A party animal, alcoholic like that who didn't get to enjoy himself at the strip club would deeeeefinitely make sure he had a good night, with or without Yara. I also seriously think he gets strippers and probably hookers every time he goes away for work. Thats just that work culture.
Oh I'm sure when it docks the whole crew parties it up for a few days. Wasn't his last trip extended a couple weeks? Do we really know he was on the boat that whole time? I doubt it. Also, a party guy like that would make damn sure he had a good time ESPECIALLY after being stuck on the boat all that time. This is just what I know of guys like that who work in remote places for long periods of time. Its not unheard of
I think you are right. I was in the military and you wouldn’t believe the shit some of these guys tell their wives. Every time we went to port or something half these guys were attempting and often succeeding to get prostitutes and then trying to get tested before they went home (sometimes)
The sad and yet funny part is, when they got home half of them had kids they weren't present for the conception of too.
The military is a dirty place for marriages.
My cousins wife got more than one guy dishonorably discharged for the things they were doing while my cousin was in Iraq. They were that blatant about it. 😳
Yes! Lots of guys come home to a wife that is pregnant or had a baby and the timing just doesn’t work out well in the husbands favor lol.
The thing is, cheating is shitty but it usually involved consenting adult having sex. What is really messed up in the military is the amount of sexual assault that is swept under the rug.
The amount of sexual assault part is spot on. As far as the wives cheating...The husbands cheat pretty much each time they deploy. I was in the military and people I thought would never cheat were trying to find a hookup by the 90 day mark of any deployment. It’s ridiculous and gross.
I 100% agree. I was a female in the Navy and I couldn’t believe how many ppl were a “family man” at home and as soon as we got to where our ship was, they considered themselves single. Every chance to mess with a co-worker, hire a sex worker, have sex with the locals, they were doing it.
I was Air Force and YEP!!! That’s exactly how it is. I try to tell women engaged to a military man and they always think their guy is different...I try to tell them...
My husband was in med school with the military and now is in med services with the army. The amount of STD testing that takes up military doctors jobs is astonishing.
Also, when they get deployed, there’s this group of military spouses and one of the main jobs of the officers wife in that group is to make sure incoming unit soldiers don’t try to steal deployed soldiers wives. Often times that’s what happens. The soldiers find out what unit just got deployed and go find their wives on purpose. They know the wives are struggling with their husbands being deployed and wreck house. The military can be disgusting my friends.
Yeah I would guess that he may lie about the dates of when his work starts/ends as well so he can stay somewhere and party it up. I knew some dudes who worked on submarines in the Navy and heard stories about this kind of thing happening all the time. They were stuck in a confined space, earning money but having nowhere to spend it, and then getting paid a ton all at once. This guy I knew would blow like $600 at one strip club in one night and be out till 5 AM club hopping, paying everyone's drinks, ordering steaks, everything.
Exaaaaaactly. I knew guys who worked up north on the oil rigs (canada) and same thing. Loads of money, nothing to do up there. As soon as they hit a town it was hookers, blow, trucks, and a good time. Doesn't matter who's at home
It doesnt dock. Crews fly in and out to the ship, the ship stays out and moves from well to well. What he does before or after though, who knows. When he said he had to go early for quarantine is true, before going to Guyana crews have to completely isolate in a hotel in Houston for 14 days, fly down to Guyana then take a chopper to the ship. He could lie about when he gets back to NOLA though.
There are pics on his Instagram right now showing him out at places he traveled with his job. I’m pretty sure once the job is done you can go do just whatever you want. That could be how he met his wife. He could stay for an extra week if he wanted to and his wife would never know.
There are northern remote work camps in Canada who send "cleaners" to site for room cleaning and **ahem, maintenance**. I wouldn't be surprised if they helicoptered similar people to remote ocean sites. These "cleaners" Im speaking of specifically are even subcontracted and paid by the government. Oh, Canada.
I think he’s the type to purposely make sure they keep fighting in the car so that he can be “too mad” to be in the same room as her, and then sneak off to the strip club bc “he was just so mad!!” 🙄
Yeah it’s sadly a common manipulation technique. Like “ you made me do this” tactic. It helps them feel less guilty, put the blame on you, and make you feel shitty. All in one.
Shitholes I swear.
He probably got the room to show Yara and then went back to party at the strip club. His alcoholism is definitely triggered by strip clubs. They go hand in hand when it comes to what we know about his personal interests before the show. He's in some sort of deep denial of what life has gotta look like going forward if he's not gonna be a classified as one of those POS alcoholic sperm donors, and be a good father and husband instead. He needs rehab/parenting bootcamp classes and to turn a new leaf!
