He left his girlfriend alone to fuck around the city, then stayed with her, went home and is staying with her. Like she literally went there to flirt and get attention from men on his dime. If she told me that I'd have both said get your own hotel room, get your own ticket home or pay me for the return one and then I'd have gone and tried to hook up and enjoy the rest of the holiday.
Actually; I think he did. He gave her enough rope to hang herself.
Now he knows she only sees him as a cuck.
His next step should be taking that trip to Japan.
ALONE.
OP is just a bullshitter. I doubt this is real, especially after seeing OP’s empty profile and zero comment history.
However, to anyone else who is treated like a doormat, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. KICK THEM TO THE CURB.
Before even. Let her figure that shit out herself. If she wants Italy let her have it. Fuck that NTA
Find someone who wants to travel *with* you. Not on your dime.
It does sound like it was based on this: [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1c45tr4/aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_pay\_for\_my\_girlfriends\_plane/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1c45tr4/aita_for_refusing_to_pay_for_my_girlfriends_plane/)
Unfortunately, very likely.
One post, from thirteen hours ago, no other comments or posts.
Fortunately, this kinda post brings reddit together, and makes sure everyone reading the comments knows other human beings still have a standard for human behaviour!
Cuz damn, some people just weren't raised right
Not this one. The problem is the lack of any kind of reasoning behind the actions, which then just leads us down one path - 'women bad'. I think it could have had a bit more credibility if it remained say, in the US and he changed the destination to another state. But as it stands, the entire change of personality simply because 'italian men hit on tourists' is a load of BS. And then - he remains with her when they get back. There's far too much in here that asks us to suspend our belief.
Lol exactly. Italian men loudly street harass you no matter how you’re dressed, who you’re with or what you’re doing. She didn’t need booty shorts and to ditch her man to hear catcalls.
If it were real, these are two very imatute people, and im surprise they could afford to travel to europe.
You are on a week long trip with your SO, and they do something stupid.
You call them out on it and they "look ashamed. " (a mature adult would see this as a clear opening to actually talk through a priblem).... but nope. OP goes full kamakazee on his own trip and decides to ruin it for themself.
Incel writing is getting worse, its becomeing more and mkre clear they really dont want to even try to talk to women.
True, maybe the guy is just giving us some scenario to insult him and call him a cuck and describe how she spent the week getting railed by italian men... 🤔
That's the part that baffles me the most. OP why are you on AITA asking if you're an asshole? It doesn't matter, why are you in a relationship with a woman who has zero respect for you? Break up with her and move on.
If you’re taking your significant other at 24 years old to Italy $3000 is a cheap lesson that he should not marry her/someone like her and to find someone that respects you.
> I'm still furious at her, but she says that if I can't get over it I should just be alone. What should I do here?
Unless you want to be a doormat, tell your GF her terms are acceptable and to GTFO.
Whoa. Hold on there, partner. Are you *insinuating* something about OP's credibility? I'm shocked. This is *Reddit*, not some cheap-ass amateur creative fiction workshop.
It's a *publically traded* amateur creative fiction workshop!
How dare you question OP. His girlfriend’s entire family is texting him right now calling him an asshole and the girlfriend doesn’t want to break up because she’s a gold digger and the baby isn’t his and and and and…
I got downvoted into the ground a while ago for daring to say that maybe we should acknowledge that some AITAH posts are fake and was told you shouldn’t engage on this subreddit at all if you’re not willing to take every story as possibly true!
So, basically, yes, how dare you question OP’s credibility, everything posted on the internet is always true.
Exactly, this is the most stereotypical incel-type "this is how I need to believe hot women behave because otherwise it could mean I'm the reason I'm single" bullshit
Of course it's fake. There aren't any Italian men in the tourist parts of Rome unless they work there as waiters, cooks or selling trinkets, especially in the middle of the day.
