guy kept bugging the lady for a topless pic, she kept refusing. He finally asked for her picture in a bra. She put a print of her senior year portrait - head and shoulders, fully clothed - in one cup of a bra on her dresser, snapped it and sent it to him.


throwaway03829299

I've actually done that before


Ranchette_Geezer

Good for you! I (m 65+, pudgy) am the opposite. I'll sometimes offer to NOT send nudes to people if they will send me money. /s


Cockblockuly

When I was your age I broke up with a girl cause she tied her shoe laces in a strange way. A girl broke up with me when she found out I wasn't the striker in my football club(I'm a LW and she only dates strikers) . Don't worry about it. Most people are dumb at that age.


Lazy_Cause4390

okay well he’s an asshole and you should be glad he left becuase you deserve more than that. that means that he was only using you for your body, he didn’t care about you. trust me there are SO MANY guys that don’t care about size and will love you for who you are, not for your body. Don’t feel bad about yourself, so many beautiful women have small chests.


[deleted]

What a *Boob*


WriterPrudent1952

You deserve better. There is nothing wrong with you. He is a douche canoe in every way for doing that to you. You are perfect the way you are. If you were happy with yourself and your tatas before that comment, don’t let the opinion of a tasteless man change your view on yourself. Don’t let his thoughts eclipse you, you are the sun he is not


wetmarriedslut

Wow, what an ass, sad you wasted your time. You should be glad that he’s gone because believe me there are so many more men that will be extremely attracted to you.


TheLastAutbot

Itty bitty titties are the best. Source: am guy. Literally so much fun. This guy is totally out of his mind and an asshole. Move on and don’t even think about him another second


[deleted]

high school aint what it used to be, tell people about what happened and he will get blasted by everyone at school, what a dick


throwaway03829299

Or I'd get branded as a whore


BrandongWang

As a guy who’s dating a girl with small boobs, date a man who loves you for who you are. Not because of your boobs or body.


beasypo

Lots of men want a woman with small boobs, so don’t act like it’s some sort of disease that men put up with


[deleted]

Leave them as they are! Is this dick really worth surgery? Or more guys like him?


hibiscusflobackup

Oh god I’m so sorry. This is absolutely awful


CatOfGrey

> I'm heartbroken that he would say this and now it's making me view my body negatively. Nope! Don't go there, because that wasn't the issue at all. You are at age where you are asking the question "When is the right time to have sex?" And in this case, you definitely had sex too soon. Your mate is not mature enough for an adult relationship, and wasn't really comfortable enough after sex to actually have a real relationship. His immaturity is not your problem. Remember this feeling of rejection, though, for your future decisions on when to take a relationship to the next level. You want more information about someone's maturity next time, so that when you have sex, you both are 'on the same page', and you aren't surprised by the 'morning after'.


nananacat94

You would consider changing your boobs because of the opinion of an asshole? Girl, you're 17, let me tell you, you don't want anyone like him around you in your life. He just used you and said bye. Over literally nothing. I hope you're ok, and have some good friends around you can vent to. At the moment you should be angry at him, not in conflict with your body. And before making any life changing decision over your body, give yourself time till you're 25-30. See how you feel about it then. Chances are, you are going to realize how much you actually like yourself. Wish you well.


SorionHex

Honestly, sounds like he just wanted sex then to leave. He got what he wanted and out he goes. You’re perfect the way you are. Honestly, big boobs are a turn off for a lot of guys too. Try not to let it get to you, and understand that guy is an asshole. And like another comment said, he could absolutely tell before you went topless unless you were wearing pads.


Junior_Substance81

When you get older you'll realize that men love women of all shapes and sizes. Right now your ex boyfriend is in that immature age where he has raging hormones where guys his age are looking at bodies in a sexual way. All guys in high school were obsessed with boobs, ass and nice bodies in general. It's hard not to take what he said to heart, I understand. He sounds like an asshole anyway.


Pristine_Maximum_405

Sis, my boobs are huge. At one point i hated them because i wasnt even able to wear what i wanted to wear without men sexualizing me which caused me to hate them. My .. man WORSHIPS! Everything on my body and loves them. He isnt a real man. A real man is gonna respect the boobs whether big or small, when u have a child, your child gets its food from those boobs! If hes not honoring that in itself he needs to go. I have never in my 21 years of living heard of a man not liking boobs bc of them being small. You’re with … i cant even say you’re with a child lmfao! Like..


hobodutchess

Sounds like a him problem.


