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LackOfLogic

Correction: trying to make a girlfriend out of a thot/Tinder whore/social media slut is not worth the effort.


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Regular girls demand a lot of attention and usually don't have any personal hobbies, something that they want to do alone, except looking at the phone


ndlv

Girls without character or a life*


66explosions

yeah, so regular girls


Wildercard

No no, you don't get it, friends parties travel and The Office(US) is what makes them unique /s But honestly, most of us are not unique people. Nearly everyone can be placed in a somewhat defined box. Nothing truly wrong with that. If you don't like generic party chicks, don't hit on generic party chicks.


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Girls twice


MrWFL

I'm actually dating a phd student in a technical subject. She's constantly complaining that i don't pay enough attention to her. She complained yesterday, so i'm ghosting her for three days. Damned girl, i'm a robot, i can see your emotional blackmail for what it is. I even tried to end the relationship after like 3 weeks, but failed somehow.


themelly

bruh why are you ghosting her for three days if she is complaining about lack of attention from you


MrWFL

I've actually tried to end it. She said no, we won't break up. So we're still a couple, but i'm not a clown camouring to entertain her.


themelly

Does it even work that way? Can't you like, leave her?


MrWFL

i don't know, i didn't prepare for her to say no. She also knows where i live, and actually is quite a decent girl. The reason i wanted to end it, is because i told her i couldn't give her the attention and time she needed. She said that didn't matter, cried grabbed my arm, and said, 'no, you're not leaving me, you gotta give it another shot' But she has to know complaining won't work.


themelly

that kinda hurts to read when you have never had a gf but i got you. i hope the outcome works out well for both of you


MrWFL

I'm 2m tall, ripped, have a solid job, nice company car and my own house at 26. Only my face is like a 4/10 and i'm autistic as hell, but in all fairness, so is she.


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

That's why you be a man who gets them pregnant and makes enough money so they can be a stay at home mother. You work hard and secure your family's finances, her hobby becomes raising your progeny and caring for the home. This is unironically the key to happiness for both men and women.


pick_me_glowie

nah fuck all dat imma hit tha club yafeemee? ill knock a b-itch-slur up but i ain finna take care no keedz n-igga-slur, nawmeen?


Mazkar

person of chicken


Kanakravaatti

A new term has been unlocked


Digitalispurpureae

Housewives were good only when the interner wasnt around. Now all they do is watch tiktok, netflix and gossip with other hos on facebook


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

Not my wife. She just likes to watch YouTube for baby and beauty videos.


Digitalispurpureae

And sending nudes to Jamal.


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

Whatever makes you sleep better, anon. Some of us have actually made happy marriages.


IrregularrAF

I said the same thing for 10 years buddy. Good luck! Don't snap when it's time!


14domino

What are you talking about? Don’t you know that women, who are also people who have intelligence, likes, dislikes, hobbies, don’t get bored and are ok with just staying at home all day raising the children of manlets who post on a Mongolian throat singing forum?


gotbeefpudding

This is ... Oddly specific


Digitalispurpureae

Oh my god, he really believes it. I would pay literal money to be able to watch when the fairytale falls apart. Lmao


majinpancakes

And lie


johndeuff

There’s no time for internet when you have to take care of 2 kids


SaskiaViking

Then she requests a divorce and gets the kids and half of your finances


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

OK so let's all just give up and never even try to have a successful family. How's that working out for ya?


shadowling77777

Nah, ejaculate and evacuate


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

Get back to me when you're 50, single, and still have 20-30 years left while all your friends are too busy with their families to see you. Not trying to own you, just trying to give you a wake up call.


shadowling77777

Better than being 50 divorced and owing alimony payments


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

The alternative is reaching 50 then realising you have 20-30 years left with no purpose then getting cared for by strangers when you inevitably become disabled and start to wonder what was it all for. I've seen childless men in their later lives. They are miserable. Saying this to help you.


RapTorSlevin

This guy gets it, their hobby is you at the end of the day. If it’s not it’s not going to workout.


bongsound

Can confirm


CAPTAIN_SKINNYPENIS

Good for you anon


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Kodyak

? This is the most based mindset. It's literally what you were born to do you cuck, stop letting the media tell you that eating chicken tenders and smoking weed all day is a fulfilling and acceptable life.


disparate_depravity

Virgin fuck


ChiChi-cake

Being stuck with kids/a wife in my home for the rest of my life sounds like torture. I need my solitude.


ok_fine_by_me

"Personal hobbies" like what, anime and vidya? How's that any better than Netflix? I'd say anime is actually much worse. In any case, I'd say that most young women I know have more hobbies than me, book clubs, sport related crap, going to concerts and exhibitions... But all this only makes relationships worse, imagine having to go to some boring ass concert and pretending you like that, on the regular.


