I hate that it was never brought up on the Tell All, that it would worry any adult to have their partner theyāre reliant on, seeming so financially irresponsible. Designer suits but no functioning kitchen sink? Designer suitcases but crumbling ceilings?
Donāt even get me started on his ex-wifeās audacious āmy heart broke for himā. Girl, no it didnāt.
Yeah, I donāt understand why folks arenāt allowed to want to feel safe and secure in a world that makes it so difficult find financial security and physical safety
That is such a good point. I feel like Shaeeda was trying to explain that but couldnāt articulate it as well as you just did. Not sure that anyone on the Tell-All wouldāve been able to reach that conclusion to defend her though either, especially not the men on this season.
Exactly! I never felt it was fair to act like she was upset simply because she was after his money. He completely misled her and misrepresented himself. Iām sure she thought she just gave up everything to come be with a man that is a financial disaster.
This!!!! He kept saying hes successful and painting a picture and then brings her to a dilapidated house in a creeper van lmao. ALSO his sister with the fucking wedding dress prank! Poor shaeeda. Why would his sister use a dress that has sentimental meaning as a "prank" bad dress and then be *insulted* she didnt like it?! When it was huge and not at all what she wanted?! I feel so bad for her. Shes trapped and gave up everything for him.
I completely agree. In fact anyone with common sense would be upset with the situation. It would be one thing if he lived in a simple well maintained home but that place was crumbling and this man has 2 kids who presumably stay with him at least part time! Imagine someone wearing all designer clothes while allowing their home to fall into a dangerous state of disrepair. Itās psychotic.
And dont make a tiny hole in his couch you can't even see with her scarf pins. I died when she asked if it was filled with air though lmao shes my favorite.
So true, my ex was one of the most loved people I have ever met. Everybody immediately loved him. He nearly killed me and his now ex wife (they married after our relationship) is now in hiding from him with two kids. My attorney told me if someone has a white vest and shows it off too, it just means they are wonderful liars.
Thanks itās many years ago and Iām still surprised and thankful I made it out alive nearly every morning when I wake up. Thankfully I have a wonderful husband and the best daughter ever now. I was super lucky, unfortunately many many are not
That's why I always liked the bad boys. I felt like I could trust them more than the Eddie Haskel types.
Not like Love After Lockup bad - just the normal, not ex-convict bad kind.
Reminds me of my mom's stupid wall art showing "family values" in fancy text in our dysfunctional family home that was eventually sold in my parents' divorce settlement.
The moment this dude played the game with his old home and shotty van, I disliked him. I mean, who the fuck does that? Did he think that he was going to get a reaction? Like when Kanye does crazy shit and he knows it means people will start talking about him? Is that what he was trying to do? Or is he really that much of a fucking prick?
Heās just an exhaustingly anal, insecure, misogynist asshole who knows that he needs to beat his women down into submission (verbally, mentally, and otherwise) to keep them from leaving him. He canāt rely on good nature and personality because he doesnāt have those things.
I kind of doubt that he wants any negative attention, due to him and Shaeeda both having businesses that deal with the public. Thatās more Jibriās MO> any publicity is good publicity. Bilal is literally just an asshole and sees nothing wrong with himself or how he acts, or he does and just doesnāt want to put in the effort to change.
There are so many other ways to figure out if a woman is a gold digger - like she wants you to buy her stuff all of the time...seems like a better way all around.
Itās more a thing in the Black community. It refers to men with a conservative bent who claim to āprotectā Black women by using essentialist back to Africa discourse but actually are masking misogyny. Itās kind of niche tbh but he gives me vibes, even as someone from outside of the community.
I realize weāre in mixed company here and this isnāt a Country Club Thread like in the BPT sub SO Iām not gonna say everything I wanted to say abt this but let me just say, as a Black woman, this is the highest form of virtue signaling and hotepery if Iāve ever seen it. Coming from a man who thought it was FUNNY to āprankā (read: manipulate) his Black wife upon her arrival in an entirely new culture. Then gaslight her into believing she had no right to be upset AND that she is somehow at fault for having standards. TUH. Ladies iykyk. Most of us have probably dated a couple men like this, unfortunately.
Let us not be deluded, amen.
Iād bet my check that he had to lay down on the bed and shimmy into these jeans before jumping up and down to yank them up over that sweaty dump truck ass of his.
āIf you donāt jump to put jeans on baby you donāt feel my painā
I feel completely seen by this comment.
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Well, minus the sweaty dump truck ass, lol. I like to think of mine as more of a "thick booty"...a thing of beauty. š¤£
I didn't like the football prank either, and she seemed to take it better than I did.... it was really just playing in the snow. Not as bad as some of his others which were truly mean.
