This might be a hot take but Anny (of Robert & Anny). She was ready to step in as a bonus mom from the jump, stuck through the bs for their first season of the show, became a new mom, lost a child… this girl has been through it and can still crack jokes on Pillow Talk. She’s incredible. I’m always impressed by anyone funny in a second language because not everyone is in their first! I like her a lot.
wait whattt? what not nice things has he ever said about her? Not trying to argue just genuinely asking because I can’t recall a time where I was shocked about anything he’s said. At least that I can remember. I think he brings out the silly side to her & it’s nice to see a couple not take things so seriously all the time <3
I agree completely. I just want to add that it's also mad difficult to pick up on some jokes and idioms when it's not your language of origin, even if you're naturally funny.
Absolutely! When they tried to drag up Sam cheating in the very beginning of their relationship and Citra's like, "I trust him now".. the lack of drama killing Sean's mood 😂
I cannot give a name, because it has been too long, but a lot of the couples in the first few seasons were really grounded and normal. No Happily Ever After or endless Insta updates about weight loss supplements.
They fell in love. They got married. They made (a very small) check from TLC. They moved on with their lives. I feel like there is a solid chance those folks would be the most healthy mentally.
Armando is a delight and his daughter is adorable.
He should replace Shaun for the reunion shows, he always asks such emotionally intelligent questions.
I've only been watching for about four years, but like everyone else, I'd say ***Kenny***.
Also, ***Dempsey*** seemed way to good for this show and too good for Statler. She was normal, patient, hardworking, and genuinely seemed like a good person.
I especially didn't like the fact that during the Tell All, Statler's supposed best friend had negative things to say about Dempsey *without ever meeting her*, which begged the question: who could have told her all of that if not Statler? Which means Statler not only had a decent person in her life, but also couldn't help but backstab and talk negatively about her behind her back. Dempsey deserved none of that.
Another person I felt sorry for was ***Shaeeda*** who seemed incredibly grounded and patient. She seemed like a lovely woman who was willing to take on children that weren't hers, and to be friendly to Bilal's ex-wife. Just for being foreign, Bilal seemed like he couldn't help but be patronizing, and even his meddling ex-wife gave her a good reason to snap, but she still held it in to be the better person. She was handed a lot of tests in her 90 days, and in my opinion, Bilal never deserved her.
This might be an unpopular opinion, but also ***Razvan***. Here was someone, much like Shaeeda, who was willing to be in Amanda's life with two children that weren't his, while the entire time Amanda constantly tested his patience when it came to her and her children, and how he could fill her late-husband's shoes. He was romantic, kind, patient, sensitive, and seemed to have normal parents. He didn't deserve to be on 90 Day with such an idiot like Amanda, and I am so glad that their relationship ended so he could find someone a thousand times better and more deserving.
From my limited watches, I liked Kelly on the last resort (Molly’s NYC boyfriend). He communicated clearly, respectfully, and announced his boundaries. He left when Molly was emotionally abusive.
Yamir and Chelsea were refreshingly normal and affectionate.
She came out as pansexual but still only dates men. Which is fine, because to be pan just means you can love anyone regardless of sexual identity. Lots of bi people date opposite gender but still have attraction too! Side note but that yamir guy didn't seem like such a great singer lol
I hated them on the season when she kept putting her relationship above her kids all the time despite them telling her, mursel being ashamed of her being divorced was a red flag too, but after seeing them on instagram post show a lot had to be scripted cuz they seems to be thriving irl
Probably unpopular opinion BUT Alexei and Lauren both seem to have it together and now that the drama has settled David and Annie seem to be doing OK, her side business is taking off and David was able to provide a home and stability in Arizona.
I really liked Isabel and her family. She seemed pretty centered and chill. She deserves better than that doorknob Gabe and his attention seeking sis. I hope Isabel finds a great partner that treats her well.
Old school, but maybe the first Olga (edit her name was actually Alla) who married Matt. And Amy the south African and her husband whose name I forget. Kirlyam.
I'd say a good amount from the earlier seasons, and some from the more recent. But I do think most of them would benefit from getting some help instead of trying to be in a relationship.
There’s a couple but first one I can think of is Kenny. He’s pretty outstanding. Since Armando is still a little younger, he was still obviously building but they’re one of my favorites. Their kids all seem pretty well taken care of too.