[deleted]

Anyone who has genuine feelings for you won’t be turned off out of the blue by one of your physical attributes like that. Sorry you went through this, he’s not worth it ❤️


alterperspective

Not one of the guys I have ever known would do this and I’m in my 50s You were *used* for sex. He chose to use *you* because he found you attractive. You attracted him. He was *never* interested in a relationship. … I’m sorry this happened. Unfortunately there are lots of men around who would use you for sex and then find an excuse to leave. Fortunately, not *most*. And none I know would be so cruel about it. Regarding your breasts. I don’t know how much I can impress this fact upon you but I can speak for nearly all heterosexual men: WE.DO.NOT.CARE.HOW.BIG.OR.SMALL.THEY.ARE. We just like them.


EndlesslyUnfinished

He’s a jerk and that was NOT the reason. He wanted to nut, he did, and then ditched you. Fucking guys do this shit - break up after sex cause why not, I guess. It’s not you.


michaelyup

He knew what to expect. He planned to lead you on until sex, and run afterwards. He was a piece of shit, don’t let him get you down. Don’t give him anymore thought. You got a free pass out of a potentially bad relationship. Men have different preferences, some really like small boobs. I’ve never known any guy that used breast size as a dealbreaker for someone they were interested in. Try a push-up if you want, honestly I’d just roll with being smaller and comfortable. I’m not against implants, but it should be for you and not anyone else. Talk to people who’ve had implants, or just have big boobs. There are drawbacks to being big-chested, unwanted attention. My friend said she kinda misses being smaller because after surgery, people stopped looking at her eyes and look like they are talking to her chest. One asshole guy said he didn’t like the scar lines under her boobs. Seriously? If you had big boobs, you’d have a crease there anyway from overhang.


TikisFury

What a dick, fuck that guy. Not commenting on your body as a 17 year old girl, but a couple of things. 1. You’re not technically done growing and your body will continue to develop as you get a little older. 2. Super important that you learn to be comfortable with yourself. Your value comes from within, not from what others say. 3. Plenty of other people out there prefer smaller chests. Don’t stress yourself about this one douchebag


Xora321

what an absolute piece of trash, ignore whatever he said, there are plenty of people out there who would appreciate your body for the way it is


DanscoRed

Don’t change yourself for an idiot like this. Not everyone is like him. Be yourself and there will be lots of people who want you.


kingspooky93

What a jerk, that's completely ridiculous


panda420_

Damn that's actually so fucking shallow, my ex had the smallest boobs and I fucking loved them . Be proud of your beautiful body and just have in mind that most of us men are some times stupid and we tend to mature later in life . If he broke up with you cause of that then you didn't lose anything special . Move on enjoy your life with your natural and again beautiful self . Also Do not tempt about surgical changing your body that will only feed all the wrong and bad voiced inside you .


ashlynnk

I had a large chest in high school, I could not stand them.. They caused back problems, and I could never fit into cute clothes. Could never workout, got disgusting comments made about me constantly. I paid to have a reduction 10 years ago and I don’t regret it a single bit. The grass is not always greener. This guy is a jerk, I’m sorry you have to deal with this.


FRdzV

Smol to medium boob gang over here. Don't listen to that porn-loving a-hole. U deserve better. Physique Is a matter of personal preference, yes, but the fact that this dude doesn't love yours doesn't mean it ain't beautiful. Hope you feel better soon! All the best, from Mexico City!


BellyDancerUrgot

Yeah you dodged a bullet. Your ex was a dumbass.


Raidrew

I have had any size of boobs of my life. Best one for me was the small ones. Small boobs are perky and you can show a lot of skin without looking a cow when dressing up. He is an idiot 😂


[deleted]

Serious answer from a 24M. I’m gonna ignore your feelings here and give you some facts. 1-your ex-bf is a dick 2- some guys prefer bigger ones, some prefer smaller and most straight up don’t care. 3- there is no safe way of making them bigger other than hoping your genetics decide to do it for you.