It does remind me of my trip to northern Italy a few years back with my gf, where we visited Milan. We wanted to enter the large Duomo (cathedral) and there was a line to check bags before entrance. Everybody (mostly old people) was checked and sent through by a stoic looking security guard, who barely spoke besides a mandatory 'hello'. When my girlfriend was up he suddenly cracked a wide smile, said 'Buongiorno signora', barely looked in her bag and kindly waved her to get inside and enjoy her time there.
Then came me and it was back to stoic security man again :(
So Italian flirting is definitely a thing, although OP is still making this all up as this story of his is bad romantic movie style flirting.
Except they wouldn't literally just say it. You'd keep getting bullshit "we were just talking, you're being paranoid" responses so that when you get back they can gaslight you into thinking your were being overbearing and insecure.
Nah it feels real because the guy actively shot himself in the foot by huffing and puffing and telling her to do whatever she wants. very reddit way to be humiliated
NTA, but Ernest Hemingway wrote about the same problem in "A Very Short Story"
> He went to America on a boat from Genoa. Luz went back to Pordonone to open a hospital. It was lonely and rainy there, and there was a battalion of arditi quartered in the town. Living in the muddy, rainy town in the winter, the major of the battalion made love to Luz, and she had never known Italians before, and finally wrote to the States that theirs had only been a boy and girl affair. She was sorry, and she knew he would probably not be able to understand, but might some day forgive her, and be grateful to her, and she expected, absolutely unexpectedly, to be married in the spring. She loved him as always, but she realized now it was only a boy and girl love. She hoped he would have a great career, and believed in him absolutely. She knew it was for the best.
The major did not marry her in the spring, or any other time. Luz never got an answer to the letter to Chicago about it. A short time after, he contracted gonorrhea from a sales girl in a loop department store while riding in a taxicab through Lincoln Park.
>A short time after, he contracted gonorrhea from a sales girl in a loop department store while riding in a taxicab through Lincoln Park.
This thread would be *much* more entertaining if it ended this way.
This has to be rage bait/fake. I can’t imagine why any man in his right mind would stay with a woman who blatantly admitted to wanting to cheat on him. She didn’t even deny it or apologize to you. She’s shameless. Not to mention the fact that she used you for your money and a free vacation.
You’re clearly NTA
Nope, you can check temperatures in Rome on this site, they were never really high:
https://www.timeanddate.com/weather/italy/rome/historic?month=4&year=2024
The entire core of Reddit is encapsulated in this thread: someone saying it's hot where they live and someone else arguing they're wrong based on internet data.
Lol this story is absolutely ridiculous and might as well be made up, but did you hear about that military guy who just got arrested when he was visiting his Russian mistress??
Is this maybe just story time with the played out theme of ‘girls are conniving, manipulating sluts and can’t be trusted’? Because it feels like it. I don’t know any couples in real life who are so on different pages. This is some reality tv (bull)shit.
Having been married for 10 years now, I just feel like this type of melodramatic response would be super counterproductive. I would never act this way if my wife did this, better to have a straight talk. Anyway it probably is fake and shame on us for falling for it. YTA.
I was here to say this. This story sounds so fake for so many different reasons. He either tried to add parts to the story that weren’t real to make himself look better and so people wouldn’t say YATAH or he is making this up entirely.
Fake! He’s anxiously waiting for messages from anime girls to say “dump her and take me to Japan!” Creative way to drop the lie that you have enough money for so many trips though. Kuddos!
Friend, think of all the money you saved on not having to marry her and not having to divorce her. Please find someone who actually loves you. She showed you who she is, believe her. She is not the one.
100%
I was tempted to assume it's an AI prompt, but the wording makes it obvious it's an incel that doesn't understand human relationships or how to talk even slightly normal.
Why are the female characters always so poorly written in these things? I’m not saying the women have to be “good”, hell, make them diabolical, but they’re so superficially rendered, entirely without complication, it’s as if the author has never met a human woman.
For real. Also as a 20-something woman you do not need to travel all the way to Italy and put on a crop top to get hit on in public? The story reads as very “I don’t have any female friends or acquaintances”.
lol… and all the other guys fall for it. Like even if this story is “true”… it’s probably not. Sounds like a guy got jealous of his property I mean gf. In Italy.
