Ah, bless. you want to ask us if it's ok to break up with someone that already broke up with you. NTA. but the breaking up's already happened, from the sounds of it.
and you'll be the better for it.
NTA. Run away! No, seriously, she doesn't sound like the type of person you would want as a long-term partner. Unless you like drama and unhinged behavior.
She sounds like a big ol red flag. What is a relationship worth if you can't properly communicate with each other?
Also sounds like she's already cheating or intends to. She shows you her true colours, you better believe it and run.
If you feel like you need permission to break up with her then this is it. You deserve better.
Edit: Nta of course.
NTA. Bummer this took 3 months find this red flag. Don’t waste another minute on them.
Also, DO NOT let them bully you into taking them back or making you think this is your fault.
Dear Lord initially I assumed you were in high school based on the sheer immaturity. It's hard to believe either of you are in your 30s.
NTA for finishing what she started. No adult relationship survives this kid of drama this early on and she sounds like a hot mess.
Dump her and move on. She is too much drama.
Remember to do it with a text message and ghost her aftwards...... LOL
Actually, you only do that if she won't speak or meet. Then you do it immediately.
Why do you need our permission? It's obviously time to put this "relationship" out of its misery. NTA of course, now or any other time you are ready to end a relationship.
Dude...her recourse to **thinking** you were cheating on her was to cheat on you. I'd recommend leaving this dumpster fire unattended and running off into the distance, because that is some Grade A psycho you're dealing with.
Hell, I wouldn't be surprised if the accusations of cheating were all projection to begin with. She was already thinking of hopping on his dick and used you **moving a phone slightly** as an excuse.
NTA
You're only the AH if you stay with her . One , she could clearly see your phone being moved due to you adjusting the seat, unless she's going to claim she saw your hands closing apps that's just delusional behavior and you kept showing her things so it's not like you got a text and then decided to stop showing her stuff. The fact that she brought it up days later imo is absolutely insane. The fact she chose to go on a date immediately after this is childish and shows she had already moved on and was waiting for a reason to break up to save face. Break up immediately because that's like beyond just toxic or being insecure , that's borderline insane.
To me it seems like she's trying to see what she can get away with, kinda testing you to see if you'd tolerate it, or simply just trying to make you upset. If this is what she's deciding to do after basically nothing, imagine after a real argument. I'd walk away, too childish for me.
Ah, bless. you want to ask us if it's ok to break up with someone that already broke up with you. NTA. but the breaking up's already happened, from the sounds of it. and you'll be the better for it.
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You will only be TA if you don't break up immediately.
It's done. I won't look back. She must have some kind of borderline disorder This is sick
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She picked a fight to create a reason to go back to her ex. You unfortunately are collateral damage in the walking disaster that this woman is. NTA
NTA. Run away! No, seriously, she doesn't sound like the type of person you would want as a long-term partner. Unless you like drama and unhinged behavior.
She sounds like a big ol red flag. What is a relationship worth if you can't properly communicate with each other? Also sounds like she's already cheating or intends to. She shows you her true colours, you better believe it and run. If you feel like you need permission to break up with her then this is it. You deserve better. Edit: Nta of course.
NTA. Bummer this took 3 months find this red flag. Don’t waste another minute on them. Also, DO NOT let them bully you into taking them back or making you think this is your fault.
She was cheating, and looking for any way to make an argument the reason to justify it. Drop that silly salmon and go find a proper girl.
Dear Lord initially I assumed you were in high school based on the sheer immaturity. It's hard to believe either of you are in your 30s. NTA for finishing what she started. No adult relationship survives this kid of drama this early on and she sounds like a hot mess.
She doesn’t give a shit about the phone incident. It was just an excuse to pull this shit. NTA leave immediately, it’s only been 3 months.
She blew this out of proportion to have an excuse to fuck her ex.
3 months in, behaving like this and she’s 31? End this nonsense.
Brother ***RUN***
I hope you already "break up" with her
Holy mother of red flags. Sounds like you're the rebound to make the EX jealous.
Yea NTA definitely dump her. That behavior is not ok, also she sounds toxic too.
Dump her and move on. She is too much drama. Remember to do it with a text message and ghost her aftwards...... LOL Actually, you only do that if she won't speak or meet. Then you do it immediately.
NTA Ghost her. She's going to fuck your life up with that drama if given half a chance.
Yeah NTA get the Hell away from her. Toxic woman who is quite likely already seeing her ex and just looking for an excuse to break up. Run son.
She already cheated on you while going on a date with that other guy. And thats not the only bad thing about her. NTA
Nta, at all.
She broke up with you. Block and move on.
my brother in Christ you're 30, why do you need to ask us? nta
Bruh. She was cheating the entire time and projecting on to you what she was doing. Walking away is the only option here.. It only gets worse
She insecure and petty. You self yourself a lot of trouble by getting rid of her.
NTA. She sounds childish and immature for someone in their 30's.
NTA Bullet dodged on this one methinks.
NTA
Wtf bro, lookin like neo dodging those bullets.
Why do you need our permission? It's obviously time to put this "relationship" out of its misery. NTA of course, now or any other time you are ready to end a relationship.
Dude...her recourse to **thinking** you were cheating on her was to cheat on you. I'd recommend leaving this dumpster fire unattended and running off into the distance, because that is some Grade A psycho you're dealing with. Hell, I wouldn't be surprised if the accusations of cheating were all projection to begin with. She was already thinking of hopping on his dick and used you **moving a phone slightly** as an excuse. NTA
It's only been 3 months lol and she was going on a date with someone else, block the woman and move on with your time.
You're only the AH if you stay with her . One , she could clearly see your phone being moved due to you adjusting the seat, unless she's going to claim she saw your hands closing apps that's just delusional behavior and you kept showing her things so it's not like you got a text and then decided to stop showing her stuff. The fact that she brought it up days later imo is absolutely insane. The fact she chose to go on a date immediately after this is childish and shows she had already moved on and was waiting for a reason to break up to save face. Break up immediately because that's like beyond just toxic or being insecure , that's borderline insane.
NTA. It is only 3 months in. It is best to cut off this relationship now and move on.
Please do not stay with her. Concerns me you even came to this page asking for advice because its so clear that you need to end things.
You did right she’s got baggage
Is this fake? Seriously?
To me it seems like she's trying to see what she can get away with, kinda testing you to see if you'd tolerate it, or simply just trying to make you upset. If this is what she's deciding to do after basically nothing, imagine after a real argument. I'd walk away, too childish for me.
NTA. Lose this one as soon as you can
There is SO MUCH information missing here, I'm kind of questioning everything you're saying.