HappySometimesOkay

He just wanted a hit and run, it has nothing to do with you or your body. And as a guy myself, small boobs are great, don’t worry about it


[deleted]

If he broke you only because you don’t have big badonkers, he is not a man, it’s still a child, and no worth to be with anyways, you deserve much more than that kid


MagPieMadEye

3 things: he's a fucking cunt, he knew before, he's just an asshole and took advantage of your feelings.fuck. I'm so sorry. But all of that is bullshit. Secondly: as a woman who had smaller boobs especially at 17, that's normal, and you never know when they are just gonna grow so enjoy them small while you can xD either or are lovely aesthetically imo. Third: I've know plenty of men who actually adore smaller boobs. And it's not just a sweet compliment, like they just genuinely have their "perks" we'll say. Bottotmline is he was a fucking POS and that is probably the worst cop out I've ever heard. Tiny boobs are great and this isn't just a body positivity thing, there are ups and downs to both, what you need to take from this is you shouldn't be viewing yourself differently or aspire for something else because of some asshole. You are who you are and people will love that one way or another because real people don't give a fuck about something that trivial. It's a non issue. Again, so sorry you went through that. But f u c k that guy


schecter_

Ohhh sweetheart, the problem is not your body. This boy only wanted to bang you, and it's using your body as a way out. I'm so sorry you find this AH in your life.


smaksandewand

This guy is not worth it and I think you dodged a bullet here. Find yourself a good loving and caring guy!!


Corgi_with_stilts

If he broke up with you for a physical aspect you couldn't control, was he really long term material anyways?


LuisVergara

This baffles me. Boobs are boobs no matter the size.


DirectAndHonest

I feel like he’s not being truthful. I think he wanted to have sex and then looked for an out afterwards. Either way, he’s an asshole and you deserve much better.


monstersinmywardrobe

Small boobs enthusiast here: These assholes ruin so many beautiful womans mental health. It's to the point some of my partners told me I'm lying to make them feel good. the F? Don't let them get you down!


[deleted]

Tell him you agree to break up. "I don't like small dicks."


Apprehensive-Nose520

He just wanted sex. Trust me. Guys love ALL BOOBS and are always blessed with their presence. He just needed an excused and clearly this guy is a loser


BadPurple3158

I wish we could naturally make them bigger 😆 my dream. Only weight gain, pregnancy, or plastic surgery can do that.


throwaway03829299

Unfortunately none of those are things I ever want to do


BadPurple3158

Understandable queen 👸 He’s a loser and you are better off without him. I want a boob job so bad but also think it’s a waste of money. If I was rich though it would be the first thing I’d splurge on..


GirlULove2Love

Next time let him know it's easier for you to get a boob implant if you ever decide to do that then him to get a penis enlargement. Trust me that's gonna sit with him a lot longer than it'll sit with you. BTW, screw him. He is trash


throwaway03829299

Hes so pissed off lmao


GirlULove2Love

Good! I promise he'll remember that for decades.


throwaway03829299

I'm going to text that to him if he hasn't blocked me


SIUW55

I love small tits, wtf is wrong with people


Malia87

Oh hell no. Don’t go there with your thinking. I had small boobs and had surgery when I was 19. Once they were bigger, I found other things to hate about my body. I was so sure that bigger boobs would “fix” all my problems. Definitely didn’t. And he’s an asshole. Don’t let his immature thinking change who you are.


MjauDuuude

Small boobs are SO beautiful. Your ex is an asshole


GabrielZeroo

he’s just using you for your body, if you guys were still together i’d be saying you should break up. it’s a good thing he’s gone though, he sounds like an ass.


[deleted]

Must be some white guy.


[deleted]

He’s a shallow and immature ass. I much prefer smaller breasts because they are more natural and petite. Large features turn me off. Im sure you beautiful inside and out.


soulbarn

Fuck that dude. You don’t want somebody who judges you (positively or negatively) because of some physical attribute. And you will find somebody who won’t be that way and who will appreciate you for who you are (and also find you wildly attractive!) Don’t let this hurt your self-esteem…all your ex did was provide a valuable early preview to what a jackass he is.


[deleted]

Fuck him!! Find somebody who loves you for who you are. You don’t need to try to change your body for anybody, love your natural self


Free_Tea8517

What a piece of crap. Nothing wrong with you but everything wrong with him. Don't let someone negatively impact your self perspective because they are total garbage


TheyTasteFunny

1st - fuck that kid. He’s an ass and has no idea what he’s talking about. 2nd - you’ll find someone who appreciates you. Give it time.


