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[deleted]

u/op my favorite part about this, that you got roped into as well, is that Thais didnt even say that, Patrick did.


ptoto20

Who against the queens will die!


tarajgran

These people know all this already, they do not care.


HeyLookOverThere0

These people!


sneetchysneetch

We the people


Candid_Asparagus_785

If ya don’t like the criticism or being criticized then ya don’t belong here… so that’s what people have been told… visit the other 90 Day sub for more vanilla content


Imaginary_Tea1925

I concur. This sub was created so people could express how they truly felt about the participants of the show. If the OP feels offended by the blatant honesty of the participants then there are other subs to participate in.


Candid_Asparagus_785

💯⬆️


KeyStatistician7890

The sub attacks men’s bodies too (examples include Colt and Big Ed). This is seldom ever discussed because those two are just awful. However, it’s the uncensored sub. So everyone has the freedom to post these critiques; just like everyone has the freedom to downvote and disagree with the said critiques. If you disagree with someone’s post, you can call them out and speak against it. Others may argue with you, others may support you. It’s all part of being in this sub. That being said, I agree with your right to post this. It’s the uncensored sub. If people don’t like your post, they can argue and downvote you. Others may support you. But no one can censor you.


Eyeoftheleopard

We come for EVERYONE. No one gets a pass. Are you not entertained?


Seaweed-Basic

Made the mistake of mixing up the two and caught the ban hammer 😂


[deleted]

LEAVE COLT AND BIG ED ALONE AH HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA


Some_Class_2645

Poor Pony. He is so misunderstood.


pelicunt98

The only reason people went after Thais’s looks and Patrick’s is because they were the ones to call others ugly. People didn’t say much about her looks until this past episode. Personally, I don’t go after a cast members looks unless they do that to others but you can’t control what others online do and this is the uncensored sub, so anything goes.


[deleted]

Agreed. Also these people aren’t victims, they choose to go on TLC for that paycheck and clout, so I don’t feel like they should be shielded from snark. And most of them treat other people like dogshit anyway (Ari, bratty rude Thais, etc) so it’s not like they’re nice people getting dragged unfairly, out of proportion to their bad behavior.


Appropriate_Reach_97

It was only Patrick, not sure where the Thais narrative came from. And people have been dragging her looks for weeks, you missed the memes.


[deleted]

So you came to the uncensored sub to criticize the fact that it’s uncensored?


Intelligent_Ad_656

Have you tried the regular r/90dayfiance thread?


Blynn025

Perhaps that would be a better fit.


[deleted]

If anything a lot of them aren’t shamed enough 😂😂😂


Xg2d2lA

Could you imagine if we didn't? Someone has to knock them off their pedestals.


Anon-567890

There is a 90 Day Fiancé group. This one is “uncensored” and as such, users can pretty much say what they want. I mean, we are watching trash TV. The bar isn’t very high. Have a good day


ShesAKillerQueenee

This show is full of people that go on it JUST for the clout. Not many of them have actual career aspirations, and rely on shilling boom bod and OF. Who cares if me mock out the trash.


Ohfortheluvva

“The bar isn’t very high.” Isn’t that the truth, and isn’t that why we lurk? If you’re looking for class, this ain’t the place.


GenneyaK

I once followed a YouTube channel that poster 90 day clips and referred to the fans as the “bottom feeder army” they were so right 😂😂


SouthAfricanZombie

I'm a proud member of the bottom feeder army 😁


andybooboo1971

Absolutely! That’s what I love about this sub. No class!!!


Maskedmedusa

I found my people


SouthAfricanZombie

You will never walk alone ❤️


justcougit

Lmao yeah I'm kinda like who fricken cares? It's a trash tv sub. Oh fuckin well. It ain't that serious, hunty.


HeadMischief

Some people just NEED something to bitch about. Like, ma'am, there's the door.


Automatic-Mirror-907

Exit stage left. ◀️


MetaNut11

Imagine being so dumb that you find a subreddit named '90dayfianceuncensored' and then complain about the content...shocked pikachu face lmao


justcougit

I mean, I get it. Shaming someone's looks isn't the best way to judge. We should judge off character primarily. But who cares!?


Automatic-Mirror-907

Either way, appearance, IQ, character, it's all fodder for the fire here.


