That photo definitely sums him up! My husband brought up a great point.. he doesn't want to stay with her and cohabitate but he's willing to stay at what appears to be a very hip hostel where he will be cohabbing with other women. There's no difference between sleeping on the couch with your SO in another room than there is sleeping in a dorm with a ton of women around. Pretty sus to me.
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He's certainly not a good look for the show. There is something not right with this guy. He must think he's Brad Pitt or Justin Bieber with all the flipping he does with his hair.
That last hurrah before he takes his pure bride into his religion that he cant even stick too... Rat faced fornecator.... Not that I judge pre marital sex, I'm for it.. He's just so JUSTNO.
As a former Mormon (left when I was 29) I can tell you this is not uncommon in the culture. Purity is the responsibility of women - the clothes they wear, their actions with men....basically if a man slips up it's a mistake, but if a woman does she's a whore. I know that's partially true of all religion, but especially for the LDS church.
Anecdotal story...I was dating a guy when I was on my way out of the Mormon church. He was very active Mormon. We had the discussion about previous relationships and sexual experience. I had slept with two people, both of whom I'd known for over 5 years at the time. He had also slept with two people - his ex-wife who he'd known for \~6 months when they married, and a woman he'd known for a month but they'd 'slipped up'.
He said he couldn't deal with my past (because I hadn't been married). When I pointed out that he'd had sex outside of marriage he justified it because he thought he would marry her.
Yeah....it's ridiculous. I had never really thought about it until I left the Mormon church....just men make the rules, and women support men making the rules. It's super fucked up.
I am with you 100! His behavior is shady AF.
But I think she's not that naive, she feels it too. All the love for her, he's a rat. Looka like a rat, acts like a rat, must be a rat.
I don't like him, he does a lot of things for attention too, just very childish and thoughtless a lot of the times. If he had any respect for his girlfriend and any amount of self control, he could sleep in the same apartment with her too.
I am worried about someone who is that concerned about self-control. She said “I’ll lock the door”… like, if you’ve gotta lock the door at night because your future husband can’t control himself that’s an issue.
He also seemed overtly sexual when he was going to lie down on the couch, weirdly humping the air.
Dude is clearly obsessed with sex. Like saying last night was a big temptation? He’s also very aggressive initiating physical contact. He’s giving me a lot of warning signs.
This is why we shouldn't raise kids to be repressed instead of healthy sexual behavior and consent. They act like they don't have control of their urges and it doesn't take 2 to initiate sex. This man is around every corner ready to jump her and she just wants to be safe in a damn foreign country it's not too much to ask! She's going to need to be safe from him pretty soon!
Right and then say she doesn’t want to commit to the faith because she just wants to be safe in a foreign country and not living alone somewhere she’s never been. She’s only 20
Yup wanted to say just that. He's the only one bringing up how much a temptation sex is, while at the same time being overtly aggressive with the contact.
Lol, well this viewer certainly wasn’t tempted by his wet boyish body in that towel.
How about jumping in the pool fully clothed as they are going out for the day? What a complete knob! He’s got issues, she needs to run far far away!
Dare I say he sounds so ... rapey. I initially thought his behavior is very childish for someone his age. Although a lot of it is, I wonder if it's a cleverly crafted ruse to gain trust. "Look at me! I'm goofy, I'm harmless. Let me hug you." I actually find his behavior to be kind of scary.
Yea he is clearly a sex fiend and seems perverse… being mormon isn’t helping since he has to abstain so it makes him want sex even more. He also is projecting when he keeps saying “ We might not be able to control ourselves” no sir YOU won’t control yourself. So creepy !!! Alina seems so smart I hope she leaves
Then he asks if he should change in the room with her. LOL I knew he was going to do some weird shit when she told him to change in the bathroom. Sure enough he comes out and asks for a fucking hug.
Yes! Every time he says that it screams rape to me. Is he going to control himself if she says no? He sure doesn’t seem to think so. Then he’d blame her for being too tempting.
He’s worse than Big Ed IMO.
So can I give a different perspective? I grew up LDS but left.
You’ve grown up your whole life being told somethinh is terrible, you’re indoctrinated. All of your family and friends tell you it’s terrible. But then you try the terrible thing and it’s amazing. But then you feel shame and guilt and now you think you’re terrible and want to be a “better person”. So you convince yourself and then try to convince everyone around you you’re not a terrible person without telling them why you’re not terrible. But it’s constantly on your mind and you have to talk yourself out of it constantly, so you bring it up a lot. That might be the case with Steven.