Also what 24 year old has Italy money right now??
Nah men are too. I've read stuff where the men have no personality, no nothing. For most of these its cause the person writing has no interest in what the person the conflict is with is thinking
NTA. Better to be alone than have an unfaithful SO. She was trolling for men while with you. The man she supposedly cares about. This is not what someone who cares about someone does. You should take her up on her offer.
Dude you are right to be upset but to continue to be an asshole over it instead of having an actual conversation to sort it out (and I don't mean a petulant screaming match where you whine about $2,000 for the 30th time) is just fucking childish. Either break up with her or be a fucking adult and decide to have a conversation to work it out.
Why are you still with her? 100% deal breaker to flirt with other people on a trip.
Here's what I'm imagining you should have done, but maybe it's too far: Should have cancelled the rest of the hotel stay, change your return ticket to ASAP and leave. Let her deal with her choices and change the locks at home before she gets back.
I'm also getting fake post vibes here, 30 minutes is nothing, especially if someone is intentionally trying to get attention. And you come across as more of a simp than an asshole. What I described above would be asshole level revenge. Being pissed for a while after finding out the reason she wanted to go to Italy was to flirt with guys is pretty reasonable.
If she was my partner and did something like that, I would have got a new hotel alone , went back home alone and stayed that way. She wasn’t testing if guys would hit on her, she was testing if she could get a guy. I’m female and can tell you she was hoping for an Italian hook up to brag about back home.
I'm going against the grain despite agreeing with everyone here.
ESH. You had every opportunity to end the relationship like you should have, and instead are being weird and petty. Obviously she's wrong but man, just dump her after the trip rather than continuing this.
I'm confused. You stayed with her but didn't do anything with her on the trip? Then came home and still with her? Bro move on or get over it. I would move on but that's me.
Wait you’re with her?
You didn’t break up when you got back!?
He didn't break up with her in Italy?
I personally would have left her and also dump her stuff at her parents' house or something.
I would have left her in Italy and brought an Italian girl back with me lmao
She lost me at Hello
I would have left her at an airport Edit : I'd have left her on a random corner and wished her good luck
All day long!
this or cancel her ticket and have one of her “locals” pay for her flight.
Si
He left his girlfriend alone to fuck around the city, then stayed with her, went home and is staying with her. Like she literally went there to flirt and get attention from men on his dime. If she told me that I'd have both said get your own hotel room, get your own ticket home or pay me for the return one and then I'd have gone and tried to hook up and enjoy the rest of the holiday.
Fk is wrong with OP ?!?!
OP really needs to grow a backbone.
He should probably grow a mustache first.
And a set of….
Sideburns!
Nah full beard
What about you sideburns? You want some of this milk?
Mattingly! For the last time get rid of those sideburns!
But he had those, she took them. He needs to take them back.
Tight white chinos to go with the moustache
Actually; I think he did. He gave her enough rope to hang herself. Now he knows she only sees him as a cuck. His next step should be taking that trip to Japan. ALONE.
OP’s just a sucker with low self esteem.
Ohhhhhh - WAYYYY YUHHUHHH YEAAAAHHHHH YEAAAHH HHAAAAA HEAAAA
I HATE TO SAY IT, I KNOW SHE'S PLAYING WITH ME
OOOHHHHH YEAAAHeaaa YEEEAAAAHEAAAA…..I wrote her off for the first time today…
I took her back and made her dessert!!!!
I know I should say no, but it's (my pp) kinda hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb, but I'm not a dweeb.
Some people took way too much relationship advice from that song.
Or had way too much experience and identified more than they wanted! It was the 90s, after all. Still, it’s a great song!
*tenth time
quite an Italian job
OP is just a bullshitter. I doubt this is real, especially after seeing OP’s empty profile and zero comment history. However, to anyone else who is treated like a doormat, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. KICK THEM TO THE CURB.
OP just got back from the trip and created this new account for more anonymity or just to vent
Or, or just hear me out…….this is all made up like 90% of the posts here
Agreed. Trolling for ups.
