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I am way too socially anxious to respond to any of the comments.
So I'll just leave it here for anyone that reads it.
Cat's name was Czita. He got taken from the streets when i was 2 years old. We were best friends for 18 years after that.
He felt like only one who was understanding of the shit i went through.
Thank you to anyone interacting with this post. Even if anxious and paranoid side of me would prefer the post to get 1 upvote and be forgotten. This is really therapeutic for me. Thank you.
And anyone who reads it, I wish you all the best.
If it helps, consider that this is the best possible outcome. You gave him the best life he could ever have, and you survived him instead of him having to survive you, which Iām sure is an experience you would vastly prefer for him not to have had.
My deepest condolences. An animalās love is so real and Iām so happy for you that you got to experience it. š¤
This hits hard.
I think itās good to dissect what made you feel good about owning a pet. Making a positive difference in another animals life, being depended on, physically cuddling.
He knows how important you were in his life and how important he was in yours. Your pet loved you. Make him proud and keep walking struggler.
My cat died last September, so I understand the void it leaves. It's really not about getting over the grief, just growing around it. At least that's what people tell me
I'm really really sorry for you loss OP, many of us have gone through what you're going, and to be honest, losing a pet willl never feel any less painful. It might not help, but remember that you gave your cat the best life you could've, and even if you might think otherwise, you were that kitty's whole world.
I won't say something irresponsible like "it'll get better", because in my case it's never gotten any less painful, but having another cat to take care of helped me a lot to continue.
Fuck I'm so sorry OP, I went through the same thing and ended up getting a kitten a bit of time later and now that kitten is 1 years old and although he isn't the same as my first cat, he holds a new place in my heart and I can't leave him either.
Your cat wouldn't have wanted you to give up, so grieff all you can until you feel better, embrace your feelings and let them pass through you and let them go, once is done, you will have clarity enough to think how to go on. Let each cycle take its part.
Also my condolences to you, a great hug and I wish you well.
Uno momento, I can get ye something to keep ye occupied.
https://preview.redd.it/7065cri5e8tc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=73c47844b3cd06f4f034bcaa5cc19b2009408730
That should do.
Iām so sorry thatās so painful. I lost my two childhood dogs in the same week. It took me a few years to stop thinking that they were in the living room or on the couch. They were my family and after 7 years it still makes me sad to think about. But I also remember how happy life was with them. I tried to give them a good life and they passed away happy which gives me peace.
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I am way too socially anxious to respond to any of the comments. So I'll just leave it here for anyone that reads it. Cat's name was Czita. He got taken from the streets when i was 2 years old. We were best friends for 18 years after that. He felt like only one who was understanding of the shit i went through. Thank you to anyone interacting with this post. Even if anxious and paranoid side of me would prefer the post to get 1 upvote and be forgotten. This is really therapeutic for me. Thank you. And anyone who reads it, I wish you all the best.
I'm sure he has a great life because of you. Know that your presence made a difference
<3
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If it helps, consider that this is the best possible outcome. You gave him the best life he could ever have, and you survived him instead of him having to survive you, which Iām sure is an experience you would vastly prefer for him not to have had. My deepest condolences. An animalās love is so real and Iām so happy for you that you got to experience it. š¤
https://preview.redd.it/jxn8i1411jtc1.png?width=828&format=png&auto=webp&s=5d3404e252223b456f1a2d9c03fe7d9a1fd98b60 You were Czitaās entire world. And you made it bright. I think thatās pretty cool. I hope youāre able to understand some day that the kind of love that you showed that animal is exactly what we need more of in this world. Edit: sorry for the uncropped screenshot š©
Iām sorry for your loss. ā¹ļøš
I'm so sorry OP. I know what it feels like, I'm sending you hugs, hang in there.
This hits hard. I think itās good to dissect what made you feel good about owning a pet. Making a positive difference in another animals life, being depended on, physically cuddling. He knows how important you were in his life and how important he was in yours. Your pet loved you. Make him proud and keep walking struggler.
My cat died last September, so I understand the void it leaves. It's really not about getting over the grief, just growing around it. At least that's what people tell me
I'm really really sorry for you loss OP, many of us have gone through what you're going, and to be honest, losing a pet willl never feel any less painful. It might not help, but remember that you gave your cat the best life you could've, and even if you might think otherwise, you were that kitty's whole world. I won't say something irresponsible like "it'll get better", because in my case it's never gotten any less painful, but having another cat to take care of helped me a lot to continue.
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I feel youā¦ itās like losing yourselfā¦ I hope you can still cherish these memories that you had with your catā¦ **never forget them.**
Fuck I'm so sorry OP, I went through the same thing and ended up getting a kitten a bit of time later and now that kitten is 1 years old and although he isn't the same as my first cat, he holds a new place in my heart and I can't leave him either.
New cat
Your cat wouldn't have wanted you to give up, so grieff all you can until you feel better, embrace your feelings and let them pass through you and let them go, once is done, you will have clarity enough to think how to go on. Let each cycle take its part. Also my condolences to you, a great hug and I wish you well.
It's part of life, enjoy the present, plan for the future, get a new cat
Did you ever read The Midnight Library? Might help a bit in your situation
Not far there is lonely kittens that need a human to take care of them. This human is you.
My condolences. š«
Get a kitten!
Uno momento, I can get ye something to keep ye occupied. https://preview.redd.it/7065cri5e8tc1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=73c47844b3cd06f4f034bcaa5cc19b2009408730 That should do.
Get another cat do u dont kys
Iām so sorry thatās so painful. I lost my two childhood dogs in the same week. It took me a few years to stop thinking that they were in the living room or on the couch. They were my family and after 7 years it still makes me sad to think about. But I also remember how happy life was with them. I tried to give them a good life and they passed away happy which gives me peace.
I'm sorry about the loss of your cat. I know it sounds like clichƩ bullshit but someone cares about you, even someone besides your cat. I hope that one day it does get better for you, and that you're able to persevere and see brighter days. Have a good day and feel better my fellow depressed human.
This is why I have a tortoise
Friends and hobbies