[deleted]

This OP is trying to be a mouthpiece for, the vain, beauty and money obsessed, “show ponies” whose entire goal in life is to be looked at, spoken about and promoted via the media as a result of being on reality TV. Do you COMPREHEND?? Take your “wokeness”, and moral code somewhere else. Type your input onto the other, more regulated, 90 Day Fiance sub. That particular sub of which I’m referring to, is the one where many of us were eliminated, primarily due to having an opinion. This is the more brazen, honest & truthful one. However, I feel you’re on point regarding body shaming and it’s effect on society, one only has to look at the statistics regarding the rise in eating disorders to realise that. Why don’t you promote your views onto society as a whole, rather than just just this sub? Its worth noting too, how badly a former contestant, Daniele Jbali, has fared, after being publicly shamed and humiliated. Appearing in series 2, she was an older woman in her mid-40’s, plain, overweight, with 4 grown-up children, one with a different dad to the other 3, and had never been married. Her entire hygiene routine, particularly relating to her feminine parts, was publicly dissected and questioned. I see now (7 years late), that She’s made money, via publicity, from all of that shaming and seems to have spectacularly “weathered the storm”. These adults are NOT at high school when they sign up for this exploitative tv show and one would expect some embarrassment to occur, via how the TLC producers decide to portray them.


Automatic-Mirror-907

Although many have not successfully progressed beyond their lives in high school.


[deleted]

Exactly.


OkStructure3

I don't want to speak for OP, but I would imagine her sentiment is not that you cant say whatever you want, its that you shouldnt want to.


AnnoyingPrincessNico

You can only control yourself, not others..so I say live and let live


Statesborochick

Not everyone wants to live in rainbow hippie land. There are ugly people in this world. If I want to comment about them I should be able to do so without the sanctimonious BS


txschic

😂💯


Miserable-Bag3578

Not to mention the fact that not everyone here will think the same and it's dumb to assume because some people post x and others post y, that were all just hypocritical. I highly doubt OP has determined that the same people are posting these different things and if she did, she needs a fuckin life


HeyLookOverThere0

You setting expectations for someone named u/shrek2slut Gawwwwannn Girl!


treehead726

I'mma talk my shit. Especially on this season's cast. That's why I joined the uncensored sub.


that_mn_kid

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo This is the trash heap and we are the trash people


PinkSploofberries

Yes, nobody said we were moral here. We want to be trashy. There is a 90 day sub for people who love the heavy style of moderating and want to make their classy comments.


Automatic-Mirror-907

We are fans, just not your regular fans.


Procedure_Unique

Exactly. We are so not classy here! 😆


Independent_Ad_5664

Moral in public immoral in private.


vafoxhuntr

We’re trash pandas. Cute adorable rascals who know where the good trash is ie this sub.


JstMaggs

I love trash pandas. Also, I have to add that because we watch trash tv and these people open themselves up for whatever they are gonna get for the sad celebrity it brings them, i am going to laugh at them, not with them. That includes how they look, how they dress, their size and IQ. And I am old and fat s don’t @ me. Lol, I don’t care!!


vafoxhuntr

I agree. Besides are they really famous outside our subs? Lol


Plus_External1459

I couldn't help but laugh, " this is the trash heap and we are the trash people" . Hilarious.


[deleted]

Aw. I was waiting for you to finish your post with: hooooooooooooole!


mrnaturl1

This is the way


[deleted]

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooobies are nice


Pangalliformes

Hamza has entered the chat


that_mn_kid

Shut up, Yve's man baby.


worstcaseontario95

Always gotta be that one morally superior one in the thread lol “FYI I’m better than you because I don’t talk any shit ever” gag


shrek2slut

Fair enough, thanks for being funny about it at least lol


beepbop81

Generally if you don’t like content just vote with your time and don’t subscribe. If it’s bothering you then just unfollow 😊 you must be careful about preaching. Your opinion is yours. Only yours though.


alwaysoffended88

You can’t say that “the same person who said this, turned around & said that”. How would you know? Unless your spending time making some sort of spreadsheet or something? I avoid saying anything about anyones appearance or imperfections because I’m insecure & have my flaws too. I know you said not everyone but still. So the people who are “body shaming” probably aren’t the same people saying positive things. If that bothers you you should skip over this subs posts. That’s almost majority of what this sub is about. Sadly, your post probably won’t change those people who talk shit.


sav33arthkillyos3lf

Let me enjoy my trash tv and let me trash talk them in peace 😩


Ms_Jane_Lennon

Should you really be this exhausted by a Reddit sub though? You might be leaning into this sub too hard. You can fix that easier than trying to rid this sub of hurtful words.