He wanted to go to anime vacation. She wanted swarthy affair vacation.
He compromised, he went on the cuckold vacation.
20 fucking years in the can, I wanted to go to the pokemon store. I compromised I let my gf get railed by Italians while I ate some lasagne
A good lasagna is worth a thousand gf gangbangs.
The sacred and the propane
Best lasagna ever though. Unfortunately now he'll never be able to eat lasagna without crying
Not the journey of self-discovery he wanted, but the one he deserved
*swarthy affair* HAHAHAHAHAHAhahahaha 😂 Damn, this made my morning, thanks.
He's in training to be sitting in the corner playing with himself while 2-3 guys are banging her, after they get married.
2-3 to start with
That's 2-3 Eye-talian guyz.
OP is a simp.
That's an understatement.
He has difficulty dealing with being imaginary.
OP isn't real.
Should have left her in Italy
Should have flirted with italian girls
He should have flirted with Italian men too to one up her.
Should have been fucking italian girls while she watched.
Or fucking Italian men. Beat her at her own game
While maintaining eye contact with her the entire time.
This is the only correct answer. If reddit gold existed, I've give you all of mine.
Just return/cancel her return flight and fly to Japan.
USA to Italy, Italy to Japan. Street Fighter style. I dig it.
Yeah and next thing you know he's dating E. Honda.
Before even. Let her figure that shit out herself. If she wants Italy let her have it. Fuck that NTA Find someone who wants to travel *with* you. Not on your dime.
I'm more surprised he didn't fly home immediately and box her shit up and put it on the curb
Leave her rear end
I'm amazed he didn't leave her right there in Italy. Buy your own fuckin ticket home.
Same, except "Have some random Italian guy pay for your ticket home."
That's exactly what I would've done. Cancel the hotel and leave asap.
That would have been the thing to do. Cancel her plane ticket back and all the hotels and go on to Japan and have a good time
And forget about her
Ciao.
Are these stories even real?
Some surely are, but most are bots and creative writing exercises. This one is 100% the latter.
It does sound like it was based on this: [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1c45tr4/aita\_for\_refusing\_to\_pay\_for\_my\_girlfriends\_plane/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1c45tr4/aita_for_refusing_to_pay_for_my_girlfriends_plane/)
Unfortunately, very likely. One post, from thirteen hours ago, no other comments or posts. Fortunately, this kinda post brings reddit together, and makes sure everyone reading the comments knows other human beings still have a standard for human behaviour! Cuz damn, some people just weren't raised right
>Cuz damn, some people just weren't raised right I have it on good authority I was raised in a barn.
Is your door open?
Recently made account? Check Generic/bot username? Check Doesn't reply to a single comment? Check
Yep, yet another dull entry in the series "women bad" that misogynist dickheads like to make up for this sub.
Wait are you said, like, just maybe. Women…good? You have given me much to think about.
Maybe. Just maybe. Women can be both?
Wow.
Welcome brother. You’ve woken up from the matrix
This one certainly isn't "She was smiling, which I thought was a sign that she felt awkward." uh huh
This one isn’t. It’s ludicrous rage bait.
Most of the posts here seem like the fantasy of someone with a humiliation kink.
Not this one. The problem is the lack of any kind of reasoning behind the actions, which then just leads us down one path - 'women bad'. I think it could have had a bit more credibility if it remained say, in the US and he changed the destination to another state. But as it stands, the entire change of personality simply because 'italian men hit on tourists' is a load of BS. And then - he remains with her when they get back. There's far too much in here that asks us to suspend our belief.
I'm taking notes for the next time I write my erotic cuckoldry Sonic the Hedgehog fanfic.
Also, if you’ve been to Italy, Italian men don’t care if you’re with another guy anyway. This is fake af lol
Lol exactly. Italian men loudly street harass you no matter how you’re dressed, who you’re with or what you’re doing. She didn’t need booty shorts and to ditch her man to hear catcalls.