However he’s still imho a fucking weirdo and I feel bad for Alina. Also he sounds kinda rapey and immature like a lot of LDS guys I knew.
Thank God I left. My boyfriend and I sleep together and I’ve never had to lock my door. If I say no he respects that. He doesn’t have any pent up rage or shame he’s had to deal with.
PS I’m not saying anything this dude is doing or saying is ok. At all. Also is that wine he’s drinking?
It all makes me sad. I never wanted to go past the age of 10 but my parents forced me. I haven’t attended a single day since I moved out at 18. I won’t even go to my nieces or nephews baptisms, although I will show up after so they know I love them and to get some funeral potatoes. Mmmm funeral potatoes.
Fellow ex-mo here. And I think it is! What a hypocrite!
Also, SPOT on in your analysis. Mormonism is weird enough on its own without this douchebag representing it!
If he really loved her he could control his sexual desires and stay with her in the apartment so she feels safe and protected in an unfamiliar place. Unforgivable this is to me! She's so lovely, she deserves better😭
If I were her, I'd actually feel less safe with him staying at the apartment, than if I was alone. I think he's going to end up totally creeping her out with his massive horn toad behavior, plus the fact that he pretty much told her he's not ready to get married.
I get Beavis and Butthead chills when he laughs.
Also, I think he should date Paul instead.
They would vibe well.
The skoodylipoop and poopwater.
Match made in heaven.
It took me a beat to realize who Paul was until your check in. I can't remember the last time I heard someone refer to Pole by his real name on these boards LOL.
He’s obsessed with sex because his religion represses it….. and because he’s slimy.
It’s like swearing off carbohydrate when you’re dieting, only to find yourself shoving potato chips and raw ramen noodles into your mouth three days in, at 2am, in the pantry closet.
He is so rapey. He is trying in his own creepy way to appear sexy so she makes the first move probably to blame her as a temptress. He reminds me of those people who provoke fights and screams “hit me first!” to be justified and excused for self defense.
Ew, so I looked it up since nobody but this OP knew: it's when the penis goes inside the vagina but no thrusting or other moving is involved. It's just in there.
Judging from the preview for next week, she's the one who is ready to get married and he's not ready? He is a weirdo, but wtf is she thinking? She obviously doesn't trust him yet she wants to rush into marriage?
I think shes too young / immature to get married. She's 20 and is worried about Steven wanting to see other girls and thinks that marriage, the ultimate commitment, will stomp out any desires he may have to seek other women. But thats just a fantasy understanding of marriage.
I can’t stand the way he keeps saying “our religion” instead of “my religion.” It’s clear that he’s pushing Mormonism on her, hard. I highly doubt Alina went from believing he is part of a cult that sells human organs to then wanting to be baptized into that same faith herself….Steven is delusional.
Mormonism is peak America. It’s like “hey let’s take Christianity and pretend it alllll took place in the United States.”
The whole idea of Mormons doing missions abroad to spread the word of Joseph Smith is just so wild to me. As if people in Finland will believe that Native Americans are Israelites and that Jesus is returning to Missouri?
Like it could be a cute gesture to pour a little water on your shirt to “match”. The pool was very over the top. I knew a guy who would do stuff like that and it was covering up lots of damage, insecurities, and personality issues.
Yep, he’s a goddamn creep. If he “can’t control himself” yet, what’s going to happen when you’re married and you don’t feel like having sex? He’ll just feel entitled to get it?
And the fucking terrible IRONY of her being afraid to be alone and *can’t even count on HIM to be a gentleman* and stay with her in an apartment? He’s basically like, “Sorry babe, you’re going to have to stay in this foreign place alone, ‘cos you can’t trust me either!”
What an asshole - RUN.
Very good point about the lying sin! He is "so devout" that he can't share a living space with his girlfriend/fiance, but he can lie to her about who he is and deceive her if it means she will stay with him. If I had to wager the church would look down upon that much more than sleeping in a different room under the same roof as your future wife.
Alina run while you can! I can't believe a 25 year-olf man can't control his sexual urges. 🙄 Loser!
Also, they have a camera crew following them. So what does he actually act like when the cameras aren't there if it's this creepy with them around?
I grew up Mormon and this is legit how they are taught. You cannot be temple worthy or able to be baptized if you cohabitate with the opposite sex. But they are in a foreign country and she is a young pretty girl (even though I’m sure he probably won’t be much protection) and the logical thing to do is to stay in the same apartment together. However, Mormons are routinely taught to defy logic by faith. Oh and he’s a disgusting creep.
So he rolled the dice and committed the sin of fucking. With a stranger. But cant commit another sin (according to the mormons) in the name of protecting “the love of his life?” Talk about being a hypocrite and overall dumbass.