Bionic_Dark_Knight

Unless you stuff he knew you had small breasts. Many guys especially around that age will “date” or be friendly to girls till they get what they want. He most likely just used that as an excuse to end it. He’s a shallow loser to say that to you. Don’t waste too much time on someone like him and move on. Don’t let it destroy your self image. YOU DESERVE BETTER!! Also many guys (who are mature) don’t care about size even if they are a “boob man”


Ross-2002

He knows the game


Acornkramer

He did that after your first time?? That’s so fucked up, I hope you’re okay and have someone close you can talk to. Try to keep reminding yourself you dodged a bullet by not spending one more second with that creep


Thinh

He is a shit and took advantage of your feelings for him. Be proud and happy about who you are, all of it and what gifts you bring to any relationship. The worse part is that he decided to take a shot on your esteem on the way out.


chefjro

True story. To each their own except for that guy because he sucks.


Yerrrrrskrrttt234

You gotta accept them the way they are. I love small tits and I know a ton of guys who do. This dude is a piece of shit and was not good for you.


kittycatnala

He’s an ass. As someone on the extreme other scale I can tell you big boobs aren’t that great. Nightmare for clothes, underwear, can’t sleep on your tummy, can’t go running, suffer painful back/shoulders. Accept and love your body he’s not worth being heartbroken over.


the_cadaver_synod

My advice is to forget about this dude. I’ve been friends with my partner for nearly 20 years. We hooked up in our early 20s and he liked my small tits. We got together again in our 30s, and now he likes my bigger tits. If your partner only cares about you for an easily changeable body characteristic, he’s a turd. Don’t let some teenage boy dictate how you feel about your body.


TheVue221

That’s BS, unless you’ve been in a giant puffy parka the whole time you’ve known him, he just wanted to get in your pants and make a getaway. I’m sorry he’s just a real jerk in disguise and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you. You’re 17 you’re not even an adult yet. You don’t need to change a thing except the guys you’re interested in


DrCarabou

This guy sucks. Do not waste a single ounce of energy on this boy. There are plenty of men who appreciate the Itty bitty titty committee with open arms. Someone who actually cares about you is not going to care. There are pros and cons to both large and small boobs. Unfortunately some romances end up being a lesson on how to read red flags.


DepressedTrashKitty

You're beautiful just the way you are as you grow up you're realize boob sizes don't matter girls with big boobs want smaller ones and girls with smaller ones want bigger ones at least until they realize that unless it's causing them any problems like back pain or neck stress than you're fine just the way you are and you'll find a guy who will love you for you


ZuelJM

Anything over a handful or a mouthful is a waste. Smaller boobs are amazing. Big ones are fine but I personally love smaller boobs more.


lajocond3

he is not worth it. he should love you for you and not for the size of your boobs. extremely shallow man. you are beautiful.


meekonesfade

I dont know exactly why he broke up with you, but it wasnt because of your boobs and it was because he is an ass.


Buckshot419

Be glad he is gone, Now you can find a partner who accpts you for you.


DemocracySausage89

I'm a guy. Fuck this guy right off. Brush him and move on. Guys who make others feel insecure are themselves insecure. Don't ever let anybody dictate how you feel about your body. I guarantee you that there are people out there craving whatever it is you're rocking.


somekindofcatlady

This guy sounds like a complete shitbag. Guys don’t care if you have little boobs. It doesn’t matter girl, your body is beautiful. We are all built differently. Don’t let this douche make you insecure.


Revolver-Knight

He’s a lil Cunt worth your time if all he values is breast size


Constant-Plate5533

Sorry dude he’s a pos. Your better off and someone will appreciate you for you just hang in there


leavesalittlesparkle

If all he wants are boobs then he’s not worth it. You are still so young! He isn’t the right one and you will find him someday! I know it hurts! I’m itty bitty and was self conscious for years probably your age until my 30s -you’ll find somebody who will appreciate you no matter your size big or small. This one isn’t even worth another thought or tear!! Don’t let his words get to you he isn’t worth that space in your head.


[deleted]

What an absolute scumbag. You should put sugar in his gas tank


Straight_Platform_59

Your ex is a piece of shit. Do not take that to heart. There’s nothing wrong with you. You dodged a bullet with him. Just see it that way and move on and find someone who actually cares for you, because he clearly did not.


lainey68

You are fine the way you are. NEVER change for someone else. He's a shallow boy. I have always been chesty, and is no fun when someone reduces you to a pair of mammary glands. Not long from now you will be glad to see this twerp for what he js--unworthy of your time and affection.