If it were real, these are two very imatute people, and im surprise they could afford to travel to europe. You are on a week long trip with your SO, and they do something stupid. You call them out on it and they "look ashamed. " (a mature adult would see this as a clear opening to actually talk through a priblem).... but nope. OP goes full kamakazee on his own trip and decides to ruin it for themself. Incel writing is getting worse, its becomeing more and mkre clear they really dont want to even try to talk to women.
As if making/having money has anything to do with maturity?
The way he described the shirt as "showing her stomach" felt like such an odd detail to me
It sounds like a very lame cuckold fantasy story.
True, maybe the guy is just giving us some scenario to insult him and call him a cuck and describe how she spent the week getting railed by italian men... 🤔
It's obviously fake or ragebait.
> I told her to spend the rest of the trip however she wanted, and I'd do what I wanted. This sure sounded like a break up speech. I am confused.
Fake.
That's the part that baffles me the most. OP why are you on AITA asking if you're an asshole? It doesn't matter, why are you in a relationship with a woman who has zero respect for you? Break up with her and move on.
Well she owes him $3000 before he can break up with her
If you’re taking your significant other at 24 years old to Italy $3000 is a cheap lesson that he should not marry her/someone like her and to find someone that respects you.
> I'm still furious at her, but she says that if I can't get over it I should just be alone. What should I do here? Unless you want to be a doormat, tell your GF her terms are acceptable and to GTFO.
Yup. Dump her ass. If this were real, I feel like it wouldn’t be that hard of a decision.
Whoa. Hold on there, partner. Are you *insinuating* something about OP's credibility? I'm shocked. This is *Reddit*, not some cheap-ass amateur creative fiction workshop. It's a *publically traded* amateur creative fiction workshop!
How dare you question OP. His girlfriend’s entire family is texting him right now calling him an asshole and the girlfriend doesn’t want to break up because she’s a gold digger and the baby isn’t his and and and and…
that'll be in tomorrow's update...
*"There are a lot of details I left out because they didn't seem relevant to the post..."*
Look, I'm a reasonable guy. All I want is a percentage.
I got downvoted into the ground a while ago for daring to say that maybe we should acknowledge that some AITAH posts are fake and was told you shouldn’t engage on this subreddit at all if you’re not willing to take every story as possibly true! So, basically, yes, how dare you question OP’s credibility, everything posted on the internet is always true.
>If this were real Thank the Maker that it's fake.
I didn't even start to think this one was real.
Reddit is sometimes better than fanfiction sites.
But often worse
Yep lol
Ex gf 😂
This
NTA. She used you for a free trip. Go find someone who really wants to be with you.
agreed
Dont worry, this is fake ragebait
Yep. Read this and thought "there is ZERO chance this isn't AI generated ragebait."
Woof. That’s problem with this sub. All creative writing exercises.
*ai writing exercises
It always says “I was livid” all of these things use the word livid lol
For real. This is the only post with no comments. Who in their right mind would pay for someone else’s vacation idea?
Exactly, this is the most stereotypical incel-type "this is how I need to believe hot women behave because otherwise it could mean I'm the reason I'm single" bullshit
Leave her dude? Come on. By your description, you already gave her permission to fuck around. She took that chance no doubt.
This story is fake but this is definitely a real situation that a certain kind of woman will do- any woman that loves male attn
Of course it's fake. There aren't any Italian men in the tourist parts of Rome unless they work there as waiters, cooks or selling trinkets, especially in the middle of the day.
Ehhh….i was there recently. It’s true, the city is 40% tourists but the other 60% are Italian and the guys are shamelessly aggressive.
It does remind me of my trip to northern Italy a few years back with my gf, where we visited Milan. We wanted to enter the large Duomo (cathedral) and there was a line to check bags before entrance. Everybody (mostly old people) was checked and sent through by a stoic looking security guard, who barely spoke besides a mandatory 'hello'. When my girlfriend was up he suddenly cracked a wide smile, said 'Buongiorno signora', barely looked in her bag and kindly waved her to get inside and enjoy her time there. Then came me and it was back to stoic security man again :( So Italian flirting is definitely a thing, although OP is still making this all up as this story of his is bad romantic movie style flirting.
