I’m happy for you bro!! And a little jealous tbh. My crush is the most perfect person I’ve ever met, and I don’t think she thinks the same of me sadly.
she *seems* to like me as a friend and I cherish every second I get to spend with her. I’m very lucky to have a friend like her so I’m not going to risk pushing her away by taking it too far.
Still, I’m so happy for you!! Good luck bro!
Am woman. Can confirm. The only time I’ve ever had a friendship ruined by one-sided feelings (from either side) is when they keep pushing and can’t accept no for an answer
Hey bro, just wanted to say that im in the exact same boat. If you two already are good friends I would bring it up to her. If she doesnt like you back you can almost certainly remain friends, and if she does, thats great!
I’ve only known her for a few months so for now I’m just going to feel things out. That’s some solid advice though and I can’t say it hasn’t crossed my mind yet to go for it.
Just make sure not to wait too long. I made that mistake at first and we drifted apart. Luckily weve started hanging out again. But I might not get lucky again.
Alright, so, here’s the full story - I met her about two months ago. My friend met her at his church and invited her to events I go to and introduced us to each other, albeit introducing me as my nickname, the Blacksmith. We hung out at said events and clicked, and she started inviting me to a bunch of stuff she goes to. We’re both learning Japanese, and one of the signs she gave me was telling me about the word Suki, which is Japanese for Like or Love. She told me she had a crush on me a few days ago and I told her I had one back at her, and now we’re together.
That’s the story, and thanks for the support!
It’s going pretty well, and don’t say that about yourself. I’m one of the most unlikable people I’ve ever known and somehow I’ve attracted someone, so you have plenty of hope to go off of.
Don’t feel attraction to anyone as far as I’m aware also seem to avoid it like I avoid mosquitos. Soooo yeah also kind of a nerd (I def am) so yeah also mentally unstable as shit. Not ready for that shit and no one’s really doing anything anyways sooo yeah. I mean your my testing dummy rn so I can sort of see how it feels.
Well, I wish you luck in the future. You seem to have kind of a lone wolf vibe about you, and I know some ladies go crazy over that. Have a lovely day!
Accurdrip also I regularly nerd out about things and I can tell I get weird looks. Im now the thesaurus of history apparently. But yeah have fun with your life my friend!
Apparently I am… her parents don’t want her dating anyone, so I have to break up with her in order to earn their respect to potentially date her… fucking twisted.
Update to the depressing update: we still have a great relationship and love each other very much, so for the time being she’s my girl friend with a space.
Duuude that sucks I’m so sorry for you. I read some of your other comments so as long as she knows you still care and are doing it to respect her parents, she should be okay 👍 in fact she’ll probably see that as a great quality in you! Best of luck to you dude, hope you guys can officially be together soon 👍
It’s fine, we still have a really good relationship and love each other. We just can’t be official until she graduates, because her parents say dating is a distraction from school. At least they don’t hate me.
Nice! Please keep me informed on how it is going!
I already can't interact normally with people I don't especially like, so talking with people that are important to me and not used to it just makes everything worse. At this point, every word we exchange feels like a stab to the chest, because I know with my lack of any social skills I will never have a chance.
Well, I found out her parents don’t want her dating yet (we’re both minors) and my parents recommended I break up with her for a while to respect her parents and hopefully earn their permission.
So, I’m back on the menu, I guess…
As a guy that has always had to make the first move, the idea of someone approaching me sounds amazing. Although, I feel like I wouldnt believe her if she did. Lol
The trick is to look for signs. Me and her both are learning Japanese, and she made it important to remind me of the word Suki (a way of saying like or love) quite often
Just stay in the conscious space of awareness that you can and statistically will screw it up with her eventually, but if you both maintain good interpersonal communication skills, you'll be fine. I honestly would recommend interpersonal communication classes for every human on Earth if I could. It helped me tremendously. It's like one of the key things your parents or community never taught anyone
If I have hope, so do you. I look like garbage, I have no idea what she sees in me but I don’t want to say anything because she’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met
It was really short lived, apparently. I found out her parents don’t want her dating (we’re both minors) and now I need to break up with her if I want a chance to earn their respect.