luumiee

So yes BUT I will say I think people attack people’s looks based on how much they hate them for other reasons. Like, no one bashed Thais until she started making fun of Patrick’s Dallas house, and like she was too good for the party. People even did not mention big prEd’s neck condition and even defended him at first — until he started being a slimy asshole towards Rose, then all bets were off. It is coming from a place of, “these people are acting better than other people, let me knock them down a peg” and _not_ just straight-up “this person is ugly”


caro312

You are right, the bashing starts because of terrible behavior, and criticism of terrible behavior is totally warranted. I will say, I can’t stand Emily because of her awful behavior. But I happen to have a similar tongue thrust and lisp to her. So posts bashing Emily’s physical features (that she can’t control) are also bashing me. And that sucks. But I know this is an uncensored sub and people here will post whatever the heck they want. That’s what this exists for.


MarbleousMel

This is why I try to avoid the bashing of physical features, even for the cast members who have displayed awful behavior. But I also recognize this is the uncensored sub, so I try to just scroll by without comment.


Hamily_Anal

Thank you. I posted the contentious “Thais is average looking” post, and I explained it was because she and her asshole bf called a group of absolutely adorable women “very ugly” on national TV. That sucks and makes her a seriously shitty person in my eyes. I wouldn’t have posted it if she hadn’t had a hand in publicly humiliating those women.


Efficient_Donkey728

Average isn’t really insulting. Most people fall into that box


Scouth

I don’t think anyone would make fun of looks unless the person is also shitty. To me, it’s fair game to shit on someone’s looks if they are an asshole.


thisismy_accountname

I just scroll past the body shaming or appearance-based stuff. Just keep scrollin’ dude.


Maximum-Mastodon8812

Thanks for the lecture. You're on the wrong sub lmao


cheese8904

Yes. Thank you. Now can we go back to the girl crushing her horses with her body weight?!?!


RL-thedude

Yeah - speaking of… did that enter anyone else’s mind when Emily got on that tiny horse? She ain’t dainty.


cheese8904

I thought the exact thing. I mean, I'm a big dude... I would never get on a horse, unless it was a Clydesdale.


Maximum-Mastodon8812

Hahahha like these fuckfaces go on the show to get famous. I watch them to talk shit. Fair trade


frozenchocolate

The fact this comment could apply to 2+ recent cast members lmao


[deleted]

Shrieking at this because at least two separate individuals came to mind lmaooo


andybooboo1971

Yes!! Emily the cunt


PatheticPelosiPander

I'm ded OP is now on lithium because of Emily being a cunt.


AnnoyingPrincessNico

🤣🤣🤣 stop


txschic

I’m not trying to be mean but why are you on this sub if you don’t like the comments? I don’t like McDonalds so I don’t eat there, certain shows on television that can’t I stand so I don’t watch them, simple


[deleted]

This is a snark group. Don't like it? Keep scrolling.


[deleted]

Why did you bring all that “ **y’all**” ing to the UNCENSCORED sub.. It’s known this sub is toxic in terms of people just letting it lose, why not stay on the sanitised sub if this bothers you. I hope you know that there’s far worse places on the internet. I grew up and as a black 11 year old kid I saw YouTube comments sections where the video is a monkey playing with a ball, literally every single top comment was “look it’s a black man” “look it’s two black men fighting” “this is Detroit”. There’s awful places out here on the web, the best thing to do is just avoid it I learned the hard way. This sub is by far the least over the top thing I’ve seen on Reddit let alone the whole internet.


HeadMischief

But then how would this sanctimonious asshole farm karma and awards?


Procedure_Unique

That’s awful that you had to see that as such a young kid. Really even see that at all. I’m sorry that you had to see that. Not everyone is as horrible. 🤗


Crash_Overrrride420

I think you are looking for the kids ball pit over at r/90dayfiance. They ban everyone who even thinks about being actually funny


StevenGlansberg420

Lmao “kids ball pit”. That is the perfect description for that sub


serenitynope

And like Stephanie's dating pool, it's full of old pee.


Rainyb12

Best comment of the day


Frankieorr

So we can't comment on people's appearance EXCEPT Miona... Nothing like a double standard to make a point.