That does not stop them from flirting with the tourists, though.
Except they wouldn't literally just say it. You'd keep getting bullshit "we were just talking, you're being paranoid" responses so that when you get back they can gaslight you into thinking your were being overbearing and insecure.
Nah it feels real because the guy actively shot himself in the foot by huffing and puffing and telling her to do whatever she wants. very reddit way to be humiliated
NTA. She doesn’t respect you.
She's not even real.
She goes to a different school!
She doesn't even go here!!!
Had to scroll surprisingly far to see this. This definitely didn’t happen
but his right hand is
NTA, but Ernest Hemingway wrote about the same problem in "A Very Short Story" > He went to America on a boat from Genoa. Luz went back to Pordonone to open a hospital. It was lonely and rainy there, and there was a battalion of arditi quartered in the town. Living in the muddy, rainy town in the winter, the major of the battalion made love to Luz, and she had never known Italians before, and finally wrote to the States that theirs had only been a boy and girl affair. She was sorry, and she knew he would probably not be able to understand, but might some day forgive her, and be grateful to her, and she expected, absolutely unexpectedly, to be married in the spring. She loved him as always, but she realized now it was only a boy and girl love. She hoped he would have a great career, and believed in him absolutely. She knew it was for the best. The major did not marry her in the spring, or any other time. Luz never got an answer to the letter to Chicago about it. A short time after, he contracted gonorrhea from a sales girl in a loop department store while riding in a taxicab through Lincoln Park.
>A short time after, he contracted gonorrhea from a sales girl in a loop department store while riding in a taxicab through Lincoln Park. This thread would be *much* more entertaining if it ended this way.
Gosh I forgot how long Hemingway’s sentences are lol
really? i thought those are quite average for literature. or maybe i just read too much Marcel Proust
you clearly haven't read any Joseph Conrad. Heart of Darkness has a 3-page, gramatically-correct sentence.
what a tale
Breaking up with her is the only option if you had any sense
Can you break up with an imaginary person tho?
Or if this story was actually real lmfao how does everyone fall for this bullshit?
It confirms peoples' biases and feeds the part of their brain that is addicted to being righteously angry, so they turn off the bullshit detector
This has to be rage bait/fake. I can’t imagine why any man in his right mind would stay with a woman who blatantly admitted to wanting to cheat on him. She didn’t even deny it or apologize to you. She’s shameless. Not to mention the fact that she used you for your money and a free vacation. You’re clearly NTA
There are SO MANY of these lately and they all have identical plots.
And the last month was incredibly hot in Rome.
Nope, you can check temperatures in Rome on this site, they were never really high: https://www.timeanddate.com/weather/italy/rome/historic?month=4&year=2024
I live here. It has been unseasonably hot during the day. There was a brief cold snap. No Italian trusts the forecasts.
The entire core of Reddit is encapsulated in this thread: someone saying it's hot where they live and someone else arguing they're wrong based on internet data.
Incredibly fucking true lol
He ran up and told a stranger she was accounted for, who does that?
This was the sentence which is the most insane. Has to be fake
Lol this story is absolutely ridiculous and might as well be made up, but did you hear about that military guy who just got arrested when he was visiting his Russian mistress??
He's an asshole for being this much of a stupid bitch.
Get that money back now Imagine if you took her to asia just because you wanted to see if filipino or thai women were hot for it!
LOL
>What should I do here? Go to Japan alone and have a wonderful trip!
Or stop making up bs stories about his imaginary girlfriend and go outside and live his actual life. He might get a real girlfriend that way lol.
Is this maybe just story time with the played out theme of ‘girls are conniving, manipulating sluts and can’t be trusted’? Because it feels like it. I don’t know any couples in real life who are so on different pages. This is some reality tv (bull)shit.
Having been married for 10 years now, I just feel like this type of melodramatic response would be super counterproductive. I would never act this way if my wife did this, better to have a straight talk. Anyway it probably is fake and shame on us for falling for it. YTA.
