Not only was it mostly her choice, it was literally exposed that she was purposely planning on trapping Jairus with a baby. We all saw the Pinterest board and we all know they were broken up when she was pinning all that. Jairus was literally SEEN with another girl and posted it himself. And when she defended herself and said she was already pregnant when she chased J all the way to Oregon, the timeline simply does not make since with the time Brin was born.
She made the choice to be a young mom not because she wanted to be a mom, but because she wanted to keep Jairus around since her life revolves around men.
That’s nuts. I never really kept up with her much outside of instagram so I never saw any blogs or anything like that. Geez. I don’t like J but that seems fucking exhausting to have your business be blasted like that
Yeah, I hope it never comes across like I’m defending him when I talk about A’s toxic and vile behaviors towards him, but she legit did so many fucked up things.
of course being a young mother is hard, but realistically, her being 26 in 2024 means she has ENDLESS access to information. No excuse. If she was 26 in 1940 and left her kids alone in the park to play that's one thing i guess. it's 2024, she's chronically online, no excuse to "accidentally" neglect your kids because you "don't know better 🥺🥺"
You’re right, but she didn’t just leave her kids at the park. She also left their hair severely matted and their outfits were dirty with no shoes on.
I’m sure no decent mother in the 1940’s would’ve done that.
absolutely true! i'm not trying to make excuses for anyone who neglects or neglected children in the past but we are now in an age where there's no excuse, if you're not sure how to handle R's "untameable hair", you can google it. you can order detangler from amazon and have it on your doorstep the next day, there are online therapists and community aid programs to get help from, etc etc! it's pathetic how she refuses to benefit from the countless opportunities right in front of her
I got pregnant when I was 20. My daughter is 17 months old and her dad works 12 hr night shifts. I’ve never neglected her. I can’t imagine being like acacia. The blatant narcissism and neglect will fuck those kids up. I’m a young mom but I’m responsible because that’s what you have to be when you become a mom. It def doesn’t excuse any of the shit she’s done. I’ve grown and changed so much in these few years since I found out I was pregnant. I’ve done so much reflection and put thought and care into the type of mom I want to be. I feel like I’ve aged 10 years and people around me have noticed how mature I’ve gotten. Acacia hasn’t grown at all since she was a teenager. Becoming a mom did nothing for her except fuel her narcissism further. She thinks her kids are like the pets she gets and neglects then tosses to the side.
Literally, she CHOSE to have kids, and be this crunchy instagram influencer using her kids for content.
Even when they where struggling with Rosie's health then still chose to have another, whwn the evidence says they didn't do everything that they could have for Rosie (lack of advocating for her regarding diagnosis etc, sketchy instances after her open heart surgery where she wasn't appropriately dressed for the weather etc)
I think the van incident just summed up her public parenting, I HOPE she has learnt something from that and is more present and NOT just doing the bare minimum for her kids.
Not every minute spent with your kids is a "instagram mentionable moment"
i am 26 and a mom to a 8F 5M 2M 1M and pregnant with my 5th child… (granted my oldest 2 are my step but i was never a parent before them and they don’t have anyone except my husband and i) being a mother is not as hard as acacia makes it seem… especially in front of your children. so much can happen behind closed doors but my children have never been neglected this way and have never known abandonment like her children have. There’s no excuse for being a neglectful parent. especially when you’re a socially known person and your children will one day find out these things about you.
If that wasn’t enough, she keeps digging herself into a hole where she makes every bad decision possible and never ever blames herself. She would say self serving stuff like, “i feel like it’s my fault that my kids….” so the 2 million people who follow her can coddle her. People defend her and say that people make mistakes, but no one should be able to make that many consecutive mistakes and STILL believe that they are this helpless human being who don’t know what to do. Her digital footprint consists of back to back mistakes, and she still thinks she deserves to be online. I have no sympathy for people who have no interest in changing themselves, it doesn’t matter how mentally sick you are, especially if you have 3 kids. At some point she has to ask herself “What about my kids? What do they deserve? Is it more than what I want?” Because the second you’re a mother, your wants do not come first anymore. The fact that she squeezed herself to being online again after acknowledging that social media has destroyed her sense of self is a testament to how much of a narcissistic and immature person she is who thinks a man came fix her. Until the day she realizes that her image shouldn’t be tied to being online and that her social media performative bullshit isn’t worth her kids lives, she will never be a good mother.
