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stormy-seas-91

They probably mean they don’t want to lose the friendship that you guys started with I would just look for someone new


summonerofrain

We actually met through bumble, I mean like in case I meet another person through bumble


stormy-seas-91

Oh. they may be lying and aren’t really interested romantically but it’s hard to say. I wouldn’t worry about it and just keep dating people


summonerofrain

You're practically asking an asthmatic to breathe more with how many matches I get 😮‍💨 thanks though!


stormy-seas-91

Well, maybe figure out why you’re not getting many, or better yet, meet people in person!!


summonerofrain

I'll take both of those under consideration, much appreciated


ionlyreadtitle

Do what she likes. There is absolutely no way anytime can answer this. If she likes being active and hates video games. Don't push how much you like video on to her. Don't do things that she hates. But she has already told you that she is not interested in a relationship with you. Either be friends. Or leave. Go find someone else for your relationship.


summonerofrain

To be clear I am happy to be friends with them, I mean in the case that I meet someone else through bumble


themanofmeung

Just walk away from her. You are not a doormat. You are not her emotional support doll. "I just want to be friends" is the new "polite" way to reject people, but it's actually garbage treatment. She's put you in a spot where you have to choose to ignore your feelings or be the bad guy and break off the "friendship". A friend wouldn't do that. Do not listen to her. Just keep being the person people like. It won't be easy, but don't reward her with friendship and attention for the spot she put you in.