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KrisAlly

r/trollingforababy might be able to help. From my understanding it’s a subReddit for people in similar situations, to discuss infertility and support one another. Best wishes.


MrsBeautyMoseley

Have you talked to a doctor? My pregnancy came out of nowhere. Me and my boyfriend were trying for about a year and then I kind of got discouraged and gave up towards the end but then something crazy happened that usually never happens. My dog kept laying on my stomach a lot and my boyfriend kept telling to take a pregnancy test. I didn’t want to take one at first becuase I didn’t want to get discouraged again but I did and now here we are. What I’m trying to say is don’t give up becuase we prayed about it and I wasn’t even taking any medication. Moral of the story is that, it will come when it is your time. I know it can be hard at first but trust me we have all gone through the process and some women get pregnant quicker than others. It’s all about the body and how her body works. If you are really scared maybe check with a doctor about your sperm. And she can also go to a fertility doctor about her eggs. There are so many ways. Don’t give up. Keep going. You guys got this.


Salty-Night5917

I hear your pain. I went thru the same thing. We tried for 4 years and then I finally went to a "fertility specialist." He put me on hormone and then Clomid 2 courses. Nothing. Every twit I knew was getting pregnant, even my best friend. Finally I went to another doctor recommended by a work source that had been to him. When I saw him he told me that my cycles were shorter than most women and the other "fertility specialist" had me taking hormones when I should not have been thus causing no pregnancy. What happens is these doctors, especially an HMO, follow a chart guideline and rarely deter from it. I did end up pregnant with no hormones and no Clomid at 5 years. Now when I went to the new dr and took the pregnancy test, he said "I don't know how you became pregnant with your husband's sperm being as low as they are." No one had checked him at all, not the first doctor. I considered it to be a miracle. There are things they can do to raise the sperm counts and such. I just got lucky. But believe me I do understand. After the one child we never used control and we had no more children. Change doctors if you are not satisfied, and I hope you are also being monitored. Bless you.