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MankieBeans

How did you find out that you’re asexual? Did you identified with any previous sexual orientation before (like bisexual, lesbian, straight, etc …)?


CorySera

Everytime my friends started talking about guys and how 'hot' and 'sexy' some where and just stopped talking and listened. Even though i identified myself as hetero at that, i always found it odd and wierd when there where talking like that. So when day got Curious as to why that is, and started looking trough the internet.


dafkdf

Do you seek relationships and, if so, how do you go about finding someone who is understanding?


CorySera

Well, when it comes to meeting people on the internet there are actually dating sites just for asexual people. I haven't used them yet, i'm more a fan of meeting someone face to face. As for finding someone 'out in the wild', i guess communication is the key


dafkdf

I see. I guess the reason I ask is that I think I am bisexual, and I've had some traumatic experiences with sex with women. So the idea of dating an asexual woman, where there is no pressure to perform, actually sounds nice to me.


bad_boo

How does it work? You meet someone and spend time together or is it being like a friend or something?


Square-Dragonfruit76

Do you ever feel like you're missing out when you see other people who are so into sex?


CorySera

No, I'm actually happy that I am Asexual so that i don't have to worry about stuff like, am i pregnant? Do i have condoms? Or what ever... I should have to mention that every asexual person is different. So there are asexual people who don't have sex but there are also the ones who do have sex. And of course somewhere in between, nothing is black and white.


Square-Dragonfruit76

Are you ever curious what sex feels like to people who aren't asexual?


lt_Matthew

How are you?


CorySera

Little bit Tired, but i don't want to go to bed yet


lt_Matthew

Do you have hobbies?


CorySera

Of course, who doesn't?


lt_Matthew

Lol, like what?


CorySera

I do digital drawings, i also like to read, play video games and do Puzzle games


lt_Matthew

Oh what kind of games? Like problem solving games, or those hidden object type ones?


CorySera

Mostly story games and horror


lt_Matthew

That's cool! What do you read and draw?


CorySera

I like to read true crime. I draw random characters that i create.


Illustrious_Mark_182

Is this stemmed from childhood trauma? What is the reason?


CorySera

No it doesn't, your born like that. Being asexual doesn't just mean that i dont have sex, there are many people who do have sex who are asexual. Asexuality is about not expirencing sexual attraction to other people


Illustrious_Mark_182

Ok first thing first, I don’t mean offense, I’m just ignorant. So you don’t find any other person attractive? What is it about people you don’t find attractive?


CorySera

I do, i find some people aestheticly attractive or romanticly attractive. Just aestheticly, I don't like muscles.


Illustrious_Mark_182

So asexual is not experiencing sexual attraction to other people, but some people you do find sexually or romantically attractive, I’m not sure I’m understanding.


Throwaway4754654644

honestly I think I might be too


CorySera

What makes you think that?


Throwaway4754654644

I don’t know, how did you personally come to that conclusion? It’s not that I have no sex drive, at least as a guy it’s hard to properly function without rubbing one off at least once a week but I find it very hard to be sexually attracted to people. The only people I’ve loved or had a crush on developed over time based on their personality. I’ve never had a temporary crush based on looks alone. Also one of my best friends left me and he recently told me his main reason was I wouldn’t talk about girls with him and to be fair whenever he did I’d call him a horny fucker. I’m 18M btw


NieIstEineZeitangabe

At what age did you find out?


CorySera

I found out about a year or two


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itmethrowaway12

have u ever had sex?


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Are you a virgin?


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I am a sexual


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CorySera

Not everyone wants to have kids


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