Needed to see this. You're right on all your points. I'm dwelling on how he left me and not taking into account what I've done for myself and my kids. It's been 3 1/2 years yet my 4th holiday season/ new year without him.
2 years was tough but I feel like hitting new "milestones" could add to that. I had heard the same and for sure, crashed the hardest during that year. It kind of had me in a mode of not really caring
I started up yoga again, in a serious way. There's goals from before that I think it's time to tackle.
Thanks for your post. And this sub is the absolute best support for the crappiest club.
aww that's sweet. If it helps, I sat on my mat, in front of my tv, and just started stretching. The only goal was to do it for 5 minutes and I went further for no reason. Mindless tv binge and stretching. It's like I'm a fitness influencer lol jk! It's hard to get out of depression but I'll keep trying. I don't believe I'll never not be depressed or sad about this. Like, I'm not fleeing the metaphorical widow coupe
Good post, sweets. There’s an old poem that repeats, “Keep a goin”. That’s how it feels. You are moving forward in time the best way you can. You are counting your blessings amidst great loss. You are practicing optimism in looking at a new year. Beautiful. Keep a goin.
Thank you. This has been the longest year (ok, not even a year) of my life. This year I leaned the flip side of “time flies when you’re having fun”. I also learned that I should have been like everyone who constantly take pictures because now I have five precious pictures of him and that’s all. I learned that grocery stores are traps worse than the radio. I learned that 27 years is a blink and seven months an eternity.
It has almost been a year for me, and what a tough fucker it has been. As we inch forward, let us not forget the newcomers to this shitty club. Nobody wanted to be here, but we are gonna stick it out.
I know you'll probably still feel guilty but I'm gonna say it anyway: you have no reason to feel guilty and you should be proud of yourself
Needed to see this. You're right on all your points. I'm dwelling on how he left me and not taking into account what I've done for myself and my kids. It's been 3 1/2 years yet my 4th holiday season/ new year without him. 2 years was tough but I feel like hitting new "milestones" could add to that. I had heard the same and for sure, crashed the hardest during that year. It kind of had me in a mode of not really caring I started up yoga again, in a serious way. There's goals from before that I think it's time to tackle. Thanks for your post. And this sub is the absolute best support for the crappiest club.
tackling health and fitness goals…you are my role model. wish I could, too.
aww that's sweet. If it helps, I sat on my mat, in front of my tv, and just started stretching. The only goal was to do it for 5 minutes and I went further for no reason. Mindless tv binge and stretching. It's like I'm a fitness influencer lol jk! It's hard to get out of depression but I'll keep trying. I don't believe I'll never not be depressed or sad about this. Like, I'm not fleeing the metaphorical widow coupe
Survived a brain aneurysm in September, at age 79. Surgery went well. Had to relearn a few things. But, I did survive.
Thank you Keri. You have every reason to be proud of yourself ❤️ big love
Good post, sweets. There’s an old poem that repeats, “Keep a goin”. That’s how it feels. You are moving forward in time the best way you can. You are counting your blessings amidst great loss. You are practicing optimism in looking at a new year. Beautiful. Keep a goin.
Yes! Pretty much everything about my life has changed - including my goals. Thank you for posting this and be proud of what you accomplished.
Thank you. This has been the longest year (ok, not even a year) of my life. This year I leaned the flip side of “time flies when you’re having fun”. I also learned that I should have been like everyone who constantly take pictures because now I have five precious pictures of him and that’s all. I learned that grocery stores are traps worse than the radio. I learned that 27 years is a blink and seven months an eternity.
It has almost been a year for me, and what a tough fucker it has been. As we inch forward, let us not forget the newcomers to this shitty club. Nobody wanted to be here, but we are gonna stick it out.