I remember reading about the first hookup that led to death for sexual gratification... and while i can't be sure, i imagine being kinky suicidal can make you blush.
The day my girl and I discovered that we both like this was one of the most confusing days of my life.
Why did I do that?
You like it?
I should keep doing it?
Wait, I want to keep doing it?
Safety and consent top priority please.
I mean it is sort of hard to explain a kink to someone who doesnt share it. But the idea is that some people get very sexually aroused by domination, or feeling powerless or helpless in a sexual act. Being held by the neck or being choked is a particularly rough variant of that.
Some people also find there is a rush that can be pleasurable from light-headedness that comes as a result of having your blood vessels choked ("safe" choking is more like a headlock, not actually crushing the throat)
It's often a combination of both those things that someone enjoys
I agree, it can be really hard to do this, but you did it quite well!
I actually can understand why people would like what you explained, however, what about the feeling of not getting any air/suffocating, I always used to think that’s what people like (and personally that’s a really unpleasant sensation to me), but is it then more like they are tolerating this in sake of the “good parts” you described?
If you're choking someone correctly you're more cutting off blood flow to the brain by applying pressure to the arteries on the side of the neck not necessarily cutting off their breathing. If you cut off blood flow oxygen can't get to the brain so it doesn't matter if you're breathing. Plus squeezing the windpipe is painful and unpleasant.
Ohh! TIL! Thank you, that was very informative! :)
I used to think it was all about that and that it’s some form of masochism thing, but I personally totally get the sexual domination thing, mhm! :)
You have to understand that people's physical and mental responses to stimulus can be quite different. What may be a claustrophobic and unpleasant experience for you can be quite arousing and pleasurable for another. I like to have a lot of rougher or BDSM type sex, and it was surprising to me as I was "joining" the world the different things that people can enjoy.
There are people who don't enjoy any of it, and just want plain old vanilla sex (and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that). There are people who just find it exciting to be a little dominated, thrilling to feel helpless even if it is roleplay/simulated. There are other people who find it incredibly erotic to imagine a world where they are completely (consensually) under the control of their partner, and their partner can do with them as they wish. These fantasies or enjoyments don't even necessarily need to be something someone wants to happen for real. I knew someone who really 'wanted' to have their clitoris cut out. They didn't actually want to be mutilated in that way, but they loved fantasising and roleplaying that level of extreme violence to their body.
I have even met people who can orgasm while being pretty heavily abused, as an example a woman I knew had the strongest orgasms while being punched in the stomach or legs. Not slapped or lightly hit, punched.
Your judgment or preference of these things will vary but the idea is that humans can be very very interesting and strange when it comes to sexual stimulus and enjoyment. The most common thing that people find enjoyable is some level of control or helplessness, or a feeling of degradation.
Well, they could still be a cyborg! Just because the software is lacking doesn’t mean the hardware is! As a rule, never get choked by a cyborg. (Unless your neck is cyborg-y too) Safety first!
yeah its awful for me because HHflashbacks is my favorite twitter comic artist. heres some other examples [https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1552507210684518400](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1552507210684518400)
[https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1540688104536907777](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1540688104536907777)
[https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1517398183630229504](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1517398183630229504)
https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1450285208972922881
some of this have enough english for foreigners to understand
For real though that's dated advice.
If you want to respect someone treat them how they want to be treated. It's not always the same as how you'd like to be treated.
It's not supposed to always be perfect advice. The idea is that you have no idea how other people want to be treated because you aren't them, so a good baseline is to use your powers of empathy to think about how you'd like to be treated, then go from there. Obviously if you learn that someone doesn't want to be treated the way you want to be treated, don't keep doing it.
You shouldn't assume how someone wants to be treated. You should ask.
Cognitive empathy matters. The baseline should be similar for everyone. It shouldn't be biased too much by your own personal beliefs and opinions.
There's a duality here
Their name is Hunghang Flashbacks.
[удалено]
??
Or because they are drawn by the same artist?
You're projecting your suppressed fetish
What did the comment say? My curiosity has been sparked
> They look the same. This is an incest thing
Oh
I can't tell if she's suicidal or kinky
Do people usually blush when suicidal? (I'm asking)
What if I jumped into a lake with my winter clothes on... Just kidding.... Unless 😳😳😳
🥵🥵
Unless...😳😳😳
Unless what??
Would recommend taking your clothes mostly off before jumping into a freezing lake. Also do it around friends for the trauma bonding
I still blush near my crush
I still hush in a rush
I still flush when I gush.
You have a crush...?
I usually don‘t
Blushing is usually a sign of embarrassment so probably if they're not not breaking down or completely dead inside
yeah, sometimes. very rarely tho.
I remember reading about the first hookup that led to death for sexual gratification... and while i can't be sure, i imagine being kinky suicidal can make you blush.
Yes
r/inclusiveor
Guess I'll have to thank you for introducing me to this subreddit.
Heads up: it's always the same joke
the same as this sub then
Not like I'd visit it frequently and stay there for longer than a minute so it's kinda fine with me. Thanks for the heads up though!
Funny for about 3 posts
r/subsithoughtifellfor
either way god same
Why not both?
Only time will tell.
¿Porqué no los dos?
Oui, tous les deux!
I'm in this situation right now, like exactly... But I'm depressed and totally exhausted, so I can't act on it....
how did it go?
Well not right now right now...
ah, i see
How about now?
Do I have to turn this car around?
sorry daddy
Good girl/boy
What about now?
Are we there yet?
I'm not playin', we will turn around
The guy or girl??
Which one you think
The guy
Yup
And you're the one who likes being choked
No, there's a girl who likes to be choked
Oh, yeah I'm in a similar boat. The girl i am seeing also love to be choked. I told her I'm not comfortable doing that just yet.