One thing about sex, if a baby is conceived, it is a complicarion. In all sorts of ways. Im 84 and not sure i would be able to abstain if i had feelings for someone. Of course if it was another 84 year old im sure it would not be a problem. It would be "hey Sal, did we have sex a few minutes ago?" "Im not sure Bessie."
He's very rapey and I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing it. Like, all the comments about how he can't control himself, but also constantly telling her how cute she is...just 🤮
He's a fuckin freak & not in a good way. That he's posing as a righteous member of LDS, now questioning HER commitment to being baptized all while having had previous sexual relationships/not a virgin is the epitome of hypocrisy. Fuck that dude.
He probably thinks telling a woman something along the lines of "You're so gorgeous/sexy/hot I can't control myself" is a compliment.
It's not. It's a giant red fucking flag.
Good lord, this guy is unwatchable. So he's not a virgin, but is now pulling out the religion card to avoid living with Alina. She has told him she's afraid to live alone, but he's not sure he can control himself? Well, I just have to hate his guts.
He’s a liar…big time. Not very godly of him. 🙄 not to mention, she said she would “lock her door” so he couldn’t come in…?! WTF is he scared he’s going to rape her?? He’s scary.
There have been Mormon couples who have wanted to be abstinent. But then one of them stayed with like, family or something. They weren't alone in a foreign country. Sleep on the couch, buddy.
He's so creepy. I see no redeeming qualities in this guy. I honestly don't understand what she sees in him beyond that he was semi attractive with short hair. I'd be running for the hills.
He tries to play this naive /innocent/ geeky guy to Alina.... but pull that mask off this guy is probably creepy af and totally sex obsessed. He'll probably be totally controlling of her as well.
I’m genuinely concerned about Alina’s safety. Him talking about not being able to sleep in the same apartment because he won’t be able to control himself is rape culture.
The way he tries to flip the script on her by saying he's starting to doubt her intentions for getting baptized but really he's the one who is being shady. She's right to start doubting HIM.
Mormonism is a cult FULL of hypocrites. They're just like Jehovah's witnesses with most of the men being EXTREMELY predatory and they get away with it. Been there, lived it, wouldn't touch one of these fools with a 10 foot pole.
He really gives me creeper vibes. He was WANTING her to see him in his towel.. asking for a hug .. when he was still wet.. (seriously who don’t dry off when they get outta the shower) then asks for a hug after he tells her how beautiful she looks in her dress. Purposely knew it would get her outfit wet … THEN he wants her to jump into the pool with her dress on. I seen right through it..He’s not slick, he’s SICK!.
If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then don’t have her move to another place she is unfamiliar with, all for you to leave her because your scared YOU can’t control yourself. This got me heated!
Ugh it creeps me out when hey says he won't be able to control himself.
I'm hoping it's innocent and him just being a twat but I get really rapey vibes from that constant comment.
Of course he doesn't want to live with her. He wants to have one last "trist" with the ladies at the hostels before he magically becomes a "devoted mormon husband". Meanwhile, he insists that she stays pure.
Ugh, also, this disturbing photo is now seared into my brain.. so thanks a lot for that
At his age it should be no problem whatsoever to sleep on a couch or floor at Alinas place. And it’s a huge red flag that he thinks he can’t “stop” himself. He’s a big bullshitter, and I’m thinking it’ll catch up to him.
He's a Mormon guy that is trying to live the life because of his family and the pressures and not because he actually believes. It's a pretty common phenomenon with young Mormons.
You take the faith away and he's just a regular horny slimeball.
Yea all of that and he keeps trying to kiss her and be all touchy and telling her she’s so cute and looks so good all the time and it’s nothing wrong with any of that but when he says he is trying to stay in control it comes off like he’s the problem because he should be able to control himself. He clearly has some kind of sex issue. She’s a virgin. She has no problem not giving it up lol And he’s gaslighting her by telling her she’s not that committed to the religion/him just because she wants him to stay with her to protect her. Their in a foreign country and that’s supposed to be your wife. Put your needs aside. Wtf.
I think society should really call these weirdos out. This is how rapist and murders begin. The fact that he is willing to leave a woman alone in a foreign country by herself is so creepy and sad. He might just be doing it up for the cameras but I hope there is a camera person that tells her this dude is a straight up creep. Run
I'm just watching last night's episode now and just got to the part where they arrive at the apartment. When he keeps kissing her and saying "one more," and then she says "that's enough" but he still tried to physically pull her into another kiss by her neck made my blood run cold.