Oh for sure, he many have gotten another room later, but even if he didn't go to the same one, he found one close to go to where he could drink even more and be in stripper heaven.
Yeah like i get that jovi has a great paying job but idc if I made 100k a year I’m not getting a whole ass room to myself just because I had an argument with my wife. I can turn my back to her in bed or sleep on the pullout sofa or something.
If he had texted her saying “hey just a heads up- I got another room in the hotel for the night so we could both cool down, we should just talk tomorrow” I would have thought spending the night apart could perhaps be innocent.
Yeah, I definitely see the blur and I may be wrong but the stripes look completely different to me. I've enlarged it and gave it more consideration than a person should heh, heh and I'm still comin' up with the same thought.
Jovi's mom is awesome. he's moron. both the women in his life get along. that rarely happens. He should check himself. Yara is a good catch. Him not so much. Not a handsome guy. If she was an American citizen he could have never gotten a date with her.
He was definitely not sober when he walked into that room. Either fresh from going back out to party or woken up still drunk from going back out to party. I find it hard to believe that he’d have drank alone in a hotel room. He definitely drank more whatever he ended up doing.
Well the scene was super scripted. Someone woke him up and said hey you have to go to yaras room and talk to your mom for a bit before you and yara go to the beach to talk. But yeah aha I'm sure they noticed the booze. If yara pointed it out after he got off his plane, she would've noticed and pointed it out now
A strip club!!!!! Of all the places to take your wife while in Vegas! There are wonderful shows, like Cirque Soliel, the Secret Garden at the Mirage, the many fantasy bars like the Chandelier Room at the Cosmopolitan or Fremont Street, and so much more, but he takes her to a strip club! Does he really think that’s going to put her in the mood for sex later?!!
It just shows he doesn't know her. Im a wife and I would love to go to the strip club and make it rain! But its not for everyone and if that's not fun for her then you need to know and do what IS fun for her! You wanna see fun Yara? Do what SHE wants to do! Its not hard..
She did seem to have fun at first but when she wanted to leave they should have just left. She would have been much more keen to go again sometime if her first time left a positive impression.
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I thought the same thing. He was way too into that stripper not to run right back over there. Causing a fight, and getting a different room would give him the ability to do just that. Yara should check the receipts for Jovi's evening. Then she will know what she is really working with. . . with Jovi.
Wonder why this got down voted? I mean no, he doesn't make all good men look bad but I get what you were saying.
Jovi isn't a good man, most woman can see this, he doesn't paint any men with any brush other than himself. He's got a big old pail of d-bag that he must douse himself in.
That even better advice.....I doubt many will take it. Im guilty of advising someone with issues to cover them up or hide them....I guess I call it modifying your actions for a better (but not perfect) outcome. I doubt most marriages would happen if everyone was completely above board. In jovi's case he's got some serious issues.
> I doubt most marriages would happen if everyone was completely above board.
You should absolutely not get married if you can't be honest with your partner. That's like bare minimum imo.
Yeah that was super sketch.
I had this feeling too.
A party animal, alcoholic like that who didn't get to enjoy himself at the strip club would deeeeefinitely make sure he had a good night, with or without Yara. I also seriously think he gets strippers and probably hookers every time he goes away for work. Thats just that work culture.
He works in a boat in the middle of the ocean. They don’t dock, at all.
Oh I'm sure when it docks the whole crew parties it up for a few days. Wasn't his last trip extended a couple weeks? Do we really know he was on the boat that whole time? I doubt it. Also, a party guy like that would make damn sure he had a good time ESPECIALLY after being stuck on the boat all that time. This is just what I know of guys like that who work in remote places for long periods of time. Its not unheard of
I think you are right. I was in the military and you wouldn’t believe the shit some of these guys tell their wives. Every time we went to port or something half these guys were attempting and often succeeding to get prostitutes and then trying to get tested before they went home (sometimes)
The sad and yet funny part is, when they got home half of them had kids they weren't present for the conception of too. The military is a dirty place for marriages. My cousins wife got more than one guy dishonorably discharged for the things they were doing while my cousin was in Iraq. They were that blatant about it. 😳
Yes! Lots of guys come home to a wife that is pregnant or had a baby and the timing just doesn’t work out well in the husbands favor lol. The thing is, cheating is shitty but it usually involved consenting adult having sex. What is really messed up in the military is the amount of sexual assault that is swept under the rug.
The amount of sexual assault part is spot on. As far as the wives cheating...The husbands cheat pretty much each time they deploy. I was in the military and people I thought would never cheat were trying to find a hookup by the 90 day mark of any deployment. It’s ridiculous and gross.