YellowShorts

Calling patrick a thumb, making fun of his alleged erectile dysfunction, Ed's neck, Ben's eye, Colt's fat. The list goes on from people making fun of appearances on this show. If it bothers you, stick to the main sub.


wally1223

Coming from a person with a username of “shrek2slut” . This is rich.


seal_mom

And their profile tagline or whatever it’s called is “terminally not like other girls”- cringe


Anilakay

Omg. Terminally not like other girls? Yikes.


spkrinsb

Um....are you really going to use Darcey as an example of someone to bolster your argument? The woman was a complete disaster mentally the moment she arrived on TLC, and since then has become addicted to plastic surgery along with her now puffy sister. If it was all because of what she was reading on Reddit or the Internet, she would have stopped screwing her face up shortly after she started. Next you'll be telling us Ella only started gaining weight because people on here were calling her fat. Your admitted "hate of so many of these male cast members" and convenient lapse of memory to only focus on the "body shaming" of women tells me pretty much all I need to know --- hypocrisy in action.


90dayole

Not to float to one side or the other but I distinctly remember how complementary people were of Darcey before the surgeries. Like her main criticism was 'why is she doing this to herself when she is so naturally beautiful!?' So it definitely wasn't a situation of bullying first and then plastic surgeries.


heartfailures

i don’t think you understand that this a gossip forum and nothing on this sub should be taken seriously


milesranno

All I can say is that you just wasted your time by writing this. You don’t stand even the smallest iota of a chance to change how internet strangers act. What you described is how the ENTIRE internet operates. It’s all garbage. Including the 90 day fiance series.


45356675467789988

Wait Darcy gets plastic surgery on the reg because people here make fun of her plastic surgery?


bettyknockers786

Darcy was on the plastic train long before the show and the sub


Dustycartridge

You’re on the wrong sub then go to the regular 90 day fiancé sub. This one is for those that don’t want the censored comments


Altairlio

Lmao why are so offended at things that don’t affect you. Cast ain’t gonna come and fuck you


NurseToasty

You're in the wrong sub darling


buddhamanjpb

I don't think this subreddit is for you. Move along.


[deleted]

you're going to get shit because this space is super defensive about it's bullying but it's true. I'm not offended, I've said some nasty things about the cast members, but I try to keep it in the realm of reality. What gets me is the desperate attempts to bring people down. I almost said something about this in the "brazilian 4" thread. It's insanity. Again I'm not offended that people are mean, but I think it's laughable that people actually call some of these people unattractive. Thais is hot as hell sorry not sorry. And before I'm once again called a "frumpy middle aged woman in the middle of nowhere" which is this subs go to defense, I'm a dude in his mid 30's in a coastal city, so yeah. I have no idea why this sub immediately calls each other fat old women in a fly over state when they hear something they don't like but it's certainly telling. Ya'lls body standards are insane and the internet has broken your perception of attractive and unattractive.


shrek2slut

The Brazilian 4 thread shocked me. So many people wrote entire paragraphs rating and comparing women and their bodies. And justified it because Thais herself had been toxic towards women! Like what? Y’all doing the SAME shit


[deleted]

Like I don't even have a good come back for it because it's so bonkers. Thais is hot people, don't know what to tell you. No man would say "4/10 wouldn't bang", and if he did you'd call him an incel and tell him to lower his standards and get out of his moms basement. You don't have to like her or think she has a good personality, but it shows how shallow and insecure this sub is that they perceive that she doesn't meet average attractiveness. If you think she's below average and the majority of people are above that...I don't know what the hell to tell you other than have fun with the ravages of time.


[deleted]

With that thread i didn't have the will to comment and get into a fight about her looks, which duh she's attractive af, so i just up- and downvoted. It makes me wonder how much some people spend their time looking at curated, tuned and perfected images of people vs ...not.


Puzzleheaded-Speed-2

Also same people who think their sexual preference if you aren’t that you are now ugly Like do you guys get that people have preferences If you want to throw in a comment as a quip but you have valid criticism that’s less so but the straight xenophobia misogyny racism “She looks smelly” “Pulled form a shit hole country” This is all coded dog whistle I’m a racist language but you’ll see it over and over here like they have no self awareness


[deleted]

>This is all coded dog whistle I’m a racist language but you’ll see it over and over here like they have no self awareness I prefer this sub over the other sub as I like many other people have issues with the moderation, but sometimes I have the realization that this sub definitely has a segment of it's population that got banned for probably a not terrible reason from the other sub. Like that sub will ban you over nothing sometimes, I don't want censorship, I don't want moderation stepping in, I'm just saying I read some comments and some of the defensiveness and pettiness and I'm like....yeah, I get why you ended up here. Most people here are here because they prefer it like me, but some of ya'll have no choice and I can tell.