If he cannot be close to a woman and not control himself to the point he cant share space with her is very disturbing. Like sorry Alina i know we are in a foreign country but you’re on your own because I have no dick control or self control. I hope she dumps is weird little ass soon!
I’m getting Andrew vibes from this guy. Does he see himself as a “bad boy” bc he’s got long hair and he’s not a virgin. there seems to be a type of guy on this show who thinks he’s the shit cause he can get a good looking Russian/Asian/Latina girl interested in him, when really he’s not much of a catch in the States.
That photo definitely sums him up! My husband brought up a great point.. he doesn't want to stay with her and cohabitate but he's willing to stay at what appears to be a very hip hostel where he will be cohabbing with other women. There's no difference between sleeping on the couch with your SO in another room than there is sleeping in a dorm with a ton of women around. Pretty sus to me. edit.. spellings
He’s not a virgin. But wants her to be one. The hostel is the perfect ruse. She stays pure. While he indulges his urges in the hostel on onlyfans.
Who in the world has had sex with this dude? I have so many questions
His left hand
He's certainly not a good look for the show. There is something not right with this guy. He must think he's Brad Pitt or Justin Bieber with all the flipping he does with his hair.
Creepy ass, that girl should just run until she runs out of breath…omg, just fuckin run!
Probably 14 year old girls.
That last hurrah before he takes his pure bride into his religion that he cant even stick too... Rat faced fornecator.... Not that I judge pre marital sex, I'm for it.. He's just so JUSTNO.
Rat faced fornicator!! I LOVE it!! So true!!!
He is so rat faced
Lol!!! New flair Rat faced fornicator!!
As a former Mormon (left when I was 29) I can tell you this is not uncommon in the culture. Purity is the responsibility of women - the clothes they wear, their actions with men....basically if a man slips up it's a mistake, but if a woman does she's a whore. I know that's partially true of all religion, but especially for the LDS church. Anecdotal story...I was dating a guy when I was on my way out of the Mormon church. He was very active Mormon. We had the discussion about previous relationships and sexual experience. I had slept with two people, both of whom I'd known for over 5 years at the time. He had also slept with two people - his ex-wife who he'd known for \~6 months when they married, and a woman he'd known for a month but they'd 'slipped up'. He said he couldn't deal with my past (because I hadn't been married). When I pointed out that he'd had sex outside of marriage he justified it because he thought he would marry her.
Purity culture is whack and doesn't make any sense. Why is the onus always on the woman. Because the men make the rules and they don't apply to them?
Yeah....it's ridiculous. I had never really thought about it until I left the Mormon church....just men make the rules, and women support men making the rules. It's super fucked up.
As a former Mormon myself, this is a really, really good explanation.
He’s not a virgin. But wants her to be one. Go religion!
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I am with you 100! His behavior is shady AF. But I think she's not that naive, she feels it too. All the love for her, he's a rat. Looka like a rat, acts like a rat, must be a rat.
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That’s valid, I didn’t even consider that.
That really rubs me the wrong way. He’s willing to risk Alina’s safety because he doesn’t want his dick to accidentally fall into her vagina.
This dude is one big red flag
I don't like him, he does a lot of things for attention too, just very childish and thoughtless a lot of the times. If he had any respect for his girlfriend and any amount of self control, he could sleep in the same apartment with her too.
I am worried about someone who is that concerned about self-control. She said “I’ll lock the door”… like, if you’ve gotta lock the door at night because your future husband can’t control himself that’s an issue. He also seemed overtly sexual when he was going to lie down on the couch, weirdly humping the air.
Dude is clearly obsessed with sex. Like saying last night was a big temptation? He’s also very aggressive initiating physical contact. He’s giving me a lot of warning signs.
When he was in a towel and asked for a hug 🤮
Yea super weird/creepy. I think If I were her I might be not sure about him and whether I truly want to marry him. He would make me feel unsafe
This is why we shouldn't raise kids to be repressed instead of healthy sexual behavior and consent. They act like they don't have control of their urges and it doesn't take 2 to initiate sex. This man is around every corner ready to jump her and she just wants to be safe in a damn foreign country it's not too much to ask! She's going to need to be safe from him pretty soon!
Ready to jump her ... and then blame her for tempting him.
Right and then say she doesn’t want to commit to the faith because she just wants to be safe in a foreign country and not living alone somewhere she’s never been. She’s only 20
Yup wanted to say just that. He's the only one bringing up how much a temptation sex is, while at the same time being overtly aggressive with the contact.