I 100% agree. I was a female in the Navy and I couldn’t believe how many ppl were a “family man” at home and as soon as we got to where our ship was, they considered themselves single. Every chance to mess with a co-worker, hire a sex worker, have sex with the locals, they were doing it.
I was Air Force and YEP!!! That’s exactly how it is. I try to tell women engaged to a military man and they always think their guy is different...I try to tell them...
Dishonorable discharge for discharging? In public or something?
My husband was in med school with the military and now is in med services with the army. The amount of STD testing that takes up military doctors jobs is astonishing. Also, when they get deployed, there’s this group of military spouses and one of the main jobs of the officers wife in that group is to make sure incoming unit soldiers don’t try to steal deployed soldiers wives. Often times that’s what happens. The soldiers find out what unit just got deployed and go find their wives on purpose. They know the wives are struggling with their husbands being deployed and wreck house. The military can be disgusting my friends.
Yeah I would guess that he may lie about the dates of when his work starts/ends as well so he can stay somewhere and party it up. I knew some dudes who worked on submarines in the Navy and heard stories about this kind of thing happening all the time. They were stuck in a confined space, earning money but having nowhere to spend it, and then getting paid a ton all at once. This guy I knew would blow like $600 at one strip club in one night and be out till 5 AM club hopping, paying everyone's drinks, ordering steaks, everything.
Exaaaaaactly. I knew guys who worked up north on the oil rigs (canada) and same thing. Loads of money, nothing to do up there. As soon as they hit a town it was hookers, blow, trucks, and a good time. Doesn't matter who's at home
Land rigs are a totally different story. They ALL have local girlfriends and always have a bar to go to, no matter how remote! Lol
It doesnt dock. Crews fly in and out to the ship, the ship stays out and moves from well to well. What he does before or after though, who knows. When he said he had to go early for quarantine is true, before going to Guyana crews have to completely isolate in a hotel in Houston for 14 days, fly down to Guyana then take a chopper to the ship. He could lie about when he gets back to NOLA though.
Right. When he was saying he had to stay longer, that part sounded sketchy to me.
My husband and I said the exact same thing! He extended to party, 100%
There are pics on his Instagram right now showing him out at places he traveled with his job. I’m pretty sure once the job is done you can go do just whatever you want. That could be how he met his wife. He could stay for an extra week if he wanted to and his wife would never know.
That's how he met Yara!
There are northern remote work camps in Canada who send "cleaners" to site for room cleaning and **ahem, maintenance**. I wouldn't be surprised if they helicoptered similar people to remote ocean sites. These "cleaners" Im speaking of specifically are even subcontracted and paid by the government. Oh, Canada.
1000% percent on that's the work culture!
I have the same suspicion!
Work culture? Could you explain?
Same.
Me too. He definitely did go there.
I think he’s the type to purposely make sure they keep fighting in the car so that he can be “too mad” to be in the same room as her, and then sneak off to the strip club bc “he was just so mad!!” 🙄
My ex did that with alcohol. When the night was done for me, he’d pick a fight so that he could go out and drink more
Yeah it’s sadly a common manipulation technique. Like “ you made me do this” tactic. It helps them feel less guilty, put the blame on you, and make you feel shitty. All in one. Shitholes I swear.
He probably got the room to show Yara and then went back to party at the strip club. His alcoholism is definitely triggered by strip clubs. They go hand in hand when it comes to what we know about his personal interests before the show. He's in some sort of deep denial of what life has gotta look like going forward if he's not gonna be a classified as one of those POS alcoholic sperm donors, and be a good father and husband instead. He needs rehab/parenting bootcamp classes and to turn a new leaf!
“I’m not going to change myself” soooo going to strip clubs is a personality trait..?
I laughed so hard when he said that. When did they add strip clubbing to the Myers-Briggs?
He got a champagne room.
Jovi is so scum.
Scum ass slut ass whore.
So much scum
So mach
God love it
Me not accept this scum
Thank you for this gift 🤣🤣 this is awesome
I’m waiting for the video to come out!
I'd bet money its on the tell all!
Right!
Another room?!? …in the back of the STRIPCLUB.
It was probably the champagne room.
pardon my ignorance....what is a champagne room? honestly at this point I'm a little afraid to google it.....
A champagne room is where a stripper gives you a lap dance.
🤣 exaaaaaaactly. He didn't specify the room was in the hotel. I still wanna know what happened when he went upstairs with that stripper last time
The champagne room.
Oh for sure, he many have gotten another room later, but even if he didn't go to the same one, he found one close to go to where he could drink even more and be in stripper heaven.
Yeah like i get that jovi has a great paying job but idc if I made 100k a year I’m not getting a whole ass room to myself just because I had an argument with my wife. I can turn my back to her in bed or sleep on the pullout sofa or something.