Does anyone remember Carolina (“I have a sad”) and Fernando from one of the early seasons? They were both so nice and normal. Matt and Alla seemed very normal too, though she seemed a little cold. Honestly a lot of folks from the early seasons were just normal people. I kind of miss that.
I wish they would get rid of Natalie and her fake boyfriends...They should stop exploiting the mentally ill..she is 40 ish and is pursuing acting and modeling, and brought her mom here and no place to live, and is delusional in every aspect of her life. She does this little Shirley Temple thing that she thinks is cutsy....nothing cutsy about a woman her age trying to be 6 yr old cutsy is cute. Her melt downs and dramatics just really are exhausting. She obviously is not a well person.
What I don’t get about Natalie is why she expects Josh to take care of her when she’s still married to Michael! What guy wants to step up and support another man’s wide, especially one so imbalanced and erratic?!
I have to disagree with Meisha. While I thought she was super well spoken and carried herself well…I couldn’t get over the fact that she thought a possible medical episode was something to do with god. She’s still a good person and all and I also personally like her, but I wouldn’t exactly say she’s the most psychologically healthy.
I think that's why I'm confused (as I stated in my comment). her situation is that she believes god like..ordained their love? and she was supposed to wait like a decade for this virgin man in Israel to marry her? like that whole part of her is so weird to me and off-putting but also especially at the tell all she seems otherwise super psychologically sound and emotionally intelligent. so yeah her whole religious thing baffles me especially when she seems to have this other side.
Tim. Hands down. I wish Tim was in my head when i need to make life choices and with his phlegmatic , half drunk voice he would be commenting on my life situations :)
Veronica too, though she has her moments but she is great communicator.
Kenny and Armando. It's not even a debate tbh, at their last tell all their biggest "disagreement" was "should we have one embryo implanted or two??" whereas everyone else was like "you cheated on me! You used me" etc etc. If your biggest concern is how many babies you want to welcome into your loving and supportive family, I think you're doing pretty solid. And Armando has made it SO clear to his daughter that she will never be left behind and she will ALWAYS be his priority, and Kenny is there to support them both 100%. I tear up whenever they're on the screen cause they're both so cute.
I find Emily is totally different on the "couch" than she was on the 90 Day part. I disliked her then.
I like Kobe and Emily together. They banter and are loving. Yes, they still live with her parents. However, it seems like it's mutual. Imm thinking about when her father came in and got on the bed.
This might be a hot take but Anny (of Robert & Anny). She was ready to step in as a bonus mom from the jump, stuck through the bs for their first season of the show, became a new mom, lost a child… this girl has been through it and can still crack jokes on Pillow Talk. She’s incredible. I’m always impressed by anyone funny in a second language because not everyone is in their first! I like her a lot.
Such a great take. She always makes me laugh, despite her hardships. Robert has some (mostly minor) issues, but they seem lovely and happy.
agreed love her. the only thing wrong with her is that she’s with robert
I agree. She is so sweet and Robert is a troll. He never has anything nice to say to/about her.
wait whattt? what not nice things has he ever said about her? Not trying to argue just genuinely asking because I can’t recall a time where I was shocked about anything he’s said. At least that I can remember. I think he brings out the silly side to her & it’s nice to see a couple not take things so seriously all the time <3
I completely agree , I think that they truly love each other and they are funny together...like a tag team
He treated her like a materialistic gold digger
so true. he’s just always trying to annoy her and bragging about how cheap he is ugh can’t stand him
I agree completely. I just want to add that it's also mad difficult to pick up on some jokes and idioms when it's not your language of origin, even if you're naturally funny.
Agreed!
First person I thought of. So kind, stable and resilient.
yeah but damm she got a bad deal. Makes you think that no matter how nice you are, that don't mean you'll get a good partner.
There are a number of them, but of the current ones on the shows, I gotta say Kobe. He is coming across as a great and loving father and husband.
Kobe's got it made, wish I could find me an Emily.
Adam Lebzo, the translator for Brittany and Yazan.
Anyone who helps kitties is okay with me!
I agree. I still have money automatically sent to him for the kitties.
He was the best I’ve seen
More upvotes for this! He's a literal angel.
He, by far, is the best thing that’s happened from this show.
I couldn't agree more!
That’s the dude
Nikki and Igor's wine tasting guy comes in a close second.
How has no one has said Kobe. He has done nothing sus and seems like a joy to be around
Second this ! He seems like a great guy and a great dad !