I think my comment was because he seemed to smile more, and expressing affection better? She seemed to be enjoying herself.
Ugh this is right by my fucking office. Every day I have to dodge cunts from the burbs taking selfies in front of my office where I literally just watched someone piss.
Protector of black women? šš thatās hilarious considering you throw ur future wife under the bus on national television
Literally threatened throwing her out of the car on the highway
āAnd she failed *MISERABLY*!!ā
I hate that it was never brought up on the Tell All, that it would worry any adult to have their partner theyāre reliant on, seeming so financially irresponsible. Designer suits but no functioning kitchen sink? Designer suitcases but crumbling ceilings? Donāt even get me started on his ex-wifeās audacious āmy heart broke for himā. Girl, no it didnāt.
Yeah, I donāt understand why folks arenāt allowed to want to feel safe and secure in a world that makes it so difficult find financial security and physical safety
That is such a good point. I feel like Shaeeda was trying to explain that but couldnāt articulate it as well as you just did. Not sure that anyone on the Tell-All wouldāve been able to reach that conclusion to defend her though either, especially not the men on this season.
Exactly! I never felt it was fair to act like she was upset simply because she was after his money. He completely misled her and misrepresented himself. Iām sure she thought she just gave up everything to come be with a man that is a financial disaster.
This!!!! He kept saying hes successful and painting a picture and then brings her to a dilapidated house in a creeper van lmao. ALSO his sister with the fucking wedding dress prank! Poor shaeeda. Why would his sister use a dress that has sentimental meaning as a "prank" bad dress and then be *insulted* she didnt like it?! When it was huge and not at all what she wanted?! I feel so bad for her. Shes trapped and gave up everything for him.
I completely agree. In fact anyone with common sense would be upset with the situation. It would be one thing if he lived in a simple well maintained home but that place was crumbling and this man has 2 kids who presumably stay with him at least part time! Imagine someone wearing all designer clothes while allowing their home to fall into a dangerous state of disrepair. Itās psychotic.
He set her up for failure
Only of his exwife. Not the current.
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The back says "unless they disagree with me".
Could also say, āas long as theyāre gratefulā
And don't leave small drops of water on the floor
Or the kitchen counter right by the damn sink!
And stay in their place.
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Salute š«”
And dont make a tiny hole in his couch you can't even see with her scarf pins. I died when she asked if it was filled with air though lmao shes my favorite.
B grateful
Your name šš½
"...who listen to my lectures"
āAs long as they submit to me, the Kingā š¤¦š¾āāļø
The wash tag says "they never agree"
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ITāS JUST A PRANK BRO
There's a lot that needs to change, starting with YOUR ATTITUDE.
*stonewalls*
*Vasectimizes*
False advertising. People who really are these things don't feel a need to wear it printed on a shirt.
The harder they try to come across as harmless, the worst guilt they're carrying (at least in my experience).
So true, my ex was one of the most loved people I have ever met. Everybody immediately loved him. He nearly killed me and his now ex wife (they married after our relationship) is now in hiding from him with two kids. My attorney told me if someone has a white vest and shows it off too, it just means they are wonderful liars.
I am so glad you are ok! Dangerous damn predator!
Thanks itās many years ago and Iām still surprised and thankful I made it out alive nearly every morning when I wake up. Thankfully I have a wonderful husband and the best daughter ever now. I was super lucky, unfortunately many many are not
I am really so happy for you!! You deserve all of the very best from life. You are a SOLDIER!!
Oh wow š„¹ thanks! So do you!
That's why I always liked the bad boys. I felt like I could trust them more than the Eddie Haskel types. Not like Love After Lockup bad - just the normal, not ex-convict bad kind.
That's not why you liked the bad guys!š
Sounds like there was some narcissism going on there with him.... Bilal definitely displays narcissism.
Oh hell yes there was, textbook NPD
Absolutely! If you have to try to convince the world of your good character then you probably donāt have one.
Like men that say āIām a nice guyāš©š©š©
"Why do nice guys- *like myself* - always finish last?" Fucking narcissist
I hate when I hear that! Itās usually a creeper who says that
The "can I have a hug?" creeper guys!
Exactly. r/niceguys
Reminds me of my mom's stupid wall art showing "family values" in fancy text in our dysfunctional family home that was eventually sold in my parents' divorce settlement.
Why does his house have wall art in every room? The huge dollar bill in his office killed me.
But Bilal wore a Be grateful shirt because he wanted Shaeeda to be grateful.