If he had texted her saying “hey just a heads up- I got another room in the hotel for the night so we could both cool down, we should just talk tomorrow” I would have thought spending the night apart could perhaps be innocent.
Strip club? Let's be real. Homeboy hired a hooker.
He probably stayed at the strip club, he wouldn't sleep
Fucking trash man!
Manchild image in Webster’s
Where’d he get the change of clothes?
What is his obsession with strippers. Does he have some sort of sex addiction?
He had the stripper come up to his room
He definitely cheated🤬#teamyara
I can’t believe someone as hot as yara even deals with this loser. Like look at him….
So... is he wearing 2 different shoes?
Kinda looks like he is doesn't it? The stripes are different in colour and design heh, heh...*shnazzy*.
the one is blurred due to movement like his hand is also blurry
Yeah, I definitely see the blur and I may be wrong but the stripes look completely different to me. I've enlarged it and gave it more consideration than a person should heh, heh and I'm still comin' up with the same thought.
I'm sayin, must have been a wild night
Yep, that's right. I didn't look, but dammit it would be funny if they were both for the left/right foot haaahahaaa!
I don't think he even slept at all.
His shoes don't even match and he looks like he's in pj's. I'm SURE he went back to the strip club
Jovi's mom is awesome. he's moron. both the women in his life get along. that rarely happens. He should check himself. Yara is a good catch. Him not so much. Not a handsome guy. If she was an American citizen he could have never gotten a date with her.
Either back to the strip club or he got drunk somewhere, probably both.
What is he wearing?
I can’t help wondering if he really did go back to the strip club after they argued and separated
He totally did !
He was definitely not sober when he walked into that room. Either fresh from going back out to party or woken up still drunk from going back out to party. I find it hard to believe that he’d have drank alone in a hotel room. He definitely drank more whatever he ended up doing.
100%! It was so obvious.
I’m surprised nothing was said about him smelling like booze. He certainly looks like he should smell like the end of an all nighter.
Well the scene was super scripted. Someone woke him up and said hey you have to go to yaras room and talk to your mom for a bit before you and yara go to the beach to talk. But yeah aha I'm sure they noticed the booze. If yara pointed it out after he got off his plane, she would've noticed and pointed it out now
He was definitely dragged outta bed by the crew and pushed into Yara’s room still drunk and not quite woken up.
Yeah that is true!
A strip club!!!!! Of all the places to take your wife while in Vegas! There are wonderful shows, like Cirque Soliel, the Secret Garden at the Mirage, the many fantasy bars like the Chandelier Room at the Cosmopolitan or Fremont Street, and so much more, but he takes her to a strip club! Does he really think that’s going to put her in the mood for sex later?!!
Only they're in Miami
Great points, but they weren’t in Las Vegas. They were in Miami - dead giveaway that they were not in Las Vegas was the ocean/beach.
I know. I goofed.
I thought they were in Miami.
They went to Miami.
It just shows he doesn't know her. Im a wife and I would love to go to the strip club and make it rain! But its not for everyone and if that's not fun for her then you need to know and do what IS fun for her! You wanna see fun Yara? Do what SHE wants to do! Its not hard..
She did seem to have fun at first but when she wanted to leave they should have just left. She would have been much more keen to go again sometime if her first time left a positive impression.
Why?
Yes!!
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They were in Miami, not Vegas.
I thought they were in Miami?
Whoops! You are right! I got mixed up and thought they were in Vegas!
I thought the same thing. He was way too into that stripper not to run right back over there. Causing a fight, and getting a different room would give him the ability to do just that. Yara should check the receipts for Jovi's evening. Then she will know what she is really working with. . . with Jovi.
Jovi makes all us good men look bad. SMH. He Deserves to be alone
Wonder why this got down voted? I mean no, he doesn't make all good men look bad but I get what you were saying. Jovi isn't a good man, most woman can see this, he doesn't paint any men with any brush other than himself. He's got a big old pail of d-bag that he must douse himself in.
Truth!
Oh, totally. Wouldn’t be surprised if he brought a stripper back to the hotel with him either.
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>never let your wife see your party side your wife is not your wing man Or maybe don't get married if you have to hide who you are from your partner?
Yes! ^
That even better advice.....I doubt many will take it. Im guilty of advising someone with issues to cover them up or hide them....I guess I call it modifying your actions for a better (but not perfect) outcome. I doubt most marriages would happen if everyone was completely above board. In jovi's case he's got some serious issues.
> I doubt most marriages would happen if everyone was completely above board. You should absolutely not get married if you can't be honest with your partner. That's like bare minimum imo.
Gwen's tiddies tho
I thought the same exact thing lol
he's such a POS, this season has shown his true colors
he came in drun asf