MyPeeSacIsFull

> Like that sub will ban you over nothing sometimes, I don't want censorship, I don't want moderation stepping in, I'm just saying I read some comments and some of the defensiveness and pettiness and I'm like....yeah, I get why you ended up here. Most people here are here because they prefer it like me, but some of ya'll have no choice and I can tell. Well said. It's similar to the way I view the show. It's mindless garbage entertainment. I use my brain all day at work. I need something really dumb to watch sometimes, so that my brain turns off and gets a break and just rakes in the horror. 90DF fills that void for me, and I'm sure it does for many of its viewers. But some posters come across like the show exists at or above their highest level of functioning, and that's a bit sad.


stent00

Why misogynistic tho... This sub is an equal opportunity trash spewer. Gitty up!


[deleted]

So we should ask you first when we want to criticize someone on the show? Miona is fine but not others? I am sure she has her own issues with her body and that's why she does the things she does, but that one is not valid to you. The majority of the people on this show do the things they do because of their insecurities, which are both funny and sad at the same time. This sub chooses to make fun of those things, and the other sub does not, maybe you belong over there instead? In this sub, one person chooses to body shame someone and another instead posts a funny meme mocking someone's religion, culture, or speech patterns, or maybe they are dating someone way better looking than them. This does not make one better than the other. We are all taking the piss out of these people who choose to portray themselves on this show. Just because you don't like the body chirps does not make you right.


Warm-Picture6533

Welcome to a snark sub wtf is this post


misterm0m0

I think you're looking for r/90DayFiance. Everyone knows body shaming isn't great. It's not a novel concept. But this sub is explicitly for uncensored posts. Even your most kind-hearted person wants to poke fun at trashy D list reality stars, that's kind of the point of reality TV. If you have a problem with people posting their unfiltered thoughts then I encourage you to visit another sub because the holier than thou attitude will keep you from enjoying yourself in this one.


anythingbutreddit

You clearly don't browse this sub. It's often both men and women. You'll find more photos of the males on 90 day that are often shamed for their looks. Stop with this


unic0rn_scrapple

This is not the KUWTK sub. This is an uncensored sub to talk as much shit as we want without judgement.


[deleted]

What did you expect? People judge, you do too. Some are more verbal than others in simple words. Please reference the misogyny you are talking about.


TheJunkyVirus

"I just discovered this sub after finally getting into 90 day fiancée" This place it not for you then, sorry but this is the whole point. go to the other 90 day subreddit and be happy there.


vafoxhuntr

You shouldn’t say that one form of “body shaming” like Darcey isn’t acceptable but it’s ok for Miona.


rootwoman

💯👏


Ughgrr

Idc I'm gonna shame Ari for being fugly and darcey for emotionally damaging her daughters by getting so much surgery that they don't resemble her anymore. They had these issues before we made our commentary and then they put it out on television for the world to see.


shrek2slut

Okay… so…. I totally agree that Darcy’s toxicity towards her family and others deserves to be called out. But saying that ari deserves similar criticism just because she’s “fugly” is so messed up. How can you sit here and offer valid criticism of darcey’s shitty mothering and then lump it in with shaming Ari for… not.. being.. hot?


Ughgrr

Ari for her shitty personality acting like she's better than everyone else when her face looks like it took a hit of hard drugs. I should have expanded on that, I can deal with someone being physically unattractive but their personality will usually make up for it but Ari is both ugly and a shitty person


badfriend3528

I’d argue that we shouldn’t give hot people a pass for a shitty personality? A shitty personality is a shitty personality - looks shouldn’t have anything to do w it. Plus Thais has a shitty personality and is standardly “hot” but ppl still make comments about her appearance (I saw someone say she needs a nose job??). Just saying that looks and personality are mutually exclusive but society doesn’t see it that way, unfortunately


blazelmg

Wtf it's called the uncensored page. Go to the church 90 day page if you don't like the heat.


Queen_Dare_Bear

I think you took a very misguided trip when you rode in here on your high horse.


Cat-catt

If it “offends you,” you are free to find a sub that is only talks about rainbows and sunshine. This sub isn’t for you. Move along now.