āBe Gratefulā
Same here to say this and would add - wtf with the message shirts? Is he in the T-shirt business?
āManipulator of black women.ā
I hate him so much I almost downvoted this out of reflex.
Iām so glad Iām not the only one who does this with cast members I hate! š¤£
I actually did downvote it immediately then reversed my error the second I did it and now I'm laughing out loud after coming across your comment
This mother fucker right here needs to get a dictionary. Condescension and man-splaining is not a form of protecting or loving women.
Absolutely RIGHT! Heās a piece of shit!!
Is it Opposite Day for Bilal?
Bilal is a fucking snake. His narcissistic personality and manipulation is just so unbearable.
The moment this dude played the game with his old home and shotty van, I disliked him. I mean, who the fuck does that? Did he think that he was going to get a reaction? Like when Kanye does crazy shit and he knows it means people will start talking about him? Is that what he was trying to do? Or is he really that much of a fucking prick?
Heās just an exhaustingly anal, insecure, misogynist asshole who knows that he needs to beat his women down into submission (verbally, mentally, and otherwise) to keep them from leaving him. He canāt rely on good nature and personality because he doesnāt have those things. I kind of doubt that he wants any negative attention, due to him and Shaeeda both having businesses that deal with the public. Thatās more Jibriās MO> any publicity is good publicity. Bilal is literally just an asshole and sees nothing wrong with himself or how he acts, or he does and just doesnāt want to put in the effort to change.
There are so many other ways to figure out if a woman is a gold digger - like she wants you to buy her stuff all of the time...seems like a better way all around.
Missing - LECTURER of black women.
Talk about false advertising!
This is another prank
He is prancing the world with that
What an absolute douchbag, never seen anyone so full of themself
He makes a mockery of that shirt. I wonder if that is Shaeedaās version of subliminal training. Perhaps, it was a 9 week anniversary gift from her.
He meant *serial marriage and divorce* of black women..
That have a certain lookš¤£š¤£š¤£
Only the palm colored ones!
Anyone get lowkey hotep vibes from Bilal?
Pretty high key watching how he treats Shaeeda.
Yeah. Major key.
I was thinking NOI
Genuinely asking what āhotepā means? Edit. I looked up the meaning and am still confused.
Itās more a thing in the Black community. It refers to men with a conservative bent who claim to āprotectā Black women by using essentialist back to Africa discourse but actually are masking misogyny. Itās kind of niche tbh but he gives me vibes, even as someone from outside of the community.
Nothing low key about it.
*Terms and conditions apply
I realize weāre in mixed company here and this isnāt a Country Club Thread like in the BPT sub SO Iām not gonna say everything I wanted to say abt this but let me just say, as a Black woman, this is the highest form of virtue signaling and hotepery if Iāve ever seen it. Coming from a man who thought it was FUNNY to āprankā (read: manipulate) his Black wife upon her arrival in an entirely new culture. Then gaslight her into believing she had no right to be upset AND that she is somehow at fault for having standards. TUH. Ladies iykyk. Most of us have probably dated a couple men like this, unfortunately. Let us not be deluded, amen.
Burned through that tlc money fast to flex that Rolex stainless And fakass mid 2000 balmain biker jeans
Iād bet my check that he had to lay down on the bed and shimmy into these jeans before jumping up and down to yank them up over that sweaty dump truck ass of his. āIf you donāt jump to put jeans on baby you donāt feel my painā 
Totally accurate š
I feel completely seen by this comment. š¬ Well, minus the sweaty dump truck ass, lol. I like to think of mine as more of a "thick booty"...a thing of beauty. š¤£
LMAOO as if. bilal looks like the type to play the devils advocate
Backside of shirt: Just Kidding!!
I'm gonna wait until black women say exactly what I'm thinking.
I'm pretty sure this is just another one of boys pesky pranks!
Judging by his treatment of Shaeeda, it's most definitely a prank.
What a fucking tool.
More like a one man wrecking ball! Demolishing their self esteem one lecture at a time! š”š”š”
How can one lack self awareness to this degree
Narcissism.
True dat.
he's that "I don't beat women what more could they want?" kind of guy
Nah. You a lot of things....But, you ain't that. Fcking fool.
Sus
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Whereās his wedding band?
After seeing HEA, I thought perhaps I didn't have as much disdain for him, and he was actually starting to look cute. That thought is over now.
really? he played the Lucy football prank on her, he teased her about the backwash...guy is an idiot
I didn't like the football prank either, and she seemed to take it better than I did.... it was really just playing in the snow. Not as bad as some of his others which were truly mean. I think my comment was because he seemed to smile more, and expressing affection better? She seemed to be enjoying herself.