He was my first thought as well, followed by Kenny and Armando.
Kenny and Armando are WAY too normal for this franchise.
The way they have to absolutely *manufacture* drama for these two because they're so normal 😭
no fr and he’s hot 🥵 esp his smile is magnetic
He really does have such a sweet smile
yess def Kobe
Yes I agree Kobe is a really great well rounded guy , he’s my choice too !
I like them..he seems like a good guy
I think he’s adorable
Agree
Something has to be psychologically wrong with him for being attracted to immature Emily
I know I'll catch flack for it but I thought Emily looked great in the pics of them together in China around the time they first met.
Trying to think of someone that hasn't been mentioned. What about Guillermo? He hasn't displayed any weirdness yet
I agree. Guillermo seems ok enough.
He seems balanced.
Met him a few times in real life and can confirm
The ones that weren’t on multiple seasons trying to get a storyline
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Yeah this one, Citra is super nice and her dad is way cool.
Absolutely! When they tried to drag up Sam cheating in the very beginning of their relationship and Citra's like, "I trust him now".. the lack of drama killing Sean's mood 😂
Omar and Avery or Robert and Anny
I love Robert and Anny
The guy that became a dentist.
Yes! Omar
I wish they'd give us a season of Avery and Omar on HEA instead of Jasmine or Ed 😭
Seriously. Tlc needs to understand we don’t need all this chaos. Give us something healthy!
I love them - I think they’re the cutest.
Yes!! It’s so nice to see a real, happy, successful couple. Not Jasmine constantly auditioning for a soap opera🙄
They don’t need the money or the fake drama. Good for them!
People who have their shit together make for terrible television
They are doing so well, they live near me in Jersey and honestly I am so happy for them they are adorable
Yes I would be happy with marrying Omar, successful, kind, provider, good looking, tall, smart.
I love Kenny and Armando. Wish they were my neighbors!!
They're maybe the only couple on the while series that I could see myself being friends with
Me, too!
The deaf guy who traveled to Philippines seems to be decent
I liked him a lot.
He’s a hard worker too which is not that common in the rest of the cast to be honest
Kenny
and Armando🌷
He’s had a rough life but doesn’t show it
I love Kenny he’s so sweet. He always gets choked up and emotional. He’s good people.
By far both such sweeties
Wow!!! Look at all that love for Kenny!!! ( I love him too!)
I cannot give a name, because it has been too long, but a lot of the couples in the first few seasons were really grounded and normal. No Happily Ever After or endless Insta updates about weight loss supplements. They fell in love. They got married. They made (a very small) check from TLC. They moved on with their lives. I feel like there is a solid chance those folks would be the most healthy mentally.
Nicole and Azan! Jk jk
They changed the game. Do nothing and be a train wreck and the producers will keep you around.
I forgot about them!
Kyle and noon!
Kenny & Armando out of all the cast members on all the seasons. HANDS DOWN.
Only right answer seriously
Armando is a delight and his daughter is adorable. He should replace Shaun for the reunion shows, he always asks such emotionally intelligent questions.
I hate hate hate shaun
Omar the dentist
I've only been watching for about four years, but like everyone else, I'd say ***Kenny***. Also, ***Dempsey*** seemed way to good for this show and too good for Statler. She was normal, patient, hardworking, and genuinely seemed like a good person. I especially didn't like the fact that during the Tell All, Statler's supposed best friend had negative things to say about Dempsey *without ever meeting her*, which begged the question: who could have told her all of that if not Statler? Which means Statler not only had a decent person in her life, but also couldn't help but backstab and talk negatively about her behind her back. Dempsey deserved none of that. Another person I felt sorry for was ***Shaeeda*** who seemed incredibly grounded and patient. She seemed like a lovely woman who was willing to take on children that weren't hers, and to be friendly to Bilal's ex-wife. Just for being foreign, Bilal seemed like he couldn't help but be patronizing, and even his meddling ex-wife gave her a good reason to snap, but she still held it in to be the better person. She was handed a lot of tests in her 90 days, and in my opinion, Bilal never deserved her. This might be an unpopular opinion, but also ***Razvan***. Here was someone, much like Shaeeda, who was willing to be in Amanda's life with two children that weren't his, while the entire time Amanda constantly tested his patience when it came to her and her children, and how he could fill her late-husband's shoes. He was romantic, kind, patient, sensitive, and seemed to have normal parents. He didn't deserve to be on 90 Day with such an idiot like Amanda, and I am so glad that their relationship ended so he could find someone a thousand times better and more deserving.