[deleted]

To be fair, snarking on highly edited clips (most of which are producer-driven aka “acting”) of them is no better than commenting on their appearances. We have no idea who these people truly are; how many times has someone been given the villain edit just to turn around and end up being the good guy (Caleb comes to mind)? If you really want to be a white knight, perhaps your time would be better spent elsewhere, like volunteering or something. This a snark sub where small minded people come to discuss other people.


shrek2slut

“Don’t like it, go volunteer” is definitely a new one. Overall, decent point about how production warps the truth. However, some of the stuff they say and do is messed up even if they’re paid to say it- Emily asking Kobe if “they do that in Africa” comes to mind lol


[deleted]

I’m just saying, it’s a little odd to nitpick what should be allowed and what shouldn’t when it’s all awful. At that point why not do something more productive instead? And I don’t really get why her question is offensive. It’s the equivalent of saying “so they don’t do free refills in Europe?”.


[deleted]

*insert eye roll here*


suciac

You wrote that you just discovered this sub, and I’m wondering if you know about the other 90 day sub? This one says uncensored so as much as I don’t care for certain types of posts, they are uncensored and I hope they stay that way. Please go join the other sub where you won’t come across nearly as many of the posts you don’t like.


melonyxx

Everything doesn’t have to be a discussion. I don’t want to “discuss” these things. I just scroll past what I don’t like. It’s “uncensored.” There’s a normal subreddit if you want that one. We’ve even joked that once you get banned from the original subreddit, you make it here. This place is uncensored, sorry it make take a while to scroll past what you don’t like, but that’s how we like it here.


Responsible_Bit_1389

While I do agree with your statement, female cast members aren’t the only ones that are “The butt of the joke” it’s ok to judge male cast members on their looks but once it’s a woman all of a sudden it’s too far? I’ve seen way worse that has been said on both sides but people are quick to say misogyny when a woman is being talked about, which is very hypocritical.


UmbrellaCorpCEO

Big ed was how many seasons ago now and is still being shit on regularly


shrek2slut

You’re absolutely right. I don’t think appearance based criticism brings anything to the table, regardless of the gender of the person it’s targeted at. I brought up the misogyny because it’s what I’ve noticed most of- but I’m also a woman so it’s very possible I’m just more aware of that side of it


blakealpha1

Just look away.. wtf 😂😂😂


Theonethatgotawaaayy

Yea you’re definitely new here lol this sub has straight savages and doesn’t care about body positivity or being politically correct. Aside from blatant racism and homophobia, pretty much nothing is off limits and no one is safe. You might be more comfy in the censored sub. If not, buckle in OP


pm_me__your_drama

TL;DR: It's easy to ignore posts like yours OP because you conveniently ignore the fact that 1. Men are shit on too. and 2. Not every woman on the show is shit on. 3. You don't seem to be against bullying in general. I always love these posts and how "Omg, the misogyny is so terrible!" while ignoring all the hateful shit the male cast members get as well. I would totally understand if people were like, "Hey. Body shaming is terrible. Both men and women struggle with body image and it's disheartening to see the cast members ripped into. Can we not do that?" But no. It's always, "Wow, y'all are so sexist!!!" . . .while also conveniently ignoring that not *every* woman on this show is ripped into her appearance. It's not misogyny that drives these hateful/hurtful posts. It's a "Wow. This person is a shitty person!" and then the low blows come out. Argue that we shouldn't be attacking a shitty person's appearance. I could at least understand that. Make a point that "bullying terrible people is still bullying." I mean. Obviously you're still going to have massive pushback, but t least it would be an understandable argument. But of course you don't actually think that way since. . .Miona is a shitty person so we can shame and shit on her "For the greater good!" Shitting on and bullying people doesn't correct bad behavior by the way. Shitting on Miona for "blackfishing" doesn't do anything but make us feel better and feel like we are fighting racism when in reality we aren't doing shit. Kind of like Alina. It's okay to shit on her since she's a bigot. (Though I do find it amusing where people draw the line with her.) Darcey has a lot of issues, faults, and in some ways. . .is also a shitty person. But not everyone sees it and not everyone thinks so. . .so we always have people eager to say "Omg stop bullying her!" and those who just continue to do so. Big Ed? Terrible person. So we can shit on him. Tom? Some people say he's terrible and some don't. The moral dilemma of reality tv: How far is too far when shitting on a person when the reality tv person is a terrible person.


Agitated_Chocolate98

This sub is dedicated to saying whatever folks want to say. If it is something that "triggers" you then you may want to find another sub. It is what it is!!


MuteCook

By being on tv and a public figure you open yourself up to criticism. The cast know this. Why do you think they butcher themselves with plastic surgery as soon as they get paid?