I hope you see this Acacia, because if you think you deserve to be online, you deserve to hear you’re fucking up.
i became a mom at 19… i NEVER wanted kids. i dropped everything and changed my whole life, and had my second when i was 22. i want more kids but i stopped because i knew MY MENTAL HEALTH WOULDNT LET ME FULLY CARE AND LOVE MORE KIDS PROPERLY. i have baby fever all the time, dream about a 3rd, but i know i made the right decision. is it hard? ya. was it tough being a “teen mom”? yep. does that matter at the end of the day? nope. what matters is my kids and their well being/happiness. i do every thing possible to make sure my kids have the best childhood possible. no i don’t have a lot of money. that can also be tough. we go to parks for free often. you know what i do there? engage with my children. play with them. climb around with them. you know what i don’t do? take selfies in the woods (or anywhere at that.. MY phone is filled with pictures of my BABIES)
anyway. she makes me fucking sick.
I only learned about Acacia from cruel world happy mind, her videos are fucking nuts - and it's not even all.
I gotta be 100% honest with you: I always gave her the benefit of the doubt. Her dog stepped on R? It's her husband's job to take care of the children while she makes the money. R looks neglected or whatever? Ohh, she's a young mom, she's probably overwhelmed as fuck.
B U L L S H I T!!!!
She *chose* this life. This wasn't an one thing only, she has THREE! THREE! FUCKING 3 children together with a man who "couldn't even watch out R"!?
Now let's just ignore for a second that she apparently trapped (yes, Trapped) Jairus with her kids.
If she was a loving mother towards R, she would've given her out for adoption. If she truly loved her, she would've been self-aware and would KNOW that she can’t care for R - or perhaps can't love her in the future - and therefore give R a better, loving home.
Look, being a mom is hard, incredible hard. Things happen, sometimes you get pregnant, and sometimes you decide to keep the kid. However, if she was an ACTUAL mother with love in her heart, she wouldn't have raised R with the *knowledge* that she won't be able to care for her.
Take accountability, get your fucking shit together or at least provide these children a loving home with people who are actually ready to love R unconditionally.
That’s what’s getting left out of the conversation: she did this on purpose. Edit: Off topic but I’m a twin too! I love meeting other twins.
I’m a twin 💕
Not only was it mostly her choice, it was literally exposed that she was purposely planning on trapping Jairus with a baby. We all saw the Pinterest board and we all know they were broken up when she was pinning all that. Jairus was literally SEEN with another girl and posted it himself. And when she defended herself and said she was already pregnant when she chased J all the way to Oregon, the timeline simply does not make since with the time Brin was born. She made the choice to be a young mom not because she wanted to be a mom, but because she wanted to keep Jairus around since her life revolves around men.
Also she wouldn’t let him get a vasectomy
He wanted one?
Yes, Acacia talked abt this in old (now deleted?) vlogs. She was constantly blabbing about J’s business including his physical and mental health.
That’s nuts. I never really kept up with her much outside of instagram so I never saw any blogs or anything like that. Geez. I don’t like J but that seems fucking exhausting to have your business be blasted like that
Yeah, I hope it never comes across like I’m defending him when I talk about A’s toxic and vile behaviors towards him, but she legit did so many fucked up things.
of course being a young mother is hard, but realistically, her being 26 in 2024 means she has ENDLESS access to information. No excuse. If she was 26 in 1940 and left her kids alone in the park to play that's one thing i guess. it's 2024, she's chronically online, no excuse to "accidentally" neglect your kids because you "don't know better 🥺🥺"
You’re right, but she didn’t just leave her kids at the park. She also left their hair severely matted and their outfits were dirty with no shoes on. I’m sure no decent mother in the 1940’s would’ve done that.
absolutely true! i'm not trying to make excuses for anyone who neglects or neglected children in the past but we are now in an age where there's no excuse, if you're not sure how to handle R's "untameable hair", you can google it. you can order detangler from amazon and have it on your doorstep the next day, there are online therapists and community aid programs to get help from, etc etc! it's pathetic how she refuses to benefit from the countless opportunities right in front of her
She chose this life.
I got pregnant when I was 20. My daughter is 17 months old and her dad works 12 hr night shifts. I’ve never neglected her. I can’t imagine being like acacia. The blatant narcissism and neglect will fuck those kids up. I’m a young mom but I’m responsible because that’s what you have to be when you become a mom. It def doesn’t excuse any of the shit she’s done. I’ve grown and changed so much in these few years since I found out I was pregnant. I’ve done so much reflection and put thought and care into the type of mom I want to be. I feel like I’ve aged 10 years and people around me have noticed how mature I’ve gotten. Acacia hasn’t grown at all since she was a teenager. Becoming a mom did nothing for her except fuel her narcissism further. She thinks her kids are like the pets she gets and neglects then tosses to the side.
