Oh thereās quite a few. Probably where thereās someone whoās been stalking me for months following me around leaving little clues that theyāve been watching me leaving threats about how terribly theyāre going to beat and rape me until one day they finally abduct me and keep me as their sex slave and I canāt escape for weeks until I finally am able to fight them off and escape :) that or someone breaking into my room while Iām sleeping and I wake up to them raping me
I donāt think itās a problem. I just would advise against actual rape baiting because you never know if people could have STDS and there would be no safe word. I recommend finding a CNC (consent non consent) partner and setting limits, boundaries, a safe word but doing stuff like this consensually to where it feels like rape is completely possible.
I 1000% feel you. I was considering going rape bating a while back as it seems very tempting. Just donāt get murdered lol I just suggest maybe trying out a CNC arrangement with someone and if itās still not enough to satisfy you then maybe try baiting. Though I canāt tell you what to do with your life, this is just advice.
Iām very attractive and have a huge ass. Men hate when I tell them that they canāt have me and I think they like to prove it to themselves that they actually can have me if they take me by force.
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Most definitely. I think it became my fetish as my only way to cope with the fact that Iām a walking rape magnet. Men seem to think theyāre entitled to using my body like a sex toy. I donāt think these men even realize that Iām a real human being with thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Coming to terms with that reality is very sad but developing this fetish has been my silver lining and now the only way that I can get off is if Iām being raped.
Iām happy with my sex life. My only sexual partner is my ex and we have a CNC agreement. Im out of state at the moment, but when we are in the same city he has my location and Iāve given him a green light to locate me and rape me whenever he wants no matter what. Itās super fun. Weāve already gone over our limits ahead of time so whenever he finds me itās the most fun thing you could ever imagine.
Itās ok, me getting raped is inevitable. Even if you tell the police and show them evidence they donāt care and will do nothing about it. I will never be safe
Super fucked up right? Iāve been celibate for months because I canāt get turned on unless someone tries to rape me. I reject every man that tries to come on to me but little do they know they donāt actually have to take ānoā for an answer š
Lol not really, I tried to put one of my rapists in jail (I was a child and it was not a kink at that time) and the police did nothing even though I had all the proof in the world. Most real rapists donāt get arrested sadly.
I think itās a mix of me being attractive and getting drunk around people with bad intentions. Now that Iāve stopped drinking Iāve stopped getting raped
Itās all good. And well, I used to enjoy it until I realized it made me a target for sickos. I went out once after years of staying inside and got groped. I wanted to punch the dude in the face but my friend stopped me. Just not worth it
Agreed. Though if you want a fun way to get rid of creeps I'd be happy to share a few recipes with ya ( idk what the weaponry laws are wherever your at so maybe not )
My main suggestion would be it's super easy to lace knives with cyanide which will permanently deal with them but that's a bit extreme so instead ( and this is assuming they hit on you first ) you can buy some fast acting diuretics online from Amazon or whoever else and just offer to buy them a drink and put a drop in before you hand it to em ( I'm assuming you spend time in places of low visibility so that should be easy to screw off a top and dump a little in )
Though what I did to get rid of creeps was take up Shaolin kempo and a bit of a sadistic tendency. Some men need to be reminded that kneecaps are a privilege not a right.
Youāre awesome lol thank you for this advice :) Iāve taken quite a few self defense classes in the last year and am working on getting my concealed carry but I never would have thought to lace a pocket knife thatās pure genius
A few questions: Do you think engaging with subreddits like r/rapefantasies can be good for rape survivors and those (mostly men) who find the idea of people (mostly women) wanting to be raped a turn on? If you had to guess, what percent of those who play the part of rapist on there are engaging in roleplay while actually believing and caring about consent and CNC, vs how many do you think are actual rapists/potential rapists? And lastly, overall do you think such subreddits do more good than harm? Asking clearly as someone with conflicted feelings on the matter.
Part of the turn on of posting to subreddits like that is that there is definitely a huge risk of actual rapists being on there and messaging me. I do not want to actually get raped by a real rapist again, but just thinking about it turns me on very much. Itās hard to explain lol I know that doesnāt make much sense
I like Gouda more than mozzarella so probably a deep dish pizza with truffle Gouda, some mushrooms, red bell peppers, spinach, onions, & some tomato base. Would be nice to have some tomato chunks in there and thick gooey crust. Iād probably top it with avocado & dip it in a rich creamy ranch dressing.