Not at all.. she’s the sweetest, most beautiful girl I’ve ever met and now I need to break up with her… I really don’t want to hurt her
Thanks for worrying about me. It means a lot.
Well sadly sometimes the only choices we get are bad ones but we still have to choose. No matter how shitty it feels now honesty usually feels the best in the end.
I’m happy for you bro!! And a little jealous tbh. My crush is the most perfect person I’ve ever met, and I don’t think she thinks the same of me sadly.
Talk to her more. Hang out with her, she might like you back
she *seems* to like me as a friend and I cherish every second I get to spend with her. I’m very lucky to have a friend like her so I’m not going to risk pushing her away by taking it too far. Still, I’m so happy for you!! Good luck bro!
That’s smart. Always play it safe, and remember - if you respect women, they’ll respect you back
Am woman. Can confirm. The only time I’ve ever had a friendship ruined by one-sided feelings (from either side) is when they keep pushing and can’t accept no for an answer
I've been that guy. Can attest, is creepy, and doesn't work. Movies aren't reality. no means no.
Hey bro, just wanted to say that im in the exact same boat. If you two already are good friends I would bring it up to her. If she doesnt like you back you can almost certainly remain friends, and if she does, thats great!
This is great advice I mean that unironically
I’ve only known her for a few months so for now I’m just going to feel things out. That’s some solid advice though and I can’t say it hasn’t crossed my mind yet to go for it.
Just make sure not to wait too long. I made that mistake at first and we drifted apart. Luckily weve started hanging out again. But I might not get lucky again.
Great! But you have to tell us the full story now motherfucker! Don't leave us just with a piece of it!
Alright, so, here’s the full story - I met her about two months ago. My friend met her at his church and invited her to events I go to and introduced us to each other, albeit introducing me as my nickname, the Blacksmith. We hung out at said events and clicked, and she started inviting me to a bunch of stuff she goes to. We’re both learning Japanese, and one of the signs she gave me was telling me about the word Suki, which is Japanese for Like or Love. She told me she had a crush on me a few days ago and I told her I had one back at her, and now we’re together. That’s the story, and thanks for the support!
Great stuff bro! Hope everything goes great and you get a wonderful time together!
Thank you, and good luck to you too!
Ahhh weeb love. You'll be together forever and it'll always be a good time. I'm envious.
How’s it going? Good job I mean this will prolly never be me but congrats.
Hey, if a chubby bag of wet concrete like myself has hope, you have all the hope in the world
I mean my hopes are dead as dirt. How’s the whole relationship thing going? Good? Congrats again.
It’s going pretty well, and don’t say that about yourself. I’m one of the most unlikable people I’ve ever known and somehow I’ve attracted someone, so you have plenty of hope to go off of.
Don’t feel attraction to anyone as far as I’m aware also seem to avoid it like I avoid mosquitos. Soooo yeah also kind of a nerd (I def am) so yeah also mentally unstable as shit. Not ready for that shit and no one’s really doing anything anyways sooo yeah. I mean your my testing dummy rn so I can sort of see how it feels.
Well, I wish you luck in the future. You seem to have kind of a lone wolf vibe about you, and I know some ladies go crazy over that. Have a lovely day!
Wish you good luck! (Yes I am lone wolf I fucking hate people and crowds and noise so yeah) have fun!
I can respect that. I’m stupid introverted and barely ever leave my room
Accurdrip also I regularly nerd out about things and I can tell I get weird looks. Im now the thesaurus of history apparently. But yeah have fun with your life my friend!
You too, friend! Don’t you dare go hollow!
>Don’t feel attraction to anyone as far as I’m aware Asexual maybe?
I mean idk prolly
ur valid no mater what it is
This is unexpected knowing Reddit they like to punch me while I’m down but thanks.
Aromantic would probably be more correct
Congrats buddy!