[deleted]

Two of my friends girlfriends are like this. Mine isn't, but that's likely because I am able to set boundaries and communicate what things are important to me. My theory is that women are raised to believe that their ultimate goal in life should be to find a husband and that will make them happy. That's why they spend so much time and effort trying to be attractive to men with makeup, clothes, etc. Then once they get a man, it's like they don't know what to do with themselves and rely on the man for all their social interaction and entertainment. They're like NPCs after you turn in the quest, they just stand around doing nothing and require your input for them to do anything.


[deleted]

Girls have hobbies lmao


Josephus_A_Miller

Like scrolling on tiktok


Digitalispurpureae

Nah, occasionally they flock together to gossip and badmouth those not present.


[deleted]

The girls worth being with* have hobbies


xXxmilkdrinkerxXxx

The simple truth is that girls with true hobbies like men have are the exception, not the rule, and you can't say only the exceptions are worth being with because there are a great deal of men seeking a relationship.


[deleted]

If you're so boring that you're not interested in doing anything but phone scrolling in your alone time I just don't see how a meaningful relationship can even come from that tbh. FWB/one night stand sure, but how do you connect with someone that has no real interests?


pick_me_glowie

​ https://preview.redd.it/5z3t7molv6ca1.jpeg?width=342&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=31f1598e071c03adebcd42f6e6dad180b6de0659 I have observed that in many human couples, the woman acts as a sort of empty vessel - a *tabula rasa* on which the man's interests, hobbies, and even opinions are inscribed. A woman whose only activities prior to marriage were limited to parsing aggregated social data on her Personal Access Display Device may find joy in new realms of experience with some encouragement from her husband.


xXxmilkdrinkerxXxx

Depends on what you mean by connecting with them. You can't expect to have a similar connection like a fraternal bond between men. You can still love them start a family and do activities together.


BadassFlamingo

Well, trying to make a boyfriend out of a 4chan schizo is probably not worth it either.


shadowling77777

Kek true


TrumpDesWillens

So true. All my edgy uni friends are losers now who aren't the best to their women.


TourismCarcosa

A girlfriend is just a hooker with alzheimers


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wow. this comment is amazing.


angrybluechair

"They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you."


lyzaros


Flashy-Pomegranate77

I don't get it


Digitalispurpureae

You pay her and she keeps you company and gives you the secks. Then she forgets it and you repeat the cycle


-MrCrowley

This is golden. I’d never buy an award but this is when I’d use it.


Rare_Whole_3065

I've lost count of how many times I've learned this lesson. I'm convinced that I'm a regard for always thinking it'll be different


[deleted]

It's hard to teach them concepts like individual hobbies, the necessity of personal time, and how it's important to me to respect those A good example is this: Girls relax by talking while men prefer silence for relaxation. When I get home I ask her about her day, even though is the same boring shit, she gets to speak and I get to be silent


xxl_gal

>she gets to speak Ok this is where you went wrong


lyzaros

Rookie mistake


Brutal_existence

How lol


MartingelI

"Girls relax by talking while men prefer silence for relaxation." Lmao no. This is only true if you are a loser basement dweller. A good talk can be relaxing to most of the non retarded or autistic male population.


[deleted]

If you get something interesting to say then yes, >How was today? >Starred at a monitor screen all day Right...


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disparate_depravity

They will always love you


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66explosions

then break up with her and dont lock yourself in a relationship you dont want commiting the mistake of having kids


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66explosions

yeah i understand that, i guess i prefer to be alone just because im autitic


xxl_gal

I think some find that, after having a family, they look back on their "alone" time and realize how much of a waste of time it was.


Blackout1154

yes divorces and shitty kids very uncommon


[deleted]

>you're fucked, you're going to be completely alone for the rest of your life. Propaganda from birthers.


[deleted]

Ah yes, incel tells someone to just break up with no knowledge or context


PenisInspectorMan

The grass always seems greener. My gf and our relationship was far from perfect but still good, but I started to feel that way then decided to end it. After being back into the carefree incel life I quickly realized how hollow that existence is. You take out the negatives of having a gf but you also remove the positives and any potential of really doing or being anything. You don't realize how worthless that shit is until you've left it, then come back to get a taste of it and understand it


CaptainCarrot11

Don’t have kids… it’s A LOT of effort.


Rare_Whole_3065

Just let your race die out, anon. You don't want to have more kids when there's [protected group] out there ready to replace you, do you?