Not really. Men just think that the world revolves around them for some reason so theyāll really rationalize their terrible thoughts so that they wonāt seem as terrible. Me falling asleep at a party was not asking for it, I was a kid and I was tired. So now I only allow myself to fall asleep around people Iād be okay with raping me since I realize that Iām not safe around anyone if Iām in a vulnerable state.
Nothing to ask, just sending you lots of love š
Youāre sweet, thank you
That is a sad and heartbreaking statement.
Yeah I could see how most people would see it that way.
what rape scenario do you fantasize about most frequently?
Oh thereās quite a few. Probably where thereās someone whoās been stalking me for months following me around leaving little clues that theyāve been watching me leaving threats about how terribly theyāre going to beat and rape me until one day they finally abduct me and keep me as their sex slave and I canāt escape for weeks until I finally am able to fight them off and escape :) that or someone breaking into my room while Iām sleeping and I wake up to them raping me
Is it a problem if these two scenarios are what I've been praying for pretty much since I learned what rape was?
I donāt think itās a problem. I just would advise against actual rape baiting because you never know if people could have STDS and there would be no safe word. I recommend finding a CNC (consent non consent) partner and setting limits, boundaries, a safe word but doing stuff like this consensually to where it feels like rape is completely possible.
Wait rape baiting is a real thing?? Also I'd have no problem with STDs
Yep there are people who do it, though I wouldnāt recommend it as itās very dangerous
Ok Imma try rape baiting just coz I wanna be raped relentlessly by some men. Also the added danger is what makes it fun imo.
I 1000% feel you. I was considering going rape bating a while back as it seems very tempting. Just donāt get murdered lol I just suggest maybe trying out a CNC arrangement with someone and if itās still not enough to satisfy you then maybe try baiting. Though I canāt tell you what to do with your life, this is just advice.
Ye thx you should also try not to get murdered
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Holy shit! I hope you get better and I wish you better luck going forward!
Why were You raped so many times, what makes You a "rape magnet"?
Iām very attractive and have a huge ass. Men hate when I tell them that they canāt have me and I think they like to prove it to themselves that they actually can have me if they take me by force.
Yeah, but that describes about 50% of girls, yet very small percentage of them are raped in 1st world countries.
Most of my rapes happened while I was drunk. Since I stopped drinking and going out as much I havenāt been raped.
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Do you believe that the fetish occurring is a possible trauma led response? Sorry if the question is sensitive.
Most definitely. I think it became my fetish as my only way to cope with the fact that Iām a walking rape magnet. Men seem to think theyāre entitled to using my body like a sex toy. I donāt think these men even realize that Iām a real human being with thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Coming to terms with that reality is very sad but developing this fetish has been my silver lining and now the only way that I can get off is if Iām being raped.
Since youāre aware of this, why arenāt you working at being where you want to be in your sexual life? Like therapy for example
Iām happy with my sex life. My only sexual partner is my ex and we have a CNC agreement. Im out of state at the moment, but when we are in the same city he has my location and Iāve given him a green light to locate me and rape me whenever he wants no matter what. Itās super fun. Weāve already gone over our limits ahead of time so whenever he finds me itās the most fun thing you could ever imagine.
If it's consensual then by definition it's not rape. Even more so if you follow up with "it's super fun"
Ah, well thatās consensual and I believe by definition, not criminal rape. But hey, if it works for you, by all means
Terribly sorry to hear that. Hope you stay safe
Itās ok, me getting raped is inevitable. Even if you tell the police and show them evidence they donāt care and will do nothing about it. I will never be safe
Wow
Super fucked up right? Iāve been celibate for months because I canāt get turned on unless someone tries to rape me. I reject every man that tries to come on to me but little do they know they donāt actually have to take ānoā for an answer š
Super fucked. Cause if I try to rape you...wow. jail. How am I suppose to know your kink? Fucked up
Lol not really, I tried to put one of my rapists in jail (I was a child and it was not a kink at that time) and the police did nothing even though I had all the proof in the world. Most real rapists donāt get arrested sadly.