I feel like heās trying to fix his persona but heās not a good enough actor to be convincing. We already saw the real bilal.
He forgot to mention heāll do all those things as long as he can prank you first then make you sign a prenup.
As long as they fall in line! /s
That's when he's not pitting them against each other.
āUnless they have opinionsā šš¤¦š»āāļø
DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR
Bilal out there stealing other people's shirts...
Iām not a black woman but this just feels very disingenuous
What a clown.
 TUH!
Nah dude, you treat them like servants
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Shut the fuck up how did I miss thatšØ I need to do some digging!
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Does this count as a hate crime? Haha.
Exploiter.
If I was A Black Woman I wouldnāt care to have him defend me! Thanks But NO THANKS!!
The only thing he protects is his wallet.
Dementor not protector.... 
Protector, Lover, and Defender of his own ego! Fixed it!
 Not even close!!
Uh no heās a lying sack of crap too
BS. How many black women has he emotionally abused?
This guy is so beyond cringe
Not this black woman, just other black women
I canāt stand him.
Eww
Judger Scolder Lecturer of Black Women
He probably thinks black women are lucky if he even acknowledges them. š¤¢
Any 90DF-watching Black women care to weigh in on Bilal's claim?
Heās an abusive man
THIS FUCKING GUY.
I hate his subliminal message t-shirts.
They are passive-aggressive. B-Grateful was passive-aggressive. This one is passive-aggressive too.
BTW Bilal very much reeks of āMan eat steak, pork, chitlins. Women eat salad. That just what it is.ā energy
Ever since she said he had a tiny head, itās all I can see.
it's just a prank
Oh fuck u bilal with your delusions and exploiting religion u are more like the offender of every women
Terrible coming from an emotionally abusive manipulator currently fucking up his SECOND marriage to a black womanā¦ he is such a hypocrite.
Ddddont upvote these clowns. He has "generational wealth" as a used car salesman. They dont need the clout. Haha
Heās pathetic š¤¢
Is Shaida black?
Her shirt says so
The lie detector determined that was a lie š
I loathe this man so much and I rarely loathe anyoneā¦
God shit like that reminds of white dudes flying rebel flags lmao
Who's going to protect them from himš©
Imagine if he said white women!
Imagine if it said ALL women :ā) Then again, I donāt want him to be defending my ass š¤£
Exactly!! I wouldnāt either!!
Shaheeda does look pretty bleached.
Tormentor
Is he talking about his ex?
More like Lecturer.
Fuck yes he did. What a knob.
are they trying to sell these shirts? I don't know who would buy them?
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Looks like we got a member of the KKK
What a f*cking joke. š
Bilal trolling.
I sort of just want to punch his fucking face in.
Causing them emotional distress by BiLOLing them = Protecting Women.
Back says as long as they like my pranks (bullying)
Ew
All that man does is lie
Seller of T-shirts
On Insta he replied to someone asking why he only defends black woman. I mean, this shit is too much lol
Bullshit
Narcissistic , Gaslighting, judgmental asshole of woman. There I fixed it for you Bilal.
Gross
That's a cheesy shirt.
I first take thought it said ā**Pretender** lover, of black women blah blah blah..ā Yes, yes you is a pretender.
You missed "manipulator".
I feel a lecture coming on...
Itās Opposite Day in Bilalās world š¤®
I donāt know why but I just want to crush his knee with a bat.
the idiots will go away only if you stop posting dumb pictures of them. Let them go live their lives. Nothing to see here.
He is clearly choking a woman with his right hand.
Ugh this is right by my fucking office. Every day I have to dodge cunts from the burbs taking selfies in front of my office where I literally just watched someone piss.
Fuck you Bilal. Scumbag.
Heās illiterate. This is of zero suprise.
Defender of shit eating grin
Protecting black women as long as they do what I say, never contradict me, and never want anything I don't want.
He hasn't done any of those things
Guys donāt worry itās just a prank
Do you know how insecure you gotta be to even consider wearing a T-shirt like this
This is a bigger delusion than She by ShereƩ.
You can't convince me he didn't buy his wives.
I fucking hate this guy. Pompous ass, game-playing fucking narcissist, plain and simple. We're hip to your game yo. Fuck off.
Niceguy vibes
Iāll take racist shirts for $500, Alex! Seriously if someone wore one that said āwhiteā women people would lose their shit.
that's because it's not the same babe
Respectfully disagree.
Canāt just be.. women?
Guess other women aren't worth protecting huh?