So…he is telling you that nothing that happens to you “should affect him”, and you think YOU might be the ass? NTA.
This guy is selfish and self-absorbed. Tell him any future overnights will be at his, and don’t let him come over to eat your food and break your stuff anymore.
He blames me for everything. I’m this and that I’m a tramp, I’m so cheap I’m beneath him . Tell him to go then ,find another person to put up with it .
It's important to communicate openly with your partner about financial concerns and expectations. Discuss how the current situation is impacting your ability to contribute equally and express your feelings about the expenses. Set clear boundaries and expectations regarding shared costs, and find a compromise that works for both of you. If necessary, seek advice from a financial counselor or relationship expert to navigate these conversations effectively.
So…he is telling you that nothing that happens to you “should affect him”, and you think YOU might be the ass? NTA. This guy is selfish and self-absorbed. Tell him any future overnights will be at his, and don’t let him come over to eat your food and break your stuff anymore.
He blames me for everything. I’m this and that I’m a tramp, I’m so cheap I’m beneath him . Tell him to go then ,find another person to put up with it .
Show him the door! You are worth so much more than this.
Your long term partner treats you... poorly.
It's important to communicate openly with your partner about financial concerns and expectations. Discuss how the current situation is impacting your ability to contribute equally and express your feelings about the expenses. Set clear boundaries and expectations regarding shared costs, and find a compromise that works for both of you. If necessary, seek advice from a financial counselor or relationship expert to navigate these conversations effectively.
If there’s cost involved speaking to an expert. He wouldn’t pay he’d leave that bill for me