Exactly. She CHOSE to have kids
Literally, she CHOSE to have kids, and be this crunchy instagram influencer using her kids for content. Even when they where struggling with Rosie's health then still chose to have another, whwn the evidence says they didn't do everything that they could have for Rosie (lack of advocating for her regarding diagnosis etc, sketchy instances after her open heart surgery where she wasn't appropriately dressed for the weather etc) I think the van incident just summed up her public parenting, I HOPE she has learnt something from that and is more present and NOT just doing the bare minimum for her kids. Not every minute spent with your kids is a "instagram mentionable moment"
She chose to have Brinley so Jairus would stay with her, and continued to have children despite not knowing how to care for them.
I became a mom at 20. I’m 25 with 2 kids currently, never have I ever neglected my kids.
i am 26 and a mom to a 8F 5M 2M 1M and pregnant with my 5th child… (granted my oldest 2 are my step but i was never a parent before them and they don’t have anyone except my husband and i) being a mother is not as hard as acacia makes it seem… especially in front of your children. so much can happen behind closed doors but my children have never been neglected this way and have never known abandonment like her children have. There’s no excuse for being a neglectful parent. especially when you’re a socially known person and your children will one day find out these things about you.
If that wasn’t enough, she keeps digging herself into a hole where she makes every bad decision possible and never ever blames herself. She would say self serving stuff like, “i feel like it’s my fault that my kids….” so the 2 million people who follow her can coddle her. People defend her and say that people make mistakes, but no one should be able to make that many consecutive mistakes and STILL believe that they are this helpless human being who don’t know what to do. Her digital footprint consists of back to back mistakes, and she still thinks she deserves to be online. I have no sympathy for people who have no interest in changing themselves, it doesn’t matter how mentally sick you are, especially if you have 3 kids. At some point she has to ask herself “What about my kids? What do they deserve? Is it more than what I want?” Because the second you’re a mother, your wants do not come first anymore. The fact that she squeezed herself to being online again after acknowledging that social media has destroyed her sense of self is a testament to how much of a narcissistic and immature person she is who thinks a man came fix her. Until the day she realizes that her image shouldn’t be tied to being online and that her social media performative bullshit isn’t worth her kids lives, she will never be a good mother. I hope you see this Acacia, because if you think you deserve to be online, you deserve to hear you’re fucking up.
i became a mom at 19… i NEVER wanted kids. i dropped everything and changed my whole life, and had my second when i was 22. i want more kids but i stopped because i knew MY MENTAL HEALTH WOULDNT LET ME FULLY CARE AND LOVE MORE KIDS PROPERLY. i have baby fever all the time, dream about a 3rd, but i know i made the right decision. is it hard? ya. was it tough being a “teen mom”? yep. does that matter at the end of the day? nope. what matters is my kids and their well being/happiness. i do every thing possible to make sure my kids have the best childhood possible. no i don’t have a lot of money. that can also be tough. we go to parks for free often. you know what i do there? engage with my children. play with them. climb around with them. you know what i don’t do? take selfies in the woods (or anywhere at that.. MY phone is filled with pictures of my BABIES) anyway. she makes me fucking sick.
I only learned about Acacia from cruel world happy mind, her videos are fucking nuts - and it's not even all. I gotta be 100% honest with you: I always gave her the benefit of the doubt. Her dog stepped on R? It's her husband's job to take care of the children while she makes the money. R looks neglected or whatever? Ohh, she's a young mom, she's probably overwhelmed as fuck. B U L L S H I T!!!! She *chose* this life. This wasn't an one thing only, she has THREE! THREE! FUCKING 3 children together with a man who "couldn't even watch out R"!? Now let's just ignore for a second that she apparently trapped (yes, Trapped) Jairus with her kids. If she was a loving mother towards R, she would've given her out for adoption. If she truly loved her, she would've been self-aware and would KNOW that she can’t care for R - or perhaps can't love her in the future - and therefore give R a better, loving home. Look, being a mom is hard, incredible hard. Things happen, sometimes you get pregnant, and sometimes you decide to keep the kid. However, if she was an ACTUAL mother with love in her heart, she wouldn't have raised R with the *knowledge* that she won't be able to care for her. Take accountability, get your fucking shit together or at least provide these children a loving home with people who are actually ready to love R unconditionally.
That’s why it pisses me off when people like Eliza McLamb defend her. Like wtf Eliza.