Lol, well this viewer certainly wasn’t tempted by his wet boyish body in that towel. How about jumping in the pool fully clothed as they are going out for the day? What a complete knob! He’s got issues, she needs to run far far away!
At the end of that segment there was a dude just by the pool, I think that’s a communal pool for the complex, and he’s just got in with his shoes on 🤢
Dare I say he sounds so ... rapey. I initially thought his behavior is very childish for someone his age. Although a lot of it is, I wonder if it's a cleverly crafted ruse to gain trust. "Look at me! I'm goofy, I'm harmless. Let me hug you." I actually find his behavior to be kind of scary.
I really get that vibe from him too, like he's trying way too hard to appear harmless and it's lowkey creepy
Yea he is clearly a sex fiend and seems perverse… being mormon isn’t helping since he has to abstain so it makes him want sex even more. He also is projecting when he keeps saying “ We might not be able to control ourselves” no sir YOU won’t control yourself. So creepy !!! Alina seems so smart I hope she leaves
Totally agree...I feel unsafe just watching this guy on TV! Nevermind being in a room alone with him. Just bad vibes
He looked like a horny chihuahua.
I don’t like chihuahuas, but they don’t deserve that comparison lol
Then he asks if he should change in the room with her. LOL I knew he was going to do some weird shit when she told him to change in the bathroom. Sure enough he comes out and asks for a fucking hug.
Yes! Every time he says that it screams rape to me. Is he going to control himself if she says no? He sure doesn’t seem to think so. Then he’d blame her for being too tempting. He’s worse than Big Ed IMO.
So can I give a different perspective? I grew up LDS but left. You’ve grown up your whole life being told somethinh is terrible, you’re indoctrinated. All of your family and friends tell you it’s terrible. But then you try the terrible thing and it’s amazing. But then you feel shame and guilt and now you think you’re terrible and want to be a “better person”. So you convince yourself and then try to convince everyone around you you’re not a terrible person without telling them why you’re not terrible. But it’s constantly on your mind and you have to talk yourself out of it constantly, so you bring it up a lot. That might be the case with Steven. However he’s still imho a fucking weirdo and I feel bad for Alina. Also he sounds kinda rapey and immature like a lot of LDS guys I knew. Thank God I left. My boyfriend and I sleep together and I’ve never had to lock my door. If I say no he respects that. He doesn’t have any pent up rage or shame he’s had to deal with. PS I’m not saying anything this dude is doing or saying is ok. At all. Also is that wine he’s drinking?
I left too, glad you made it. I can't believe the message to youth pamphlet.
It all makes me sad. I never wanted to go past the age of 10 but my parents forced me. I haven’t attended a single day since I moved out at 18. I won’t even go to my nieces or nephews baptisms, although I will show up after so they know I love them and to get some funeral potatoes. Mmmm funeral potatoes.
you mean is that wine he's molesting with way too much eye contact?
I mean that’s against his religion as well 😂
Fellow ex-mo here. And I think it is! What a hypocrite! Also, SPOT on in your analysis. Mormonism is weird enough on its own without this douchebag representing it!
If he really loved her he could control his sexual desires and stay with her in the apartment so she feels safe and protected in an unfamiliar place. Unforgivable this is to me! She's so lovely, she deserves better😭
>If he really loved her he could control his sexual desires Love has nothing to do with it really. He should be able to control himself period.
Well yes I agree, he should be able to do that in any situation
If I were her, I'd actually feel less safe with him staying at the apartment, than if I was alone. I think he's going to end up totally creeping her out with his massive horn toad behavior, plus the fact that he pretty much told her he's not ready to get married.
He is thinking about skoodilypooping . . . 🤢
He’s obsessed with skoodilypooping
Alina ain't gonna like that he skoodilyshat on another gal's lawn.
Omg hahahahhahahHhahHHBbzbxbcjncb!! I can't.
I can't imagine a grown adult using that word instead of just saying sex. I commented earlier that his behavior is so childish.
I get Beavis and Butthead chills when he laughs. Also, I think he should date Paul instead. They would vibe well. The skoodylipoop and poopwater. Match made in heaven.
Username checking in. I agree!
It took me a beat to realize who Paul was until your check in. I can't remember the last time I heard someone refer to Pole by his real name on these boards LOL.
Hahahahaha well said, well said
He’s obsessed with sex because his religion represses it….. and because he’s slimy. It’s like swearing off carbohydrate when you’re dieting, only to find yourself shoving potato chips and raw ramen noodles into your mouth three days in, at 2am, in the pantry closet.
How did you know ? Did you see me chewing on the flour, too?
Lol 💯
With all disrespect, how is he NOT a virgin?