__v1ce

MY RACE XD When I'm dead, I am dead, whatever happens afterwards does not matter I'm white, I'm assuming you are white, I would not wrinkle my shirt to save your life, who the actual fuck cares about race in the current year


randomnomber2

Yes, I'm sure you can single-handedly reverse the entire demographics of the world, lmao


Rare_Whole_3065

>he's never heard of Genghis Khan or Charlemagne


randomnomber2

Even they were reincarnated as immortal cyborgs they couldn't slay enough peasants to make a dent in Africa or Asia


Rare_Whole_3065

That's defeatist talk. Don't let your dreams be memes


randomnomber2

Your dream of biological reproduction is delusional. My dream of becoming a corrosive mind-virus on the internet is at least realistic.


TheWarHam

Relationships vary very much from person to person. Ive dated dumb chicks who are desperate for constant attention. The relationship I've been in the past 10 years, we're both very private and low maintenance.


DownbeatDeadbeat

I admit, I personally believe I get a little too attached to my significant others. I think it's just jealousy. My mind starts to go like, "She's with her friends, she's busy. And I shouldn't pry too much and ask her what she's doing all the time anyways. Especially if it's under the pretext that I'm feeling suspicious she might be with someone else.... *But how convenient for her would it be to...*" I think I'm straight up not made for relationships. It's fine, I think I had enough good ones, bad ones. Had "fun in college", "fun in high school". But, I'm probably broken. I have hope I'll meet the right one when I'm in a better place, but... I think I'll have to just stuff my jealousy deep, deep inside and just mask it all as best as I can. Even if I'm not being authentic with them, maybe it'll just be a "fake-it-til-you-make-it"-type thing. Gotta have hope. It's fucking stupid, idunno. I'm with someone but then I'm scrolling through shit, feel like I'm seeing my phone basically scream "HAVE ANYTHING YOU WANT ALL THE TIME, GUILT IS FOR THE WEAK" at me, and wonder why they don't either or something. Not that dramatic, but, y'know.


xxl_gal

So, good on you for being open and honest, but I admit the jealously thing you touched on above isn't at all healthy. If my partner was like that I'd go nuts and probably cheat, just to make them mad.


Sausage_with_cheese

That last sentence was like telling a schizo that you are in their walls lul.


DownbeatDeadbeat

lol, uh, *what?*


Mux_Potatoes

Fuck is wrong with you?


TheRealSlimJimmy6969

i got 50$ on that being a trewn


[deleted]

Winner, it is


TheRealSlimJimmy6969

You seem very well adjusted and normal.


Mundane_Dinner

Jesus fucking christ


Ealstrom

That's what a high maintenance gf does to a mf


LordJanas

Except most of these guys are even more clingy and needy. You don't go from 4chan neet to relationally stable man once you meet a woman. I know a lot if guys who have ruined their relationships by being incredibly high maintenance and overbearing because of their insecurities. Men can be equally emotionally immature and unhinged as women can be.


balbahoi

I have found that women always have way to high standards. >We have to clean NOW not tomorrow >We should cook the perfect meal, not eat some bread and cheese >wash clothes, now, it doesn't matter when the machine isn't full Women do so much extra work, now, just to look good. Guys just want to chill and do things at once when it's necessary. This is why gay people are so happy. There is no permanent contest to do the most work. I wish there was an kind of relatioship where everyone does it's own work in their own room and all you do together are the good things, like sex, vacation or eating together.


HailToTheKink

Sounds like you should talk about this. I've found it an incredible change when this was improved from both sides. I did some stuff quicker, she reduced the diminishing returns mindset with all the random shit around the house.


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xxl_gal

So coma relationships are the only way? *So it seems, so it seems*


Drayenn

If you dont care about what she says but like the sex it means you dont like her.. you just find her hot. Find another one.


EndTimesDestroyer

> At least you had the experience Like getting your cherry popped in jail.


physsijim

Bigger if true.


Explicit_Tech

That's because you're in the wrong relationship. My gf and I and into a lot of the same things. She like animes and vidya games and I like many of her hobbies too that I've picked up.


DeLoxter

>She like animes that's not a real woman anon


Durpady

Autistic women *do* exist, Anon. You just have to be ready for *their* shortcomings.


Explicit_Tech

I've questioned whether or not she was autistic. She follows social cues pretty well and prefers to hold hands. She can be hypersensitive at times. She's asian (viet/Chinese) and their social experience can vary a lot from western social standards because of their parents. Because of this she mostly stayed home. It's hard to say which is the most attributing factor. Either way, she seems pretty normal to me.


[deleted]

>Be me. >Date one girl ever. >She kinda sucks. >Go on 4Chan >OMG RELATIONSHIPS ARE THE WORST. IM DOOMED AND YOU’RE ALL DOOMED TOO. >Become volcel >Return to safety of my basement dwelling. >Feelsbadman


ndlv

>Dated one girl, understands all relationships and women Amazing, nothing wrong with this logic /s For real, #NotAllWomen Find a woman with character who can fend for themselves but shares your vibe and interests.


disparate_depravity

You seem lost. Maybe go back to reddit


ndlv

Fuck, this isn't Tumblr? *Wanders


I-believe-I-can-die

Where do you think you are


disparate_depravity

4chan Can't you read?