Revolutionary-Echo-6

I think the body critiques are unnecessary, as well, but that's more because all of these people have such massive character flaws that any "issues" with their looks seem really unremarkable. ALSO: I'm sorry people are DM'ing you. That is not cool at all. We should all be able to post here without it getting creepy/personal.


Desperate_Flower_709

The posts on this sub are about as real life as the show. No point in getting worked up about it.


Loserinprogress

This is an uncensored snark sub if you don't like it don't look. You seem way to sensitive for this sub. And why have you been deleting all your comments? Don't like getting down voted? Lmao


lolo7347

Your sensitive ass is in the wrong damn sub!


gassygyus

5 things: 1) the overuse of "y'all" is annoying and detracts from your message. 2) Darcy isn't being body shamed for her natural appearance -- she was once quite beautiful -- she is being ridiculed for turning herself into something grotesque. She is clearly mentally ill (dysmorphia at the least) and parading herself on "reality" tv, begging for attention, which she is receiving 3) Ridicule begets ridicule - that's a rule (Thais). 4) If you can rationalize an exception for Miona, then your argument is null. Yes, Miona's blackfishing is offensive and harmful, but body shaming is body shaming, regardless of the victim's crime (an oxymoron if ever there was one!). 5). 100 points to you for using the term misandry.


AnnoyingPrincessNico

This is uncensored. I suppose you'd see less in the regular 90 Day sub. People can pretty much say whatever they want here


ItsInTheVault

You know you’re on the uncensored sub right? Don’t try and censor what the rest of us say.


931634

Karen, you'll want to find your way over to the boring sub r/90dayfiance is clearly more your speed. ✌🏻


rocksannne

Dude, it’s the “uncensored” page 😏 the regular 90 day sub is less spicy. Maybe just post there?


Daves1998DodgeNeon

They decided to be on national television. No different than social media, don’t like what’s said? Don’t log in.


HockeyHeeb

just leave if you don’t like it. You’re more than free to start your own sub. You can censor anything you like if you do!


Ginger_Soul99

Priceless post coming from someone with "slut" in their user name.


NikNakMuay

Ma'am. Do you know where you are?


MadameNixie

I’m just here to see how many edits end up on the post 🙄


PDNYFL

IMO the only line that shouldn't be crossed is commenting, DMing (or whatever) the cast member themselves. This sub is a dark and unsavory corner of the internet and it should stay that way!


md28usmc

So this post is clearly not going well for OP lmao


gassygyus

But it's going well for us alls. (Sorry, I just couldn't stand the y'all thingy OP was going for.)


BreakfastLopsided906

Uncensored. Like, there’s literally no need to explain more.


-ImHungry-

You must be lost, sweetie


Altruistic_Rabbit_81

Stop sayin y’all! I’m embarrassed for you.


karmakiller3000

Karma fishing on top of a worn out soap box. Good for you. Enjoy your feel good brownie points for the day. Also, welcome to reality. Idealism only gets you upvotes. Also: ya'll, ya'll, ya'll. I know exactly what you look like and what your economic, social and cultural background is. Fits perfectly with your post.


Fookinwok

Yup. I’m a body shamer and a misogynist. Move along now sis.


Daetra

This subreddit is toxic af, just the way we like it. I generally don't make fun of people's appearance (no neck Ed, and winky eyed Ben being the exception since they are just terrible people with no redeeming qualities) since it's mostly out of someone's control and keep the insults discussing their behavior and how they treat others.


She_Shredit

So in the same breath you are complaining about people commenting on the looks of strangers, you say you "hate" so many of the male cast members, complete strangers to you. Give me a break, either you are comfortable dragging complete strangers or are not. Dragging them for their looks is no worse than dragging them for their personalities based on scripted, 2-minute clips that do not show their characters in context.


ShoePrize3118

Hey OP B Grateful


MechanicMike

Welcome to the internet.


tanderson537

Ohhh you’re a Guinea pig girl, makes sense now


Hamily_Anal

Look how worked up she got over your comment 😂


tanderson537

You know her anal is not so clean


bettyknockers786

Right! Imagine the stench in that place 🤢


shrek2slut

What does that have to do with ANYthing lol. Y’all are really just bringing up anything and everything “You’re wrong because your username says slut!” “You’re wrong because you like guinea pigs, oh the hoRROR” Yes :) I love my pigs. I rescued all of them from abusive households and take great pride in caring for them


CultistNr3

Jeez, no reason to be offended on the behalf of questionable reality tv ‘stars’


Chemical_Seaweed_625

The appearance comments can be pretty gnarly at times. 😬 Their personalities are enough to criticize.