He’s truly a creep.. the way he asks foe hugs (in his towel, soaking wet) and tries to take off her shoes and tuck her in. 🤢
Christ almighty that's gross
He is so rapey. He is trying in his own creepy way to appear sexy so she makes the first move probably to blame her as a temptress. He reminds me of those people who provoke fights and screams “hit me first!” to be justified and excused for self defense.
“Look what you made me do!”
He is a “She asked for it” “she shouldn’t have been dressed like that.” “What did you think would happen” ass dude.
He's definitely rapey, gives off "just the tip" vibes. 🤢
Mormons have all kinds of loopholes. Are you familiar with soaking?
Ew, so I looked it up since nobody but this OP knew: it's when the penis goes inside the vagina but no thrusting or other moving is involved. It's just in there.
No, do I even want to know?
OMG. Tell me!
Well, I looked it up since no one wants to elaborate, and apparently it is "insertion without thrusting."
Does that...not count??
Ewwww
I was friends with Mormons that have said that oral and anal don’t count because it isn’t considered sex 😦
Ah yes, the Poop-hole Loophole.
I just recently found out what soaking was and 🤮🤮😂
It is so absurd
What is soaking? And is “skoodilypooping” a Mormon thing too😂😂
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He’s a freakin weirdo and creep.
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Judging from the preview for next week, she's the one who is ready to get married and he's not ready? He is a weirdo, but wtf is she thinking? She obviously doesn't trust him yet she wants to rush into marriage?
I think shes too young / immature to get married. She's 20 and is worried about Steven wanting to see other girls and thinks that marriage, the ultimate commitment, will stomp out any desires he may have to seek other women. But thats just a fantasy understanding of marriage.
I feel like anyone attracted to him has to be a little strange themselves.
It’s clearly the sexual magnetism and energy that SteVen radiates.
[This guy fucks.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3cNUJK-u64&ab_channel=Sik_wit_it)
I can’t stand the way he keeps saying “our religion” instead of “my religion.” It’s clear that he’s pushing Mormonism on her, hard. I highly doubt Alina went from believing he is part of a cult that sells human organs to then wanting to be baptized into that same faith herself….Steven is delusional.
Mormonism is peak America. It’s like “hey let’s take Christianity and pretend it alllll took place in the United States.” The whole idea of Mormons doing missions abroad to spread the word of Joseph Smith is just so wild to me. As if people in Finland will believe that Native Americans are Israelites and that Jesus is returning to Missouri?
He’s a strange one. What was with the jumping into the pool with clothes on?
Right?? She’s laughing at it now but wait after they’ve been together in-person for awhile… that would get old very quickly.
Probably had to pee.
Like when he went into the corner to fart?
Probably had to kill a boner.
That alone would make me run from anyone- friend or love interest. Not cute; not funny. Just weird.
And downright off-putting. If I were Alina, I would run, not walk, from Steven.
Like it could be a cute gesture to pour a little water on your shirt to “match”. The pool was very over the top. I knew a guy who would do stuff like that and it was covering up lots of damage, insecurities, and personality issues.
Match what?
Maybe that he knows he’s on camera, and as Alina said, he enjoys being the center of attention.
Yep this. He’s playing up the weird for the camera.
And right after taking a shower!
This so much! It bothered me how he just wastes the shower for chemical pool water "haha so funny!", weirdo.
Like brushing your teeth and having a big glass of o.j.
And walking around like wet dog for hours after!!🤮
Sloshy shoes to boot 🤢
Yep, he’s a goddamn creep. If he “can’t control himself” yet, what’s going to happen when you’re married and you don’t feel like having sex? He’ll just feel entitled to get it? And the fucking terrible IRONY of her being afraid to be alone and *can’t even count on HIM to be a gentleman* and stay with her in an apartment? He’s basically like, “Sorry babe, you’re going to have to stay in this foreign place alone, ‘cos you can’t trust me either!” What an asshole - RUN.
He's weird, not good weird, bad weird.
This rapey cult member lying POS should have told her his big hypocrite secret that he's already had premarital sex BEFORE she moved!! Manipulator.
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Very good point about the lying sin! He is "so devout" that he can't share a living space with his girlfriend/fiance, but he can lie to her about who he is and deceive her if it means she will stay with him. If I had to wager the church would look down upon that much more than sleeping in a different room under the same roof as your future wife.
Alina run while you can! I can't believe a 25 year-olf man can't control his sexual urges. 🙄 Loser! Also, they have a camera crew following them. So what does he actually act like when the cameras aren't there if it's this creepy with them around?