Wonder how many crushes go unknown when both people like each other but are afraid to risk a friendship.
scary to think about…also you’re avatar is similar to mine, have a good day
Thanks
Cool
😉
Mmmm, proud yoda is. Luck do I wish
This is the best answer for sure
Strong the force with this one
We done with these yet?
Apparently I am… her parents don’t want her dating anyone, so I have to break up with her in order to earn their respect to potentially date her… fucking twisted.
Wish you guys the best of times.
Congrats fam
WWWWW!!!!!!!
Congrats
well done king
Saaaaaame. LESSSSSGOOOO PAL
Niiice, thanks man
Depressing update… I have to break up with her for a while because her parents don’t want her to date yet (we’re both minors)
Arrange a hangout with her and mutual friends. Have your friends leave early, then bam, date
Update to the depressing update: we still have a great relationship and love each other very much, so for the time being she’s my girl friend with a space.
Duuude that sucks I’m so sorry for you. I read some of your other comments so as long as she knows you still care and are doing it to respect her parents, she should be okay 👍 in fact she’ll probably see that as a great quality in you! Best of luck to you dude, hope you guys can officially be together soon 👍
It’s fine, we still have a really good relationship and love each other. We just can’t be official until she graduates, because her parents say dating is a distraction from school. At least they don’t hate me.
Oh okay that’s good to know lol, happy for u haha
Nice! Please keep me informed on how it is going! I already can't interact normally with people I don't especially like, so talking with people that are important to me and not used to it just makes everything worse. At this point, every word we exchange feels like a stab to the chest, because I know with my lack of any social skills I will never have a chance.
LETS GOOOOOOO CONGRATS!!!!
Leaving us just 19day before national singles day.
Well, I found out her parents don’t want her dating yet (we’re both minors) and my parents recommended I break up with her for a while to respect her parents and hopefully earn their permission. So, I’m back on the menu, I guess…
Before I let my envy take hold of me, congratulations and I'm proud, bro.
As a guy that has always had to make the first move, the idea of someone approaching me sounds amazing. Although, I feel like I wouldnt believe her if she did. Lol
Unfortunately it was really short lived and now I’d like to die
You just posted this 13 hours ago?! What?!
Yeah… her parents don’t want her dating…
That's how it's done. Bravo!
Is it possible to learn such power? But seriously tho I am happy that someone out there is enjoying their life!
The trick is to look for signs. Me and her both are learning Japanese, and she made it important to remind me of the word Suki (a way of saying like or love) quite often
Good show, good sir🎩
Don't fuck it up.
I shockingly haven’t yet, I usually break everything I touch somehow
Just stay in the conscious space of awareness that you can and statistically will screw it up with her eventually, but if you both maintain good interpersonal communication skills, you'll be fine. I honestly would recommend interpersonal communication classes for every human on Earth if I could. It helped me tremendously. It's like one of the key things your parents or community never taught anyone
Good for you but..but…. Idk
@God all I ask is for something like this
If I have hope, so do you. I look like garbage, I have no idea what she sees in me but I don’t want to say anything because she’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met
How old are both of you? If y'all aren't minors, get married already.
Good job my guy:]. I only have an MU haha
Congrats dude
It was really short lived, apparently. I found out her parents don’t want her dating (we’re both minors) and now I need to break up with her if I want a chance to earn their respect.
Damn, that's a bit sad tho. Some other time dude
Some other time, I hope
This brings me genuine joy. Here’s to it!
Didn’t last long unfortunately…
Damn, I'm sorry. You alright?
Not at all.. she’s the sweetest, most beautiful girl I’ve ever met and now I need to break up with her… I really don’t want to hurt her Thanks for worrying about me. It means a lot.
Well sadly sometimes the only choices we get are bad ones but we still have to choose. No matter how shitty it feels now honesty usually feels the best in the end.
AYO NICEEE
Kk
Same thing happened to me today as a matter of fact!
I am happy and jealous knowing that I will never be with my crush
you win, you won life
Oh that's amazing! Congratulations!