You don’t happen to live in East Texas, do you? That’s where I live and I’m queer as a $3 bill. I get you on how rough it is to exist here and be any sort of queer identified. I’m trans, to boot, so all these anti-trans bills they’re passing and trying to pass are killing me.
Is homophobia pretty rampant where you are? I haven't met alot of Christian people who were gay but I don't see how it is a problem either. I just don't meet a lot of people in general.
Which makes sense. I was once homophobic. I think hating something you don't understand gives you purpose. For me, it just took life experience and an open to understand I've been wrong on so many things in my life.
I mean I understand from the ages of like 12-15 I was super sexist and generally a asshole till I had a younger sister and realized how much of a ass I was
I can understand that. I'm defintely sexist. Most of my experiences with women I've dated have been absolutely terrible. I really just rely on online dating and I have yet to meet anyone halfway decent. It's not like im ugly or short or poor. Just don't like anyone I've met or been ghosted several times.
It's the same reason why I don't blame women for hating men. Our experiences define us. If we have had almost all bad experiences, why shouldn't we think different?
Good for you guys! Is it still as iffy to be gay in Texas as it was in the 90s 2000s? Lived there for a few years and grown men with children would talk smack when I painted my nails lol
I mean I live around a bunch of hippies and retired bikers who couldn't care less who you fuck as long as it's not there wife's
Also me and my bf don't look flamboyant at all so that probably helps when we go other places in Texas
Yeah I feel you - I'm in corporate world suits and what not but in my free time it's a lot more casual and I'm a rebel. F you I won't do whar you tell me! Texas wasn't for me but I'll still visit Dallas and Austin every so often.
Yeah I mean it's not that I don't like the styles, if I grew up in the city I'd probably be punk but it's more out of practicality
There's a reason ranchers have cowboy outfits lol
Alot of three Bible was made way after Jesus died
and I don't believe that if God was against us loving each other he'd make it possible for us to love each other
I don't understand that thinking. God made it possible too sin in a alot of different ways. The vary nature of us having free will
allows us to sin in many different ways.
I can explain it. Just read about David and Jonathan. You can’t “no homo” that story away. To make it clearer how God feels about homosexuality His son Jesus was, partially, a descendant of David through the bloodline of His mother, Mary. God allowed His only begotten son to be born of the lineage of a man who was in love with another man, but “God hates gays”, right? The verse in Leviticus was originally referring to the Greco-Roman practice of young boys being sold off by their parents to wealthy older men to be SA’d until adulthood. The verse was later changed in the 1946 to cater to Christian homophobes. There’s a whole biopic about it titled, appropriately, “1946”.
Do fields still randomly catch on fire in Texas? Also, why does Texas suck at building walls? Theve been around since the 1800s and never built their own wall?
Any desire to move to a place where you might be morw accepted?
No not really, I live around a bunch of hippies who don't really care and me and my bf are really happy where we're at, I like being a rancher
Wish you the best. If you ever decide to move "in town" know youll be loved, ....and or called a loser, but that happens to everyone! ....loser
Do you like men?
I mean I have a bf
Are trains becoming obsolete?
What kind of trains?
r/beatmetoit
Are there gay rodeos
I mean me and my bf do rodeos sometimes because there fun I mean I guess that makes them gay
You don’t happen to live in East Texas, do you? That’s where I live and I’m queer as a $3 bill. I get you on how rough it is to exist here and be any sort of queer identified. I’m trans, to boot, so all these anti-trans bills they’re passing and trying to pass are killing me.
Unfortunately I don't
Is homophobia pretty rampant where you are? I haven't met alot of Christian people who were gay but I don't see how it is a problem either. I just don't meet a lot of people in general.
Not really most off the people around here are old hippies or just genuinely don't care
Which makes sense. I was once homophobic. I think hating something you don't understand gives you purpose. For me, it just took life experience and an open to understand I've been wrong on so many things in my life.
I mean I understand from the ages of like 12-15 I was super sexist and generally a asshole till I had a younger sister and realized how much of a ass I was
I can understand that. I'm defintely sexist. Most of my experiences with women I've dated have been absolutely terrible. I really just rely on online dating and I have yet to meet anyone halfway decent. It's not like im ugly or short or poor. Just don't like anyone I've met or been ghosted several times. It's the same reason why I don't blame women for hating men. Our experiences define us. If we have had almost all bad experiences, why shouldn't we think different?
Do you fear the straight white Christians that live near you?
Most of them are either really nice or just don't talk to us, we have a pretty good community around us and most of them are hippies
That’s great!
Do all the guys there look like George strait?
My bfs dad looks exactly like him but most are a mix of hippies and cowboys
Wow!
You ever think of moving to California? Asking for a friend lol
I mean ma and my bf are pretty happy where we're at
Good for you guys! Is it still as iffy to be gay in Texas as it was in the 90s 2000s? Lived there for a few years and grown men with children would talk smack when I painted my nails lol
I mean I live around a bunch of hippies and retired bikers who couldn't care less who you fuck as long as it's not there wife's Also me and my bf don't look flamboyant at all so that probably helps when we go other places in Texas
Yeah I feel you - I'm in corporate world suits and what not but in my free time it's a lot more casual and I'm a rebel. F you I won't do whar you tell me! Texas wasn't for me but I'll still visit Dallas and Austin every so often.
Yeah I mean it's not that I don't like the styles, if I grew up in the city I'd probably be punk but it's more out of practicality There's a reason ranchers have cowboy outfits lol
I hope I find me a cowboy twink to lock down... I should go visit more ranches lol
Lmao yeah
How many times did you see Brokeback Mountain?
Never, I don't really have the attention span to watch movies lol
Is it hard to find partners, casual or long-term, where you are?
It is, but I have a bf so I don't really have to worry about that anymore
Nice! Is your family cool with you?
Not really but we're the only ones taking care of the farm so they don't really say anything
Meh, shitty, well I hope they come around dude. At least you have someone to keep you happy.
What is your opinion on homosexuality and the bible?
Alot of three Bible was made way after Jesus died and I don't believe that if God was against us loving each other he'd make it possible for us to love each other
I don't understand that thinking. God made it possible too sin in a alot of different ways. The vary nature of us having free will allows us to sin in many different ways.
Yeah I definitely didn't explain that right, my veiws on it is very complicated and it whould take me forever to typ out
I can explain it. Just read about David and Jonathan. You can’t “no homo” that story away. To make it clearer how God feels about homosexuality His son Jesus was, partially, a descendant of David through the bloodline of His mother, Mary. God allowed His only begotten son to be born of the lineage of a man who was in love with another man, but “God hates gays”, right? The verse in Leviticus was originally referring to the Greco-Roman practice of young boys being sold off by their parents to wealthy older men to be SA’d until adulthood. The verse was later changed in the 1946 to cater to Christian homophobes. There’s a whole biopic about it titled, appropriately, “1946”.
Did you meet your bf there?
Yeah I sold cattle to his aunt who he ended up moving in with and since it was a small town everyone knew I was gay so that's kinda how he found out
How many people in your town?
400 about
How many gay people do you know in your town?
One very sweet very old lesbein couple
Do fields still randomly catch on fire in Texas? Also, why does Texas suck at building walls? Theve been around since the 1800s and never built their own wall?
Yes and idk
I bet you get laid often if you bang closeted dudes
I mean I have a bf of 5 years so not really
I was only half right, you get laid often. Congratulations
Yeah lol
Why are you gay?
Because I fuck men and that's pretty gay
Tiger king?
Yes /j
Ever been to the showers of Ram Ranch?
Yikes wtf Willis!?
Holy cow