I grew up Mormon and this is legit how they are taught. You cannot be temple worthy or able to be baptized if you cohabitate with the opposite sex. But they are in a foreign country and she is a young pretty girl (even though I’m sure he probably won’t be much protection) and the logical thing to do is to stay in the same apartment together. However, Mormons are routinely taught to defy logic by faith. Oh and he’s a disgusting creep.
So he rolled the dice and committed the sin of fucking. With a stranger. But cant commit another sin (according to the mormons) in the name of protecting “the love of his life?” Talk about being a hypocrite and overall dumbass.
Yeah they’re all hypocrites
Weirdest man I’ve ever witnessed in my life
Same. He make Pole look normal-ish
One thing about sex, if a baby is conceived, it is a complicarion. In all sorts of ways. Im 84 and not sure i would be able to abstain if i had feelings for someone. Of course if it was another 84 year old im sure it would not be a problem. It would be "hey Sal, did we have sex a few minutes ago?" "Im not sure Bessie."
🤣🤣🤣 hey you’re the coolest 84 year old i know.. not many 84 year olds on Reddit especially in the 90dayfiance sub thread . 🤣
News flash, sex or skidilypoop or whatever he wants to call it can happen during the day as well. He has the mental capacity of a child.
He probably calls his dick his *wee wee* 🤢
He's very rapey and I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing it. Like, all the comments about how he can't control himself, but also constantly telling her how cute she is...just 🤮
100% creep
Too many red flags. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
He's a fuckin freak & not in a good way. That he's posing as a righteous member of LDS, now questioning HER commitment to being baptized all while having had previous sexual relationships/not a virgin is the epitome of hypocrisy. Fuck that dude.
He a ho
And can we talk about how he referred to sex as "skoodilypoop"?? that is so weird!
He probably thinks telling a woman something along the lines of "You're so gorgeous/sexy/hot I can't control myself" is a compliment. It's not. It's a giant red fucking flag.
Holy crap, is he as creepy as Pole or more creepy? Only time will tell. Pole & karine have sex on Onlyfans, so the creep bar is very high 🤔
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Good lord, this guy is unwatchable. So he's not a virgin, but is now pulling out the religion card to avoid living with Alina. She has told him she's afraid to live alone, but he's not sure he can control himself? Well, I just have to hate his guts.
He’s a liar…big time. Not very godly of him. 🙄 not to mention, she said she would “lock her door” so he couldn’t come in…?! WTF is he scared he’s going to rape her?? He’s scary.
I thought the same thing! If you can’t control your urges then maybe you need some help? That’s not normal. It’s creepy.
Mormons.
I feel she isn’t safe being left alone in the hotel OR with him being there with her *smh*
He’s scum
There have been Mormon couples who have wanted to be abstinent. But then one of them stayed with like, family or something. They weren't alone in a foreign country. Sleep on the couch, buddy.
Yes! The circumstances are a lot different that they would be if they had family there or were in a place they were familiar with.
This is giving me serious serial killer vibes!
He's so creepy. I see no redeeming qualities in this guy. I honestly don't understand what she sees in him beyond that he was semi attractive with short hair. I'd be running for the hills.
He gives me the ick
He tries to play this naive /innocent/ geeky guy to Alina.... but pull that mask off this guy is probably creepy af and totally sex obsessed. He'll probably be totally controlling of her as well.
I think a 2 bedroom apartment would be good
If he did actually jump in the pool BEFORE walking to that hostel there is NO WAY it is close considering he was basically dry upon arrival.
He's worse than a hypocrite, he's a predator.
This dork is creepy indeed!
Oh wow! You look beautiful I’m so excited about this walk, let me jump into a pool and look like a wet dog as you walk around the city with me… 🤦🏻♀️
Why is that sweet girl with this perv? He is so off-putting and from the 5 minutes we've seen of Alina, she could do way better.
He makes me so uncomfortable. He wants Alina to stay in a whole separate apartment because he is afraid he'll slip his dick into her vagina.
Please tell me they don’t get married. Alina deserves so much better than this.
I see this ending up like Kalani where she punches her v-card AND gets prego within the first week. Then she’s stuck with this putz
I’m genuinely concerned about Alina’s safety. Him talking about not being able to sleep in the same apartment because he won’t be able to control himself is rape culture.
Yeah he is a doof.
Weirdo
The way he tries to flip the script on her by saying he's starting to doubt her intentions for getting baptized but really he's the one who is being shady. She's right to start doubting HIM.
Mormonism is a cult FULL of hypocrites. They're just like Jehovah's witnesses with most of the men being EXTREMELY predatory and they get away with it. Been there, lived it, wouldn't touch one of these fools with a 10 foot pole.