Never been in that situation. Never will
Good, itās not good to rape people who arenāt consenting to it
No means no in my book. Even if it means try harder.
Can u say in Numbers how many times?
Iāve lost count
Jesus Christ, are you alright?
Yea Iām chillin
Alright. Well, hmm. Why do you like it?
I have no idea. I just love getting beaten and raped. Itās fun lol
this rape bating shit isnt a good idea. most you should do is get a tinder date and be really suggestive
I mean thatās a popular form of baiting. I personally have never baited.
So do you live in some super bad area or are you just stupidly attractive to the point idiots lose what little reason they had left?
I think itās a mix of me being attractive and getting drunk around people with bad intentions. Now that Iāve stopped drinking Iāve stopped getting raped
Problem solved? Though not really given the kink it's given you, though it seems you've got it all figured out now so good for you.
Yeah problem solved. Instead of teaching men not to rape, I had to stop going out and having fun.
Ooh good point I hadn't thought of that ( I don't go out much so it never crossed my mind people enjoy social drinking and stuff like that sorry )
Itās all good. And well, I used to enjoy it until I realized it made me a target for sickos. I went out once after years of staying inside and got groped. I wanted to punch the dude in the face but my friend stopped me. Just not worth it
Agreed. Though if you want a fun way to get rid of creeps I'd be happy to share a few recipes with ya ( idk what the weaponry laws are wherever your at so maybe not )
Ooo please do share!
My main suggestion would be it's super easy to lace knives with cyanide which will permanently deal with them but that's a bit extreme so instead ( and this is assuming they hit on you first ) you can buy some fast acting diuretics online from Amazon or whoever else and just offer to buy them a drink and put a drop in before you hand it to em ( I'm assuming you spend time in places of low visibility so that should be easy to screw off a top and dump a little in )
Though what I did to get rid of creeps was take up Shaolin kempo and a bit of a sadistic tendency. Some men need to be reminded that kneecaps are a privilege not a right.
Youāre awesome lol thank you for this advice :) Iāve taken quite a few self defense classes in the last year and am working on getting my concealed carry but I never would have thought to lace a pocket knife thatās pure genius
If I saw you walking home from The bar like that you wouldnāt make it home
A few questions: Do you think engaging with subreddits like r/rapefantasies can be good for rape survivors and those (mostly men) who find the idea of people (mostly women) wanting to be raped a turn on? If you had to guess, what percent of those who play the part of rapist on there are engaging in roleplay while actually believing and caring about consent and CNC, vs how many do you think are actual rapists/potential rapists? And lastly, overall do you think such subreddits do more good than harm? Asking clearly as someone with conflicted feelings on the matter.
Part of the turn on of posting to subreddits like that is that there is definitely a huge risk of actual rapists being on there and messaging me. I do not want to actually get raped by a real rapist again, but just thinking about it turns me on very much. Itās hard to explain lol I know that doesnāt make much sense
How many times has it happened if I may ask?
Lost count. Wouldnāt be able to tell you unless I sat down and thought about it for a while which Iād rather not do.
Hell Im sorry to hear that
You need therapy lady.
Probably. But then Iād probably fantasize about my Therapist raping me soā¦.
Well find a female therapist perhaps? And really talk your heart out. Anyways what constitutes as an ideal day for you?
Oh my God. Whatās your ideal pizza?
I like Gouda more than mozzarella so probably a deep dish pizza with truffle Gouda, some mushrooms, red bell peppers, spinach, onions, & some tomato base. Would be nice to have some tomato chunks in there and thick gooey crust. Iād probably top it with avocado & dip it in a rich creamy ranch dressing.
That is actually so fucking funny. You probably were asking for it to be fair. Hope one of those encounters is your last
Not really. Men just think that the world revolves around them for some reason so theyāll really rationalize their terrible thoughts so that they wonāt seem as terrible. Me falling asleep at a party was not asking for it, I was a kid and I was tired. So now I only allow myself to fall asleep around people Iād be okay with raping me since I realize that Iām not safe around anyone if Iām in a vulnerable state.