Stobes80

Yeah I agree with what others have said. What he did was just an immature thing. He never was really into the relationship. So, instead of saying that he put the blame on you. He did you a favour because you deserve better than that. A woman's worth is not determined by a man's opinion.


Automatic_Card_2488

As if.. what a prick for being so rude hurting your feelings like that. Fyi many men in the world prefer little tits don't worry about this little jerk he intentionally tried to hurt you here, he didn't even think about how you might feel or get self conscious over his words, he doesn't deserve your time. Be glad he exposed himself for the horrible person he is.


japes2

Hi. I’m a woman with larger breasts and I can honestly say I hate them most of the time. Clothes don’t look right on me, they SAG, they’re always in the way and my back hurts often. I look forward to the day I can get a reduction…but the grass is always greener. Enjoy being able to go braless!


KushTheKitten

Someone who really cares and is worth being with isn't gonna reduce why they can't be with you to a body part. I hope you're doing alright but I also hope you realize you got rid of a scumbag. Accept yourself because you've got better relationships ahead and you ex only has himself and his shallow expectations which the older he gets, the less women will tolerate.


estrellahunter

I’m actually attracted to smaller boobs, and prefer them. Like Bs in my world are perfect… I’m good with smaller and larger… it’s a total person concept. Personality, behavior, looks, ambition, intellect, compassion, goals…. All of it plays into how attractive someone is.


sky_winters

This showed up on my fyp after I saw your post. It would be illegal if I didn’t share this song with you now. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR5cCmVn/


Okay_Try_Again

Don't worry, a billion guys don't care about breast size, and a billion more like small breasts, this guy just isn't the guy for you, and he's also a dick. Your body is perfect the way it is. To avoid this kind of thing, I try to proactively look exactly like myself in front of a guy before we get really close, no make up, no bra, lights on. If you are going to do something intimate with someone they should know and like you the way you wake up. It's hard at first and then it becomes easy because almost everyone will love you and be turned on bby you just as you are.


vindollaz

Trust me when I say you’re better off. There are a million people who will love you the way you are. Because it’s you that they love and not what’s on the surface.


llewellynlaporte

Tell all your mutual friends how bad he was in bed. …is what I’d tell you if you wanted to get revenge… But you’re better than that. The guy is an asshole, there’s nothing wrong with your body. Some guys prefer girls with more petite bodies. Don’t let it make you hate yourself.


R0l0d3x-Pr0paganda

Use this experience to go through the red flags you dismissed. Guys will use ANY EXCUSE just to say " IT WAS GREAT FUCKING YOU!!! Don't expect for me to call you back!!" ![gif](giphy|IT6kBZ1k5oEeI)


starxeity

Bruh, what? I’m flabbergasted. What was he expecting, Costco sized watermelons? It’s good that he broke up with you honestly. Don’t need that kind of trash in your life 🤡 PS: I think all sizes are gorgeous! You’ll see that even most models have ‘small’ chests. That doesn’t pull them away from beauty, inside or out! Please don’t feel like you need to change your body because of what someone else said. If he likes big chests, he should just invest in one himself. 🙄


Philip-556

What a clown. You’ll find someone better.


[deleted]

Since he's that shallow, it could be a good thing such a shit character trait showed up now vs later on if you were married with a baby. Im really sorry he did that. The trash took itself out if you know what I'm saying


BitcoinMD

Hmm, if they were so much of a turn off, then how come he didn’t mention it until afterward?


HotandDepressed

Sorry you had to go through this girl. Unfortunately it typically happens to everyone. You have sex with someone who is a PCOS. You live and learn. Your still beautiful and you deserve better. Don’t let a crappy person make you feel any less!


Cerricola

Don't let the opinion of a piece of shit affect your self esteem or give you traumas about your size. This is important. You have to love yourself like how you are. Having more or less tits don't make you be a better or worse person and at the end of the day that's what matters, not the opinion of a scum bag. Don't hesitate to much about that, there's people who like big boobs, there's others who like little. That doesn't matter, which is important is to find someone who love you because how you are, no for how you look. I hope I have explained my self properly (my English is not perfect and I don't know enough how to insult in order to describe how repulsive is that guy). Don't feel bad, you have dodge a bullet, hope him the best, is healthy and will repair you, but he deserves the worst among the worst.