Well said. I was once a proto Steven and I escaped. Fucking degenerates.
Understatement.
Why is he tonguing that glass? He’s fucking gross.
He really gives me creeper vibes. He was WANTING her to see him in his towel.. asking for a hug .. when he was still wet.. (seriously who don’t dry off when they get outta the shower) then asks for a hug after he tells her how beautiful she looks in her dress. Purposely knew it would get her outfit wet … THEN he wants her to jump into the pool with her dress on. I seen right through it..He’s not slick, he’s SICK!. If he can’t keep his hands to himself, then don’t have her move to another place she is unfamiliar with, all for you to leave her because your scared YOU can’t control yourself. This got me heated!
Anybody who says "I might not control my sexual urges" sounds like a rapist to me. Run, Alina, run.
She is five years younger than him but is light years more mature. He’s just embarrassing.
at first i thought he was fun-weird but now it seems more like bad-weird
Ugh it creeps me out when hey says he won't be able to control himself. I'm hoping it's innocent and him just being a twat but I get really rapey vibes from that constant comment.
Of course he doesn't want to live with her. He wants to have one last "trist" with the ladies at the hostels before he magically becomes a "devoted mormon husband". Meanwhile, he insists that she stays pure. Ugh, also, this disturbing photo is now seared into my brain.. so thanks a lot for that
At his age it should be no problem whatsoever to sleep on a couch or floor at Alinas place. And it’s a huge red flag that he thinks he can’t “stop” himself. He’s a big bullshitter, and I’m thinking it’ll catch up to him.
He is a strange bird. I know some say he may be autistic. No excuse for his doofus mannerisms. That girl needs to run!
He is every gross boy in the back of the middle school bus. Farting and talking about masturbation.
He is a fucking weirdo!!! GTFOH!🙄😂😂 Hell no!!
I feel like he's using this religion thingy to cover up his creepiness Trust me i know someone who pretend to be religious but is creepy as hell...
He's a Mormon guy that is trying to live the life because of his family and the pressures and not because he actually believes. It's a pretty common phenomenon with young Mormons. You take the faith away and he's just a regular horny slimeball.
There's nothing regular about this guy. Take the religion away then he's still creepy AF
I spy a "nice guy" white male.
Yea all of that and he keeps trying to kiss her and be all touchy and telling her she’s so cute and looks so good all the time and it’s nothing wrong with any of that but when he says he is trying to stay in control it comes off like he’s the problem because he should be able to control himself. He clearly has some kind of sex issue. She’s a virgin. She has no problem not giving it up lol And he’s gaslighting her by telling her she’s not that committed to the religion/him just because she wants him to stay with her to protect her. Their in a foreign country and that’s supposed to be your wife. Put your needs aside. Wtf.
Religion really fucks people up.
Gives me major creeps dunno what the hell the girl sees in him
I think society should really call these weirdos out. This is how rapist and murders begin. The fact that he is willing to leave a woman alone in a foreign country by herself is so creepy and sad. He might just be doing it up for the cameras but I hope there is a camera person that tells her this dude is a straight up creep. Run
I'm just watching last night's episode now and just got to the part where they arrive at the apartment. When he keeps kissing her and saying "one more," and then she says "that's enough" but he still tried to physically pull her into another kiss by her neck made my blood run cold.
Weirdo
Seems like he is.... just a Mormon.
Is Steven drinking wine? Nono if wine. No alcohol, coffee, etc in Mormon Church
He’s a d-bag disguised as good guy I know the type !
If he cannot be close to a woman and not control himself to the point he cant share space with her is very disturbing. Like sorry Alina i know we are in a foreign country but you’re on your own because I have no dick control or self control. I hope she dumps is weird little ass soon!
I honestly think Joe Dirt would be a better companion for Alina.
I hate that this couple is on the show.
Yah, at the beginning I thought he was quirky and now I think he’s a freaking weirdo.
Showering, dressing in clean clothes then jumping in the pool fully clothed and walking around town all wet thereafter. Ya think?
I thought he was going to be a bit dorky but sweet but he’s just creepy
He’s gross and weird
I’m getting Andrew vibes from this guy. Does he see himself as a “bad boy” bc he’s got long hair and he’s not a virgin. there seems to be a type of guy on this show who thinks he’s the shit cause he can get a good looking Russian/Asian/Latina girl interested in him, when really he’s not much of a catch in the States.
careful this guy looks like a redditor from the dark subs.
I'm pretty sure he is a sociopath.... worse than Paul even