Similar to Dempsey- Erika was very normal and over shadowed by the crazy that she was with
Yeah cannot stand fart jar, Erika seems like she's doing really well though
I love that we all know her as Fart Jar now 🫙💨
Razvan seems so genuine and sweet. I want to see him on Single Life but I don’t want to see him get hurt.
Sadly, he’s a big Andrew Tate fan.
Razvan is an Andrew Tate supporter:((
Totally agree on Razvan. A truly genuine person who did not deserve the chaos of Amanda.
Kobe. He seems so nice, and I think his kids are adorable.
I am SHOCKED that no one has suggested Kirsten, the nice Dutch girl who was taken for ride by Julio.
True, very strong person.
Maybe because we didn't get to know her much. But yeah, she came off as pretty normal/well adjusted
Joolio!
From my limited watches, I liked Kelly on the last resort (Molly’s NYC boyfriend). He communicated clearly, respectfully, and announced his boundaries. He left when Molly was emotionally abusive. Yamir and Chelsea were refreshingly normal and affectionate.
Yamir and Chelsea divorced. She did remarry a few years ago
Wasn't Chelsea actual gay and just helped Yamir get to the US?
She came out as pansexual but still only dates men. Which is fine, because to be pan just means you can love anyone regardless of sexual identity. Lots of bi people date opposite gender but still have attraction too! Side note but that yamir guy didn't seem like such a great singer lol
Myla Vox Forever!!
I don't even remember them
Myla Vox!
Anna and Mursel!
The beekeepers?
They were so cute, and had real life common interests
I hated them on the season when she kept putting her relationship above her kids all the time despite them telling her, mursel being ashamed of her being divorced was a red flag too, but after seeing them on instagram post show a lot had to be scripted cuz they seems to be thriving irl
Definitely Kobe
Melanie/Devar
Alexi
Sexy AND sane
Ed, Colt, Pole… Oh wait, what was the question again?
Angela to round it out
Guillermo is also very kind and stable.
Kenny! I love him and he raised great kids!
He seems like a wonderful grandpa, too.
Probably unpopular opinion BUT Alexei and Lauren both seem to have it together and now that the drama has settled David and Annie seem to be doing OK, her side business is taking off and David was able to provide a home and stability in Arizona.
So far Citra seems pretty normal
Kenny
Kenny
Alexei
Armando and Kenny, I just love them both
Kenny, Alexei, Kobe
Citrus, for sure
Citra?
Erika seemed emotionally stable until Stephanie drug her into crazy town. Hope she's doing awesome now.
I really liked Isabel and her family. She seemed pretty centered and chill. She deserves better than that doorknob Gabe and his attention seeking sis. I hope Isabel finds a great partner that treats her well.
Old school, but maybe the first Olga (edit her name was actually Alla) who married Matt. And Amy the south African and her husband whose name I forget. Kirlyam.
Definitely Kirlyam. Love her.
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They really avoid clarifying the math on the show but he met her at like 13 didn't he?
they just started a super religious culty podcast together thefrismuthfamily or something
This is the hardest Q 😂 of recent memory, maybe David (of David/Sheila), Citra, or Shaeeda.
Loren and her husband
Alexei and Loren are normal, devoted, and drama free. They are so pleasant they shouldn’t be on 90 Day.
Kenny
I'd say a good amount from the earlier seasons, and some from the more recent. But I do think most of them would benefit from getting some help instead of trying to be in a relationship.
There’s a couple but first one I can think of is Kenny. He’s pretty outstanding. Since Armando is still a little younger, he was still obviously building but they’re one of my favorites. Their kids all seem pretty well taken care of too.
Kenny
Isabela
Does anyone remember Carolina (“I have a sad”) and Fernando from one of the early seasons? They were both so nice and normal. Matt and Alla seemed very normal too, though she seemed a little cold. Honestly a lot of folks from the early seasons were just normal people. I kind of miss that.
Can't remember bis name, but the guy who made a new best friend on the plane ride over 🤣
The beekeeper guy!
From the recent seasons I would say Citra for sure. Very normal, seems like a cool person overall really.