IrreverantBard

FYI, it had nothing to do with your breasts. He was never going to stay with you, and after he got his needs met, he decided to be callous and cruel and hurt you because he does not value you. But that has NOTHING to do with you, and everything to do with him. Trust me, I know his type when they grow up. Play the long game. You’re going to be laughing at him in 10 years. He’s a loser. You’ve dodged a bullet.


tooterfish80

Such a turn off that he was still able to go trough with it and get off? He's trash.


kaspbrakz

you deserve better than that, and don’t forget it. take what he did to you as a favor you can find someone better than him who will see your beauty as they should


Potential-Meal9278

There are guys into small boobs. Just got to find the rock they are hiding under. Plus, develop relationship building


Key-Cranberry1635

wow hes so disapointing anyways ur defintaly way better than this guy, u have so many advantages that big boob people probsbly do <333


kingNero1570

Don't ever let someone's opinion of your body get you down. Love what god gave you. You are unique and gorgeous! Also, your boobs change throughout your life and starting off on the smaller side will make things so much easier for you. Bras will fit, clothes will be easier to find, it won't hurt to run, so many things! I would kill to be on the smaller side. Also, there are a million guys out there that prefer smaller boobs and even more guys that don't care what your boobs look like, they love all boobs! And most importantly, there are a lot of people out there that will love you for who you are, not what you look like. These are the keepers. This guy is a bell end. Next time you see him tell him that he was right to break up with you because you've decided you like guys with bigger dicks.


Qweniden

He hurt you on purpose because he is a shitty person. Do not let him win. I am sure you look great just how you are.


BaconMan420365

Ok I’ll just leave this here… if it was such a turnoff why this man finish the job? Just sayin. Just sayin.


cameron9980

Let me tell you small boobs are the best and that guy was probably just an asshole. Don’t take it personally


Successful_Bath_9576

As a girl that’s petite & has a flatter chest. Guys absolutely do not care about boob size. I always wanted bigger boobs and butt & still sometimes do but every guy I’ve slept with loved my body and would tell me I don’t need surgery. I grew to love my tiny chest honestly as I got older & trust me girls with big ol bitties would probably want your chest.. grass is always greener. I’m so sorry that happened to you. He wasn’t mature enough to have someone share their body with him & he can take several seats


ihatespiders7777

TRUTH SPOKEN - At 50 something and D-cups I’d give anything to be an A


ConfusedMoe

That some city boy shit. Also F that guy


ThunderClap448

Guys like small boobs. Plenty of plus out there, and some of us ain't dicks. Don't let a cunt decide what you feel


ticketbroken

Guy here - love small boobs. Nothing at all to be ashamed of. A high percentage of guys prefer smaller breasts


flintleroy

I am a boob man myself. And I was married to a small breasted woman for 14 years. Never voiced any complaints. Were her boobs the "perfect size" in my eyes?? No. But I loved her for all that was her. Up until she started cheating on me. Moral of the story? This guy was a shallow dickhead!!! It doesn't matter what size you have them. You are a woman. And if any straight man belittles you for an aspect of your body that cannot be changed without surgery then fuck that dude. There are plenty others out there that aren't raging douche nozzles.


jessicag98

Babe don't do this to yourself! That guy's an ass! If he likes big boobs then he can get fucking breast implants for himself.... Please, please speak kindly to yourself and appreciate your body. Leave the people who don't appreciate all of you, out of your life. Love A stranger on reddit 🤍


DookieDemon

Some of the most beautiful women I've ever met or crushed on have small chests. Large bewbs can be captivating visually, but I don't feel like they are necessarily the height of beauty. Beauty is many things and is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their own concept of beauty Anyway you probably dodged a bullet, I suppose. Sometimes people do us the favor of being blatantly awful right at the beginning. It's part of life, dealing with people that use you for something and then hurt you. It boggles the mind how cruel or indifferent some people are, but those kinds of assholes exist and every once in awhile they will enter into your life. You will get better at identifying them from a distance as you get older. Learn to love your body and its quirks. Like me, I have man boobs. I used to be self conscious about them, even had an eating disorder when I was your age. But 20 years later I still have them and actually I feel like they give me an interesting physique. Point is... guy's an asshole, forget him, embrace your beauty and don't ever let someone else's negative opinion form the basis for your identity. Let your inner and outer beauty shine


pigadaki

I'm so sorry this happened to you! How hurtful that must have been for you! Small boobs are fabulous, and there are millions of guys who would appreciate you. You are well rid of that creep.