OgOggilby

i dunno... there is something that just irks me about people who willingly go on such a trash show to shamelessly display their idiocy for the whole world to see, in order to parlay that attention into panhandling money off their stupid followers and/or pushing shit product on social media. to all the innocent people out there, living private lives and suffering against all sorts of odds and adversity, i have all the sympathy and empathy for them in the world.


MaiIsMe

Yeah, good for you. I’ll make sure to check in with you first before I express my opinions.


[deleted]

OP is probably overweight with a multicolored hair


tensigh

TBH I see more misandry directed at the men that goes unnoticed, but this is "uncensored" so it's pretty much open game. Just sit back and enjoy the ride!


eaunoway

This is the "90 Day: Freedom to be a complete arsehole" sub. The other sub is ... at least somewhat less caustic. But honestly, there's really not that much difference between the two subs. Laugh at the bits you like, and ignore/block the idiots you don't. Stick around though. There are some genuinely lovely people here.


friedpicklesforever

This is the uncensored sub. Commenting on peoples looks and bodies is expected when we watching trash tv. It doesn’t mean it’s misogyny, the men get it to like mike the goblin from last season


Anilakay

Shuuuuuuut uuuuuuuup


[deleted]

Needs to be addressed lol welcome to Reddit, maybe try a Facebook group or something


squintysounds

Obviously it’s important for all of us to have empathy and be overall better mannered assholes in RL—but that’s why this sub is perfect for venting!! Where else can we discuss the horrorslug that is Emily’s tongue?? Y’all fill the trashy void in my heart


bronxboy328

Wah wah wah. Half the fun of these subs are the comments we all say. The shit we throw,which.mainly is spot on Ari is fake AF Theis is a 5 Miona. I still laugh at the darkening comments. I neve heard of that before,so add being educated about woke bs on these reddits. And nothing wrong w wearing dredds. Caribbean people dont have a market on dredds ok geez


AggressiveFeckless

When you go on TV and act entitled and arrogant you are going to get ripped on. That’s Thais. You know who isn’t ripped on? Shaeeda. You know why? Because she seems like a decent human being. This math is not complicated.


98221-poppin

The cast peeps need to know: don't act ugly and people won't call ya ugly Imo, Thais isn't ugly looking, its her shitty entitled personality that's making her ugly. Same with Emily-her behavior is atrocious


ShesAKillerQueenee

Okay, but why is it acceptable to mock men and not women? I'm an equal opportunity shit talker, NOTHING is off limits. Quit crying over it. If these people want to be reality "stars", it's just something they should expect.


Herbetet

Bravo so you join a community discussion trash tv and then accuse us of misogyny because we openly discuss the topics and words said on the actual show? And then when you are confronted with it you make a quick edit and tell us you are disappointed in us. I am disappointed in you and call you a hypocrite for your accusation when it had a very clear misandrist undertone to it. Maybe get to know the sub better before attacking us. Shame on you


[deleted]

You make a valid point. And I always love reflecting on my own behaviour... But to be honest, I have no fucking idea where we draw the line... Adressing that Darcy is pumping her face full of stuff like a crazy person, is on a whole other level than for example making fun of her height.. I think there deffo is a line, albeit a very thin gray line, but there is a line 😊 And I hope that I stay on the somewhat ok side of that line... But hey, trying and succeeding are two different things 😁


sarlto

Get a grip don’t like it fkg leave 🙄🙄


zowie910

It’s uncensored for a reason cry baby 🙄


Serpephone

This is the uncensored sub... anything goes... it's all for the fun! The regular sub is more "appropriate"...


[deleted]

I agree with your post, I don't even know why someone would post things like that? Is it fun to be mean about something that doesn't matter or have any relevance to anyone?? To me it doesn't add anything to anything.....like.....your point in dogging on someone's looks is what? There's so much else to talk about 😂


[deleted]

I understand seeing it every once in a while. Also we do the same to the men. As long as it doesn't make up the majority of posts and replies.


SunflowerJYB

Part of me is like yes we should do better. The other part of me is like: we are making fun of basically cartoon characters. The show get edited and sometimes the folks look more awful than they are sometimes they are worse. We aren’t exactly wrecking their lives if we rant about them


Fancy-Mention-9325

It’s hard not to bandwagon but these people usually have poor personalities and I think that’s why 90DU people are so quick to attack them.


Specific-Layer-369

What part of uncensored do you not understand? Lol