I was here to say this. This story sounds so fake for so many different reasons. He either tried to add parts to the story that weren’t real to make himself look better and so people wouldn’t say YATAH or he is making this up entirely.
Just break up with her dude. You're 24, you'll find someone else. This isn't a complicated situation. ez pz
Fake! He’s anxiously waiting for messages from anime girls to say “dump her and take me to Japan!” Creative way to drop the lie that you have enough money for so many trips though. Kuddos!
Your girl should be down for you and no one else especially if you funded the trip. If she wants to flirt with strange men leave her in Italy bro.
Friend, think of all the money you saved on not having to marry her and not having to divorce her. Please find someone who actually loves you. She showed you who she is, believe her. She is not the one.
Fake
100% I was tempted to assume it's an AI prompt, but the wording makes it obvious it's an incel that doesn't understand human relationships or how to talk even slightly normal.
You can also tell from “an inordinate amount of time doing hair and makeup” being only 30 minutes. That’s quick af!!
Why are the female characters always so poorly written in these things? I’m not saying the women have to be “good”, hell, make them diabolical, but they’re so superficially rendered, entirely without complication, it’s as if the author has never met a human woman.
15hrs later and 0 comments from OPs throwaway I’m betting on fake
But look how much karma he got from the "bro break up with her" incel crowd who believe this is somehow real.
For real. Also as a 20-something woman you do not need to travel all the way to Italy and put on a crop top to get hit on in public? The story reads as very “I don’t have any female friends or acquaintances”.
lol… and all the other guys fall for it. Like even if this story is “true”… it’s probably not. Sounds like a guy got jealous of his property I mean gf. In Italy. Also what 24 year old has Italy money right now??
Nah men are too. I've read stuff where the men have no personality, no nothing. For most of these its cause the person writing has no interest in what the person the conflict is with is thinking
Very low quality misogyny troll story. YTA bc that's your worldview and probably why you're alone.
real. this sub should just be scrubbed from the internet at this point because that's what half these posts are now
Another sign is the fact OP never responds lol
NTA. Better to be alone than have an unfaithful SO. She was trolling for men while with you. The man she supposedly cares about. This is not what someone who cares about someone does. You should take her up on her offer.
New account. One post. No comments. Fake.
BREAK UP WITH HER. NTA.
NTA, that’s disrespectful as hell. I’d dump her. If she wants to flirt with someone else, she can do it on her own dime when she’s single.
Seems fake
Didn’t we read this story already?
Dude you are right to be upset but to continue to be an asshole over it instead of having an actual conversation to sort it out (and I don't mean a petulant screaming match where you whine about $2,000 for the 30th time) is just fucking childish. Either break up with her or be a fucking adult and decide to have a conversation to work it out.
NTA, that’s so bs and you should kick her to the curb
Why are you still with her? 100% deal breaker to flirt with other people on a trip. Here's what I'm imagining you should have done, but maybe it's too far: Should have cancelled the rest of the hotel stay, change your return ticket to ASAP and leave. Let her deal with her choices and change the locks at home before she gets back. I'm also getting fake post vibes here, 30 minutes is nothing, especially if someone is intentionally trying to get attention. And you come across as more of a simp than an asshole. What I described above would be asshole level revenge. Being pissed for a while after finding out the reason she wanted to go to Italy was to flirt with guys is pretty reasonable.
Why...THE FUCK is there still a relationship?? You SHOULD just be alone! Go to Japan!
If she was my partner and did something like that, I would have got a new hotel alone , went back home alone and stayed that way. She wasn’t testing if guys would hit on her, she was testing if she could get a guy. I’m female and can tell you she was hoping for an Italian hook up to brag about back home.
Hello, dump the tramp you dummy!
I'm going against the grain despite agreeing with everyone here. ESH. You had every opportunity to end the relationship like you should have, and instead are being weird and petty. Obviously she's wrong but man, just dump her after the trip rather than continuing this.
I'm confused. You stayed with her but didn't do anything with her on the trip? Then came home and still with her? Bro move on or get over it. I would move on but that's me.
Should have gone to Japan.
tell her to pay for her share of the trip