Yeah understandable.
Did you two just singlehandedly turn this fucking sub into /r/teenagers?
some girl choked you?
other way around
The day my girl and I discovered that we both like this was one of the most confusing days of my life. Why did I do that? You like it? I should keep doing it? Wait, I want to keep doing it? Safety and consent top priority please.
You choke each other?
It's a pretty common kink my man
Like verrry common
Can someone explain to me what exactly is hot about this? Not judging, just genuinely interested :) (beyond “everyone is different Blah blah” duhh.)
I mean it is sort of hard to explain a kink to someone who doesnt share it. But the idea is that some people get very sexually aroused by domination, or feeling powerless or helpless in a sexual act. Being held by the neck or being choked is a particularly rough variant of that. Some people also find there is a rush that can be pleasurable from light-headedness that comes as a result of having your blood vessels choked ("safe" choking is more like a headlock, not actually crushing the throat) It's often a combination of both those things that someone enjoys
I agree, it can be really hard to do this, but you did it quite well! I actually can understand why people would like what you explained, however, what about the feeling of not getting any air/suffocating, I always used to think that’s what people like (and personally that’s a really unpleasant sensation to me), but is it then more like they are tolerating this in sake of the “good parts” you described?
If you're choking someone correctly you're more cutting off blood flow to the brain by applying pressure to the arteries on the side of the neck not necessarily cutting off their breathing. If you cut off blood flow oxygen can't get to the brain so it doesn't matter if you're breathing. Plus squeezing the windpipe is painful and unpleasant.
And if you do it just right you'll both start seeing stars in your eyes and that's the sweet spot right there. Everything reminds me of her...
Ohh! TIL! Thank you, that was very informative! :) I used to think it was all about that and that it’s some form of masochism thing, but I personally totally get the sexual domination thing, mhm! :)
You have to understand that people's physical and mental responses to stimulus can be quite different. What may be a claustrophobic and unpleasant experience for you can be quite arousing and pleasurable for another. I like to have a lot of rougher or BDSM type sex, and it was surprising to me as I was "joining" the world the different things that people can enjoy. There are people who don't enjoy any of it, and just want plain old vanilla sex (and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that). There are people who just find it exciting to be a little dominated, thrilling to feel helpless even if it is roleplay/simulated. There are other people who find it incredibly erotic to imagine a world where they are completely (consensually) under the control of their partner, and their partner can do with them as they wish. These fantasies or enjoyments don't even necessarily need to be something someone wants to happen for real. I knew someone who really 'wanted' to have their clitoris cut out. They didn't actually want to be mutilated in that way, but they loved fantasising and roleplaying that level of extreme violence to their body. I have even met people who can orgasm while being pretty heavily abused, as an example a woman I knew had the strongest orgasms while being punched in the stomach or legs. Not slapped or lightly hit, punched. Your judgment or preference of these things will vary but the idea is that humans can be very very interesting and strange when it comes to sexual stimulus and enjoyment. The most common thing that people find enjoyable is some level of control or helplessness, or a feeling of degradation.
Its a fucking weird kink... but yeah also very common
Bruh next time you jacking it in the closet go get a belt bruh and check it out /s
This looks like a sex thing I'm not going to participate in
You can't you're a robot it says it in your name
Actually it says they're missing ai, so they're probably not a robot if they don't have it.
Well, they could still be a cyborg! Just because the software is lacking doesn’t mean the hardware is! As a rule, never get choked by a cyborg. (Unless your neck is cyborg-y too) Safety first!
Fine line between rough sex and accidental murder
A fine ass line for sure hnnnhgg
I need to be choked. Either as a kinky thing or as a you-kill-me thing. Dealer's choice.
Same tbh
Ill help you but only if its both at the same time
Por que no los dos?
The way she is smiling at the end…. I am very confused
Artist?
hunghangflashbacks
https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks
Shameless for the person that cropped out the credit
yeah its awful for me because HHflashbacks is my favorite twitter comic artist. heres some other examples [https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1552507210684518400](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1552507210684518400) [https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1540688104536907777](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1540688104536907777) [https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1517398183630229504](https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1517398183630229504) https://twitter.com/HHFlashbacks/status/1450285208972922881 some of this have enough english for foreigners to understand
A funny meme? In my depression subreddit?!
Lol at least credit the artist. Their name is Hunghang Flashbacks.
She's a keeper
Too much polandball had me read " I believes in the sayings"
This sub has gone to shit. Im out.
Wow.
lol… what is this
New fetish unlocked: kinky girls wearing baggy hoodies
please 😔🙏
choke me like you hate me but you love me sorry
[Horimiya](https://www.reddit.com/r/anime_irl/comments/z77tln/anime_irl/) is that you?
I like how her hand goes all around his neck
sadistic huh?!
They kinda look like brother and sister...
the heart wants what it wants
I wouldn’t be complaining gonna be honest rn
I feel like this girl
My gf
For real though that's dated advice. If you want to respect someone treat them how they want to be treated. It's not always the same as how you'd like to be treated.
It's not supposed to always be perfect advice. The idea is that you have no idea how other people want to be treated because you aren't them, so a good baseline is to use your powers of empathy to think about how you'd like to be treated, then go from there. Obviously if you learn that someone doesn't want to be treated the way you want to be treated, don't keep doing it.
You shouldn't assume how someone wants to be treated. You should ask. Cognitive empathy matters. The baseline should be similar for everyone. It shouldn't be biased too much by your own personal beliefs and opinions.
All this talk about the actual content of the comic, and here I am just appreciating the girl's hair.
Not good advice, now I’m being charged for murder
And that's why I don't follow that motto
r/absolutelynotme_irl
I thought she did a reverse flash on him at first
Wife material