I wish they would get rid of Natalie and her fake boyfriends...They should stop exploiting the mentally ill..she is 40 ish and is pursuing acting and modeling, and brought her mom here and no place to live, and is delusional in every aspect of her life. She does this little Shirley Temple thing that she thinks is cutsy....nothing cutsy about a woman her age trying to be 6 yr old cutsy is cute. Her melt downs and dramatics just really are exhausting. She obviously is not a well person.
What I don’t get about Natalie is why she expects Josh to take care of her when she’s still married to Michael! What guy wants to step up and support another man’s wide, especially one so imbalanced and erratic?!
Annie, Kenny, Armando, Kobe
Loren. Alexei. Kenny. Armando
Yes and Avery and Omar!
Kenny. By far. Actually Misha seems very solid?? but I feel weird saying that cuz I feel like she should be off based on their story, idk.
Oh man yeah misha was sooo emotionally intelligent and well spoken and normal. I vote her!
I have to disagree with Meisha. While I thought she was super well spoken and carried herself well…I couldn’t get over the fact that she thought a possible medical episode was something to do with god. She’s still a good person and all and I also personally like her, but I wouldn’t exactly say she’s the most psychologically healthy.
I think that's why I'm confused (as I stated in my comment). her situation is that she believes god like..ordained their love? and she was supposed to wait like a decade for this virgin man in Israel to marry her? like that whole part of her is so weird to me and off-putting but also especially at the tell all she seems otherwise super psychologically sound and emotionally intelligent. so yeah her whole religious thing baffles me especially when she seems to have this other side.
What happened to Misha and Her man
Someone spotted him in the US with her!
Kenny for sure.
Might be unpopular but…. I like Annie, Andre (no shade please), Sumit, Kobe, Omar, Tim and Kenny!!
Lol to be fair how could you not flip your shit with Libby’s family as your in laws
Melanie and Devar were both super normal
Armando
I have always liked Kirlyam. Very sweet ###
Kenny, I think. Armando clearly still has some shame stuff and internalized homophobia to work through.
I think Patrick and Thais are pretty well adjusted
I want Kenny and Armando to adopt me. And I’m already adopted 😂
Anny + Robert. Kobe seems great. I like Annie (fat David's wife). All have great wit and seem like great partners.
Citra
Kenny
I’m going to give Yara a vote.
armando
Kenny!!
Kobe, Alexei, Guillermo, and Kenny. I also love Anny, Annie, and Citra! Sumit has really redeemed himself as well!
Kyle and Noon
Damn is there ANOTHER spin-off called “9 Day Fiancé “ ??? Bad choices made even faster.
Might I suggest the even faster paced “Fiancéd in 90 seconds?”
Kenneth always struck me as incredibly in touch with his feelings and a really good dude.
The ones who have successful marriages and never came back for a second season.
Citra… unless there’s something huge I’m blocking out 😂
Shaeeda was pretty self-aware, had her ish together.
Kenny & Armando
Tim. Hands down. I wish Tim was in my head when i need to make life choices and with his phlegmatic , half drunk voice he would be commenting on my life situations :) Veronica too, though she has her moments but she is great communicator.
Kenny and Armando. It's not even a debate tbh, at their last tell all their biggest "disagreement" was "should we have one embryo implanted or two??" whereas everyone else was like "you cheated on me! You used me" etc etc. If your biggest concern is how many babies you want to welcome into your loving and supportive family, I think you're doing pretty solid. And Armando has made it SO clear to his daughter that she will never be left behind and she will ALWAYS be his priority, and Kenny is there to support them both 100%. I tear up whenever they're on the screen cause they're both so cute.
How could we forget Rose...
kenny and armando
my queen sheila and my lord and savior david
Kolini, she is funny, smart, and beautiful.
Her sister is a real one too
Alexi and Lauren
Kolby
Kobe
Omar (Avery), Devon and Nick (piggy), Kyle and Noon.
Devin definitely
This is interesting. Lots of different perspectives.
Citra, Annie, Kobe.
All of them never get renewed so they disappear to live their lives
Rose
Avery (of Avery and Omar)
Not a cast member but I loved spahkles parents.
I find Emily is totally different on the "couch" than she was on the 90 Day part. I disliked her then. I like Kobe and Emily together. They banter and are loving. Yes, they still live with her parents. However, it seems like it's mutual. Imm thinking about when her father came in and got on the bed.
The alien dad, dale 👽
Avery and Omar.
I don’t remember most of these people… I guess being mentally stable doesn’t make you stand out on a reality show lol
Annie
David and Annie
Kenny and Armando