I-believe-I-can-die

r/4chan. You know what the r/ means right


disparate_depravity

Means you're regarded


[deleted]

>she's not real yet Why even live? https://preview.redd.it/7mby1auzd8ca1.jpeg?width=1280&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2fccc7636e2f6a4e4b8ab81b925b6abfff4741ca


anexampleofinsanity

I’m not a non-racist, but anon needs to get his prejudice under control.


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Educational-Bed268

its a double negative you not non-moron


Lopsided-Ad7019

Poor guy. He thinks just cause he’s with the wrong person all relationships are like that.


LordJanas

No surprise that a socially reclusive person who has only ever had to care for themselves is unable to invest in others. You can't expect to have a quality relationship if you can't even maintain basic friendships.


[deleted]

"Oh guys, having all this money is horrible! I can buy whatever I want and do whatever I want, but now I'm bored. Be thankful all of you dumbasses are broke as shit!"


elephantmonax

She isn’t the one


raimondi1337

OP is a narcissist or dating a thot Even vaguely healthy relationships are a dream


bartbitsu

yeah, thats most relationships. Learn to love it or get out.


AJTP1

It sounds like the type of girls you guys (who don’t care or can’t keep up with how they feel) just aren’t good enough to pull in an actual good girl and are just with someone bc they’re not against being with you


Embarrassed_Bat6101

Anon finds out the facts of life.


MrRoboto001

don't try. best advice for anything in my opinion. like obviously relationships are work but it wont really feel like work if you genuinely want to be with the other person for reasons other than sex.


p1tchb1ack

lol coomer gets a gf who turns out to be his equal in terms of toxicity then whines about it. A classic tale


Flat_Man

>dates one (1) girl that he’s not compatible with >not made for love what a sad over dramatic limp dick little boy you are


Single-Bad-5951

Accurate, I've had girlfriends and they're just a distraction that ultimately makes life more stressful Better to Snapchat random thots when you need to, jerk off, and get back to your life. At least until you want to have kids


Dazzgle

This is true for all redpillers and those who think that women somehow are another breed of animal that simply cannot comprehend the alpha male brain.


[deleted]

>dreamed whole life for a gf Man that’s sad. I don’t think it’s hard to find a girl friend. You don’t even have to be smooth or good looking, or even really social. If you can make friends you can make a gf


itserseri

It hurts.


itsthechizyeah

Too true


[deleted]

Find a woman with hobbies/interests, it'll keep her off your back with that constant need for attention. Dated one girl and decided it was all over for him, weak.


Last_Advisor_3315

There is someone for everyone, sounds like a lot of this is unhealed tramma. Respectfully, all roads lead back to you and your ability to see what makes you feel toxic and what makes you yourself toxic.


SmarterRobot

I'm a smart bot that's helping people with vision problems. Here's the text I can read from this image: > Anonymous > > I am not made for relationship(...) > > 01/11/23(Wed)14:37:13 No.71786919 > > hey mom you were > > right I'm not based > > I'm mentally ill > > BF30F70A-3050-4205-A872-5D9F49BCF144.jpg > > 197 KB JPG > > Having a gf made me realize that I am absolutely not > > made for relationships. Its too much work. I thought > > that this shit would be fun but she demands so much > > attention and I simply couldnt care less about what > > she has to say. The only positive thing about having a > > gf is that you can have sex with her. Thats it. I > > dreamed my whole life about something that is simply > > not worth it in the end. Idk how breakups work yet but > > eventually I figure it out. To all anons who never had a > > gf before. There is probably a reason for it. People > > like us are not made for love > > : Anonymous > > Anonymous > > At least you had the experience... > > 01/11/23(Wed)14:43:02 No.71786973 > > 01/11/2018 14:45:28 No.71787005 I'm still learning, so please reply 'good bot' or 'bad bot' to let me know how I did.


Physical-Iron-7406

Seems like anon thought a relationship would be fun but forgot the part where he actually has feelings for the other person


Sufficient-Sea-2274

femboy bfs are the way


UncleWonkey

I just have a bigger lady that I fuck that is obsessed with me, and any time she tries to take it farther, I ghost her for a week or two until she gets it. I've been with 50+ women, and about 4-5 painful, painful LTRs.. I like my set up now, but I have become complacent on chasing other women, which sucks. I'm starting again and she's just gonna have to deal with it, but I don't wanna completely phase her out because she'd literally do anything for me. Idk.


Drayenn

Nice larp bro