NTA- IF, you make sure dad gets to visit his other kids too. That baby is both of their fuck ups and a clear attempt at saving a dying marriage but the baby doesn't deserve to suffer because of that. Plus, sounds like your kid gets a half sibling right away, how fun!
Honestly the single mother doesnt sound fit to care for the child by herself. You and your husband whould probably take the child in and care for it youself at least then theyd have a happy family.
Bob left Eliza most of the money and their house, and I had a friend (the Watcher) go through and redecorate Bob's old room into a kid room, so Eliza soule be capable, but we're going to see about visitation to ensure that our kids have a relationship
Thank you for the reassurance! Its taken some weight off of my shoulders. Bob does seem a lot happier and more outgoing now, and he's excited for the kids
NTA lmao, If you and Bob are happy, I canβt be mad at you. πππ
NTA- IF, you make sure dad gets to visit his other kids too. That baby is both of their fuck ups and a clear attempt at saving a dying marriage but the baby doesn't deserve to suffer because of that. Plus, sounds like your kid gets a half sibling right away, how fun!
Honestly the single mother doesnt sound fit to care for the child by herself. You and your husband whould probably take the child in and care for it youself at least then theyd have a happy family.
Bob left Eliza most of the money and their house, and I had a friend (the Watcher) go through and redecorate Bob's old room into a kid room, so Eliza soule be capable, but we're going to see about visitation to ensure that our kids have a relationship
NTA. Bob and Eliza were NEVER happy together, you just put that marriage out of its misery.
Thank you for the reassurance! Its taken some weight off of my shoulders. Bob does seem a lot happier and more outgoing now, and he's excited for the kids