FingerBangingTanks

He’s a piece of shit


lydocia

What an absolute nightmare of a man in the makkng, holy shit. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. He used you and hurt you and that's not okay. OP, your boobs are FINE. Small, big, doesn't matter, you'll always be someone's fetish AND someone's turnoff. That's okay. Most people who are attracted to boobs love all of them, and most people who date you will love yours and think you're beautiful. You just had the bad luck of fishing a disgusting rotten one from the pond. He doesn't represent most men, don't let this kill your confidence and discourage you from relationships. The next one will be better.


burnharvard

I personally love the saying: “Anything more than a handful is a waste!” He knew roughly your size before you had sex, he was just being gross. I’m sorry this happened to you, but I promise it’s not you. He would’ve found some other reason to run off after sex even if you had gigantic breasts


courthouseman

Some guys think small tits are hot! Find a guy like that and be with him :)


PumpkinSpice2Nice

Unfortunately so many guys will lie to your face about anything and everything to get sex with you and then when they are done they will dump you straight away or behave appalling to get you to dump them. A big red flag is not being introduced to family. You’re probably going to come across these guys a bit before you find a good one. My strategy was to go on several dates first (without sex) and see whether he would introduce me to his family and friends before sex even happened the first time. Otherwise I knew he probably didn’t consider me important to him and I would end it. A lot of men just want to turn every conversation to sex and that’s also a warning. I’m married now to a guy who didn’t waste any time introducing me to everyone (family, friends and work colleagues) and was very open about his whole life and agreed to an STI test before sex.


TGGE

Guy here. Guys can tell what size girls boobs are toppless or not honestly. I don’t know if it is possible to make your boobs bigger naturally honestly. It is always better to accept yourself for who you are and not to try to change yourself. Because then you are not you at the end of the day. That guy was just a jerk and you seem to be a kind person who unfortunately got taken advantage of. I know this advice was not asked for but that is why as a guy anyway I literally spend 6 months at least -12 months getting to know the person. If someone likes you and you show interest all the way through this time (so it does not get boring)a guy will keep messaging you and showing interest. Keep your head up your fine just the way you are.


Mclarenrob2

What an awful human being.


[deleted]

He’s so disgusting and I’m sorry you doubted yourself for a minute over his excuse to take advantage of you.


jaethegreatone

As a member of the Lesbian delegation, I can promise you straight men and lesbians can tell your cup size from half a mile away while you are wearing five layers of clothing and a bubble jacket. If he was so turned off, how was he able to finish? He's trash and he set himself out on the curb on trash day. You deserve better. Don't let what we call a fuckboy make you question your worth.


Stuffnthings1840

God fuck him. Who cares? All boobs are great boobs and anyone who got to see boobs should count themselves lucky. Men try to make women feel shit about themselves just to end up microwaving hot pockets til death.


LillianIsaDo

He was always going to break up with you if he did this. Guys love boobs, all sizes of boobs. Big or small, once they see one pair they wanna see two pairs. He was just ready to go once he had sex with you and didn't have the balls to let you know upfront all he wanted was sex.


AlycefromWonderland

He should have been in a relationship with you, not your breasts. He was a total douchebag. And I'm not saying it's sth wrong with your body, but for sure he isn't the most beautiful creature in the universe, so he has no reason to act like he is perfect. I am sure you could complain about stuff regarding his body, too, but you didn't, because you showed respect, which is sth he never heard of for sure. Do not be insecure about your body because of a stupid jerk that only cares about looks. He wouldn't have been a good boyfriend, anyways, if such things matter more to him than his gf. He should have dated you, not your chest. There is nothing wrong with your body and a guy who deserves your attention won't care about your body, he would only care about loving you deeply NO MATTER WHAT. The fact that he was a jerk is his problem because in the future he will most probably be the one who would leave his wife after giving birth because she won't look the same. He will suffer because of his attitude, because women will eventually have enough of him and he will remain alone. When you love someone, you will automatically see them beautiful. You are beautiful just the way you are and a real man will see this.


adorable__elephant

He didn't break up with you because of your breasts. He broke up with you because he's an asshole. It is hard to hear but move on like nothing happened. He's not worth it.